Poll of the Day > Well, my boyfriend and I broke up

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YoukaiSlayer
08/13/20 1:10:59 AM
#101:


Probably the most legitimate reason for a mutual break up. If thats the only problem it makes sense you'd put off breaking up over it for so long. It's really hard to admit things need to end when everything feels good in the moment. Hopefully the next chapter of your life is a good one.

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Em_gai
08/13/20 2:01:30 AM
#102:


Im really sorry to hear

he shouldnt have been so rude as to say resentment! Its a big deal and many couples will never agree because of that is a thing they cant change.

but resentment??
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wolfy42
08/13/20 2:09:07 AM
#103:


Em_gai posted...
Im really sorry to hear

he shouldnt have been so rude as to say resentment! Its a big deal and many couples will never agree because of that is a thing they cant change.

but resentment??


Pretty hard to have a conversation like that, and it sounds like they both care about each other deeply, but he (and she) were doing what they have to, what is best for both of their futures. I don't get the feeling he was being cruel or mean at all. I'm sure this is seriously hard on both of them.

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Zareth
08/13/20 2:23:35 AM
#104:


As someone who never wants to have kids, I will never understand why some people want to have kids so badly.

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WastelandCowboy
08/13/20 2:55:19 AM
#105:


Damn. Sorry to hear. Hope you find happiness soon.
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wolfy42
08/13/20 2:58:37 AM
#106:


Zareth posted...
As someone who never wants to have kids, I will never understand why some people want to have kids so badly.

Some people want to carry on their bloodlines etc. For me though, I have always cared for people my whole life, and I like/love making the people I live with lives better. I get joy out of seeing happiness in others and I would have loved to have raised kids, given them a good/safe life and at least one parent who loved them and provided for them.

It would have been very fulfilling, given my life more meaning, and I could have hopefully instilled my values in them, so they would go out and make the world a better place, and their kids would eventually do the same.

There are many reason to want to have kids, but it's a very personal thing and different for everyone I think. You certainly don't need to feel obligated to do so (even if family tries to push it on you), but it's not something you can just stop wanting or put behind you easily either, at least for many people.

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OhhhJa
08/13/20 3:48:02 AM
#107:


Zareth posted...
As someone who never wants to have kids, I will never understand why some people want to have kids so badly.
When I was in my early 20s, I thought I never would. Then I eventually warmed up to the idea as I got closer to 30. Anyway, its awesome man. Being a father has been pretty rad. I used to be kinda cynical about children and now I find that I have a much softer spot for them. Turned me into a softie
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Blightzkrieg
08/13/20 7:11:50 AM
#108:


wolfy42 posted...
We are nowhere near needing more kids to continue our race, so it's honestly just a personal choice if you want children or not.
White genocide is a real threat

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Jen0125
08/13/20 9:45:11 AM
#110:


Smarkil posted...
shit my dude fuck the masters just go teach rn those koros aint gonna know what hit em

Man, I already started it! I wanna finish it. But we'll see. I wanna pay off my personal loan and car before I try to go over there and that'll be done next year. That way my only personal bills will be my student loan and cell phone.

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Jen0125
08/13/20 9:47:15 AM
#111:


Thanks for the empathy too guys, it's heartwarming

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ArvTheGreat
08/13/20 9:51:48 AM
#112:


You say you dont wanna be a mother but in reality you are a mother to the whole community you have been a mother all this time

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Blightzkrieg
08/13/20 9:58:13 AM
#113:


ArvTheGreat posted...
You say you dont wanna be a mother but in reality you are a mother to the whole community you have been a mother all this time
Explains the rise in incest porn

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Jen0125
08/13/20 10:12:13 AM
#114:


ArvTheGreat posted...
You say you dont wanna be a mother but in reality you are a mother to the whole community you have been a mother all this time

Lmao

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ArvTheGreat
08/13/20 10:47:01 AM
#115:


that Wasnt that funny mom Arv was trying to be sentimental

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RCtheWSBC
08/13/20 11:50:54 AM
#116:


I feel obligated to post here

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FatalAccident
08/13/20 12:10:27 PM
#117:


Well shit sorry to hear

you want me to fuck him up?

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Blightzkrieg
08/13/20 12:23:06 PM
#118:


RCtheWSBC posted...
I feel obligated to post here
This is the part of the movie where you fuck Jens brains out

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Jen0125
08/13/20 12:24:03 PM
#119:


FatalAccident posted...
Well shit sorry to hear

you want me to fuck him up?

No, thanks though lol

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UnknownNobody
08/13/20 12:29:41 PM
#120:


Breaking up is hard to do.
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Ogurisama
08/13/20 1:10:05 PM
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Jen0125
08/13/20 2:28:15 PM
#122:


I'm just drowning my sorrows in tears

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SpeedDemon20
08/13/20 2:49:32 PM
#123:


Do you need breakup songs? Here's my favorite:
https://youtu.be/sQPKWsXHJa8

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green dragon
08/13/20 3:03:32 PM
#124:


Sorry to hear about the breakup, but it sounds like it was for the best. No need to stay in relationship when the couple disagrees about something as pivitol as having kids.

Kinda cool you're going the teaching route, and it is a great idea to teach over seas as opposed to staying in the US to teach. From what I've read, teacher's in asian/european countries are treated way better and get paid more.

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The_tall_midget
08/13/20 4:56:54 PM
#125:


Blightzkrieg posted...
White genocide is a real threat

Careful, you might be called a Nazi/racist/bigot/white supremacist/<insert idiotic label that doesn't even apply here>.

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Ogurisama
08/13/20 5:02:41 PM
#126:


green dragon posted...
Kinda cool you're going the teaching route, and it is a great idea to teach over seas as opposed to staying in the US to teach. From what I've read, teacher's in asian/european countries are treated way better and get paid more.
After hearinf that Jen wants to teach, made me think it would be fun to do so. I'd like to move to the Netherlands, and that wouldnt be bad.
Or just become a male hooker

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helIy
08/13/20 6:19:27 PM
#127:


that dude tried really hard and everyone just ignored him

i kinda feel bad for him a little

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DirtBasedSoap
08/13/20 6:20:26 PM
#128:


helIy posted...
that dude tried really hard and everyone just ignored him

i kinda feel bad for him a little
which one?

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Zareth
08/13/20 6:21:06 PM
#129:


ArvTheGreat posted...
You say you dont wanna be a mother but in reality you are a mother to the whole community you have been a mother all this time
Looks like the real mother was the Jen we made along the way.

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wwinterj25
08/13/20 6:31:39 PM
#130:


helIy posted...
that dude tried really hard and everyone just ignored him

i kinda feel bad for him a little
He seems a decent bloke. They just both want different things by the sound of it. This is just personal stuff posted on the internet though so everyone will have a opinion.

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helIy
08/13/20 7:21:23 PM
#131:


wwinterj25 posted...
He seems a decent bloke. They just both want different things by the sound of it. This is just personal stuff posted on the internet though so everyone will have a opinion.
i'm talking about a dude who posted in this topic

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Ogurisama
08/13/20 7:22:04 PM
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DirtBasedSoap
08/13/20 7:22:15 PM
#133:


helIy posted...
i'm talking about a dude who posted in this topic
@helIy which one are you talking about

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DDirtyDastard
08/13/20 7:35:32 PM
#134:


Jen0125 posted...


What do you mean by that? If you're so annoyed by this topic why are you bothering to post in it so much?

I mean if you were some old used up chick nobody would give a fuck.
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DDirtyDastard
08/13/20 7:37:05 PM
#135:


What's the over-under on this chick being at the sausage buffet by the end of next week?
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wwinterj25
08/13/20 8:03:56 PM
#136:


helIy posted...
i'm talking about a dude who posted in this topic
Maybe quote next time.

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RCtheWSBC
08/13/20 8:10:18 PM
#137:


wwinterj25 posted...
Maybe quote next time.
He doesn't deserve the attention he craves.

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Blightzkrieg
08/13/20 8:11:11 PM
#138:


please dont be mean it makes the pee pee small

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Jen0125
08/13/20 10:20:35 PM
#139:


DDirtyDastard posted...
What's the over-under on this chick being at the sausage buffet by the end of next week?

How would that even happen if I wanted it? There's a pandemic, I don't drink, no bars are open, he and I are still living together.

I don't even want other men. I want to be with him. I have no desire to have anything to do with another man.

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DDirtyDastard
08/13/20 11:24:10 PM
#140:


Jen0125 posted...
How would that even happen if I wanted it? There's a pandemic, I don't drink, no bars are open, he and I are still living together.

I don't even want other men. I want to be with him. I have no desire to have anything to do with another man.

Right. You're stuck now. I could make some predictions, but I won't say it just so I don't persuade you to go against your nature just to spite me.
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wwinterj25
08/13/20 11:34:26 PM
#141:


Jen0125 posted...
I don't even want other men. I want to be with him. I have no desire to have anything to do with another man.

So are you guys going to get back together like last time? I'd assume not as you both want different things but still.


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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 2:22:01 AM
#143:


I got dumped by my gf of 3 years today lol

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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 2:22:53 AM
#144:


my posts do not accurately represent how fucking poorly Im taking this

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ClarkDuke
08/14/20 5:07:40 AM
#145:


DDirtyDastard posted...
I don't even know this chick's situation but based on her posts I could've told you this would happen a long time ago.
you sound exceptionally bitter and you almost seem happy she's sad... i think i smell an unrequited love perhaps, ok?

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Jen0125
08/14/20 9:46:05 AM
#146:


DDirtyDastard posted...
Right. You're stuck now. I could make some predictions, but I won't say it just so I don't persuade you to go against your nature just to spite me.

My nature?

wwinterj25 posted...
So are you guys going to get back together like last time? I'd assume not as you both want different things but still.

I wish but probably not. Even if he said he'd be okay not having kids I couldn't trust that at this point. I just want him to be happy and have the life he wants.

DirtBasedSoap posted...
I got dumped by my gf of 3 years today lol

Nooo why is this happening

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SilentSeph
08/14/20 10:13:31 AM
#147:


So sorry to hear that. Best of luck with your Masters

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Black_Crusher
08/14/20 10:42:27 AM
#148:


Sorry to hear, but now you'll have your pick of roughly 95% of the people here.

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Jen0125
08/14/20 5:08:54 PM
#149:


Please don't send me trashy private messages in regards to this topic

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Blightzkrieg
08/14/20 5:18:15 PM
#150:


Jen0125 posted...
Please don't send me trashy private messages in regards to this topic
what if the messages are unrelated

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