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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 4:26:54 PM
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Got rejected. But I don't feel sad. I feel good. Blissful. Joyful!
Weird huh?
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berlyman101
03/02/20 4:27:12 PM
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Touch
03/02/20 4:28:51 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

You just happened to miss one of the shots you did take. But good on you for courage.

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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 4:36:24 PM
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berlyman101 posted...
just wait for it to set in

At first I was like ohh.
Then I was like ughhh.
Then I wasted an hour staring at my screen like I was blank of all emotions.
Then as the day went on, I felt better and better.
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Chicken
03/02/20 4:37:24 PM
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Thats because youre in the eye of the emotional storm.

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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 4:37:48 PM
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Touch posted...
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

You just happened to miss one of the shots you did take. But good on you for courage.

That's right! I been going to the gym 4 times a week and working on myself. I been changing up my look and getting tons of compliments.
Plenty of QTs out there.
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EffectAndCause
03/02/20 4:40:11 PM
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Asking and getting rejected >>>>>>> not asking and never knowing how it was gonna go
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Lost_All_Senses
03/02/20 4:40:56 PM
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Neh. You could just be optimistic and be proud of yourself for being forward. I had the same experience awhile back and came out feeling good that I tried. This was a girl I crushed on in middle school and then had a couple run ins at parties and one not. She's a mess anyway

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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 4:44:11 PM
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EffectAndCause posted...
Asking and getting rejected >>>>>>> not asking and never knowing how it was gonna go

Yes. It was like a load lifted off me. To be quite literally honest I was in agony over the whole will she say yes or no. Maybe that why I feel good now.

See, I knew she saw this other dude but I had no idea how serious it was or if she might like me more.

I think she still likes me but she just wants that other dude. He probably break her heart and she will want to rebound off me. I have good reasons to believe he do that and she does like me.

But, I ain't got time for that! I will find someone and when she needs a rebound, she can only wish she made the better choice.
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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 4:49:08 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Neh. You could just be optimistic and be proud of yourself for being forward. I had the same experience awhile back and came out feeling good that I tried. This was a girl I crushed on in middle school and then had a couple run ins at parties and one not. She's a mess anyway

Yeah man, I am proud of myself and feel my confidence growing. Next time I will be better at playing the game no doubt.

And you right, many times these girls clutch our hearts with harpy like talons and if our bodies weren't pumping our brains with drug like chemicals we would see they are a big mess.
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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 8:24:35 PM
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berlyman101 posted...
just wait for it to set in


Chicken posted...
Thats because youre in the eye of the emotional storm.

You both are jerks. Make it stop.
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PatrickMahomes
03/02/20 8:27:18 PM
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EffectAndCause posted...
Asking and getting rejected >>>>>>> not asking and never knowing how it was gonna go


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Eevee-Trainer
03/02/20 8:47:29 PM
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Touch posted...
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

You just happened to miss one of the shots you did take. But good on you for courage.


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Ultima Dragon
03/02/20 8:51:31 PM
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EffectAndCause posted...
Asking and getting rejected >>>>>>> not asking and never knowing how it was gonna go

I think it's a huge weight off your shoulders. You don't have to agonize over whether or not she likes you, and you stop trying to impress her or get her to notice you or whatever. It puts a stop to all the "fantasies" in your head about where your relationship might go since she effectively slams the door shut on it.

It's a good thing, because it allows you to 100% fully move on without having to wonder what might have been.

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Umbreon
03/02/20 9:00:40 PM
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Yep. "What if?" will slowly eat you from the inside out.

"No." is something you can get over a lot faster.

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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 9:11:25 PM
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Umbreon posted...
Yep. "What if?" will slowly eat you from the inside out.

"No." is something you can get over a lot faster.

Wow. Great point. And if I move on and the other guy don't work out, she is stuck with what if and not me. Afterall, what if she told me yes.
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inloveanddeath0
03/02/20 9:13:13 PM
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You shoot 100% of the hits you don't make

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ThePusher
03/02/20 9:14:13 PM
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shes banging a chad right now fyi
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WingsOfGood
03/02/20 9:17:35 PM
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ThePusher posted...
shes banging a chad right now fyi

I literally know she is not. The dude she wants lives far away.
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teepan95
03/03/20 5:40:56 AM
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Touch posted...
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

You just happened to miss one of the shots you did take. But good on you for courage.

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Big_Nabendu
03/03/20 5:45:46 AM
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Good on you man. Keep earning those gains. Then they'll hit on you. The shallow ones anyway. But those shallow ones got a mouth.

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ThePusher
03/03/20 6:50:55 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...
I literally know she is not. The dude she wants lives far away.
thats what she told u
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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 9:46:23 AM
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Ugh, my heart is burning today. I have already accepted what happened but my body apparently has not.
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Kitt
03/03/20 9:48:07 AM
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EffectAndCause posted...
Asking and getting rejected >>>>>>> not asking and never knowing how it was gonna go

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berlyman101
03/03/20 12:38:11 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Ugh, my heart is burning today. I have already accepted what happened but my body apparently has not.

berlyman101 posted...
just wait for it to set in


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dave_is_slick
03/03/20 12:44:54 PM
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Just don't pull a me. Get a no to that specific thing but then never actually try again. The that I tried is huge for me, but while it's too late now, it wasn't a hard no to me, just what I had in mind and it sucks that I can see that now.

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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 12:57:52 PM
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dave_is_slick posted...
Just don't pull a me. Get a no to that specific thing but then never actually try again. The that I tried is huge for me, but while it's too late now, it wasn't a hard no to me, just what I had in mind and it sucks that I can see that now.

I just asked for a date and she mentioned the other guy. It wasn't a hard no, but it is clear he is who she wants atm. I didn't get to finish to the part of explaining where I was gonna take her.
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pojr
03/03/20 1:06:00 PM
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at least you tried brah, that is more than most of us can say

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Pepys Monster
03/03/20 1:20:06 PM
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I'm having coffee with my crush today. Then we might get something to eat.

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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 1:21:22 PM
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@Pepys Monster posted...
I'm having coffee with my crush today. Then we might get something to eat.

I was having lunch with mine too. Unless you specified that this is a date, it isn't. We went a couple of time before I got the courage to ask.
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Master_Happosai
03/03/20 1:23:36 PM
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ThePusher posted...
shes banging a chad right now fyi

Rob Van Damme!
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Pepys Monster
03/03/20 1:34:48 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
@

I was having lunch with mine too. Unless you specified that this is a date, it isn't. We went a couple of time before I got the courage to ask.
So you asked her out, went out a couple times, and then got the courage to ask her out, which you already did in the first place? And then got rejected? lol what?

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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 1:38:33 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
So you asked her out, went out a couple times, and then got the courage to ask her out, which you already did in the first place? And then got rejected? lol what?

So you think lunch with a girl is a date? It isn't unless you express the intent is to be romantic. We were friends enjoying each other's company. I asked for a date at the end of one such event with the intent to escalate things.
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Orlando_Jordan
03/03/20 1:43:33 PM
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#JustIncelThings

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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 1:46:38 PM
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Orlando_Jordan posted...
#JustIncelThings

I was not aware incels had lunch with women and then asked to go further.
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Orlando_Jordan
03/03/20 1:50:44 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
I was not aware incels had lunch with women and then asked to go further.
Did you have sex with her, though?

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darkphoenix181
03/03/20 1:55:23 PM
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Good for you tc.
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WingsOfGood
03/03/20 5:21:00 PM
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Wow, it was pretty hard today. Finally faded. I feel like I was in a physical fight.
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