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bellydancer
06/26/20 11:22:19 PM
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Is it strange I don't like this? I just feel like its strange when men i don't know act like they're my boyfriend through affectionate/sexual terms

I said "not your babe" to some random guy who messaged me "hey babe" and he went off on me.
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Irony
06/26/20 11:22:45 PM
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What about ho?

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ssj3vegeta
06/26/20 11:22:58 PM
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Guide
06/26/20 11:23:49 PM
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I feel like anyone who does that has an ugly spray tan and parents that divorced when they were 3.

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bellydancer
06/26/20 11:26:10 PM
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ssj3vegeta posted...
calm down babe
why would you blatantly do something i don't like
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Unit7
06/26/20 11:26:32 PM
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It always came off as disrespectful to me.

Also probably a red sign on how they treat women in general.
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bellydancer
06/26/20 11:28:06 PM
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Unit7 posted...
It always came off as disrespectful to me.

Also probably a red sign on how they treat women in general.
especially when they get upset when i tell them that i don't like it

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Rikiaz
06/26/20 11:35:35 PM
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bellydancer posted...
especially when they get upset when i tell them that i don't like it
Yeah that's definitely a huge red flag.

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badwinkles
06/26/20 11:56:23 PM
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you love it

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EffectAndCause
06/26/20 11:58:59 PM
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I thought only gay men did that, like they have those sassy Honey, dont even. personalities.

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Dark_SilverX
06/26/20 11:59:56 PM
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Hey bae whats good wit ya

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NeonOctopus
06/27/20 12:00:21 AM
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Calm yo tits, babe

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Lanzol
06/27/20 12:00:39 AM
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Hey kitten don't worry about those other boys okay ;p
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SpaceBear_
06/27/20 12:04:56 AM
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It's not 'disrespectful' or 'strange' or a 'red flag'. It's how most human beings speak to each other.

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bellydancer
06/27/20 12:06:34 AM
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this was the recent convo that prompted this conversation.

when guys are over sexual in their very first message to you it usually ends like this
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Christian RULES
06/27/20 12:06:52 AM
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okay baby, i won't call you babe

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toyota
06/27/20 12:06:55 AM
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Straight guys do this?

I know a gay guy who does this but i never saw it as a disrespectful thing when im with him when he does it. Does it feel disrespectful even when gays do it?
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NotYou
06/27/20 12:07:16 AM
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SpaceBear_ posted...
It's not 'disrespectful' or 'strange' or a 'red flag'. It's how most human beings speak to each other.
preach it, sweetie
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bellydancer
06/27/20 12:08:23 AM
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toyota posted...
Straight guys do this?
all the fucking time

toyota posted...
I know a gay guy who does this but i never saw it as a disrespectful thing when im with him when he does it. Does it feel disrespectful even when gays do it?
i wouldn't find it disrespectful if a gay guy said it to me
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Officer_Pig
06/27/20 12:11:03 AM
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bellydancer posted...




this was the recent convo that prompted this conversation.

when guys are over sexual in their very first message to you it usually ends like this
Is this through text or something like FB Messenger? Hes literally a random guy?


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NotYou
06/27/20 12:11:25 AM
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But like real talk, all TC does is make topics complaining about guys on dating sites. I assume it's a gimmick, but on the off chance it's not maybe it's time to give IRL dating a try.
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toyota
06/27/20 12:12:11 AM
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Not victim blaming but why do you even have characters like that on your phone in the first place lol?
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badwinkles
06/27/20 12:28:49 AM
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Hahaha

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Pepys Monster
06/27/20 12:32:47 AM
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Sorry about that, babe. I thought you were one of them.

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Guerrilla Soldier
06/27/20 12:53:11 AM
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i think it's pretty weird

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NeonOctopus
06/27/20 5:10:29 AM
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bellydancer posted...




this was the recent convo that prompted this conversation.

when guys are over sexual in their very first message to you it usually ends like this
LMAO

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The_Creep_2020
06/27/20 5:20:11 AM
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I feel that you may need to relax, sweetheart

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CosmicShadows
06/27/20 5:24:23 AM
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I can't stand it when they type *bae*. Like wtf is that supposed to be the gangster way of saying it?
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SpiritSephiroth
06/27/20 5:26:05 AM
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Fenrimis
06/27/20 5:29:19 AM
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I call all females im close with (friends and gfs) shawty and b.

"Hey shawty hows your day going"
"Hey b what have you been up to"

And i'm white so they extra love it

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toyota
06/27/20 5:35:13 AM
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lol like for real who even does this and whats the point of it?

Is it to show off 'confidence' or something? Cos it more so sounds like something some dweeb who is trying to mimic what he thinks a "Chad" does lol
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apolloooo
06/27/20 6:01:22 AM
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bellydancer posted...




this was the recent convo that prompted this conversation.

when guys are over sexual in their very first message to you it usually ends like this
That gotta be a yikes from mw dawg

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Choco
06/27/20 6:43:51 AM
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SpaceBear_ posted...
It's not 'disrespectful' or 'strange' or a 'red flag'. It's how most human beings speak to each other.
lol your trolling's getting too obvious now babe.

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CyricZ
06/27/20 6:46:42 AM
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What if it's Dennis Miller.

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VVALLBOUNCE
06/27/20 7:00:32 AM
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TC dislikes Kendo from RE2
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Vicious_Dios
06/27/20 10:38:33 AM
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Or the premature 'Honey'.

https://youtu.be/TP0d3lj5XcI

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rodu_jr
06/27/20 10:41:07 AM
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cuttin_in_farm
06/27/20 10:43:02 AM
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CosmicShadows posted...
I can't stand it when they type *bae*. Like wtf is that supposed to be the gangster way of saying it?

Its actually an acronym for Before Anyone(thing) Else.

But also double meaning for being short for babe.

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CommonJoe
06/27/20 10:44:58 AM
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Idk im from the south we all do that in some way, men and women and others.

May be its just a yankee thing to get offended by pet names for strangers.

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cuttin_in_farm
06/27/20 10:46:35 AM
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I also dont like random women giving me petnames.

Though I could be naive, but I feel guys who do it are just douchey.

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Choco
06/27/20 10:49:37 AM
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CommonJoe posted...
Idk im from the south we all do that in some way, men and women and others.

May be its just a yankee thing to get offended by pet names for strangers.
the fuck is a yankee

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Megaman50100
06/27/20 10:54:39 AM
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Lul, came in to post the Curb moment.

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Fuparulez
06/27/20 10:56:09 AM
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This is the best virtue signaling I have seen in a while. People pretending they care about other people calling women names. Take off the freaking armor, white knight.

Choco posted...
the fuck is a yankee

Somebody from north of the Mason Dixon line.

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Shablagoo
06/27/20 10:56:48 AM
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bellydancer posted...
Is it strange I don't like this?

Of course not, lol.

Ill take it a step further and say Im put off when guys refer to women as babes, chicks, etc. when talking about them, either about women in general or about a specific person.

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Choco
06/27/20 10:57:15 AM
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Fuparulez posted...
Somebody from north of the Mason Dixon line.
the what

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CommonJoe
06/27/20 10:58:02 AM
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Choco posted...
the what

The M A S O N. D I X O N. L I N E.

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Choco
06/27/20 10:58:46 AM
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CommonJoe posted...
The M A S O N. D I X O N. L I N E.
i feel like you still haven't gotten my point

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Shablagoo
06/27/20 11:00:26 AM
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CommonJoe posted...
Idk im from the south we all do that in some way, men and women and others.

May be its just a yankee thing to get offended by pet names for strangers.

Babe seems a little overt to me, though, especially when used in a private message like this. And in the midwest people talking about babes and chicks use it in more of a derogatory way, like calling them dames or something.

But you may be on to something. I remember one time my older friend calling my mom a sweetheart and she was upset about it. Personally I like when strangers call me sweetheart and stuff like that. But when they say it to me its not meant in a sexual way and I can see how it would be off-putting if it were used that way. But my friend wasnt using it that way on my mom, he was using it in the southern fashion. I think she found it disrespectful or something because shes his elder.

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