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joe40001 02/27/21 6:50:04 PM #1:	Would that be illegal? Yes I'm a virgin, technically an incel, but I think for 99% of people like me the thing that fucks you up isn't the lack of sex but the lack of physical contact. It's weird people make fun of others for being messed up without any sort of physical touch, but then people go around and post shit like this: https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits#How-many-hugs-do-we-need? Family therapist Virginia Satir once said, We need four hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth. While that may sound like a lot of hugs, it seems that many hugs are better than not enough. It's like JFC. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:951158451] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Would that be illegal? Yes I'm a virgin, technically an incel, but I think for 99% of people like me the thing that fucks you up isn't the lack of sex but the lack of physical contact. It's weird people make fun of others for being messed up without any sort of physical touch, but then people go around and post shit like this: https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits#How-many-hugs-do-we-need? Family therapist Virginia Satir once said, We need four hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth. While that may sound like a lot of hugs, it seems that many hugs are better than not enough. It's like JFC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 02/27/21 6:50:49 PM #2:	Just get a creepy dog --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:951158470] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Just get a creepy dog </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ceresmie 02/27/21 6:51:07 PM #3:	joe40001 posted... We need four hugs a day for survival." Today I learned that I am dead --- What is love? Mayhap it is when you care more about someone else than you do about yourself. <cite>Ceresmie posted [p:951158484] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>We need four hugs a day for survival."</quote>Today I learned that I am dead </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 02/27/21 6:53:20 PM #4:	you've considered thinking about it? --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:951158555] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>you've considered thinking about it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 02/27/21 6:54:07 PM #5:	Will you pay $15/hour? --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Heartomaton for President 2028. <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:951158585] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Will you pay $15/hour? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Graycap 02/27/21 6:54:30 PM #6:	Ceresmie posted... Today I learned that I am dead Yeah I haven't been hugged that much inside of one year, let alone one day. --- Say it on your main. <cite>Graycap posted [p:951158597] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Ceresmie posted...</cite> <quote> Today I learned that I am dead </quote> Yeah I haven't been hugged that much inside of one year, let alone one day.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaZooo 02/27/21 6:54:50 PM #7:	I mean the only issue is probably COVID concerns, but you do you. Someone out there would like to get paid. --- Competing every night, both ends, shoot inside/outside, fast break, transition, Monta Ellis have it all <cite>KaZooo posted [p:951158612] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>I mean the only issue is probably COVID concerns, but you do you. Someone out there would like to get paid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 02/27/21 6:55:42 PM #8:	I dont think there is anything wrong with this if it's a consenting adult. --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:951158634] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>I dont think there is anything wrong with this if it's a consenting adult. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Homeless_Waifu 02/27/21 6:55:45 PM #9:	I must be a robot because I never been hugged in my entire life --- The switch needs a good demolition derby game that's all I want!!! - started Feb. 2021 <cite>Homeless_Waifu posted [p:951158637] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>I must be a robot because I never been hugged in my entire life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 02/27/21 6:56:04 PM #10:	Choco posted... you've considered thinking about it? I didn't know how to phrase the TT, I went between "I've been thinking about it" and "I've legitimately considered it". I haven't actually googled it yet. But like, what the fuck else am I supposed to do? I'm so incredibly lonely. And considering my therapist has tried to get me to make eye contact and even when I'm trying I can't maintain eye contact for more than like 10 seconds, I clearly need like exposure therapy on some of these things. The more I think about it though, the more it's probably a bad idea because I pretty much wouldn't stop crying the whole time. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:951158641] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>you've considered thinking about it?</quote> I didn't know how to phrase the TT, I went between "I've been thinking about it" and "I've legitimately considered it". I haven't actually googled it yet. But like, what the fuck else am I supposed to do? I'm so incredibly lonely. And considering my therapist has tried to get me to make eye contact and even when I'm trying I can't maintain eye contact for more than like 10 seconds, I clearly need like exposure therapy on some of these things. The more I think about it though, the more it's probably a bad idea because I pretty much wouldn't stop crying the whole time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/27/21 6:56:27 PM #11:	How much would you pay me? I'll also say nice flattering things. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:951158655] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>How much would you pay me? I'll also say nice flattering things. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 02/27/21 6:56:41 PM #12:	joe40001 posted... but I think for 99% of people like me the thing that fucks you up isn't the lack of sex but the lack of physical contact. I feel like one of the biggest things I wish I had in my life was someone to hold hands with, and cuddle with. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:951158659] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>joe40001 posted... </cite> <quote>but I think for 99% of people like me the thing that fucks you up isn't the lack of sex but the lack of physical contact.</quote>I feel like one of the biggest things I wish I had in my life was someone to hold hands with, and cuddle with. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SiO4 02/27/21 6:57:46 PM #13:	You gonna find that lady who did cuddle sessions and hand people suck on her boob? --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC <cite>SiO4 posted [p:951158697] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>You gonna find that lady who did cuddle sessions and hand people suck on her boob?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 02/27/21 6:58:40 PM #14:	KogaSteelfang posted... I feel like one of the biggest things I wish I had in my life was someone to hold hands with, and cuddle with. Basically any interaction like that with somebody where by conducting that interaction they are fundamentally rejecting the premise of "You are unlovable human garbage." --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:951158726] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted... </cite> <quote>I feel like one of the biggest things I wish I had in my life was someone to hold hands with, and cuddle with.</quote> Basically any interaction like that with somebody where by conducting that interaction they are fundamentally rejecting the premise of "You are unlovable human garbage." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Korey 02/27/21 11:07:56 PM #15:	There are literally services that provide this in Japan. Nothing sexual, but a chick just hugs you or something as you fall asleep together. --- https://imgur.com/PpxZDof \| https://imgur.com/xMGLcGE https://imgur.com/nsBw6Sy \| https://imgtc.com/i/sBYBaew.png <cite>The_Korey posted [p:951165653] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>There are literally services that provide this in Japan. Nothing sexual, but a chick just hugs you or something as you fall asleep together. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Infinite 2003 02/27/21 11:08:56 PM #16:	This is some sad shit --- Before I knew it there was poop on my lips. - squarion <cite>Infinite 2003 posted [p:951165689] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>This is some sad shit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
au_gold 02/27/21 11:09:02 PM #17:	Why not just hire a prostitute to get laid? --- Let me talk to your mother. Get your mother please. <cite>au_gold posted [p:951165695] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Why not just hire a prostitute to get laid? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 02/27/21 11:09:50 PM #18:	The_Korey posted... Nothing sexual not even a handy :(. it sucks. --- Explorers In The Further Regions Of Experience, demons to some, Angels To Others: Pinhead <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:951165716] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>The_Korey posted...</cite> <quote>Nothing sexual</quote> not even a handy :(. it sucks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 02/27/21 11:11:00 PM #19:	Huh, I have no idea the last time I was hugged. Ceresmie posted... Today I learned that I am dead --- Momentai <cite>KainWind posted [p:951165744] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Huh, I have no idea the last time I was hugged. Ceresmie posted... </cite> <quote>Today I learned that I am dead</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 02/27/21 11:11:36 PM #20:	au_gold posted... Why not just hire a prostitute to get laid? Because I don't care about sex. I've internalized that I'm never going ot have a fun or lustful relationship anymore. I'm effectively asexual. Just lonely af. The_Korey posted... There are literally services that provide this in Japan. Nothing sexual, but a chick just hugs you or something as you fall asleep together. Yeah, the japanese make a lot of sense to me in this regard. And I hate it when it's painted as the men being weak and unassertive. In cultures that are high on respect men are often going to be alone. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:951165765] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>au_gold posted... </cite> <quote>Why not just hire a prostitute to get laid?</quote> Because I don't care about sex. I've internalized that I'm never going ot have a fun or lustful relationship anymore. I'm effectively asexual. Just lonely af. The_Korey posted... </cite> <quote>There are literally services that provide this in Japan. Nothing sexual, but a chick just hugs you or something as you fall asleep together.</quote> Yeah, the japanese make a lot of sense to me in this regard. And I hate it when it's painted as the men being weak and unassertive. In cultures that are high on respect men are often going to be alone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Korey 02/27/21 11:14:16 PM #21:	kingdrake2 posted... not even a handy :(. it sucks. It's Japan. If you're looking for a sexual service, it won't be hard to find, but this ain't it. Because of things like it's notoriously heavy work kulture, there are non-sexual things like this specifically to kombat loneliness. --- https://imgur.com/PpxZDof \| https://imgur.com/xMGLcGE https://imgur.com/nsBw6Sy \| https://imgtc.com/i/sBYBaew.png <cite>The_Korey posted [p:951165841] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>kingdrake2 posted... </cite> <quote>not even a handy :(. it sucks.</quote> It's Japan. If you're looking for a sexual service, it won't be hard to find, but this ain't it. Because of things like it's notoriously heavy work kulture, there are non-sexual things like this specifically to kombat loneliness. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CrimsonWaffle 02/27/21 11:14:37 PM #22:	Move to Japan. --- How smart are you? How dumb am I? Don't count any, of my advice. PSN: Crimson_Arcade, Switch FC: 2459-7124-5704 <cite>CrimsonWaffle posted [p:951165849] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>Move to Japan. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamer167 02/27/21 11:16:55 PM #23:	This aint Japan, Bubba. <cite>gamer167 posted [p:951165924] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>This aint Japan, Bubba.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 02/27/21 11:19:28 PM #24:	R1masher posted... Just get a creepy dog Obligatory Monkees: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqmRF32xKQo <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:951165993] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>R1masher posted... </cite> <quote>Just get a creepy dog</quote>Obligatory Monkees: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqmRF32xKQo </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 02/27/21 11:26:22 PM #25:	There are literally services for this in the US. They charge crazy prices though (well crazy to me), so I don't know how much it's worth to you. The ones in LA charge $80-$200 an hour. Same as the Japan cuddling thing, nothing sexual, just cuddling. --- Formerly ox0Shadow0xo \| PSN - NoxObscuras i7-7700K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:951166155] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>There are literally services for this in the US. They charge crazy prices though (well crazy to me), so I don't know how much it's worth to you. The ones in LA charge $80-$200 an hour. Same as the Japan cuddling thing, nothing sexual, just cuddling. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 02/27/21 11:28:01 PM #26:	NoxObscuras posted... There are literally services for this in the US. They charge crazy prices though (well crazy to me), so I don't know how much it's worth to you. The ones in LA charge $80-$200 an hour. Same as the Japan cuddling thing, nothing sexual, just cuddling. Jesus Christ that's expensive. "How much does the world think it costs a person to pretend you aren't human garbage, Joe?" "About 200 dollars, apparently" --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:951166188] in I've legit... [t:79321076]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite> <quote>There are literally services for this in the US. They charge crazy prices though (well crazy to me), so I don't know how much it's worth to you. The ones in LA charge $80-$200 an hour. Same as the Japan cuddling thing, nothing sexual, just cuddling.</quote> Jesus Christ that's expensive. "How much does the world think it costs a person to pretend you aren't human garbage, Joe?" "About 200 dollars, apparently" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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