Current Events > i hereby coin the phrase "chadsplaining"

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it's when someone good looking (and/or white people) try to give dating advice like this:

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/79366265/952065000

also applicable: "just be confident!", "just be yourself bro!" or "you gotta demand it!"
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Wyd tonight?

Lmaoo

What was my take on that tho

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WingsOfGood posted...

Wyd tonight?

2 activities that both involve a box of kleenex
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So any white guy can easily succeed with women? An overweight white guy in a fedora can?

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That dude is a gimmick tho
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No_U_L7 posted...

2 activities that both involve a box of kleenex

Wanna do those at my place?

Orlando_Jordan posted...

So any white guy can easily succeed with women? An overweight white guy in a fedora can?

you know that graphic that shows white men by far receive the largest response rate on dating websites? that's true irl too

white guys just have a good base, working out and losing weight and dressing good makes things infinitely easier for them just because they have that white privilege

i dont see overweight white guys with fedoras giving dating advice tho
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WingsOfGood posted...

Wanna do those at my place?

i aint sharing my kleenex, ill be going through the whole box
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No_U_L7 posted...

i aint sharing my kleenex, ill be going through the whole box

Fuck you!
You will never find someone like me ever again. Enjoy being alone cause that is your future.
Ha.
I didn't really want your company anyways.

I wonder why OP singled out my dear fellow whites?


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Wow living legend just chadded that dude

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1. This phrase already exists and is used in the exact way you're describing
2. Nobody on CE is a Chad

LivingLegend posted...

Im coining the phrase Chad bod.

That's a bit redundant
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No_U_L7 posted...

you know that graphic that shows white men by far receive the largest response rate on dating websites? that's true irl too

white guys just have a good base, working out and losing weight and dressing good makes things infinitely easier for them just because they have that white privilege

i dont see overweight white guys with fedoras giving dating advice tho

What race are you? Im black and have no problem with women.

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Orlando_Jordan posted...

What race are you? Im black and have no problem with women.

im asian
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Orlando_Jordan posted...

So any white guy can easily succeed with women? An overweight white guy in a fedora can?

I havent seen a fedora in ages. Let's bring them back, brothers. They were classy af

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LivingLegend posted...

Bro.... I dont even date white women.

You need to remove these preconceived notions from your mind because you are approaching incel territory.

that doesn't help your argument, non-white girls love white guys lmao

check your white privilege
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LivingLegend posted...

Tell that to my black ex girlfriend who left me for a black Dominican dude.

so she was with you in the first place...

i don't know what you're failing to understand...white men have a massive advantage in the dating world. idk why you're trying to deny it
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LivingLegend posted...

Theres no verifiable evidence to support that claim.

yes there is, i posted it earlier

there's a graphic for online dating that shows what ethnicity receives the largest response rate...literally every ethnicity of females respond significantly more to white men than any other ethnicity
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LivingLegend posted...

No you didnt.

You made a claim with zero evidence and just said its out there somewhere.

because everyone here has seen it, but here you go:

https://tinyurl.com/ws8ny6ea
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LivingLegend posted...

There is no data backing that up.

lmao, alright buddy, you're not worth my time if you're literally gonna ignore statistical facts
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Some bullshit is just in your life because overcoming is always an impressive feat

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MedeaLysistrata posted...

Some bullshit is just in your life because overcoming is always an impressive feat

i can overcome and complain, it's the asian way
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LivingLegend posted...

Complaining is extremely beta behavior.

When love strong, confident men.

thats why i get all my complaining out of my system here where there are no women
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LivingLegend posted...

You cant hide it... Women can literally smell the beta energy in a boy from a mile away.

im literally a dating expert, i dont need advice, but thank you for your pointless input
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LivingLegend posted...

You cant hide it... Women can literally smell the beta energy in a boy from a mile away.

and as for me I already am aware of this

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No_U_L7 posted...

thats why i get all my complaining out of my system here where there are no women

do you even get girls, man?

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jon1012 posted...

do you even get girls, man?

im a dating expert...so yes
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LivingLegend posted...

So why cant you get laid then?

please direct me to where i said i cant get laid

i can get laid when i want because i have the process completely nailed down

i havent gone out in the last year due to the pandemic
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LivingLegend posted...

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/79366265

please quote where i said i dont get laid

that topic literally has nothing to do with sex
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lmao that guy is about as far from a chad as it gets

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Delirious_Beard posted...

lmao that guy is about as far from a chad as it gets

he falls into the "white" category...obviously i couldnt emphasize that without getting modded
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No_U_L7 posted...

because everyone here has seen it, but here you go:

https://tinyurl.com/ws8ny6ea

I have contention with this graph because this graph isn't telling a near large enough picture. I saw a graph that shows men who are most likely to get swiped and responded on by I believe Tinder (which is pretty much the gold standard for dating apps as a base, even if I'm not personally a fan of it) and the hierarchy of male SMV was:

1. White guys at the top.
2. Black guys behind, but not by a "large amount" by any stretch.
3. Latino not too far behind black guys.
4. Middle Eastern starting to trend a decent amount behind Latino at 4th.
5. Asian men at a very distant last place.

Ironically enough, it was almost reverse for women with Asian women being at the top of the ladder, Latina women being second and not too far behind, white women being 3rd and not too far behind Latina, Middle Eastern women at 4th, starting to note a decent gap between them and white women, and black women in a distant 5th place.

Basically, the only TRUE handicaps of dating are being an asian or middle eastern man or being a black or middle eastern woman.

Yes, white men have a slight advantage over black and latino, but the gap wasn't near large enough to complain about it too much...if you're black or latino. So if anything, it's less "white priviledge" in dating and more "asian/middle eastern disadvantage". Most studies show good looking black and latino guys easily compete with top shelf white dudes no problem and I can confirm this as I'm a decent looking white guy and I have a good looking black and hispanic guy as my go-to wingmen and they honestly do fine, sometimes even do better than me. At least in Western countries. If you were to have this poll in Japan/China/Thailand/Phillipinnes/Taiwan/Korea the results would be drastically different from country to country. White priviledge is absolutely HUGE in this countries, but at least as an asian man you would probably be ranked over black, middle eastern, and possibly even Latinos.

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MajesticFerret posted...

I have contention with this graph because this graph isn't telling a near large enough picture. I saw a graph that shows men who are most likely to get swiped and responded on by I believe Tinder (which is pretty much the gold standard for dating apps as a base, even if I'm not personally a fan of it) and the hierarchy of male SMV was:

1. White guys at the top.
2. Black guys behind, but not by a "large amount" by any stretch.
3. Latino not too far behind black guys.
4. Middle Eastern starting to trend a decent amount behind Latino at 4th.
5. Asian men at a very distant last place.

Ironically enough, it was almost reverse for women with Asian women being at the top of the ladder, Latina women being second and not too far behind, white women being 3rd and not too far behind Latina, Middle Eastern women at 4th, starting to note a decent gap between them and white women, and black women in a distant 5th place.

Basically, the only TRUE handicaps of dating are being an asian or middle eastern man or being a black or middle eastern woman.

Yes, white men have a slight advantage over black and latino, but the gap wasn't near large enough to complain about it too much...if you're black or latino. So if anything, it's less "white priviledge" in dating and more "asian/middle eastern disadvantage". Most studies show good looking black and latino guys easily compete with top shelf white dudes no problem and I can confirm this as I'm a decent looking white guy and I have a good looking black and hispanic guy as my go-to wingmen and they honestly do fine, sometimes even do better than me. At least in Western countries. If you were to have this poll in Japan/China/Thailand/Phillipinnes/Taiwan/Korea the results would be drastically different from country to country. White priviledge is absolutely HUGE in this countries, but at least as an asian man you would probably be ranked over black, middle eastern, and possibly even Latinos.

so you're saying white guys are at the top...margin doesnt really matter, we're not debating "how much" of a privilege it is, it gives you a quantifiable advantage
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No_U_L7 posted...

so you're saying white guys are at the top...margin doesnt really matter, we're not debating "how much" of a privilege it is, it gives you a quantifiable advantage

It does, but how much of an advantage is also quantifiable and highly relevant.

Plus, 80% of guys on apps like Tinder get zero results ANYWAYS, so we're really just comparing top shelf men.

The point is, if you're an Asian guy in a Western country, you do have a quantifiable handicap, but from the results, it more of "asian disadvantage" than it is "white priviledge" as white people aren't necessarily crushing it compared to black and latino men.

Also, a good looking asian guy is obviously going to do better than ugly white guys. Being white in and of itself doesn't make you top shelf or a "chad."

If top shelf black people are getting 5% less results than top shelf white guys, but top shelf asian guys are getting 30% less results than top shelf black guys, the issue is less white guys being at the top and more the large disparity for asian men.

Either way, I agree with the perceived handicap of Asian men as there is absolutely quantifiable evidence it's a handicap in America and likely other countries, but I have far less dating pity if black or latino guys are complaining about not being white when it comes to dating in Western countries because most studies show the gap is extremely small. If you're a top shelf black or latino guy you should be crushing it and "chading it up" just as easily as white guys for most women in most scenarios.

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MajesticFerret posted...

It does, but how much of an advantage is also quantifiable and highly relevant.

Plus, 80% of guys on apps like Tinder get zero results ANYWAYS, so we're really just comparing top shelf men.

The point is, if you're an Asian guy in a Western country, you do have a quantifiable handicap, but from the results, it more of "asian disadvantage" than it is "white priviledge" as white people aren't necessarily crushing it compared to black and latino men.

Also, a good looking asian guy is obviously going to do better than ugly white guys. Being white in and of itself doesn't make you top shelf or a "chad."

If top shelf black people are getting 5% less results than top shelf white guys, but top shelf asian guys are getting 30% less results than top shelf black guys, the issue is less white guys being at the top and more the large disparity for asian men.

Either way, I agree with the perceived handicap of Asian men as there is absolutely quantifiable evidence it's a handicap in America and likely other countries, but I have far less dating pity if black or latino guys are complaining about not being white when it comes to dating in Western countries because most studies show the gap is extremely small. If you're a top shelf black or latino guy you should be crushing it and "chading it up" just as easily as white guys for most women in most scenarios.

as i said, being white gives you a better base, it's way easier for a white guy to have mass appeal with women. i've said multiple times, if i swapped bodies with any average white guy my age, all id need to do is dress better and with my game i'd have them sleeping with 10s in no time. so yeah, an advantage is an advantage, no need to dice to qualify it for whatever reason. i know guys of every ethnicity that absolutely kills it...doesnt change facts that literally every person of non-white thnicity would have more appeal on a larger scale over a larger time period if they were white

LivingLegend posted...

Correlation does not equal causation.

Drop the victim complex.

more white privilege speak, you really gotta stop it
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No_U_L7 posted...

as i said, being white gives you a better base, it's way easier for a white guy to have mass appeal with women.

My problem isn't in denying stuff like this, it's stuff like "oh, only a white guy can get away with 'wyd'" or can slide by with dressing fairly average.

Bullshit. I have plenty of latino and black guys who can absolutely get away with lazy ass texts like this and still get laid. Hell, if anything I see more basic looking latin and black dudes with mega hotties that are broke/average financially than I see basic white dudes with mega hotties... and if you do, the "basic white guy" is usually "basically" rich af.

i've said multiple times, if i swapped bodies with any average white guy my age, all id need to do is dress better and with my game i'd have them sleeping with 10s in no time.

This is probably bullshit. If you're not sleeping with 10's now, you wouldn't be magically sleeping with them for looking like a basic white guy.

Also, as someone who also partakes in PUA, I HATE when guys throw around the word "10" so lightly. True 10's are extremely rare and advocating that any average dude can land them CONSISTENTLY in any shape or fashion...is bullshit.

If we're using the full 10 system, being able to consistently sleep with 7's and 8's is already extremely impressive. There isn't even enough "10's" in most major cities to consistently be able to sleep with women of this calibur. I don't think being a model is innately a 10 as a lot of them lack boobs and ass.

To be a physical 10, you need to literally have virtually everything: extremely good looking face, extremely fit body, large breasts that usually aren't even possible to obtain for most women naturally with such low body fat percentages, and you usually need to not look fake, be youthful. etc. Basically, if you can't get at least 250k+ followers on Instagram literally through looks alone, you probably aren't a 10. And even a lot of the Insta chicks with millions of followers still fall short of being a 10 imo because they got that many followers through networking and connecting with other high value people that allowed more exposure.

Game helps getting 10's, for sure, but to CONSISTENTLY get women like I described above? You'll probably need celebrity level social proof or insane looks and finances to go with it. Ain't no average looking dude getting with girls like this consistently with ONLY game.

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MajesticFerret posted...

My problem isn't in denying stuff like this, it's stuff like "oh, only a white guy can get away with 'wyd'" or can slide by with dressing fairly average.

Bullshit. I have plenty of latino and black guys who can absolutely get away with lazy ass texts like this and still get laid. Hell, if anything I see more basic looking latin and black dudes with mega hotties that are broke/average financially than I see basic white dudes with mega hotties... and if you do, the "basic white guy" is usually "basically" rich af.

i never said "only a white guy can do this", i specified white because that user is white. like i said, i know guys of every ethnicity that kill it. im asian and kill it. i know a few other asians that kill it. doesnt change facts that being white is just easier when it comes to dating

MajesticFerret posted...

This is probably bullshit. If you're not sleeping with 10's now, you wouldn't be magically sleeping with them for looking like a basic white guy.

Also, as someone who also partakes in PUA, I HATE when guys throw around the word "10" so lightly. True 10's are extremely rare and advocating that any average dude can land them CONSISTENTLY in any shape or fashion...is bullshit.

If we're using the full 10 system, being able to consistently sleep with 7's and 8's is already extremely impressive. There isn't even enough "10's" in most major cities to consistently be able to sleep with women of this calibur. I don't think being a model is innately a 10 as a lot of them lack boobs and ass.

To be a physical 10, you need to literally have virtually everything: extremely good looking face, extremely fit body, large breasts that usually aren't even possible to obtain for most women naturally with such low body fat percentages, and you usually need to not look fake, be youthful. etc. Basically, if you can't get at least 250k+ followers on Instagram literally through looks alone, you probably aren't a 10. And even a lot of the Insta chicks with millions of followers still fall short of being a 10 imo because they got that many followers through networking and connecting with other high value people that allowed more exposure.

Game helps getting 10's, for sure, but to CONSISTENTLY get women like I described above? You'll probably need celebrity level social proof or insane looks and finances to go with it. Ain't no average looking dude getting with girls like this consistently with ONLY game.

1. i am using the term 10 lightly here, which i normally dont do but it was the easiest way to make the point. i essentially meant "super hot girl"

2. i do already sleep with "super hot girls". not every week or even every month, but at least one or so a year. but my point was that being white (with game) would improve anyone's results
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Hell, globally I would dare say Asian guys probably have the most trophy wives of any race: trophy wives being defined as women who are drop dead gorgeous, banging body (petite with ass and titties), sweet and nurturing, loyal, hard working and driven, etc.

Not only are places like South Korea, Taiwan, and Singapore drowning in mega hotties, but these are mega hotties that make good money and aren't as hypergamous and more loyal than most Western women, ESPECIALLY when you break the sample size down into very good looking ones that are also successful and aren't stuck up, and if anything, these glorious women often times settle for basic ass asian dudes that barely make more than them while these same calibur of women are usually gunning for millionaires over here...

So yeah...it's all relative.

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