Current Events > I just got refused sex after meeting a girl from Bumble who agreed to have sex

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Lol @ not having a car

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Nothing puts anyone in the mood more then a public toilet.

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Wutobliteration posted...

Thanks brother. Only comment here that eases my soul.

It was the time when corona restrictions had only just eased too and she was being super cautious. She didn't even want to take off the mask but I should've known that COVID doesn't transfer by bumping uglies
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Yew gee el why
You ain't got no alibi
You ugly, yeah yeah, you ugly

Love is a lie guys, there's no such thing, might as well be a soulless hedonist.

LOL

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This is the most cringy shit Ive read on CE in a while. Please dont try to hook up with chicks if you have nothing to offer. Let that be your motivating force.

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Theres no way this is real

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ooger posted...

LOL

If you're lucky, you're born in a healthy family and your parents will love you unconditionally. If you're gifted, you'll get one, maybe two friends who'll give their balls for you. Everyone else, they're only in it for themselves
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MrResetti posted...

Jesus Christ stop taking this shit seriously

The fucks wrong with you today?

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Sounds like a good Reddit post.

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OK so apart from the mockery, what's the advice again?

• "book a motel"

Is that all??

Wutobliteration posted...

OK so apart from the mockery, what's the advice again?

* "book a motel"
Is that all??

if this topic is serious. Yes. You book a short stay at a motel. You get 3-4 hours usually and its like $50 bucks.

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Wutobliteration posted...

OK so apart from the mockery, what's the advice again?

* "book a motel"
Is that all??

Be upfront about your living situation in the first few messages.

Good god.

This is "being a human 101".

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Everything was done badly. Burn it and rebuild. Just cause she flirts doesn't mean she wants to bang you especially in a public bathroom stall.

I don't want to be known as the public stall hoe bitch. I can handle hotel room hoe, but public stall hoe? Come on.

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Wutobliteration posted...

OK so apart from the mockery, what's the advice again?

* "book a motel"
Is that all??

Learn to flirt, preferably online
Take care of yourself, be presentable
Get a fucking license so you can "borrow" your parents' vehicles if the need strikes
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When you say "my parents live in my house" do you actually mean you live in your parents house?

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This happened lol

If true then youre not ready for the responsibility of having casual sex if you dont have a license to drive or money to rent a motel/rent your own place.

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--Zero- posted...

This happened lol

You really want me to dig up your old posts on the advice board?
Stop laughing at him man
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awesome999 posted...

You really want me to dig up your old posts on the advice board?
Stop laughing at him man

^ this dude also lives with their parents.

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ooger posted...

^ this dude also lives with their parents.

Thanks very much
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Anytime, little homie.

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lmao

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Wutobliteration posted...

So I basically met this girl from Bumble today. We chatted nicely for one day and she showed so much interest in me, even considering to meet in the middle of the night. And I think that was by far my biggest mistake of all. By not meeting right there and right then. She was hesitant to do so because her family doesn't want her leaving the house that late.

Instead, we settled to meet the next day evening because I'm dumb AF. The next problem was finding a shady spot to do the act. I have no car, my house has my parents living in it, so we could only do it outside.

Wtf? >_>

That sounds like Tinder shit or younger, I thought Bumble skewed older and more serious.

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rip tc
may you find your empty stall someday

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Whats wrong with having sex when your parents are in the house? Happens all the time when your parents do it to you. That's why doors have locks.

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Wutobliteration posted...

She was hesitant to do so because her family doesn't want her leaving the house that late.

o_O

ManaYuka posted...

Whats wrong with having sex with your parents in the house? Happens all the time when your parents do it to you. That's why doors have locks.

Dude lives in Asia, you don't know how the culture is over here
If my parents found I was with a girl instead of studying with a friend like I told them, I would have lost my head a long time ago
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Some 97 per cent of unmarried people aged 15 to 34 lived with their parents in Singapore, as of 2013, according to the statistics bureau. For married people it was 37 per cent.

For those that think it's weird, welcome to my country. Happy?

https://www.todayonline.com/world/asia/leaving-nest-proving-difficult-young-adults-asia

You basically can't buy a damn house here unless you're married or you reach the age of 35 because it's practically impossible.

Land is extremely in scarce in Singapore so the government only allows married couples to buy houses unless you're very rich and can buy private property (and by rich, i mean being at least a multi-millionaire)

f***ing hell. And people mocking me for this of all things.

Also huge dump, most people don't own cars here because it's expensive AF. A car in Singapore costs like 10x the cost of that in USA. Like 99% of people at my age that drive can only drive their parent's car because they can't possibly buy their own

Sleep on it fam, it'll feel better in the morning
It's already midnight here and you're more east than me
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I like to keep things very friendly and light before the first date. It's hard to seamlessly bring sexual tension with a stranger over text to real life. It's good to start from scratch in person. For one thing there's less pressure on the whole situation

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Wutobliteration posted...

You basically can't buy a damn house here unless you're married or you reach the age of 35 because it's practically impossible.

Land is extremely in scarce in Singapore so the government only allows married couples to buy houses unless you're very rich and can buy private property (and by rich, i mean being at least a multi-millionaire)

I was born and raised in the USA, but spent my high school and college days in the Philippines. So, I can personally attest that locals there and neighboring countries really have a hard time making a living from scratch. The foundation for wealth is just so bad... right at the starting point.

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haloiscoolisbak posted...

I like to keep things very friendly and light before the first date. It's hard to seamlessly bring sexual tension with a stranger over text to real life. It's good to start from scratch in person. For one thing there's less pressure on the whole situation

I know that but I wasn't treating this as a date. We basically met in slippers and shorts because that's how 'casual' it is.

Wutobliteration posted...

I know that but I wasn't treating this as a date. We basically met in slippers and shorts because that's how 'casual' it is.

Tbh she could have changed her mind/freaked out and it have been through no fault of yours. Don't beat yourself up over it, just be more cautious next time

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yunalenne10 posted...

I was born and raised in the USA, but spent my high school and college days in the Philippines. So, I can personally attest that locals there and neighboring countries really have a hard time making a living from scratch. The foundation for wealth is just so bad... right at the starting point.

Singapore is actually a rich country. But it's not uncommon for a guy to be earning as much as US$100k annually and still be staying with his parents.

Simply because of this housing rule. You aren't allowed to buy your own house unless you get married

ooger posted...

Be upfront about your living situation in the first few messages.

Good god.

This is "being a human 101".

Here's this again in case you didn't see it.

Here is where you went wrong homie.

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ooger posted...

Here's this again in case you didn't see it.

Here is where you went wrong homie.

Did you not see the part where everyone's saying everyone lives with their parents
Must've missed it the first million times
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awesome999 posted...

Did you not see the part where everyone's saying everyone lives with their parents
Must've missed it the first million times

Everyone

I guess you can think that if it makes you feel better about yourself.

You still need to be upfront about your living situation from the word go, kiddo.

It's that easy.

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ooger posted...

Everyone

I guess you can think that if it makes you feel better about yourself.

You still need to be upfront about your living situation from the word go, kiddo.

It's that easy.

Facepalm
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ooger posted...

You still need to be upfront about your living situation from the word go, kiddo.

you understand that as a grown man you dont have to resort to name calling during a civil conversation

just a heads up

Why meet up for sex if you don't have a place to have sex? If you don't have your own place or can't afford a cheap motel room, then you shouldn't be meeting up for sex. I don't blame the girl for being uncomfortable.

ooger posted...

Everyone

I guess you can think that if it makes you feel better about yourself.

You still need to be upfront about your living situation from the word go, kiddo.

It's that easy.

dude, I obviously told her I live with my parents. She didnt even have to ask. It's like, pretty common knowledge almost everyone lives with their parents here unless they stay in a school dormitory or something

seems like the middle of the night was your only one-and-doen shot at making it happen

dont beat yourself up about it, but just remember for next time, either do it or dont do it. seems like you were hesitant to make the move, which is why you delayed it and didn't have much of a plan

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