Current Events > I've never had sex, is it really that earth shattering?

(+) Yeah! (+)

Lots of guys act like donkey kong to a banana when it comes to men to sex, but porn and self-adjustment has largely wilted to pointlessness with time, so I can't imagine sex being this revolutionary thing for me, am I wrong?

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C if you're lucky enough to have it with a girl you love and feels likewise back to you.
meeh with someone you aren't really into. fapping is better.

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Back_Stabbath posted...

C if you're lucky enough to have it with a girl you love and feels likewise back to you.
meeh with someone you aren't really into. fapping is better.

Honestly I have no libido these days anyway.

I wonder if it's more of a trope than anything that "sex is what men love super much", because very few experiences in life have lived up to the hype

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The first couple of times, no, not really.

Once you find your grooves and kinks it becomes far more interesting.

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With someone you love, it's amazing.

With someone who's essentially a friend to shoot a load inside, it's fun.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BMJnImeXs0o

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With someone that knows what their doing, yes it is

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mrgoatthief posted...

What's libido mean

An instinct in you that makes you want to have sex.

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aren't you the guy who gets annoyed whenever someone mentions sex because they're "not taking the consequences seriously"?

Its the best and addicting as all hell.

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How old are you TC?

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There are things you can take to improve libido, try horny goat weed. I have a relatively low libido most times myself, it give a tremendous boost. It's a great feeling to want to have sex, trust me.

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AceAttorneyist posted...

There are things you can take to improve libido, try horny goat weed. I have a relatively low libido most times myself, it give a tremendous boost. It's a great feeling to want to have sex, trust me.

horny goat weed? that real?

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Lol at all this love shit

You're gonna have sex once and then if you're with the person you're gonna hit this stage in a relationship where all you do is fuck and it's awesome and it lasts for weeks

Then you return to normal.

Or you'll have sex once and If you're not with that person you'll probably do it two or three more times and it'll be a fun morning and then you go home.

It's better than jerking off. Your libido will be there.

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AceAttorneyist posted...

It's a great feeling to want to have sex, trust me.

I know, I've been 13 before.

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Im indifferent to it on a good day, and often feel like I would be fine going the rest of my life without having sex again, but theres fucked up-ass reasons for that. It feels good, physically, but feels good is a spectrum that will vary from person to person and day to day and so on. Sometimes its awesome, sometimes its just good.

Personally, I have too much baggage to really go all-in on it anymore, and people trying to have sex with me mostly just makes me uncomfortable.

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MrResetti posted...

Lol at all this love shit

You're gonna have sex once and then if you're with the person you're gonna hit this stage in a relationship where all you do is fuck and it's awesome and it lasts for weeks

Then you return to normal.

Or you'll have sex once and If you're not with that person you'll probably do it two or three more times and it'll be a fun morning and then you go home.

It's better than jerking off. Your libido will be there.

Someone's dead inside.

;)

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solosnake posted...

horny goat weed? that real?

You can get a 60 count on Amazon for around $15, usually less. I believe you have to take it for awhile before seeing results, but it does work. I've been using it for a couple years

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The tectonic plates shift every time

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Its a lot of fun and unless your with a dead fish its often something people enjoy having an excess of.

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_Kowalski_ posted...

How old are you TC?

How would you respond for each of these ages:

18-20
21-25
26-30
31-35
36-40
41-45
46-50
50+

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Eh... a BJ is just as good if not better.

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Going through a dry spell is far easier when you aren't a virgin, at least.
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Saquon-26- posted...

Eh... a BJ is just as good if not better.

Im usually in this camp to be honest.

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Saquon-26- posted...

Eh... a BJ is just as good if not better.

Well the best times for me are sex then BJ after she tires out. I can't last that long nearly often enough though

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not really. its only good if its with someone you care about, otherwise its masturbation with baggage and extra steps.

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it beats jerking off

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It's really good if it's someone you love

Otherwise if you don't really care about the person, it's bascially just mutual masturbation >_>

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It's my favorite activity

The drugs you get from exploooding after having some ass cheeks bounce off your under-navel area while you squeeze the nether regions into anothers nether regions are truly unparalleled

I mean yea some sex is lame but sometimes its frikkin wild

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Weezy_Tha_Don posted...

it beats jerking off

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joe40001 posted...

act like donkey kong to a banana

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Sex is like a conversation. If you're doing it with someone you know and love, it can be fantastic. If you're doing it with someone you hardly know or have no emotional attachment to, then it's just wasting time.

Its like riding a bike. It sucks at first till you learn to balance and not fall off and hurt yourself.

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eh not really.

at first it is exciting because it's new. but after a while, it's just something you do.

BettyWhite posted...

Someone's dead inside.

;)

No that's called marriage

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Good sex is unbeatable. It is the first time playing your favorite game all over again and eating your favorite dessert; the endorphin drip is as each drop in a storm, and it's a good workout.

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Bare sex is awesome, condom sex not so much. My experience, at least.

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smoke_break posted...

Bare sex is awesome, condom sex not so much. My experience, at least.

Condom sex is still better than no sex

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Truth is, doing anything with someone you love feels amazing. That is because in the two stages of the relationship you have your brain being pelted by either dopamine or oxytoxin.

smoke_break posted...

Bare sex is awesome, condom sex not so much. My experience, at least.

Condom sex fucking sucks

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Tyranthraxus posted...

Condom sex is still better than no sex

I guess.

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yes then no but occasionally yes

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Looked gf posted...

Condom sex fucking sucks

I've never been able to finish with condoms, and sometimes I'd lose my erection altogether.

But I still used them, because I used to have hook-ups, and I'm not stupid.

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Its not a big deal. Sex isn't all the important. But it is a great experience.

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Yes, you are missing out. Fapping is nothing compared to actual sex.

Also the more you have sex, the better you understand your dick. ie I can last quite some time now after the 1st shot, due to me knowing how to breathe properly and pace myself, so I can get the chick off until she wants me to finish (just pump faster/harder).

I only truly loved a girl once, and she loved me back. Unfortunately she was ultra religious and I think her prev bf essentially raped her or something of the sort. She never really gave me the full detail. So she was mega anti-sex b4 marriage

Anyways long story short I wasn't religious lmfao so I guess it was doomed. Everything else was great but yeah I guess that was too big of a hurdle. We even talked about marriage and I said I was gonna make it work and go to church with her on a regular basis, but it wasn't enough.

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joe40001 posted...

How would you respond for each of these ages:

in a healthy adult man, it, and your libido, should be the same at a minimum through your fifties

with your drive waning, you are likely to be disappointed when you have sex for the first time. you may look into addressing in your diet, exercise and lifestyle, as health issues, whether long present or inchoate, could be contributing to a reduced interest in sex and romance

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It's not really that Earth shattering that you haven't had sex.

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