Current Events > Straight men are having sex with gay men more and more :O

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Conflict posted...

I don't know if you're even reading what's being posted, but if you decide to go out of your way to pursue sex with a woman, then yes, you're probably not fully gay. The erection isn't the determining factor, because like I just told you- involuntary erections can happen.

You understand that some gay men who are not closeted do sleep with women because they are just horny, right? Same goes for gay women, straight women, straight men, and bi people.

Some people just want to get off. I dont understand how this can be so difficult to comprehend

ZannoL posted...

Some people just want to get off. I dont understand how this can be so difficult to comprehend

ill get off with just about anyone as long as its weird and uncomfortable for all parties involved


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ZannoL posted...

You understand that some gay men who are not closeted do sleep with women because they are just horny, right? Same goes for gay women, straight women, straight men, and bi people.

Those people are bisexual. I don't know why there's such a stigma attached.

I'm straight. The thought of sex with another man disgusts me. If you're a man who has casual sex, by choice, with another man, you aren't straight. That's just how it is.

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Gobstoppers12 posted...

Those people are bisexual. I don't know why there's such a stigma attached.

I'm straight. The thought of sex with another man disgusts me. If you're a man who has casual sex, by choice, with another man, you aren't straight. That's just how it is.

Yeah, pretty much. For all the progress we've made very few people want to challenge any stigma relating to bisexuality.

I regret to inform you that these straight men are no longer straight.

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_Angel_ posted...

I regret to inform you that these straight men are no longer straight.

But they wish to be perceived as straight because we (in general) deride gay and bi dudes as being lesser.

Hence why a lot of medical surveys and data use the term MSM; skips over orientation completely.
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Yeah it's a lot more common, this is a different category too but many straight men are having sex with transgender females too

That's awesome I think

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philsov posted...

But they wish to be perceived as straight because we (in general) deride gay and bi dudes as being lesser.

Hence why a lot of medical surveys and data use the term MSM; skips over orientation completely.

Medical surveys use the mainstream media? Can those medical surveys be trusted? /s

Tenlaar posted...

Acts do not make somebody gay or not, attraction does.

This is true. People can experiment without having to change sexual labels. If a straight guys has gay sex a couple times to see if they like it, it doesn't mean they're gay or bisexual. Just means that they tried something out. If it's not for them, then it's not for them...

Conflict posted...

I don't know if you're even reading what's being posted, but if you decide to go out of your way to pursue sex with a woman, then yes, you're probably not fully gay.

Or just wants to try it out, which doesn't mean he's not fully gay...

Gobstoppers12 posted...

Those people are bisexual. I don't know why there's such a stigma attached.

Not necessarily. Gay men, especially in the past, may have had trouble finding other gay men. And got horny. And may have slept with women because they had to "keep up appearances" while also getting off. So, it doesn't mean they were attracted to them. They were still gay. I could literally have sex with a women if I didn't jerk off for a while and was super horny. I just choose not to...

Gobstoppers12 posted...

If you're a man who has casual sex, by choice, with another man, you aren't straight. That's just how it is.

Unless you're open minded and decided to try it out to see...
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Conflict posted...

If you just want to try it out, you're literally bi-curious by definition. Like, there's no arguing around that.

Until after you try it out. You're only bi-curious while showing the interest. Then straight if it wasn't for you...
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i'm going to fuck a guy after work and see if i turn gay
wish me luck

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The Trent posted...

i'm going to fuck a guy after work and see if i turn gay
wish me luck

Good Luck!
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Conflict posted...

If you just want to try it out, you're literally bi-curious by definition. Like, there's no arguing around that.

Yeah...I think there is a pretty fundamental misunderstanding about what being straight actually is. As has been said many times by many people, you don't choose your orientation.

You can't choose to be straight. You either are, or you aren't.

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this is exciting i don't know if i can wait maybe i'll just have sex with one of my coworkers but does it count if he is also straight can two straights even make a gay

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Tenlaar posted...

It's not moving goal posts. Are straight porn actors who do gay for pay porn secretly gay or bisexual, yes or no? If no, then you acknowledge that gay isn't about action but attraction. Physical stimulation does not require attraction.

Well they usually need fluffers and pills to keep it up.

I'm sure everyone would do it for the right price.

Conflict posted...

Why are you asking me a question that's already been answered lol

Doing something for monetary purposes is different from doing something out of genuine interest in the experience and pleasure. The people we're talking about are literally horny and craving it. It's not comparable

Because I am trying to get you to acknowledge that you agree that doing something gay doesn't make somebody gay, you're just for some reason only applying that to a specific scenario and refusing to acknowledge that it's equally true in other scenarios. Attraction is not required for physical stimulation to feel good any more than it is required for somebody to perform in a gay for pay porn.

Gobstoppers12 posted...

I'm straight. The thought of sex with another man disgusts me.

Being disgusted by other men is not some inherent part of being straight, and it's damn sure not a requirement.