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No_U_L7 03/06/21 1:30:50 AM #51:	DarthAragorn posted... Yeah after thinking about this I feel nowhere near as good about it as I did earlier today I didnt say that to discourage you, but to illustrate the amount of work you need to put in. No one else can do that for you, but feel free to ask if you have any questions. It's better to try and fuck up than not try at all, as long as you learn from ir --- https://imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:951397894] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah after thinking about this I feel nowhere near as good about it as I did earlier today </quote> I didnt say that to discourage you, but to illustrate the amount of work you need to put in. No one else can do that for you, but feel free to ask if you have any questions. It's better to try and fuck up than not try at all, as long as you learn from ir</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dark_SilverX 03/06/21 2:09:30 AM #53:	KiwiTerraRizing posted... Next lunch its time to eat the booty This. Eat that hairy ass. Pluck the hairs out with your teeth, TC. --- Rather a Zoom Thanksgiving than an ICU Christmas. don't compare games to feces -- if you've an opinion worth mentioning, do so civilly <cite>Dark_SilverX posted [p:951398678] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>KiwiTerraRizing posted... </cite> <quote>Next lunch its time to eat the booty</quote>This. Eat that hairy ass. Pluck the hairs out with your teeth, TC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/06/21 3:26:57 PM #54:	after further reflection I have realized I have absolutely no idea what to make of it at all I passed by her in the hallway on my way to the restroom or to get some water or something, and she mentioned (unprompted, before I said anything to her) she needed a break and was going to head downstairs for lunch later, and so I kind of invited myself when she did go to take that lunch break. She wanted to stay sorta socially distanced so we sat diagonally from each other at a 4 seat table. She led the conversation a lot of the time, asking a decent amount of questions about me. I told her her shirt looked nice at one point which is about the closest I can comfortably get to flirting at all <_< Went on for close to an hour, we went back up to our desks and she thanked me for having lunch with her. Also at lunch we had talked about how she's in a friend group or club at school or something that's doing a (virtual?) movie night this weekend and it ended up being a movie I wanted to watch. she offered to send me a link and I stupidly said "no that's okay I think it's on HBO so I can watch it on my own" but later she said we could talk about it Monday, so there's that at least I guess. <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951415465] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>after further reflection I have realized I have absolutely no idea what to make of it at all I passed by her in the hallway on my way to the restroom or to get some water or something, and she mentioned (unprompted, before I said anything to her) she needed a break and was going to head downstairs for lunch later, and so I kind of invited myself when she did go to take that lunch break. She wanted to stay sorta socially distanced so we sat diagonally from each other at a 4 seat table. She led the conversation a lot of the time, asking a decent amount of questions about me. I told her her shirt looked nice at one point which is about the closest I can comfortably get to flirting at all <_< Went on for close to an hour, we went back up to our desks and she thanked me for having lunch with her. Also at lunch we had talked about how she's in a friend group or club at school or something that's doing a (virtual?) movie night this weekend and it ended up being a movie I wanted to watch. she offered to send me a link and I stupidly said "no that's okay I think it's on HBO so I can watch it on my own" but later she said we could talk about it Monday, so there's that at least I guess. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/06/21 9:34:22 PM #55:	Yeah fuck it this means nothing <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951426557] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Yeah fuck it this means nothing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadMachineRIP 03/06/21 10:01:38 PM #56:	DarthAragorn posted... Yeah fuck it this means nothing Stop thinking so much. Just keep going to lunch with her and have fun. Enjoy the moments and gather more data. --- https://imgur.com/bIEUd4C https://imgur.com/ImxvP75 http://youtube.com/watch?v=MpzJgLzzX38 <cite>DeadMachineRIP posted [p:951427348] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah fuck it this means nothing</quote>Stop thinking so much. Just keep going to lunch with her and have fun. Enjoy the moments and gather more data. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/07/21 11:25:50 AM #57:	DeadMachineRIP posted... Stop thinking so much. Just keep going to lunch with her and have fun. Enjoy the moments and gather more data. I suppose she did mention wanting to eat outside the other day but decided it was too cold, and its supposed to be fairly nice this week so maybe Ill ask her if she wants to try that again <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951442290] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DeadMachineRIP posted... </cite> <quote>Stop thinking so much. Just keep going to lunch with her and have fun. Enjoy the moments and gather more data.</quote>I suppose she did mention wanting to eat outside the other day but decided it was too cold, and its supposed to be fairly nice this week so maybe Ill ask her if she wants to try that again </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 03/07/21 11:59:14 AM #59:	Dude, sounds like she likes you. Not only have you had lunch twice(once with her initiating it) but she asked you to join her for a fun activity. Even after declining she invited you to a talk about it later, indicating that she's wanting/expecting to spend more time with you. You're doing good. Go watch that movie so you can talk with her about it. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:951443230] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Dude, sounds like she likes you. Not only have you had lunch twice(once with her initiating it) but she asked you to join her for a fun activity. Even after declining she invited you to a talk about it later, indicating that she's wanting/expecting to spend more time with you. You're doing good. Go watch that movie so you can talk with her about it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/07/21 12:09:58 PM #60:	KogaSteelfang posted... Dude, sounds like she likes you. Not only have you had lunch twice(once with her initiating it) but she asked you to join her for a fun activity. Even after declining she invited you to a talk about it later, indicating that she's wanting/expecting to spend more time with you. You're doing good. Go watch that movie so you can talk with her about it. Just the once actually, at least just one on one. Two other times with other coworkers. but yeah it seems semi promising I suppose <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951443501] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted... </cite> <quote>Dude, sounds like she likes you. Not only have you had lunch twice(once with her initiating it) but she asked you to join her for a fun activity. Even after declining she invited you to a talk about it later, indicating that she's wanting/expecting to spend more time with you. You're doing good. Go watch that movie so you can talk with her about it.</quote>Just the once actually, at least just one on one. Two other times with other coworkers. but yeah it seems semi promising I suppose </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solution_45 03/07/21 12:18:49 PM #61:	DarthAragorn posted... Had lunch with a girl coworker for about an hour it was nice and a day later, here you are on the tracks, possible towards a legit date. Nice. <cite>Solution_45 posted [p:951443728] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>Had lunch with a girl coworker for about an hour it was nice</quote> and a day later, here you are on the tracks, possible towards a legit date. Nice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/08/21 10:43:28 AM #62:	Shes not here today fuck <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951477793] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Shes not here today fuck </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eyeratosthenes 03/08/21 10:45:00 AM #63:	i miss working with attractive ppl --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951477838] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>i miss working with attractive ppl </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/08/21 10:53:16 AM #64:	Eyeratosthenes posted... i miss working with attractive ppl I wish I didnt tbh <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951478125] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Eyeratosthenes posted... </cite> <quote>i miss working with attractive ppl</quote>I wish I didnt tbh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 03/08/21 10:54:57 AM #65:	pics --- NFLB 2021 Summersim Roster (2-3): https://imgur.com/lCew6KJ <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:951478173] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>pics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eyeratosthenes 03/08/21 10:55:18 AM #66:	DarthAragorn posted... I wish I didnt tbh i didnt read the topic and idk your situation so i wont mansplain you, but in my experience it's easier to h/u with a coworker than a rando. or maybe that's not right, but it's easier to continue h/u'ing with and being friends with coworkers --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951478179] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>I wish I didnt tbh</quote>i didnt read the topic and idk your situation so i wont mansplain you, but in my experience it's easier to h/u with a coworker than a rando. or maybe that's not right, but it's easier to continue h/u'ing with and being friends with coworkers </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master Kazuya 03/08/21 11:15:24 AM #67:	Couple of things 1. Nice! Sounds like you both are cool with each others company. This means that she isn't the only girl in the world you can get along with, if you can do it once you can do it again 2. Be cautious about getting with coworkers. It has the chance to backfire and you'll be forced into enduring feels and awkwardness every day since you can't always avoid coworkers. 3. If you turn down a fun opportunity, make sure you either suggest something or imply you'd be down for something else. 4. You could even say "...on second thought, can you send me that link? Sounds fun" and it's a good way to meet her friends. Meeting a girls friends is always good thing unless she's psycho. --- itt my post is the best <cite>Master Kazuya posted [p:951478860] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Couple of things 1. Nice! Sounds like you both are cool with each others company. This means that she isn't the only girl in the world you can get along with, if you can do it once you can do it again 2. Be cautious about getting with coworkers. It has the chance to backfire and you'll be forced into enduring feels and awkwardness every day since you can't always avoid coworkers. 3. If you turn down a fun opportunity, make sure you either suggest something or imply you'd be down for something else. 4. You could even say "...on second thought, can you send me that link? Sounds fun" and it's a good way to meet her friends. Meeting a girls friends is always good thing unless she's psycho. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solution_45 03/09/21 2:22:48 PM #68:	DarthAragorn posted... Shes not here today fuck what about today? <cite>Solution_45 posted [p:951523848] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>Shes not here today fuck</quote> what about today? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 2:41:18 PM #69:	Solution_45 posted... what about today? she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951524559] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Solution_45 posted... </cite> <quote>what about today?</quote>she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 03/09/21 2:48:05 PM #70:	DarthAragorn posted... she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick amateur mistake, never pick a specific time to meet up (especially not on the day of), because then it becomes a binary situation where she either can or can't do it, all it takes is an assignment due date and you're having her say no. no isn't a big deal itself, however what happens then is you're getting her accustomed to saying no to you, the more she says no to you the easier it becomes to say no...you're essentially training her to decline your invitations it's better to frame it from a more adventurous view point that's more open ended. "hey i remember you saying you loved thai food, i drove by an intriguing looking new thai restaurant yesterday, we should check it out sometime this week" --- https://imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:951524803] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted...</cite> <quote> she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick </quote> amateur mistake, never pick a specific time to meet up (especially not on the day of), because then it becomes a binary situation where she either can or can't do it, all it takes is an assignment due date and you're having her say no. no isn't a big deal itself, however what happens then is you're getting her accustomed to saying no to you, the more she says no to you the easier it becomes to say no...you're essentially training her to decline your invitations it's better to frame it from a more adventurous view point that's more open ended. "hey i remember you saying you loved thai food, i drove by an intriguing looking new thai restaurant yesterday, we should check it out sometime this week"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Relient_K 03/09/21 2:54:44 PM #71:	ibu1996 posted... no. you know what question I'm talking about. "Do you like daggers?" --- We all ate the biscuits, Fighter. We can all see through time. [ER] <cite>Relient_K posted [p:951525073] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>ibu1996 posted... </cite> <quote>no. you know what question I'm talking about.</quote> "Do you like daggers?" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 03/09/21 2:57:27 PM #72:	This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:951525170] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 3:07:26 PM #73:	Tenlaar posted... This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more. she probably wouldn't anyway <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951525533] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more.</quote>she probably wouldn't anyway </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eyeratosthenes 03/09/21 3:08:14 PM #74:	I hope you know it's not creepy tc. Hes just trying to kick a man while he's down --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951525560] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>I hope you know it's not creepy tc. Hes just trying to kick a man while he's down </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 03/09/21 3:09:14 PM #75:	Tenlaar posted... This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more. How is it creepy? He's happy about it because he likes her. And people are even offering tips on how to ask her out. --- Formerly ox0Shadow0xo \| PSN - NoxObscuras i7-7700K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:951525591] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>This is creepy and if she knew that you posted this she wouldn't eat with you any more.</quote>How is it creepy? He's happy about it because he likes her. And people are even offering tips on how to ask her out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teep_ 03/09/21 3:09:35 PM #76:	Eyeratosthenes posted... I hope you know it's not creepy tc. Hes just trying to kick a man while he's down --- teep dumb as f*** fr - BatmanVonDoom I'm gonna pound a 400 lb woman just to prove teep wrong - NigerianKnight <cite>teep_ posted [p:951525606] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Eyeratosthenes posted...</cite> <quote>I hope you know it's not creepy tc. Hes just trying to kick a man while he's down</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 03/09/21 3:11:57 PM #78:	NoxObscuras posted... How is it creepy? This is the kind of shit that makes women say that they can't even be nice to men. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:951525681] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite> <quote>How is it creepy?</quote>This is the kind of shit that makes women say that they can't even be nice to men. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eyeratosthenes 03/09/21 3:12:40 PM #79:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Ive seen these topics way too many times to not know how this ends You plain will never know how it feels to be 'ugly' and untouched by the desired sex well into your 20s TC, once you break that barrier tho you will be able to really cut loose and go nuts. Just don't go too nuts and turn asexual for a couple years like i did. Unless you want to, I guess --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951525702] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>Ive seen these topics way too many times to not know how this ends</quote>You plain will never know how it feels to be 'ugly' and untouched by the desired sex well into your 20s TC, once you break that barrier tho you will be able to really cut loose and go nuts. Just don't go too nuts and turn asexual for a couple years like i did. Unless you want to, I guess </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Phynaster 03/09/21 3:13:12 PM #80:	NoxObscuras posted... How is it creepy? He's happy about it because he likes her. And people are even offering tips on how to ask her out. Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it --- Rebel <cite>Phynaster posted [p:951525720] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite> <quote>How is it creepy? He's happy about it because he likes her. And people are even offering tips on how to ask her out.</quote>Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 3:13:41 PM #81:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Ive seen these topics way too many times to not know how this ends to be fair i've been me way too many times to not know how this ends so it would be the least surprising thing since a new yearly sports title <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951525733] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>Ive seen these topics way too many times to not know how this ends</quote>to be fair i've been me way too many times to not know how this ends so it would be the least surprising thing since a new yearly sports title </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WrkHrdPlayHrdr 03/09/21 3:14:09 PM #82:	TC in a week https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eiv0Z0jj3-8 --- "No. I'm a man so theyll get me a full size McDouble." - DuncanWii https://imgur.com/cSxy3Od <cite>WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted [p:951525750] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>TC in a week https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eiv0Z0jj3-8 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 3:17:33 PM #83:	Phynaster posted... Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it I mean I already know she wouldn't have any interest in me because I'm fat and fuck ugly and she's neither of those <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951525859] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Phynaster posted... </cite> <quote>Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it</quote>I mean I already know she wouldn't have any interest in me because I'm fat and fuck ugly and she's neither of those </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eyeratosthenes 03/09/21 3:18:38 PM #84:	Phynaster posted... Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. I don't think that was his intent. I think he was just being wistful. IDK, I could be misreading things but I think he was just beating himself up for not having had the opportunity to be in a relationship yet --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951525895] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Phynaster posted... </cite> <quote>Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. </quote> I don't think that was his intent. I think he was just being wistful. IDK, I could be misreading things but I think he was just beating himself up for not having had the opportunity to be in a relationship yet </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eyeratosthenes 03/09/21 3:23:51 PM #87:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Im not not sure what the point of this preface is and how it relates to my post. Because you are literally incapable of processing how TC feels. It would be beyond alien. He's heard all the advice before and he knows what he has to do. He's in a depressive pit, directly resulting from feeling worthless, hugely resulting from no recognition from the opposite sex. Anything you say to him may be coming from a good place, but it'll basically be mansplaining, or the mansplaining equivalent to whatever this situation is jeffhardyb0yz posted... attractiveness does help but some confidence can go a long way if youre not in your best attractive state. If tc wants a shot with the girl, he should make a move but I know there is a lot of passivity with people in these scenarios. Just not there yet when it comes to asking a girl out. But unfortunately without taking that risk, these topics delve into CE following the tc for weeks on end as he actively finds himself being passive and goes deeper and deeper into the friendzone with no real advancement with the girl. He knows all this and has heard it. I think before trying to connect with people he should lose some weight and flip the script. Wardrobe, hair, everything. Even when I wanted to continue being a bitter asshole, I couldn't. I felt good, people told me I looked good. I think he needs to start there, but I hate coming off as overbearing so I'm just here trying to play support lol --- Aiways / Hairistotle <cite>Eyeratosthenes posted [p:951526072] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>Im not not sure what the point of this preface is and how it relates to my post.</quote>Because you are literally incapable of processing how TC feels. It would be beyond alien. He's heard all the advice before and he knows what he has to do. He's in a depressive pit, directly resulting from feeling worthless, hugely resulting from no recognition from the opposite sex. Anything you say to him may be coming from a good place, but it'll basically be mansplaining, or the mansplaining equivalent to whatever this situation is jeffhardyb0yz posted... </cite> <quote>attractiveness does help but some confidence can go a long way if youre not in your best attractive state. If tc wants a shot with the girl, he should make a move but I know there is a lot of passivity with people in these scenarios. Just not there yet when it comes to asking a girl out. But unfortunately without taking that risk, these topics delve into CE following the tc for weeks on end as he actively finds himself being passive and goes deeper and deeper into the friendzone with no real advancement with the girl.</quote> He knows all this and has heard it. I think before trying to connect with people he should lose some weight and flip the script. Wardrobe, hair, everything. Even when I wanted to continue being a bitter asshole, I couldn't. I felt good, people told me I looked good. I think he needs to start there, but I hate coming off as overbearing so I'm just here trying to play support lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 03/09/21 3:28:42 PM #88:	It sounds like she's just being friendly. I would keep being her friend and be cool with that, use this as a way to gain experience around women. It doesn't seem like you have much of it, not roasting just an observation. --- https://imgur.com/mOCFlRv <cite>smoke_break posted [p:951526242] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>It sounds like she's just being friendly. I would keep being her friend and be cool with that, use this as a way to gain experience around women. It doesn't seem like you have much of it, not roasting just an observation. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 3:32:03 PM #89:	smoke_break posted... It sounds like she's just being friendly. I would keep being her friend and be cool with that, use this as a way to gain experience around women. It doesn't seem like you have much of it, not roasting just an observation. nah i have plenty of experience ~~of them wanting nothing to do with me because I'm fucking trash~~ <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951526358] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>smoke_break posted... </cite> <quote>It sounds like she's just being friendly. I would keep being her friend and be cool with that, use this as a way to gain experience around women. It doesn't seem like you have much of it, not roasting just an observation.</quote>nah i have plenty of experience of them wanting nothing to do with me because I'm fucking trash </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 03/09/21 4:38:36 PM #91:	Tenlaar posted... This is the kind of shit that makes women say that they can't even be nice to men. So... You're just going to dance around the question then? Okay. Phynaster posted... Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it He's had lunch with her twice and you're now comparing him to a stalker? That's a hell of a leap lol. DarthAragorn posted... nah i have plenty of experience ~~of them wanting nothing to do with me because I'm fucking trash~~ Okay so, assuming you're being serious, you're being way too hard on yourself. There's no way of knowing it's she wants to date you, but at the very least she enjoys your company. For that second lunch, she was basically inviting you. A friend at my office does that to me all the time. Trust me, if she didn't want you to go with her, she would avoid mentioning it to you. --- Formerly ox0Shadow0xo \| PSN - NoxObscuras i7-7700K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:951528538] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>This is the kind of shit that makes women say that they can't even be nice to men.</quote>So... You're just going to dance around the question then? Okay. Phynaster posted... </cite> <quote>Idk I think eating a platonic lunch with a coworker but secretly comparing it to a date is kinda creepy. Just reminds me of the Duran topic where he was convinced his nurse was into him because she had to work with him then got all stalkery about it</quote>He's had lunch with her twice and you're now comparing him to a stalker? That's a hell of a leap lol. DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>nah i have plenty of experience of them wanting nothing to do with me because I'm fucking trash</quote> Okay so, assuming you're being serious, you're being way too hard on yourself. There's no way of knowing it's she wants to date you, but at the very least she enjoys your company. For that second lunch, she was basically inviting you. A friend at my office does that to me all the time. Trust me, if she didn't want you to go with her, she would avoid mentioning it to you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 5:45:13 PM #92:	I am 100% serious and if anything Im not hard enough on myself for where Im at in life <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951530891] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>I am 100% serious and if anything Im not hard enough on myself for where Im at in life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 03/09/21 10:48:09 PM #93:	DarthAragorn posted... I am 100% serious and if anything Im not hard enough on myself for where Im at in life This is a slippery slope, and trust me, you don't want to go where it leads. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:951541786] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>I am 100% serious and if anything Im not hard enough on myself for where Im at in life</quote>This is a slippery slope, and trust me, you don't want to go where it leads. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 10:52:35 PM #94:	KogaSteelfang posted... This is a slippery slope, and trust me, you don't want to go where it leads. How so? <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951541922] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted... </cite> <quote>This is a slippery slope, and trust me, you don't want to go where it leads.</quote>How so? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 03/09/21 11:09:07 PM #95:	DarthAragorn posted... How so? Ever see that pic of a grave, and it's says something like "Where I am, you will be. Where you are, I once was." It's like that. We're on the same path, I'm just further along. The past year or so I've tried to reel myself in and stop posting negative things like you're saying. I was just beating myself up for no reason, I still struggle with that, but it's a good change to make. I just don't want to see like me in 10 years. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:951542409] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>How so?</quote>Ever see that pic of a grave, and it's says something like "Where I am, you will be. Where you are, I once was." It's like that. We're on the same path, I'm just further along. The past year or so I've tried to reel myself in and stop posting negative things like you're saying. I was just beating myself up for no reason, I still struggle with that, but it's a good change to make. I just don't want to see like me in 10 years. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 11:14:28 PM #96:	KogaSteelfang posted... Ever see that pic of a grave, and it's says something like "Where I am, you will be. Where you are, I once was." It's like that. We're on the same path, I'm just further along. The past year or so I've tried to reel myself in and stop posting negative things like you're saying. I was just beating myself up for no reason, I still struggle with that, but it's a good change to make. I just don't want to see like me in 10 years. I mean I just dont see whats wrong with it when its true <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951542563] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted... </cite> <quote>Ever see that pic of a grave, and it's says something like "Where I am, you will be. Where you are, I once was." It's like that. We're on the same path, I'm just further along. The past year or so I've tried to reel myself in and stop posting negative things like you're saying. I was just beating myself up for no reason, I still struggle with that, but it's a good change to make. I just don't want to see like me in 10 years.</quote>I mean I just dont see whats wrong with it when its true </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flamer_Blue 03/09/21 11:19:08 PM #97:	DarthAragorn posted... Had lunch with a girl coworker for about an hour it was nice With that username I would understand why you thought that. --- <cite>Metallix87 posted...</cite> "Nintendo is an animal" <cite>Flamer_Blue posted [p:951542701] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>Had lunch with a girl coworker for about an hour it was nice</quote>With that username I would understand why you thought that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/09/21 11:19:45 PM #98:	Flamer_Blue posted... With that username I would understand why you thought that. Ive wanted to change it for years, I just dont know what to change it to <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951542724] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>Flamer_Blue posted... </cite> <quote>With that username I would understand why you thought that.</quote>Ive wanted to change it for years, I just dont know what to change it to </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 03/09/21 11:59:31 PM #99:	DarthAragorn posted... I mean I just dont see whats wrong with it when its true Because, whether you think it's true or not, it's just a damaging mindset that does nothing but constantly weigh you down. You become your own worst enemy. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:951543923] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted... </cite> <quote>I mean I just dont see whats wrong with it when its true</quote>Because, whether you think it's true or not, it's just a damaging mindset that does nothing but constantly weigh you down. You become your own worst enemy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 03/10/21 12:29:07 AM #100:	maybe, but its hard to think otherwise, if I wasnt complete trash I wouldnt be where Im at in my life, Id have friends, I wouldnt be a 27 year old permavirgin with a completely platonic lunch with a coworker being the closest thing to a date Ive ever been on, I wouldnt be still living with my parents, etc <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:951544709] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>maybe, but its hard to think otherwise, if I wasnt complete trash I wouldnt be where Im at in my life, Id have friends, I wouldnt be a 27 year old permavirgin with a completely platonic lunch with a coworker being the closest thing to a date Ive ever been on, I wouldnt be still living with my parents, etc </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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