Current Events > CE, do you think my GF is cheating on me or not

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I know I've made some topics about it previously, but I never presented my case in any of them. Now that I'm on my desktop with some vodka, here is my case judge CE :)

Case:
We have guy A, guy B, and guy C lol. I met all of her supposed good guy friends before dating in person in which none I legit saw as friends and did not have an issue with. Early in the stages, we share the people we have hooked up with and I get guy A as a dumb hookup and guy B as an ex. Eventually, guy A randomly pops up as a "friend", but I do not think she remembers that she drunkenly briefly told me about their history lol. Guy A is literally forty from the show "you", rich failed kid that lives off of parents money that is a 26 year old bum living at home. In short summary, Guy A has suddenly become her best friend and she's occasionally using the luxury gym in the neighborhood he lives in.

Guy B is more brief, but she said that he was at some bar on new years and that it was popping. I know it is brief, but he's an ex and she brought up his actual name like I didn't know who it was. As a result, it is obvious that she started texting her ex again.

Guy C is at her work and she said that some coworker told her to talk to him because he was dreamy and that she should talk to him as a backup. Sunday, I see Guy C's name texting her phone hmmm. In addition, I have only seen her on weekends since starting this job despite she was bugging to hang out almost every day while she was at her previous job. Last, she only messages me like at 2 hour time frames occasionally during the week. In conclusion, I think she is cheating, but I will let the CE jury decide whether I should end it or not.

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Stop.

She's cheating and that's okay. Just grab a chair, bring a notepad and sit in the chair and observe every stroke he gives her. Tally everything you witness down including facial experessions.

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nuge posted...

Is she worth all the stress it's causing you?
What does your gut say?
The problem with cheating is you never know till you catch it. Maybe it's your own insecurities?
The most you can do is talk to her about how you feel and see things and go from there.

I already know she's going to deny it though because of her actions

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bump :(

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Arent you planning on cheating on her?

hopefully she is cheating on you

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Bananana posted...

Arent you planning on cheating on her?

hopefully she is cheating on you

guess you did not read the first sentence smh

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just tell her you think you should have an open relationship

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Yes

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start talking to other girls

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Deja Blue 03 posted...

Yes

yeah I know youre not trolling since youre a mod. I appreciate your honest input!

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From what you've posted, it looks like Guy C might be her main, and she might be seeing Guy A on the sly too (or keeping him as backup in case Guy C doesn't work out). By itself, having two former partners be "good guy" friends is kind of a huge red flag, and now she is hardly spending time with you after meeting "dreamy" Guy C? If I were you, I'd have a talk about A and B still being good friends despite the history there, and ask her what is up with the lack of time spent with you. If she doesn't have a really compelling answer, I'd bail.

Men and women absolutely can be friends, but keeping ex-partners close isn't something most people would be OK with in a healthy relationship. Couple that with the hot new guy she sees at work and a decrease in time spent, and it's pretty obvious something is up. Give her a chance to explain, but if it isn't 100% cool after that, escape!

She's getting railed by dudes with way bigger dicks than you.

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Is this the same Indian chick you were talking about a few months ago? The one you didn't want make your GF because she was annoying? Or is this someone else?

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Didn't read but if you have to think that hard about it then you should probably just leave. Even if she isn't you clearly don't trust her.

InfinityMonster posted...

Is this the same Indian chick you were talking about a few months ago? The one you didn't want make your GF because she was annoying? Or is this someone else?

same lol

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