Current Events > Why do people feign confusion over the singular they when it isn't anything new?

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Dreamscissors
07/09/20 11:26:34 AM
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It's been a thing long before anyone currently alive was born and they probably use it themselves without thinking but when confronted with a non binary person who wants to be referred to as they/them there's all this fake confusion and opposition.

It's a little strange

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Questionmarktarius
07/09/20 11:31:56 AM
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Because, outside of casual conversation, it's just plain awkward and unprofessional. Additionally, using plural verbs to refer to a single subject adds ambiguity.

When AP or Reuters start doing it regularly, the awkwardness will probably pass.
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IShall_Run_Amok
07/09/20 11:33:00 AM
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They don't like transgender people.

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_Rinku_
07/09/20 11:43:25 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
Because, outside of casual conversation, it's just plain awkward and unprofessional. Additionally, using plural verbs to refer to a single subject adds ambiguity.

When AP or Reuters start doing it regularly, the awkwardness will probably pass.
Unprofessional? How about you stop dog whistling and just say what you really mean?
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Funkydog
07/09/20 11:45:15 AM
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Some people are just pedantic with language. Some are just transphobic.

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hockeybub89
07/09/20 11:46:50 AM
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Medussa
07/09/20 11:47:14 AM
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using it regarding an unknown person is nothing new. using it for one specific person is.

but to be clear, that's not an excuse. not using it when asked is still incredibly shitty.

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ThePieReborn
07/09/20 11:47:24 AM
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"They" is clunky because I understand the convenience of neutrality, but I'd rather just have a straight up singular neutral pronoun so I'm not stumbling with what to use with "one" or "person."

You'd be surprised how many parts of pleadings and briefs I've had to rewrite because of this dilemma.

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Squall28
07/09/20 11:48:18 AM
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Why not just make a new pronoun?

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Medussa
07/09/20 11:49:43 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Why not just make a new pronoun?

i keep suggesting 'E', but not too many people seem interested.

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gunplagirl
07/09/20 11:50:29 AM
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Intolerance. They'll act like being asked to do the bare fucking minimum is going too far and that suddenly they're the victims because the status quo has completely reversed.

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FortuneCookie
07/09/20 11:52:23 AM
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"he or she" sucks

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ThePieReborn
07/09/20 11:54:36 AM
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FortuneCookie posted...
"he or she" sucks
Notwithstanding the conundrum for folks identifying as non-binary.

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Questionmarktarius
07/09/20 11:59:56 AM
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_Rinku_ posted...
just say what you really mean?
Professional writing is supposed to be quite formal and slightly arrogant.

ThePieReborn posted...
"They" is clunky because I understand the convenience of neutrality, but I'd rather just have a straight up singular neutral pronoun so I'm not stumbling with what to use with "one" or "person."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cCim90WO1-4
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Pus_N_Pecans
07/09/20 12:01:04 PM
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IShall_Run_Amok posted...
They don't like transgender people.
This.

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Squall28
07/09/20 12:05:24 PM
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Medussa posted...
i keep suggesting 'E', but not too many people seem interested.

Back in school, we had to say "one" for our papers, but I haven't seen it used much outside of that and maybe some proverbs. Maybe that would be better?

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IShall_Run_Amok
07/09/20 12:08:47 PM
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Medussa posted...
i keep suggesting 'E', but not too many people seem interested.
What about yee?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6EoRBvdVPQ

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Questionmarktarius
07/09/20 12:12:50 PM
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Medussa posted...
i keep suggesting 'E', but not too many people seem interested.
Or just, you know, glue singular verbs to singular they.
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DevsBro
07/09/20 12:12:59 PM
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Is it an official thing yet? We definitely need something, and this is just as good as any.

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