Poll of the Day > PotD how do I deal with it when everything in my house reminds me of this girl

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FatalAccident
08/19/20 12:33:34 PM
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Last few months have been pretty nice with her coming over and stuff, but now she gone.

We watched impractical jokers all night, cooked together, ate together, just sat and laughed together. I cant watch certain shows now without thinking about her like impractical jokers. Like even just opening the tap for my cat to drink water from just reminds me of her cause she used to love doing that shit for my cat and talked me into leaving it open for a while so the cat could drink from it.

Ive tried meetings other people and bringing them over too since she left but its not the same and thats probably because I know I am overcompensating for her not being around anymore.

this is all so mf**** stupid but honestly how do I deal with this I am losing my mind wtf

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Blightzkrieg
08/19/20 12:56:19 PM
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If you can't meet other people right now get a hobby or a pet. Something that requires active thought and effort to keep your mind off things, not something passive like watching TV or going on the internet.

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ScritchOwl
08/19/20 1:01:07 PM
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Go to a pawnshop get a trench coat, a boombox and the shrek soundtrack. Go to her house and blast it with All star like a john hughes film.

Hopefully that made you laugh a little. In the end you gotta look at it as is it time to redecorate, take up a new hobby, or turn the house into a mausoleum. Do whats right for you justbe concious about your next girl. You dont want a type fixation to set in

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DirtBasedSoap
08/19/20 1:02:02 PM
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FatalAccident posted...
this is all so mf**** stupid but honestly how do I deal with this I am losing my mind wtf
I feel you so hard on that dude

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Jen0125
08/19/20 1:03:33 PM
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All of our relationships are dying

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wwinterj25
08/19/20 1:09:04 PM
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Buy several more cats.

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SpeedDemon20
08/19/20 1:19:55 PM
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Make new memories and have them overwrite the previous memories.

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dedbus
08/19/20 1:27:09 PM
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Relationships are always going to be a part of you but you need to separate the part you keep and what you can't hold on to in a healthy way.

In a way it like taking back the identity of yourself and the things you do.

If your identity is going to be without someone from now on you can remind yourself that you can be just yourself and reclaim activities new and old for yourself.

Pick the weeds and let yourself grow.
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FatalAccident
08/19/20 4:26:55 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
All of our relationships are dying
Yeah really sucks bruv

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FatalAccident
08/19/20 4:30:07 PM
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dedbus posted...
Relationships are always going to be a part of you but you need to separate the part you keep and what you can't hold on to in a healthy way.

In a way it like taking back the identity of yourself and the things you do.

If your identity is going to be without someone from now on you can remind yourself that you can be just yourself and reclaim activities new and old for yourself.

Pick the weeds and let yourself grow.
I like what youre saying bro, but easier said than done init

ScritchOwl posted...
Hopefully that made you laugh a little.
It did to be honest

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EvilMegas
08/19/20 4:39:11 PM
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Eat all of the things that remind you of her. Then they become a part of you.

Or give me all of it. Including the tap.

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Smarkil
08/19/20 5:44:48 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
All of our relationships are dying

speak for yourself

my relationship with jesus is stronger than ever

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EvilMegas
08/19/20 5:59:29 PM
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But jesus is dead you suck fuck!

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ScritchOwl
08/19/20 6:45:04 PM
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EvilMegas posted...
But jesus is dead you suck fuck!

Seriously he runs the mystery shack. Hes not dead really just for tax purposes. Stan taught him that

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DirtBasedSoap
08/19/20 6:51:13 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
All of our relationships are dying
Im going to fix mine. I dont fucking care what it takes. Ill walk to New Mexico if I have to.

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Jen0125
08/19/20 8:14:47 PM
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DirtBasedSoap posted...
Im going to fix mine. I dont fucking care what it takes. Ill walk to New Mexico if I have to.

Good luck bruh I hope you can make it

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zebatov
08/19/20 9:53:52 PM
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Its weird you mentioned your cat because I was immediately going to ask you if you were talking about a cat up until that part of that sentence.

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Revelation34
08/19/20 10:03:39 PM
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zebatov posted...
Its weird you mentioned your cat because I was immediately going to ask you if you were talking about a cat up until that part of that sentence.


Pretty hard to find a cat that watches TV.
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Krazy_Kirby
08/19/20 10:47:39 PM
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burn the house down
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
08/21/20 5:25:48 AM
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Itll only disappear with time or if you replace them. Sucks but thats how it works.

DirtBasedSoap posted...
Im going to fix mine. I dont fucking care what it takes. Ill walk to New Mexico if I have to.
Im rooting for ya but remember you cant force something to work if they dont want to.

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FatalAccident
08/22/20 9:41:28 AM
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
Itll only disappear with time or if you replace them. Sucks but thats how it works.
replace my cat and my tap lol

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DirtBasedSoap
08/22/20 2:45:50 PM
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
Im rooting for ya but remember you cant force something to work if they dont want to.
we got back together already :)

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blu
08/22/20 3:47:39 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
All of our relationships are dying

*sigh*

Maybe mine too.
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