Current Events > If a heterosexual man has sex with a trans man, is he gay?

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jon1012
12/02/20 12:23:19 AM
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I'm really wondering. Assuming the trans man is pre bottom surgery and they have vaginal sex.

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Middle hope
12/02/20 12:24:15 AM
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I think the current climate says you just fucked a dude. So maybe?

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MikeG
12/02/20 12:24:41 AM
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Sexuality is a spectrum.

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Evening_Dragon
12/02/20 12:24:53 AM
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Aint having sex with a brain tho

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WingsOfGood
12/02/20 12:26:42 AM
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I believe he is not gay if there is a vagina involved.

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Neckhomachus
12/02/20 12:28:11 AM
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oh my god

who cares

who fucking cares. fuck a dude in the pussy if you want to literally who cares if it's gay
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fuming
12/02/20 12:28:33 AM
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who cares
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AlisLandale
12/02/20 12:30:09 AM
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sexuality is who youre attracted to. If he had sex with a trans man because he viewed him as a tomboy woman, hed still be heterosexual. (And quite ignorant, but hey).

thats all hypothetical though. realistically speaking, if someone is presenting as a man, and you, as a straight man, are aware of this, and have sex with him anyways, youre definitely *at least* questioning your sexuality.

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OmegaPillow
12/02/20 12:31:33 AM
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Yes

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TrueSephir0th
12/02/20 12:33:24 AM
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fuck your labels
just have fun
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ElatedVenusaur
12/02/20 12:34:50 AM
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Define gay. What about the trans man is attractive? Is it his boyish good looks, his muscular frame, flat (binded or post top surgery) chest?
Or are they attracted to lingering attributes that could be defined as feminine, like soft, smooth skin, etc. ?

Part of the reason people hate trans people is that they challenge simplistic notions of gender and sexuality just by existing.
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KINDERFELD
12/02/20 12:36:40 AM
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He is what he defines himself to be.

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hockeybub89
12/02/20 12:36:46 AM
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XboxLegendary
12/02/20 12:38:01 AM
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An unequivocal yes.
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MikeG
12/02/20 12:38:43 AM
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You'll also often find that most people associate attraction to trans individuals, due to their characteristics. So finding a transwoman or femboy attractive, isn't necessarily gay, because if you slap masculine dudes in front of them, they probably wouldn't find it attractive.

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pure_temper
12/02/20 12:38:50 AM
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do what you like

imo these labels are not going to make a difference, it's all about what you want to do and what you like to do

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IAmALawyer
12/02/20 12:39:56 AM
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jon1012 posted...
I'm really wondering. Assuming the trans man is pre bottom surgery and they have vaginal sex.
It depends on the man's perspective. If to him the transsexual was a girl, he's still heterosexual.

Some heterosexual guys like to be fucked in the ass by dildos while being dominated by women.

Doesnt make them homosexual, just gives them a uncommon fetish.

In the end if you are sexually attracted to the same sex you are homosexual, if you are attracted to opposite sex you are heterosexual, if you are attracted to both Bisexual.

Even if it was a guy who dressed up like a girl and had nothing done, and simply had effeminate features and personality. Even if during the sex he played with the guys pens and even let the man fuck him with it.

If in his mind it was hot because it reminded him of a dominate girl. He's still heterosexual. As he would not have sex with a guy.

Think of it this way. When you fuck a sex toy, are you now sexually attracted to toys or the girl you were imagining?
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masticatingman
12/02/20 12:45:21 AM
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Just speaking for what I know and have seen, I cant think of any prototypical gay guy who would even imagine touching a vagina. Vaginas are a no go - there is zero interest.

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Garioshi
12/02/20 12:46:17 AM
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You presuppose the man is heterosexual, so he's heterosexual regardless of the sexuality of the act.

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Lanzol
12/02/20 12:46:55 AM
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AlisLandale posted...
sexuality is who youre attracted to. If he had sex with a trans man because he viewed him as a tomboy woman, hed still be heterosexual. (And quite ignorant, but hey).

thats all hypothetical though. realistically speaking, if someone is presenting as a man, and you, as a straight man, are aware of this, and have sex with him anyways, youre definitely *at least* questioning your sexuality.


you can be "heterosexual" and have homosexual sex.

a "straight" guy banging a transman is having gay sex
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shnangyboos
12/02/20 12:47:59 AM
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I guess we can move straight and gay to the "meaningless descriptor" pile with man and woman.

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jon1012
12/02/20 12:49:18 AM
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Lanzol posted...
you can be "heterosexual" and have homosexual sex.

a "straight" guy banging a transman is having gay sex

So its gay sex regardless of the penis and vagina?

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Lanzol
12/02/20 12:49:54 AM
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jon1012 posted...
So its gay sex regardless of the penis and vagina?

yes

2 men having sex is pretty gay

2 women having sex (whether they are trans or not) is also really gay.

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MikeG
12/02/20 12:51:53 AM
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Wait, with a trans man? No that's not gay.

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