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KobeSystem
09/09/20 3:08:51 AM
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Yea shes weird

A normal chick would have prolly left u on read unless theyre real friendly or some shit

Ive added people on snapchat kinda like tc and it works sometimes lol

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im not 13
09/09/20 3:10:21 AM
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Frolex posted...
because the whole reason women use of one of those platforms is that men can't dm them unless they dm first.

She put her ig in her bio....

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CommonStar
09/09/20 3:18:40 AM
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im not 13 posted...
She put her ig in her bio....
She explains why it's in her bio...

The bio the OP posted later in the topic isn't from the same girl.
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DocileOrangeCup
09/09/20 3:19:54 AM
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 3:20:16 AM
#108:


KobeSystem posted...
Yea shes weird

A normal chick would have prolly left u on read unless theyre real friendly or some shit

Ive added people on snapchat kinda like tc and it works sometimes lol

Funny you mention that. Actually messaged a girl on snapchat at the same time as this one ITT writing hey girl found you on bumble. She got back to me an hour later while weve all been bickering with a message saying hey boo can I see pics of you?

Sent her two pics, and then she sent me one back after. And she is significantly more attractive than this insta girl. So fuck some of you guys lol. Not every girl is opposed to this. Theres a reason they link other social media such as instagram or snapchat in their bio. Alot of them arent on the dating apps that much so they want you to hit them up elsewhere. Doesnt apply to every girl obviously, but in my anecdotal experience they either leave you on read or they engage in a convo with you when using this method.

My mistake however, was egging the instagram girl on and throwing out the autistic insult. That wasnt cool on my part, regardless of the vile she sent me first. Should have been a hi, hello and bye type deal. You live and you learn.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 3:22:16 AM
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CommonStar posted...
She explains why it's in her bio...

The bio the OP posted later in the topic isn't from the same girl.

Half true. The insta girl didnt mention that she doesnt want you dming her without a match.

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lincoln002
09/09/20 3:32:01 AM
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you know what most people do when someone doesn't match with them or message them back? they get over it and they move on to someone else. the "alphas" you live vicariously through do the same.they certainly aren't calling people autistic then running back to gamefaqs to get a support group going over their rejection.

Oh I agree he handled the situation poorly. I get it, just be honest, tell her you found her attractive, didn't think you'd match because she's so beautiful and that you just wanted an opportunity.

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Venger2112
09/09/20 3:34:42 AM
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Kaiganeer posted...
tadamoto alt?
bryon23 or whatever I hope

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WhatsUpMyGuy
09/09/20 3:36:32 AM
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yikes
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TheoryzC
09/09/20 3:56:35 AM
#113:


Venger2112 posted...
bryon23 or whatever I hope
Whoa haven't heard that name in a min


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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 3:59:21 AM
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so creepy. so incel.
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 4:12:14 AM
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Cornhuskers posted...
so creepy. so incel.

so persistent with this narrative. Says more about you honestly.

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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 4:21:33 AM
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tote_all posted...
TC is such a Nice Guy.

REMOVED!
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 4:34:12 AM
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Cornhuskers posted...
That was a major component of Elliot's manifesto.

What the fuck is your problem. Youve compared me to Elliot Rodgers twice in this topic.

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WhatsUpMyGuy
09/09/20 4:44:21 AM
#120:


clyde_frog posted...


so persistent with this narrative. Says more about you honestly.


bro you literally couldn't take basic social cues from the messages she initially gave you to shut the fuck up and stop talking, but you decided to argue with her and be all ben shapiro about it
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 4:55:07 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
The way you lashed out and called her autistic when you didnt get your way is lame as hell and bitter af. Then you went and blocked her after your rage fit. Couldnt even handle confrontation with a girl on IG jajaja

Think you misinterpreted the conversation mate. I wasnt trying to my luck with her after she replied the first time. I absolutely knew it was a lost cause and I was ok with that. This wasnt about some nice guy revenge bullshit.

My intention was to point out the absurdity of her requiring permission so that I could message instead of jumping right in and saying hello. Her account is public btw.

And just to reiterate, that does not make the autism comment ok. Its completely not ok.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 4:56:55 AM
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WhatsUpMyGuy posted...
bro you literally couldn't take basic social cues from the messages she initially gave you to shut the fuck up and stop talking, but you decided to argue with her and be all ben shapiro about it

No fucking shit? I owned up to this several times in this topic already. I played this pretty badly, no doubt about it.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:04:33 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Im imagining him hitting on a girl IRL and then actually sitting there and arguing with her and calling her autistic and then turning his back and then walking away as he dismisses her. Not a good look.

Love how tcs confidence in what happened grew when guys like Lincoln002 started agreeing with him. Lincoln002 got clowned not too long ago for getting upset/entitled about a girl who rejected him. Not the kind of person you want agreeing with you.

Dude Ive had sex with 2 girls friday and saturday night over labor day weekend. Im perfectly fine with interacting with girls in person. Talking to someone new over the internet or text is clearly not the same dynamic, dont be so obtuse.

Just like if you and I were to have this conversation in person, it wouldnt feel as contentious as it does on a message board, and you know that.

And again, I withdrew my support behind the autism comment hours ago. Theres no point in constantly bringing it up. Im on your fucking side on that one. What more do you want from me?

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:07:02 AM
#126:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
you dont need to explain yourself to anyone at all. If shes giving you shit, then you just leave her on read or tell her have a nice day or however it is you dismiss a conversation. You literally gain nothing but wasted time trying to get her to see the error of her ways. You had some need/desire to try to change her view and got angry with her and insulted her.

you gotta read between the lines. Shes giving you shit for this because shes not interested.

I knew she wasnt interested from the very first message she sent me. Anyone with half a brain could realize that. I agree with the rest of your points though. I should have not said anything after her first reply.

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cuttin_in_farm
09/09/20 5:07:09 AM
#127:


Holy shit, CE calling you a creep for DMing someone?

Peak CE lmao.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:17:01 AM
#129:


Here, bottom line is this. Ill make this clear. Messaging her initially wasnt wrong imo. Thats how people network, make friends, and earn dates in the 21st century. Its a very common thing that people do. Her first message was uncalled for, as she could have simply wrote that shes not interested, or left me on read. She doesnt speak for all women, and as I mentioned earlier ITT, a girl on snap tonight hit me back with a hey boo when I wrote the same exact opener to her.

I should have immediately stopped replying after her initial response. There was no positive outcome in continuing the conversation.

And I should have definitely not used autism as an insult. That shit was not cool, regardless of the insults she used against me.

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chrono625
09/09/20 5:18:44 AM
#130:


I skimmed through the topic but, did anyone call out tc for trying to use autism as an insult?

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:26:13 AM
#131:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Holy shit, CE calling you a creep for DMing someone?

Peak CE lmao.

I know man this is crazy. Im literally being compared to incels and specifically Elliot Rodgers because I shot my shot on instagram.

I expected alot of people to say I crossed the line with the autism comment, but to find out that mostly everyone here draws the line at me dming her in the first place is bizarre. Where I come from in LA, this shit is so common (which is why this girl caught me so off guard). Maybe its different if you live like in some Indiana suburb or whatever.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:26:55 AM
#132:


chrono625 posted...
I skimmed through the topic but, did anyone call out tc for trying to use autism as an insult?

hell yeah brother

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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 5:27:15 AM
#133:


chrono625 posted...
I skimmed through the topic but, did anyone call out tc for trying to use [snip] as an insult?
yeah, he also feels bad about it tho

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coh
09/09/20 5:31:08 AM
#135:


topic just reminds me why I don't talk to people
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Lorenzo_2003
09/09/20 5:38:02 AM
#136:


MabusIncarnate posted...
TC approaches a prostitute

"So uh, I know you do this for money, but wanna sex me for free?"

Blank awkward stare

Is that woman a prostitute?

I thought she was just somebody TC was familiar with, but not that shes making money off exploiting dudes.

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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 5:38:43 AM
#137:


coh posted...
topic just reminds me why I don't talk to people
word

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:42:57 AM
#138:


Crash posted...
The BPD is strong with this thot.

And yet, I'm sure a decent number of people in this topic will still simp for her because of your last message.

No dude its 100% me. How dare I not ask her for permission in my first message before following up with a hello?!

Also its perfectly acceptable that she called me ugly and a creep for saying hey, but if I insulted her like that first, I would have been called a deranged nice guy by an even larger portion of CE. Such hypocrisy.

And then to top it off, I have users on the first page of this topic mocking me because I said her calling me ugly bothered me. And nobody cared to put those users in their place. Again, imagine if it were me calling her ugly. Then Im sure everyone would take that seriously.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 5:46:35 AM
#139:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Is that woman a prostitute?

I thought she was just somebody TC was familiar with, but not that shes making money off exploiting dudes.

Nah that was just @MabusIncarnate projecting onto others because he found himself in a similar situation. This topic has literally nothing to do with prostitutes.

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Solid Snake07
09/09/20 5:49:47 AM
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She's right, but she also should have just ignored you

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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 5:52:45 AM
#142:


Lots of projection in this topic.
And probably a redcap somewhere in the room.
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 6:00:25 AM
#144:


Cornhuskers posted...
Lots of projection in this topic.
And probably a redcap somewhere in the room.

Ironic considering youve done nothing but provoke me in this thread. In my 15 years on this site Ive never been compelled to put someone on ignore until having the displeasure of running into you. Comparing me to a mass shooter on multiple occasions is not something I take lightly.

Youre all uptight about me using autism as an insult (and rightfully so) but you all should be just as outraged as what this user has done to me throughout this thread.

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GentlemanGamer
09/09/20 6:03:51 AM
#145:


like a normal 30+ person on this website, I have never had to use any of these apps because I got in a long term relationship at a normal age, so I have no idea what the proper etiquette is on these things. But if this girl thinks you aren't observing the proper etiquette, just move on and find someone who doesn't care and stop looking for gamefaqs to justify your behavior.
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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 6:06:27 AM
#146:


Oh shit... Channeling that Nick Sandmann W.S. rage.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/07/30/nicholas-sandmann-his-lawyers-are-playing-keeps/

Dont. Want. To. Be. Sued.
Must. Not. Defame.
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KainFourteh
09/09/20 6:42:20 AM
#148:


She sounds like a mega bitch with the attitude and insults. Bit weird for you to message her though.
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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 6:42:43 AM
#149:


When you're dissed online, call Adolf's helpline
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvwYZYvw1TA
Hitler's Anger Helpline
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