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Jeff AKA Snoopy 02/04/21 4:24:41 AM #104:	gunplagirl posted... Not all trans people have the same genitals, saying this implies they do and is a trash opinion all around. Stereotyping all members of a group is not a sign of maturity. And saying they don't have any interest in any trans person means it's a personal choice of theirs to do so. It's not maturity, it's just comfort inn their bigotry. And no, this isn't saying you have to date trans people. Just, that if you do date and you exclude all of them from your dating pool, it's because you're hanging on to some really heavy transphobic ideals. 1. I was supposing the person in question knows which genitalia the other person has. I realize that trans people can be in many different situations when it comes to their genitalia. This is assuming you have met one another and had a mutual interest in each other on a basic level. 2. It is not a choice to not be attracted to certain genitalia. I have personally never been attracted to a penis. Were my wife to transition and part of that transition was to surgically change her body to reflect the gender they identify with, I would support that and love them. I assume our sexual relationship would change however, as I have never been attracted to a penis. I'm not going to say it is impossible but at 36 years old I have never felt aroused by a penis. 3. Relationships do not always necessitate sexual relations but if a person knows that is an important element to them and the other person does not have the genitalia that arouses them, does that make them transphobic? Again I say this as someone who actively supports the community, devotes time to the LBGTQ community. I cannot in ANY WAY understand what it is like to be anything other than CIS-male, but to basically assume hatred or ignorance from ALL people who say they don't see themselves being involved with someone who is trans is dangerous to me. I apologize if this seems like some sort of justification for hatred or ignorance. There is no justification for anything other than support and understanding for trans people. I have no doubt that a lot of people have never actually thoughtfully considered what their reaction would be to being interested in someone and what they would do upon discovering they are trans. My hope would be they would attempt a relationship and see if that interest blossoms. Someone thinking they couldn't handle that is perhaps close minded, but I don't believe all of them are transphobic. --- https://imgur.com/GWG5c3r <cite>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted [p:950263024] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>Not all trans people have the same genitals, saying this implies they do and is a trash opinion all around. Stereotyping all members of a group is not a sign of maturity. And saying they don't have any interest in any trans person means it's a personal choice of theirs to do so. It's not maturity, it's just comfort inn their bigotry. And no, this isn't saying you have to date trans people. Just, that if you do date and you exclude all of them from your dating pool, it's because you're hanging on to some really heavy transphobic ideals.</quote> 1. I was supposing the person in question knows which genitalia the other person has. I realize that trans people can be in many different situations when it comes to their genitalia. This is assuming you have met one another and had a mutual interest in each other on a basic level. 2. It is not a choice to not be attracted to certain genitalia. I have personally never been attracted to a penis. Were my wife to transition and part of that transition was to surgically change her body to reflect the gender they identify with, I would support that and love them. I assume our sexual relationship would change however, as I have never been attracted to a penis. I'm not going to say it is impossible but at 36 years old I have never felt aroused by a penis. 3. Relationships do not always necessitate sexual relations but if a person knows that is an important element to them and the other person does not have the genitalia that arouses them, does that make them transphobic? Again I say this as someone who actively supports the community, devotes time to the LBGTQ community. I cannot in ANY WAY understand what it is like to be anything other than CIS-male, but to basically assume hatred or ignorance from ALL people who say they don't see themselves being involved with someone who is trans is dangerous to me. I apologize if this seems like some sort of justification for hatred or ignorance. There is no justification for anything other than support and understanding for trans people. I have no doubt that a lot of people have never actually thoughtfully considered what their reaction would be to being interested in someone and what they would do upon discovering they are trans. My hope would be they would attempt a relationship and see if that interest blossoms. Someone thinking they couldn't handle that is perhaps close minded, but I don't believe all of them are transphobic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
runewalshPSiv 02/04/21 4:27:19 AM #105:	jason19192 posted... Sounds more like trans women will never actually be women no matter what which is transphobia. Nope. --- I tore my mind on a jagged sky <cite>runewalshPSiv posted [p:950263055] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>Sounds more like trans women will never actually be women no matter what which is transphobia.</quote> Nope. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Medussa 02/04/21 4:30:11 AM #106:	Jeff AKA Snoopy posted... CIS- no caps, no dash. it's an adjective, not a prefix and not an acronym. --- Boom! That's right, this is all happening! You cannot change the channel now! In recognition of your overwhelming victory, let's call it a draw. <cite>Medussa posted [p:950263091] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted... </cite> <quote>CIS-</quote> no caps, no dash. it's an adjective, not a prefix and not an acronym. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flauros 02/04/21 4:30:58 AM #107:	Why do people get so heated when someones sexual preference is "The other party doesnt have/never had a penis"? --- https://imgur.com/EX6Md7k https://imgur.com/nhHkg9L https://imgur.com/A3kur0P https://imgur.com/Hj9RrC6 <cite>Flauros posted [p:950263097] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Why do people get so heated when someones sexual preference is "The other party doesnt have/never had a penis"? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mingue 02/04/21 4:34:14 AM #108:	Preferences, yo Guess that means I'm a racist, sexist, bigoted, transphobic piece of shit tho, huh? <cite>Mingue posted [p:950263139] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Preferences, yo Guess that means I'm a racist, sexist, bigoted, transphobic piece of shit tho, huh? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrMallard 02/04/21 4:34:35 AM #109:	LivingLegend posted... Who said I wouldnt? --- I can feel it in my bones, I'm gonna spend another year alone. Now Playing: Persona 5, Minecraft <cite>MrMallard posted [p:950263143] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>LivingLegend posted... </cite> <quote>Who said I wouldnt?</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/04/21 4:36:27 AM #110:	why are the far leftists in here asserting that what you're sexually/romantically attracted to is a choice and belittling people for it? that doesn't sound very progressive... --- Hammer my bones on the anvil of daylight <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:950263170] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>why are the far leftists in here asserting that what you're sexually/romantically attracted to is a choice and belittling people for it? that doesn't sound very progressive... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InhumaneRaider 02/04/21 4:37:53 AM #111:	You can state that you have preferences without going into bigoted reasons behind those preferences. --- The War on Christmas begins now, comrades! Load up the Acai refreshers! Cash the Soros checks! Communism is free drink refills, nothing else. <cite>InhumaneRaider posted [p:950263188] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>You can state that you have preferences without going into bigoted reasons behind those preferences. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 4:38:04 AM #112:	Respect is a two way street. I respect the LGBTQs right to be who they want. In turn, they need to respect my right to date who I want. Its as simple as that. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263191] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Respect is a two way street. I respect the LGBTQs right to be who they want. In turn, they need to respect my right to date who I want. Its as simple as that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 4:41:19 AM #113:	DJquackquack posted... Respect is a two way street. I respect the LGBTQs right to be who they want. In turn, they need to respect my right to date who I want. Its as simple as that. "Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263223] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Respect is a two way street. I respect the LGBTQs right to be who they want. In turn, they need to respect my right to date who I want. Its as simple as that.</quote>"Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 4:43:30 AM #114:	viewmaster_pi posted... why are the far leftists in here asserting that what you're sexually/romantically attracted to is a choice and belittling people for it? that doesn't sound very progressive... Its mind blowing. Im politically neutral, but imagine telling a gay man he needs to develop an attraction to vaginas or else hes a bigot for rejecting a FtM trans person. Wild. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263240] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>viewmaster_pi posted... </cite> <quote>why are the far leftists in here asserting that what you're sexually/romantically attracted to is a choice and belittling people for it? that doesn't sound very progressive...</quote>Its mind blowing. Im politically neutral, but imagine telling a gay man he needs to develop an attraction to vaginas or else hes a bigot for rejecting a FtM trans person. Wild. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 4:43:52 AM #115:	jason19192 posted... "Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack Consider that the TL;DR version. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263246] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>"Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack</quote>Consider that the TL;DR version. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZevLoveDOOM 02/04/21 4:45:37 AM #116:	different strokes for different folks fam. <cite>ZevLoveDOOM posted [p:950263261] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>different strokes for different folks fam. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InhumaneRaider 02/04/21 4:48:33 AM #117:	Having genital preference isn't transphobic, saying you won't date a trans person, because they're trans, is. --- The War on Christmas begins now, comrades! Load up the Acai refreshers! Cash the Soros checks! Communism is free drink refills, nothing else. <cite>InhumaneRaider posted [p:950263301] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Having genital preference isn't transphobic, saying you won't date a trans person, because they're trans, is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rika_Furude 02/04/21 4:51:38 AM #118:	Why shame people for their sexual orientation? Most people are born with an attraction to the opposite biological sex. It's as simple as that. It's not bigotry in the same way not being attracted to the same sex isn't homophobia. --- https://imgur.com/oQHLBrx https://imgur.com/ah5IE8D https://imgur.com/USV84z9 https://imgur.com/PSjlohO <cite>Rika_Furude posted [p:950263334] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Why shame people for their sexual orientation? Most people are born with an attraction to the opposite biological sex. It's as simple as that. It's not bigotry in the same way not being attracted to the same sex isn't homophobia. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MikeG 02/04/21 4:55:16 AM #119:	Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic. --- Master P-in' on these lost Europeans thievin'. I'm Jack Johnson, I beat a slave catcher snaggletooth. This life'll stress you like Orson Wells on the radio. <cite>MikeG posted [p:950263382] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Webbernet 02/04/21 4:56:11 AM #120:	I dont date anyone because I dont put in the effort because I fear rejection --- Log on to the Webbernet! <cite>Webbernet posted [p:950263394] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>I dont date anyone because I dont put in the effort because I fear rejection </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:03:55 AM #121:	MikeG posted... Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic. So if a lesbian woman politely declines a trans woman, because shes more comfortable dating biological women, it makes her a bigot? --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263473] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>MikeG posted... </cite> <quote>Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic.</quote>So if a lesbian woman politely declines a trans woman, because shes more comfortable dating biological women, it makes her a bigot? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/04/21 5:05:15 AM #122:	MikeG posted... Gender is what we see. but i thought gender was an abstract social construct across a spectrum that's all in our heads --- Hammer my bones on the anvil of daylight <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:950263487] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>MikeG posted... </cite> <quote>Gender is what we see.</quote>but i thought gender was an abstract social construct across a spectrum that's all in our heads </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kimbos_Egg 02/04/21 5:05:43 AM #123:	ghostblob posted... My fiancee is non-binary, so am I. I've chatted romantically in the past with trans women. I don't see why anyone wouldn't really. I see the wanting to have bio kids defense a lot but do those people refuse to date infertile women? Maybe because i'm not attracted to them. Crazy idea i know. --- You think you've Got problems? https://imgur.com/Khu5iBF <cite>Kimbos_Egg posted [p:950263492] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>ghostblob posted... </cite> <quote>My fiancee is non-binary, so am I. I've chatted romantically in the past with trans women. I don't see why anyone wouldn't really. I see the wanting to have bio kids defense a lot but do those people refuse to date infertile women?</quote> Maybe because i'm not attracted to them. Crazy idea i know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kimbos_Egg 02/04/21 5:06:20 AM #125:	MikeG posted... Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic. No it isn't. But okay. --- You think you've Got problems? https://imgur.com/Khu5iBF <cite>Kimbos_Egg posted [p:950263501] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>MikeG posted... </cite> <quote>Gender is what we see. If you're on a date with a woman and you hit it off, and you're laughing, having the best time of your life, and before the date is over, she tells you she's trans, and if her gender identity is the thing that's bothering you, that's transphobic.</quote> No it isn't. But okay. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:07:30 AM #126:	jason19192 posted... You already proved that you're a transphobe. By your definition, anybody who disagrees with you is. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263513] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>You already proved that you're a transphobe.</quote>By your definition, anybody who disagrees with you is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:08:16 AM #127:	DJquackquack posted... By your definition, anybody who disagrees with you is. "Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack Someone who said this definitely is. <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263520] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>By your definition, anybody who disagrees with you is.</quote>"Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack Someone who said this definitely is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mingue 02/04/21 5:10:29 AM #128:	I'm not sexually attracted to dogs. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a caninophobe. I fucking LOVE dogs, they're great animals, I love rubbing their bellies! But I really, really don't wanna have sexual intercourse with them. I mean, it's just not something that I'm into all that much, y'know? Fuck, I'm a caninophobe, huh? <cite>Mingue posted [p:950263542] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>I'm not sexually attracted to dogs. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a caninophobe. I fucking LOVE dogs, they're great animals, I love rubbing their bellies! But I really, really don't wanna have sexual intercourse with them. I mean, it's just not something that I'm into all that much, y'know? Fuck, I'm a caninophobe, huh? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:11:23 AM #129:	Mingue posted... I'm not sexually attracted to dogs. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a caninophobe. I fucking LOVE dogs, they're great animals, I love rubbing their bellies! But I really, really don't wanna have sexual intercourse with them. I mean, it's just not something that I'm into all that much, y'know? Fuck, I'm a caninophobe, huh? Wow comparing trans people to dogs, very nice. <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263550] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Mingue posted... </cite> <quote>I'm not sexually attracted to dogs. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a caninophobe. I fucking LOVE dogs, they're great animals, I love rubbing their bellies! But I really, really don't wanna have sexual intercourse with them. I mean, it's just not something that I'm into all that much, y'know? Fuck, I'm a caninophobe, huh?</quote>Wow comparing trans people to dogs, very nice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:12:34 AM #130:	jason19192 posted... "Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack Someone who said this definitely is. Tell you what: when and if my penis decides it can get erect to women that used to be men, youll be the first to know. But I guess until then, Im a transphobe --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263562] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>"Cuz I aint into chicks that used to be dudes." - DJquackquack Someone who said this definitely is.</quote>Tell you what: when and if my penis decides it can get erect to women that used to be men, youll be the first to know. But I guess until then, Im a transphobe </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MikeG 02/04/21 5:13:09 AM #131:	DJquackquack posted... So if a lesbian woman politely declines a trans woman, because shes more comfortable dating biological women, it makes her a bigot? Did you read the statement or no? As @InhumaneRaider genital preference isn't transphobic, focusing purely on gender identity and saying you won't date a trans person, BECAUSE, they're trans, is transphobic. Kimbos_Egg posted... No it isn't. But okay. It is. --- Master P-in' on these lost Europeans thievin'. I'm Jack Johnson, I beat a slave catcher snaggletooth. This life'll stress you like Orson Wells on the radio. <cite>MikeG posted [p:950263568] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>So if a lesbian woman politely declines a trans woman, because shes more comfortable dating biological women, it makes her a bigot?</quote>Did you read the statement or no? As @InhumaneRaider genital preference isn't transphobic, focusing purely on gender identity and saying you won't date a trans person, BECAUSE, they're trans, is transphobic. Kimbos_Egg posted... </cite> <quote>No it isn't. But okay.</quote>It is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mingue 02/04/21 5:14:23 AM #132:	jason19192 posted... Wow comparing trans people to dogs, very nice. Oh fuck, I meant cars instead of dogs. My bad. I'm a carophobe. Or whatever. <cite>Mingue posted [p:950263578] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>Wow comparing trans people to dogs, very nice.</quote>Oh fuck, I meant cars instead of dogs. My bad. I'm a carophobe. Or whatever. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:14:27 AM #133:	DJquackquack posted... Tell you what: when and if my penis decides it can get erect to women that used to be men, youll be the first to know. But I guess until then, Im a transphobe Thanks for admitting it <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263579] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Tell you what: when and if my penis decides it can get erect to women that used to be men, youll be the first to know. But I guess until then, Im a transphobe </quote>Thanks for admitting it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:14:46 AM #134:	Mingue posted... Oh fuck, I meant cars instead of dogs. My bad. I'm a carophobe. Or whatever. Are you about to make an attack helicopter joke? <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263582] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Mingue posted... </cite> <quote>Oh fuck, I meant cars instead of dogs. My bad. I'm a carophobe. Or whatever.</quote>Are you about to make an attack helicopter joke? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mingue 02/04/21 5:14:55 AM #135:	I really don't want to fuck cars! <cite>Mingue posted [p:950263584] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>I really don't want to fuck cars! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/04/21 5:16:18 AM #136:	Mingue posted... I really don't want to fuck cars! https://youtu.be/O-BTblfwnNg --- Hammer my bones on the anvil of daylight <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:950263597] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Mingue posted... </cite> <quote>I really don't want to fuck cars!</quote>https://youtu.be/O-BTblfwnNg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mingue 02/04/21 5:17:39 AM #137:	jason19192 posted... Are you about to make an attack helicopter joke? I would never compare trans people to attack helicopters!! <cite>Mingue posted [p:950263611] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>Are you about to make an attack helicopter joke?</quote>I would never compare trans people to attack helicopters!! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:18:13 AM #138:	MikeG posted... Did you read the statement or no? As @InhumaneRaider genital preference isn't transphobic, focusing purely on gender identity and saying you won't date a trans person, BECAUSE, they're trans, is transphobic. It is. Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263614] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>MikeG posted... </cite> <quote>Did you read the statement or no? As @InhumaneRaider genital preference isn't transphobic, focusing purely on gender identity and saying you won't date a trans person, BECAUSE, they're trans, is transphobic. It is.</quote>Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:19:10 AM #140:	jason19192 posted... Thanks for admitting it Youre welcome. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263633] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>Thanks for admitting it </quote>Youre welcome. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:21:10 AM #141:	DJquackquack posted... Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference. If the trans woman and cis woman hit it off and they have sex and everything is fine but then the trans woman said that they're trans and then the cis woman feels "betrayed" and doesn't want to date her anymore, the cis woman is being transphobic. End of discussion. <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263650] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference.</quote>If the trans woman and cis woman hit it off and they have sex and everything is fine but then the trans woman said that they're trans and then the cis woman feels "betrayed" and doesn't want to date her anymore, the cis woman is being transphobic. End of discussion. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flauros 02/04/21 5:21:59 AM #142:	BlockAddition posted... [This message was deleted at the request of the original poster] I recognize that avatar --- https://imgur.com/EX6Md7k https://imgur.com/nhHkg9L https://imgur.com/A3kur0P https://imgur.com/Hj9RrC6 <cite>Flauros posted [p:950263661] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>BlockAddition posted... </cite> <quote>[This message was deleted at the request of the original poster]</quote>I recognize that avatar </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Korey 02/04/21 5:24:46 AM #143:	My body, my choice. --- https://imgur.com/PpxZDof \| https://imgur.com/xMGLcGE https://imgur.com/nsBw6Sy \| https://imgtc.com/i/sBYBaew.png <cite>The_Korey posted [p:950263693] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>My body, my choice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MikeG 02/04/21 5:25:57 AM #144:	DJquackquack posted... Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference. "Researchers describe transphobia as emotional disgust, fear, anger or discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to society's gender expectations" Trans women are women. Saying you won't date a Trans Woman, because they're not "biologically a woman", is transphobic. Homie, you're telling them they're not a woman, that's transphobic. --- Master P-in' on these lost Europeans thievin'. I'm Jack Johnson, I beat a slave catcher snaggletooth. This life'll stress you like Orson Wells on the radio. <cite>MikeG posted [p:950263710] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Even if the trans woman had gotten surgery to get a vagina, youre saying the lesbian woman doesnt have the right to decline her advances because shed be more comfortable dating a biological woman? How is that being accepting or respectful or understanding? Youre basically taking away a persons right to choose their partner based on preference.</quote>"Researchers describe transphobia as emotional disgust, fear, anger or discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to society's gender expectations" Trans women are women. Saying you won't date a Trans Woman, because they're not "biologically a woman", is transphobic. Homie, you're telling them they're not a woman, that's transphobic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:28:34 AM #145:	jason19192 posted... If the trans woman and cis woman hit it off and they have sex and everything is fine but then the trans woman said that they're trans and then the cis woman feels "betrayed" and doesn't want to date her anymore, the cis woman is being transphobic. End of discussion. Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263738] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>jason19192 posted... </cite> <quote>If the trans woman and cis woman hit it off and they have sex and everything is fine but then the trans woman said that they're trans and then the cis woman feels "betrayed" and doesn't want to date her anymore, the cis woman is being transphobic. End of discussion.</quote>Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kanaya413 02/04/21 5:31:07 AM #146:	Ill date a man regardless of whats in his underwear --- Pokemon HOME: JZREFLMEMXWN Number 1 Grimmsnarl Fangirl <cite>Kanaya413 posted [p:950263770] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Ill date a man regardless of whats in his underwear </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 02/04/21 5:34:09 AM #147:	DJquackquack posted... Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic. He was literally a cis man who faked it, he's not a trans woman. He was doing it as part of a scam. Jfc. "Hey there was a black guy in caddy shack, I guess it's suddenly racist now because some background characters referred to the character in question with a derogatory phrase." That's what you did, Mr. Twice as many active posts as karma. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:950263806] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic.</quote>He was literally a cis man who faked it, he's not a trans woman. He was doing it as part of a scam. Jfc. "Hey there was a black guy in caddy shack, I guess it's suddenly racist now because some background characters referred to the character in question with a derogatory phrase." That's what you did, Mr. Twice as many active posts as karma. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 02/04/21 5:37:00 AM #148:	Kanaya413 posted... Ill date a man regardless of whats in his underwear ch-check your PMs please!!!!!! --- Hammer my bones on the anvil of daylight <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:950263821] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>Kanaya413 posted... </cite> <quote>Ill date a man regardless of whats in his underwear</quote>ch-check your PMs please!!!!!! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:37:11 AM #149:	DJquackquack posted... Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic. Exact premise? Cross dressing is the same as taking female hormones and having surgery? Also that episode came out in 2005 and it was praised for showing same sex marriage in a positive light by gay people, obviously transphobia back then was terrible so people in general didn't really care about that aspect. <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263824] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Theres a simpsons episode about that exact premise. Where Patty is about to marry a dude dressed as a chick, and she turns him down literally because she felt betrayed, despite them having great chemistry together. At the time it was praised as a positive depiction of the LGBTQ, but I guess now its transphobic.</quote>Exact premise? Cross dressing is the same as taking female hormones and having surgery? Also that episode came out in 2005 and it was praised for showing same sex marriage in a positive light by gay people, obviously transphobia back then was terrible so people in general didn't really care about that aspect. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:37:51 AM #150:	MikeG posted... "Researchers describe transphobia as emotional disgust, fear, anger or discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to society's gender expectations" Trans women are women. Saying you won't date a Trans Woman, because they're not "biologically a woman", is transphobic. Homie, you're telling them they're not a woman, that's transphobic. Nah man, Im sorry but thats an incorrect viewpoint. Just because Im uncomfortable dating somebody, doesnt mean Im uncomfortable with them as a person. Those are two totally different things. Your quote says discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to societys gender standards. But me not dating them, doesnt mean i feel any of those things. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263829] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>MikeG posted... </cite> <quote>"Researchers describe transphobia as emotional disgust, fear, anger or discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to society's gender expectations" Trans women are women. Saying you won't date a Trans Woman, because they're not "biologically a woman", is transphobic. Homie, you're telling them they're not a woman, that's transphobic.</quote>Nah man, Im sorry but thats an incorrect viewpoint. Just because Im uncomfortable dating somebody, doesnt mean Im uncomfortable with them as a person. Those are two totally different things. Your quote says discomfort felt or expressed towards people who do not conform to societys gender standards. But me not dating them, doesnt mean i feel any of those things. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MikeG 02/04/21 5:41:59 AM #151:	DJquackquack posted... Nah man, Im sorry but thats an incorrect viewpoint. Just because Im uncomfortable dating somebody, doesnt mean Im uncomfortable with them as a person. Those are two totally different things. What? That has nothing to do with the example given. You can be transphobic in both situations, dating and friendship. Who said they're mutually exclusive? However, you're still disregarding them as a Woman, i.e, judging them on their gender identity, and that is transphobic. --- Master P-in' on these lost Europeans thievin'. I'm Jack Johnson, I beat a slave catcher snaggletooth. This life'll stress you like Orson Wells on the radio. <cite>MikeG posted [p:950263870] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>Nah man, Im sorry but thats an incorrect viewpoint. Just because Im uncomfortable dating somebody, doesnt mean Im uncomfortable with them as a person. Those are two totally different things.</quote>What? That has nothing to do with the example given. You can be transphobic in both situations, dating and friendship. Who said they're mutually exclusive? However, you're still disregarding them as a Woman, i.e, judging them on their gender identity, and that is transphobic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DJquackquack 02/04/21 5:44:14 AM #152:	gunplagirl posted... He was literally a cis man who faked it, he's not a trans woman. He was doing it as part of a scam. Jfc. "Hey there was a black guy in caddy shack, I guess it's suddenly racist now because some background characters referred to the character in question with a derogatory phrase." That's what you did, Mr. Twice as many active posts as karma. He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all. --- Sign here to get 3rd Person added to Cyberpunk: http://chng.it/L7HVMJWSz4 <cite>DJquackquack posted [p:950263893] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>He was literally a cis man who faked it, he's not a trans woman. He was doing it as part of a scam. Jfc. "Hey there was a black guy in caddy shack, I guess it's suddenly racist now because some background characters referred to the character in question with a derogatory phrase." That's what you did, Mr. Twice as many active posts as karma.</quote>He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jason19192 02/04/21 5:47:51 AM #153:	DJquackquack posted... He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/There%27s_Something_About_Marrying "Veronica" explains that as the straight Leslie Robin Swisher, he posed as a woman to get onto the LPGA golf tour. <cite>jason19192 posted [p:950263929] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all.</quote>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/There%27s_Something_About_Marrying "Veronica" explains that as the straight Leslie Robin Swisher, he posed as a woman to get onto the LPGA golf tour. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InhumaneRaider 02/04/21 5:48:22 AM #154:	DJquackquack posted... He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all. He was a cis-male, he wasn't transgender. You tried though. --- The War on Christmas begins now, comrades! Load up the Acai refreshers! Cash the Soros checks! Communism is free drink refills, nothing else. <cite>InhumaneRaider posted [p:950263934] in Why wont y... [t:79276387]...</cite> <quote>DJquackquack posted... </cite> <quote>He wasnt doing it as a scam, he was in love with her. He was trying to trick her because he wanted her to look past his gender and her own preconceived notions, which is exactly what you claim to be advocating. It's wild that you dont see the irony of it all.</quote>He was a cis-male, he wasn't transgender. You tried though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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