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Shablagoo
01/26/20 7:48:46 AM
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NeonOctopus
01/26/20 7:49:50 AM
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pegusus123456
01/26/20 7:50:10 AM
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She canoodled his doodle.

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Strider102
01/26/20 7:50:49 AM
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notyourbabynames.com

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unknownhombre
01/26/20 7:50:50 AM
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That was nice of her to visit her family.

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Akagami_Shanks
01/26/20 7:51:00 AM
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NeonOctopus posted...
She fucked him


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Shablagoo
01/26/20 7:51:06 AM
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dats what I said but she said no. Also she never told me it was a man until I asked her, she just said it was her friend from school. They got very drunk too.

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HANGtheDJ_86
01/26/20 7:51:21 AM
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She draped a towel over his oven handle

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Strider102
01/26/20 7:52:18 AM
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Shablagoo posted...
dats what I said but she said no. Also she never told me it was a man until I asked her, she just said it was her friend from school. They got very drunk too.
Yeah, they banged.

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Akagami_Shanks
01/26/20 7:53:17 AM
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Shablagoo posted...
dats what I said but she said no. Also she never told me it was a man until I asked her, she just said it was her friend from school. They got very drunk too.
hid his gender, they definitely boinked. You don't just stay over a guys house while you're in a relationship, especially intoxicated

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KillerSlaw
01/26/20 7:54:11 AM
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You need to have sex with her sister/best friend immediately and then break it off.

If this is not possible, get one last butt bang then ditch her.

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Romulox28
01/26/20 7:55:17 AM
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Cuck a doodle doo

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 7:56:02 AM
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Dont worry too much. CE has a bizarre distrust for anyone who doesnt have a penis. If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.

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TheDogfather
01/26/20 7:57:11 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
Dont worry too much. CE has a bizarre distrust for anyone who doesnt have a penis. If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.
Gwarharhar!

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pegusus123456
01/26/20 7:57:27 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.
Just like it did TC a disservice for her to go immediately jump on that sproingaloingaloing.

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Error1355
01/26/20 8:01:06 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
Dont worry too much. CE has a bizarre distrust for anyone who doesnt have a penis. If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.
Duncanwii, the authority on healthy relationships.

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TheoryzC
01/26/20 8:02:23 AM
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Shablagoo posted...
she just said it was her friend from school. They got very drunk too


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Bass_X0
01/26/20 8:03:21 AM
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Shablagoo posted...
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her fathers? Her brothers? Her uncles?

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TheDogfather
01/26/20 8:05:32 AM
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I know what it's like to lose. To feel so desperately that you're right, yet to fail nonetheless. It's frightening. Turns the legs to jelly. I ask you, to what end? Dread it. Run from it. Destiny arrives all the same.

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Shablagoo
01/26/20 8:19:06 AM
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TheoryzC posted...

https://youtu.be/9aofoBrFNdg

Duncanwii posted...
Dont worry too much. CE has a bizarre distrust for anyone who doesnt have a penis. If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.

Best take in here tbh. I already sent her a text saying Im done, though. :/

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EffectAndCause
01/26/20 8:22:07 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
Cuck a doodle doo

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EffectAndCause
01/26/20 8:23:01 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
Dont worry too much. CE has a bizarre distrust for anyone who doesnt have a penis. If you trust this woman it does both of you a disservice to immediately jump to the worst case scenerio.


Romulox28 posted...
Cuck a doodle doo

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 8:24:39 AM
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Honestly It would surprise me that any of you have partners what with the alarmingly low level of trust you all have for females.

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Looked gf
01/26/20 8:26:17 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
Cuck a doodle doo


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EffectAndCause
01/26/20 8:29:33 AM
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There is no scenario on planet Earth where my girlfriend needs to sleep over another mans house and isnt texting back.

That only happens if your girlfriend is cheating on you.
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Error1355
01/26/20 8:30:27 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
Honestly It would surprise me that any of you have partners what with the alarmingly low level of trust you all have for females.
Duncan, based on everything you've shared on GameFAQs it doesn't sound like you have a girlfriend, you have a person you latch yourself on and she's too shy or socially awkward to tell you to stop.

Anyway, your girlfriend getting drunk and sleeping over a guy's house that you don't know without telling you, and she tried to hide details are like 5 red flags. It would be different if it was a friend you knew and she was letting you know that they couldn't get her home for one reason or another.

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JuanCarlos1
01/26/20 8:31:45 AM
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Dump her Ass ASAP

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Anteaterking
01/26/20 8:33:05 AM
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Error1355 posted...
Anyway, your girlfriend getting drunk and sleeping over a guy's house that you don't know without telling you, and she tried to hide details are like 5 red flags. It would be different if it was a friend you knew and she was letting you know that they couldn't get her home for one reason or another.

This, I've had people sleep over at my house, etc. and it hasn't been a thing, but in all of those situations it was very transparent to the partner of that person what was going on.

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LinkPizza
01/26/20 8:33:29 AM
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Akagami_Shanks posted...
hid his gender, they definitely boinked. You don't just stay over a guys house while you're in a relationship, especially intoxicated

My female friend did all the time. We never had sex...

EffectAndCause posted...
There is no scenario on planet Earth where my girlfriend needs to sleep over another mans house and isnt texting back.

That only happens if your girlfriend is cheating on you.

Not necessarily. This happened to my best friend all the time. She'd come over. We'd play games and get drunk. And she would even realize her phone went off. Or wouldn't even think about picking it up or anything...
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Shablagoo
01/26/20 8:35:47 AM
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Error1355 posted...
Anyway, your girlfriend getting drunk and sleeping over a guy's house that you don't know without telling you, and she tried to hide details are like 5 red flags. It would be different if it was a friend you knew and she was letting you know that they couldn't get her home for one reason or another.

Yeah. In fairness she is bisexual so the gender is somewhat irrelevant in this case. Only, and this may be a problem of mine, I care more if its a man. Also, I have had sex with another girl in front of/with her, and our relationship could possibly be classified as open, but weve never really explicitly confirmed that, and its more the leaving out of details (which again is possibly somewhat irrelevant here, like I said) that bother me.

I dont know. Duncan honestly probably has it right. I could just be being paranoid.

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Akagami_Shanks
01/26/20 8:40:01 AM
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Shablagoo posted...
Yeah. In fairness she is bisexual so the gender is somewhat irrelevant in this case. Only, and this may be a problem of mine, I care more if its a man. Also, I have had sex with another girl in front of/with her, and our relationship could possibly be classified as open, but weve never really explicitly confirmed that, and its more the leaving out of details (which again is possibly somewhat irrelevant here, like I said) that bother me.

I dont know. Duncan honestly probably has it right. I could just be being paranoid.
Of all the people on this website, Duncan is probably the last guy you should listen to tbh

If it was any other poster it would be a rational viewpoint, but because its coming from Duncan, I just disagree with it. Like Error said, they're hiding details, she didn't respect you enough to tell you upfront, or while it was happening. If you want to stay that is also your decision

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 8:44:15 AM
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Error1355 posted...
Duncan, based on everything you've shared on GameFAQs it doesn't sound like you have a girlfriend, you have a person you latch yourself on and she's too shy or socially awkward to tell you to stop.
Shes told me on multiple occasions she considers me her boyfriend. So I will say I will trust her word over someone who has never met either of us.

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Shablagoo
01/26/20 8:47:51 AM
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Akagami_Shanks posted...
If it was any other poster it would be a rational viewpoint,

LOL

I know some users here dont respect Duncan, but I do.

Still, thanks for the advice anyway. She did tell me ahead of time that she was going to a friends, just not that it was a man. Frankly, he could be gay for all I know. Like I said shes bi so the gender really shouldnt be relevant but it clearly is to most of us. But anyway I did break it off because theres no other way to eliminate this brain worm that I have worming around in my brain right now.

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AlisLandale
01/26/20 8:49:07 AM
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I mean, its entirely possible she got too drunk and needed to crash. She could have hidden his gender because she was afraid of this exact scenario. Could have missed her texts because she was
drunk and doing dumb shit or passed out.

But I dont blame you for playing it safe. Its definitely not a good look.

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NeoShadowhen
01/26/20 8:49:20 AM
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LinkPizza posted...
My female friend did all the time. We never had sex...

Not necessarily. This happened to my best friend all the time. She'd come over. We'd play games and get drunk. And she would even realize her phone went off. Or wouldn't even think about picking it up or anything...

They had a boyfriend?
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Shablagoo
01/26/20 8:52:47 AM
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AlisLandale posted...
I mean, its entirely possible she got too drunk and needed to crash. She could have hidden his gender because she was afraid of this exact scenario. Could have missed her texts because she was
drunk and doing dumb shit or passed out.

But I dont blame you for playing it safe. Its definitely not a good look.

She did text me a few times, now that I look back. But the latest one at like midnight was an accidental call and a text saying oops basically. Idk. Probably should be more enlightened about this, and we did talk about it last night for a while, but alas Im not able to be apparently. lol

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Shablagoo
01/26/20 8:54:28 AM
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This is one of the best parts of alcoholism, though I dont have to think about my life for more than like a few hours a day.

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CyricZ
01/26/20 9:01:35 AM
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I've actually been that man who had a girl stay over who was engaged to someone else.

Of course I didn't do anything, but it put in perspective my relationship with her and how what we were doing (essentially being each others confidants) was bad for both of us. I made sure to break it off despite us being friends for five years.

She didn't take it well.

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Jagr_68
01/26/20 9:16:20 AM
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https://youtu.be/Nfrk2UdEOcQ

I'm imagining this happening to TC down the line. Maybe not in song form though.

The drunk theories are bullshit, let's keep it real here. Everyone has a responsibility to be honest in relationships and not play fucking coy about it like "oopity oops, I forgot but there was no sex I swear!".

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 9:29:40 AM
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CyricZ posted...
I've actually been that man who had a girl stay over who was engaged to someone else.

Of course I didn't do anything, but it put in perspective my relationship with her and how what we were doing (essentially being each others confidants) was bad for both of us. I made sure to break it off despite us being friends for five years.

She didn't take it well.
Well I would most certainly hope she didn't. What a terrible thing to do.

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StealthRock
01/26/20 9:35:00 AM
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There is a chance that she cheated, but thats up to you to decide how to proceed. You two dont sound like youre in a super serious relationship so if thats the case i probably wouldnt cry too much about it..

No one here if the moral authority on relationships, and everyone who has been in a relationship who will admit it has been dishonest with their partner at one time or another. All the high horse "leave her now!" Comments dont help anything and just make you double down anyways

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 9:36:49 AM
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StealthRock posted...
and everyone who has been in a relationship who will admit it has been dishonest with their partner at one time or another.
I havent.

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Alteres
01/26/20 9:36:53 AM
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Link is leaving out an important detail.

Also, I want to know what she said when you told her it was over.

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StealthRock
01/26/20 9:48:14 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
I havent.
You have never told even a smalk white lie?

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Kitt
01/26/20 9:51:30 AM
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Error1355 posted...

Duncan, based on everything you've shared on GameFAQs it doesn't sound like you have a girlfriend, you have a person you latch yourself on and she's too shy or socially awkward to tell you to stop.

One minute he's a socially inept man-child that's obsessed with Pokemon and can't even pick up on the most basic comprehension skills.
The next, he's going after others, dropping enlightened tidbits like this, especially in topics dealing with politics and/or relationships.

It's clear that he just likes saying silly shit because he enjoys CE making fun of him or something.
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Lorenzo_2003
01/26/20 10:01:41 AM
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Aww, dont be mad at your girlfriend. I mean I wouldnt blame her for not calling because I have heard its hard to talk when youve got another dudes dick in your mouth. What kind of conversation could you have had like that, anyway?

I think the three of you can still make this relationship work.

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Duncanwii
01/26/20 10:04:39 AM
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Kitt posted...
One minute he's a socially inept man-child that's obsessed with Pokemon and can't even pick up on the most basic comprehension skills.
The next, he's going after others, dropping enlightened tidbits like this, especially in topics dealing with politics and/or relationships.

It's clear that he just likes saying silly shit because he enjoys CE making fun of him or something.
Oh. I'm sorry. I never got the memo that because I'm socially awkward I'm not allowed to have opinions. I'll just make sure to sit over here in the Corner like a good boy from now on. >:(

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Kitt
01/26/20 10:07:27 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
I'll just make sure to sit over here in the Corner like a good boy from now on.

Please.
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SauI_Goodman
01/26/20 10:08:25 AM
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Maybe she's one of those "if i only go down on him it's not cheating" girls. Hopefully she didn't kiss you afterwards!

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