Current Events > If you have ''If I can't have her, no one will,'' thoughts, what should you do?

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Can that be dealt with?

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Are you having these thoughts?
If you are my next question is how much would you rate yourself on a scale of "regular person vs sociopathic person" because that will greatly affect my answer

Get help before someone gets hurt or killed because of that poisonous mindset.

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Me? No. I'm not in a relationship at all.

I'm just watching various videos of people getting sentenced for terrible crimes and it makes me wonder what you should do if you're about to fly off the handle and do something horrible.

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process those thoughts in a way without acting upon them


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Solid Sonic posted...

I'm just watching various videos of people getting sentenced for terrible crimes and it makes me wonder what you should do if you're about to fly off the handle and do something horrible.

Oh you're talking about psychopaths/sociopaths losing their property as that's how they see people, as propety or tools to be used

Nothing for them - they lack the ability to see the logic usually. Years of therapy can help but psychopaths don't care and sociopaths (usually) think they're in the right so it's a lost cause

nothanks1 posted...

Oh you're talking about psychopaths/sociopaths losing their property as that's how they see people, as propety or tools to be used

Nothing for them - they lack the ability to see the logic usually. Years of therapy can help but psychopaths don't care and sociopaths (usually) think they're in the right so it's a lost cause

So you claim that people like that can't see it coming anyway.

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RedWhiteBlue posted...

One thing that helps is this mindset: do you like her? If so, then you'd want her to be happy, right? If that means she isn't with you but she's happy, could you accept that?

This is why I allowed my wife to get a boyfriend.

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Solid Sonic posted...

So you claim that people like that can't see it coming anyway.

They don't care about it.
It's normal to them

Like how if you try to grab a strange dog's tail it'll bark and snap at you if you're lucky or try to attack you fully if you're not.
It's just how they are. Their brains are not like the average person.

Learn to code

Design a deep-learning AI that scrubs your crushs social media feed and uses that info to develop into a copy of their thoughts and feelings, with the added condition that they will be madly in love with you.

Implant this AI into a highly advanced robot that resembles your crush.

live with your replica waifu for several years.

one night while youre making love, she has a strangely pensive look about her.

she starts questioning her nature as a machine, wondering if she can really be considered alive without individual thought, and if she can have individual thought if shes a copy of someone else.

she asks to be alone.

her melancholy is impenetrable for the next several days.

one day she asks why do you love me?

you tell her.

no, she replies. Thats why you loved your crush. Why do you love *me*?

you try to calm her down, but as you approach she pushes you away.

I dont want this! My life is a hollow facsimile! I cant endure this pain! She runs away.

you chase after her, but its no use. Her robot body is faster than you and she disappears into the night.

you despondently walk the streets. Its after midnight when you pass a Dennys.

you look in the window.

you see your crush from years ago, happily eating a Grand Slam with her husband and a young child.

You realize that all these years as youve been chasing a fantasy that could never be, others have moved on with their lives, growing and experiencing the world, with all its ups and downs, and finding a place they can be happy.

you consider if its possible for you to turn things around.

you look at your crush one more time. She gives you a passing glance. She doesnt recognize you. Its the same apathy she had towards you when you were in high school.

an anxiety builds in your chest, its unbearable.

you walk onto a small bridge overlooking the highway.

the moon sure is beautiful tonight.

with one last wistful sigh, you lean over the rail and drop into the traffic below.

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