Current Events > I do not have the heart to tell my mother that I am "white"

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Starmieketone
03/27/20 8:56:16 AM
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As context, my mother is half Jewish and a quarter Romany, topped up with assorted European ethnic groups (mostly Anglo-Saxon, etc).

I, on the other hand, am those as well (halved, of course), with a slight additional dash of Jewish from my father, along with a soupon of Aboriginal Australian. Also, topped up with assorted European lineages.

While legally I could identify as Aboriginal Australian, it seems like it would be extremely hypocritical of me to do so, since I have no connection to the Culture and the side of my family I inherited the Aboriginal Australian ancestry From is deeply, deeply racist (except when it serves their purposes financially).

I have no idea whatsoever what Identity Politix would decree, but to me it seems disingenuous.

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Coastal_elite
03/27/20 8:57:36 AM
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basically you're mixed?

And why does it matter?
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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:06:42 AM
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Coastal_elite posted...
basically you're mixed?

And why does it matter?
Personally, I dont believe it should matter at all.

This is something of a steam of consciousness topic that was spurred by a conversation I had with my dear mother around current Identity Politix and the refusal to allow White Heteronormative Cis Males to have any voice in Identity Politix*.

She was of the opinion that technically, I am not white.

Technically, I am not heteronormative either, but thats between myself, my wife and my former partners (and also now Current Events, I suppose?)**

*Please note, I have nothing against the discipline of Identity Politix, but I do believe that everyone has a voice in its discussion.

**I believe the term is bisexual, aka the Diet Coke of gay.


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AmericaTheBrave
03/27/20 9:07:21 AM
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You are a proud person of color.

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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:09:12 AM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
You are a proud person of color.

I have a moon tan.

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DK9292
03/27/20 9:11:20 AM
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Tell her to shut up and mind her own business. Your identity is YOUR identity, not for HER to decide.
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The Trent
03/27/20 9:12:23 AM
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DK9292 posted...
Tell her to shut up and mind her own business. Your identity is YOUR identity, not for HER to decide.

a CEman's guide to interacting with your mother

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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:13:13 AM
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DK9292 posted...
Tell her to shut up and mind her own business. Your identity is YOUR identity, not for HER to decide.
Please calm down. I was not suggesting that I was angst ridden about my mothers suggestion, so please dont feel offended or upset on my behalf.

When it comes to matters of identity, I tend to follow Popeyes example.

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monkmith
03/27/20 9:14:04 AM
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call yourself whatever you want TC, no one of importance gives a fuck.

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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:15:24 AM
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The Trent posted...
a CEman's guide to interacting with your mother

Those Chikkin Nungits dont buy themselves, I suppose

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DK9292
03/27/20 9:17:47 AM
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Starmieketone posted...
Those Chikkin Nungits dont buy themselves, I suppose
WOw, fuck you too.
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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:18:05 AM
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monkmith posted...
call yourself whatever you want TC, no one of importance gives a fuck.

Please see my earlier responses to replies in this topic. I am hardly angst-ridden over it, merely mildly musing.

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Starmieketone
03/27/20 9:20:22 AM
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DK9292 posted...
WOw, fuck you too.
Many apologies, I am happily married. Although, I think one of my friends is currently single if you arent adverse to chin scruff?

He tries so hard to grow a decent beard, yet just manages to cultivate a few straggly strands. He is a very lovely man, however, and will treat you well.

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UnfairRepresent
03/28/20 9:52:24 AM
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Who cares?
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Starmieketone
03/28/20 9:53:37 AM
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Apparently thee, since you have resurrected a topic nobody had posted in for a day.

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ModLogic
03/28/20 9:54:55 AM
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Starmieketone posted...
Aboriginal Australian
do this

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ThyCorndog
03/28/20 9:59:52 AM
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just walk around being the whitest aboriginal in the land

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Veggeta_EDGE
03/28/20 10:02:15 AM
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wtf

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pikachupwnage
03/28/20 10:05:45 AM
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soupon
politix

The fuck?

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