Current Events > My girlfriend's mom expects me to pay for her college

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gna647
11/20/19 7:18:39 AM
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While Im trying to save up for my schooling and paying off my student debt. Not to mention Im only making 17 an hour until my upcoming job which is 26 an hour

Not to mention my girlfriend was using her moms status for financial aid, then she got married for some fucking reason to a guy that makes too much money, thus losing her financial aid. And her new husband doesnt help with my gfs tuition at all.

Why are people so fucking selfish. Theres no benefit for her to get married before her daughter finishes school.
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OpenlyGator
11/20/19 7:23:14 AM
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If she's not your wife, you're not obligated to pay for her life.
She's just a girlfriend...

Her mom can suck eggs.
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
11/20/19 7:25:34 AM
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gna647 posted...

Why are people so fucking selfish. Theres no benefit for her to get married before her daughter finishes school.

ok
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R1masher
11/20/19 7:25:51 AM
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You should put some expectations on the mom, nahmean
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zombiexdeathx
11/20/19 8:27:07 AM
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thats pretty crappy of her

refuse
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cjsdowg
11/20/19 8:32:49 AM
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Just say NO , and if she doesn't like (both your girl and her mom) get AWAY . Most people would not even pay for their wives education much less a gf.
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VanananaHeyHey
11/20/19 8:35:27 AM
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What does your girlfriend think about all this? I would be mortified.

You focus on your school and work, then your girlfriend's if you feel like it's a worthwhile expenditure for you. I would have a serious, long conversation with your girlfriend about what role she sees her mother playing in the rest of her life, because if she (mom) has the audacity to be pulling this on you now, you're not going to have a harmonious time in your first apartment, at your wedding, in your lives together as adults, or whatever fresh hell grandparenting would afford her.

Hit up Reddit's Raised By Narcissists board.
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Master_Bass
11/20/19 8:36:10 AM
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I read the title as your girlfriend's mom expects you to pay for the mom to go to college. I was confused for a second there.

Anyway, you're not responsible to pay for your girlfriend's schooling. She can take out loans like everyone else has to. It sucks, but if she wants to go to school that's what she'll have to do.
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Infost
11/20/19 8:43:52 AM
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
gna647 posted...

Why are people so fucking selfish. Theres no benefit for her to get married before her daughter finishes school.

ok

The mom doesn't have the money to pay and her husband refuses to (what a great guy). In that specific case it'd have been a better choice to just wait on the marriage than to beg TC for money. It's not TC's responsibility.
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EvenSpoonier
11/20/19 8:46:37 AM
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You can't afford it right now. Sure, it would be nice if you could do it, but you are not required to set yourself on fire to keep another person warm.

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gunplagirl
11/20/19 8:53:36 AM
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Only a gf? Unless you feel like she's the one, I wouldn't give it a second thought and say "hell no" to the mother. Even then, if you think she's the one? Unless you're married, she could dump you without any issue and have gotten all of that out of you for free. The mom sounds awful.

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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
11/20/19 10:35:56 AM
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Infost posted...

The mom doesn't have the money to pay and her husband refuses to (what a great guy). In that specific case it'd have been a better choice to just wait on the marriage than to beg TC for money. It's not TC's responsibility.

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cjs28
11/20/19 10:36:46 AM
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Tell that thot to get patrolled
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TheoryzC
11/20/19 10:56:45 AM
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OpenlyGator posted...
If she's not your wife, you're not obligated to pay for her life.
She's just a girlfriend...

Her mom can suck eggs.

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bknight
11/20/19 11:01:24 AM
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There's goes your chance at a three way with the mom and daughter, probably once in a lifetime thing, and you blew it TC.
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spudger
11/20/19 11:08:54 AM
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this seems too stupid to be real

but then again this is america
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Trumpo
11/20/19 11:21:21 AM
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/r/choosingbeggars
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