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Solid Snake07 02/22/20 1:34:36 AM #1:	My uncle found him today. They're estimating he's been dead for a couple of days. He sent me a text basically begging me to return his calls a few weeks ago. We've had a turmotulous relationship most of my life, but needless to say I'm feeling like a huge piece of shit right now. We dont really know if it was natural or self inflicted but the details I've heard so far make me think it wasnt intentional. So, yeah. I'm not fishing for condolences. Just a little drunk(about to get a lot more) and venting --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:934716108] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>My uncle found him today. They're estimating he's been dead for a couple of days. He sent me a text basically begging me to return his calls a few weeks ago. We've had a turmotulous relationship most of my life, but needless to say I'm feeling like a huge piece of shit right now. We dont really know if it was natural or self inflicted but the details I've heard so far make me think it wasnt intentional. So, yeah. I'm not fishing for condolences. Just a little drunk(about to get a lot more) and venting </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 02/22/20 1:36:15 AM #2:	I am sorry for your loss. --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:934716146] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>I am sorry for your loss. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 02/22/20 1:37:02 AM #3:	Sorry man. <cite>Zikten posted [p:934716153] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Sorry man. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerKhan420 02/22/20 1:37:29 AM #4:	Welcome to the club. I lost my dad and brother last year, I hate this feeling but it's not going away. On the 23rd will mark 1 full year without him. I miss him and my bro probably for the rest of the time I'm here. --- "I know how the business works because I'm a wrestling fan"-hulkhogan1 <cite>KillerKhan420 posted [p:934716166] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Welcome to the club. I lost my dad and brother last year, I hate this feeling but it's not going away. On the 23rd will mark 1 full year without him. I miss him and my bro probably for the rest of the time I'm here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 02/22/20 1:38:49 AM #5:	I'm sorry to hear. My dad died last year in May. His side of the family didn't relay the information the best way either. Don't beat yourself up. Just be glad if you have any positive memories of him. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:934716188] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry to hear. My dad died last year in May. His side of the family didn't relay the information the best way either. Don't beat yourself up. Just be glad if you have any positive memories of him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Skye Reynolds 02/22/20 1:42:26 AM #6:	I'm sorry. :( <cite>Skye Reynolds posted [p:934716260] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry. :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 02/22/20 1:43:15 AM #7:	That fucking sucks dude, I'm sorry. Try not to beat yourself up over it, there's no way you could have known he was in such a shitty way. Maybe you just thought he was being a drama queen or something, or that it wasn't actually that important and that you'd just get back to him later (which in your mind, was absolutely an option). It's just one of those things we don't take to heart, like.. "Never say goodbye to another person when you're angry" or whatever. We don't ever actually believe that they're just going to be gone. I found out around last Christmas that my dad has emphysema. It's not surprising because he was a smoker most of his life (cigarettes and weed) but to me it means that he most likely hasn't got a lot of time left since he's already in his mid-50's. I'd imagine he could easily get fucked up by pneumonia or something else at some point, or even just have heart failure or attack due to lack of oxygen. Definitely would like to spend more time with him going forward, I don't know how hard it's going to be to lose either him or my mom. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:934716279] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>That fucking sucks dude, I'm sorry. Try not to beat yourself up over it, there's no way you could have known he was in such a shitty way. Maybe you just thought he was being a drama queen or something, or that it wasn't actually that important and that you'd just get back to him later (which in your mind, was absolutely an option). It's just one of those things we don't take to heart, like.. "Never say goodbye to another person when you're angry" or whatever. We don't ever actually believe that they're just going to be gone. I found out around last Christmas that my dad has emphysema. It's not surprising because he was a smoker most of his life (cigarettes and weed) but to me it means that he most likely hasn't got a lot of time left since he's already in his mid-50's. I'd imagine he could easily get fucked up by pneumonia or something else at some point, or even just have heart failure or attack due to lack of oxygen. Definitely would like to spend more time with him going forward, I don't know how hard it's going to be to lose either him or my mom. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
boxington 02/22/20 1:46:32 AM #8:	sorry for your loss, TC. --- b-bb-box <cite>boxington posted [p:934716358] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>sorry for your loss, TC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/22/20 1:53:38 AM #9:	Life can really suck. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:934716527] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Life can really suck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/22/20 1:56:19 AM #10:	Wii_Shaker posted... I'm sorry to hear. My dad died last year in May. His side of the family didn't relay the information the best way either. Don't beat yourself up. Just be glad if you have any positive memories of him. I do have some good memories. They're sprinkled in with a some instances of physical abuse when I was younger unfortunately. I know our relationship wasn't a one way thing, but he did legitimately try to make things "okay" these past couple of years. Probably cause he knew he wasnt long for this world, and I blew him off.........and after everything he did I'm the one left here holding the bag feeling like the asshole --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:934716591] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Wii_Shaker posted... </cite> <quote>I'm sorry to hear. My dad died last year in May. His side of the family didn't relay the information the best way either. Don't beat yourself up. Just be glad if you have any positive memories of him.</quote> I do have some good memories. They're sprinkled in with a some instances of physical abuse when I was younger unfortunately. I know our relationship wasn't a one way thing, but he did legitimately try to make things "okay" these past couple of years. Probably cause he knew he wasnt long for this world, and I blew him off.........and after everything he did I'm the one left here holding the bag feeling like the asshole </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrupt_Power 02/22/20 1:56:54 AM #11:	Jesus dude, I'm sorry. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>Corrupt_Power posted [p:934716599] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Jesus dude, I'm sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
J03can 02/22/20 2:03:45 AM #12:	Sorry to hear bro. Take care of yourself. We care about you --- Jerry, it's Frank Costanza!!! Mr Steinbrenner's here George is dead - call me back!!!! <cite>J03can posted [p:934716732] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear bro. Take care of yourself. We care about you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/22/20 2:10:40 AM #13:	Solid Snake07 posted... I do have some good memories. They're sprinkled in with a some instances of physical abuse when I was younger unfortunately. I know our relationship wasn't a one way thing, but he did legitimately try to make things "okay" these past couple of years. Probably cause he knew he wasnt long for this world, and I blew him off.........and after everything he did I'm the one left here holding the bag feeling like the asshole You cant change the past and hindsight is 20/20 as they say so accept what happened and do your best to move on. Try and remember the good times and keep their memory alive in your heart. If not fine just learn from the experience and grow from it if possible as hopefully your dad wouldnt want you to mope and feel bad for too long. Go and enjoy your life while you can as one day your journey too will end and like I already said you cant change the past so at that final moment you dont want to be filled with regrets of things unfinished or undone. Live life to the fullest for both you and your dad. Or dont only you can decide how to travel on the journey of your life. This has been sappy advice from the local weirdo Mistere Man feel free to ignore their inane rambling and please watch your step as to not get any of the crap spewing from their so called mind on you. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:934716868] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Solid Snake07 posted... </cite> <quote>I do have some good memories. They're sprinkled in with a some instances of physical abuse when I was younger unfortunately. I know our relationship wasn't a one way thing, but he did legitimately try to make things "okay" these past couple of years. Probably cause he knew he wasnt long for this world, and I blew him off.........and after everything he did I'm the one left here holding the bag feeling like the asshole</quote>You cant change the past and hindsight is 20/20 as they say so accept what happened and do your best to move on. Try and remember the good times and keep their memory alive in your heart. If not fine just learn from the experience and grow from it if possible as hopefully your dad wouldnt want you to mope and feel bad for too long. Go and enjoy your life while you can as one day your journey too will end and like I already said you cant change the past so at that final moment you dont want to be filled with regrets of things unfinished or undone. Live life to the fullest for both you and your dad. Or dont only you can decide how to travel on the journey of your life. This has been sappy advice from the local weirdo Mistere Man feel free to ignore their inane rambling and please watch your step as to not get any of the crap spewing from their so called mind on you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/22/20 2:35:17 AM #14:	For the record I lost my dad in December, and today I had to put down a dog I have had for 11 years just after spending a bunch trying to save him last week. Sorry if my post is strange I am not all here anymore. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:934717369] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>For the record I lost my dad in December, and today I had to put down a dog I have had for 11 years just after spending a bunch trying to save him last week. Sorry if my post is strange I am not all here anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
malenz 02/22/20 2:50:35 AM #15:	Holy shit that sucks man. <cite>malenz posted [p:934717679] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Holy shit that sucks man. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/22/20 3:14:12 AM #16:	Mistere Man posted... For the record I lost my dad in December, and today I had to put down a dog I have had for 11 years just after spending a bunch trying to save him last week. Sorry if my post is strange I am not all here anymore. I appreciate the kind words man --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:934718078] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>For the record I lost my dad in December, and today I had to put down a dog I have had for 11 years just after spending a bunch trying to save him last week. Sorry if my post is strange I am not all here anymore.</quote> I appreciate the kind words man </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gguirao 02/22/20 3:14:16 AM #17:	Sorry for your loss. --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. <cite>gguirao posted [p:934718080] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Sorry for your loss. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 02/22/20 3:14:42 AM #18:	I'm so sorry for your loss, and agree with everyone else keep the positive memories alive. Not the same as losing a father, but I lost my grandmother in December. I also just lost a dear family friend who was friends with my grandfather before my parents were born, and was like a grandfather to me, and my OTHER grandmother just found out she has cancer. I say all of that is, Ive been reaching out to a lot of people recently. Friends etc Especially people I've held grudges against or just kinda dropped off on over the years. Not calling to ask for forgiveness or make it a drama, I keep the convo light but just let them know I care. Its amazing how so many people I thought didn't care about me really do. It's been incredibly freeing and it might help you with what youre going through, and it could be a great way to honor your dad. <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:934718088] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>I'm so sorry for your loss, and agree with everyone else keep the positive memories alive. Not the same as losing a father, but I lost my grandmother in December. I also just lost a dear family friend who was friends with my grandfather before my parents were born, and was like a grandfather to me, and my OTHER grandmother just found out she has cancer. I say all of that is, Ive been reaching out to a lot of people recently. Friends etc Especially people I've held grudges against or just kinda dropped off on over the years. Not calling to ask for forgiveness or make it a drama, I keep the convo light but just let them know I care. Its amazing how so many people I thought didn't care about me really do. It's been incredibly freeing and it might help you with what youre going through, and it could be a great way to honor your dad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/22/20 3:15:24 AM #19:	Also thank you to anyone I don't thank directly. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:934718096] in My dad die... [t:78423825]...</cite> <quote>Also thank you to anyone I don't thank directly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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