Current Events > Who is more into *looks* in a person?

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The men or the women?

I think most females would rather not be with a fat guy. While a lot lf men would go for big girls. Generally girls with fat are cute. But fat guys are screwed most of the time.
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Fat guys can get some too. And not always other fatties either.

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This is where 3rd world countries shine, you can be fat but if you have money you can get any hot girl you want since women education and workplace are so poor.

Here in developed nations, women can work and have their own money, so there's literally no reason to be with guys unless they want to. Essentially, we're screwed.

Women want the total package when it comes to guys, which is whatever, I guess. Slay, queen.

Guys usually want attractiveness though, but cast a much wider net anyway because most of us are pretty desperate these days.

Not sure which one is ultimately more shallow. Dating is a trash heap.

Edit: I didn't really answer the question, but the answer is both care about looks. But for women that is a part of an equation that can be mitigated by other factors and for men, a lot will just compromise anyway.

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Definitely men but there's nothing wrong with that

Men want youth and pyhsical beauty, women want security

Noumas posted...

Essentially, we're screwed.

Lol only if you're low tier in everything.

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Noumas posted...

This is where 3rd world countries shine, you can be fat but if you have money you can get any hot girl you want since women education and workplace are so poor.

Here in developed nations, women can work and have their own money, so there's literally no reason to be with guys unless they want to. Essentially, we're screwed.

My dear Noumas, I disagree.

One of my close friends is somewhat blessed with extra adipose tissue. He does not struggle in the slightest in the romantic arena and always seems to pair up with rather attractive women by nights end.

He is, however, quite charming.

Perhaps your weight is an impediment, you could perhaps seek to improve your personality?

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I feel like I see more skinny girls/fat guy couples than I see skinny guy/fat girl couples

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My thicc homies are the ones getting married/booed up the most & earliest tbh

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If you went purely by this board, the answer would be men, though it would be silly to do that right

anyway..

CosmicShadows posted...

I think most females would rather not be with a fat guy. While a lot lf men would go for big girls.

Not true, there are also plenty of women who love big guys, myself included, if anything I find skinniness a turn-off even though I'm pretty skinny myself
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"Probably men," say women. "Probably women," say men.

NotYou posted...

"Probably men," say women. "Probably women," say men.

I feel this is quite accurate

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Women and it isnt close

80/20 rule, google it, debate over

Men act shallow around their friends but privately will lower their standards immediately.

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