Current Events > What's the best way to get rid of incels?

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Theyre becoming an issue that needs to be dealt with.

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Witch hazel
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I would say explaining to them how they are wrong, and giving them tips on how to get better, but Tadamoto never listened, so...
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why?
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You must bless the house with sage and holy water

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By putting the incels on FBI watch list if they're not already on one.

Loose women.
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Just send anyone on the incel subreddits to prison

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Legalized prostitution
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Stop talking about and treating them like they're all terrible people when that's not the case.

I know the "one bad apple spoils the bunch" saying but not every single "incel" is a terrible person who hate women and want to commit crimes and crap like that.

Most just want to get laid & aren't misogynist or crazy screwed up people.
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leebul posted...

Most just want to get laid & aren't misogynist or crazy screwed up people.

Well they aren't incels then. That's what is implied with incels.

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REMercsChamp posted...

leebul posted...

Most just want to get laid & aren't misogynist or crazy screwed up people.

Well they aren't incels then. That's what is implied with incels.

But it isn't

DarthAragorn posted...

But it isn't

So why did r/incels get banned again?

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Hook them up with women from third world countries that are looking for a green card

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REMercsChamp posted...

leebul posted...

Most just want to get laid & aren't misogynist or crazy screwed up people.

Well they aren't incels then. That's what is implied with incels.

Actually incel stands for involuntary celibate, it doesn't have anything in its definition about them hating women or being crazy and things like that.

I don't know why people these last couple of years want to seem to care so much about some people on the internet like this.
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leebul posted...

Actually incel stands for involuntary celibate, it doesn't have anything in its definition about them hating women or being crazy and things like that.

I don't know why people these last couple of years want to seem to care so much about some people on the internet like this.

That's the literal meaning. But places like r/incels are the modern face of the incel community.

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Gently remind them that women are people and you can talk to them like they're people
That porn and the extremely transactional nature of video game relationships are not the way the real world works
That if they want a high-quality partner, they themselves also have to be a high-quality partner
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REMercsChamp posted...

leebul posted...

Actually incel stands for involuntary celibate, it doesn't have anything in its definition about them hating women or being crazy and things like that.

I don't know why people these last couple of years want to seem to care so much about some people on the internet like this.

That's the literal meaning. But places like r/incels are the modern face of the incel community.

Well, it shouldn't be, not all the people who are involuntary celibate are terrible people. Some screwed up place on the internet shouldn't mean all of those people get grouped in and seen as bad people because of a message board on Reddit or anywhere else.
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leebul posted...

Well, it shouldn't be, not all the people who are involuntary celibate are terrible people. Some screwed up place on the internet shouldn't mean all of those people get grouped in and seen as bad people because of a message board on Reddit or anywhere else.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

It is what it is. Deny it all you like.

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Id answer but itd get me warned.

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REMercsChamp posted...

leebul posted...

Well, it shouldn't be, not all the people who are involuntary celibate are terrible people. Some screwed up place on the internet shouldn't mean all of those people get grouped in and seen as bad people because of a message board on Reddit or anywhere else.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

It is what it is. Deny it all you like.

I'm not denying it, i'm just saying people shouldn't be demonized and be automatically seen as a bad person just because of some place on the internet.
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Cant say I get incels tbh. I would assume most just expect girls to ask them out. Sorry guys but thats unlikely. I really doubt many are proactive in trying to get laid.
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leebul posted...

I'm not denying it, i'm just saying people shouldn't be demonized and be automatically seen as a bad person just because of some place on the internet.

They're not. If you don't identify with the incel community, no one is going to give a shit about your sexual activities. If you go around calling yourself an incel, well.

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Buy all of them mail order brides. Problem solved
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pls posted...

Legalized prostitution

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Research into the causes behind becoming incels. Treating symptom won't be as effective as treating the cause

REMercsChamp posted...

leebul posted...

I'm not denying it, i'm just saying people shouldn't be demonized and be automatically seen as a bad person just because of some place on the internet.

They're not. If you don't identify with the incel community, no one is going to give a shit about your sexual activities. If you go around calling yourself an incel, well.

Lol that's bullshit

DarthAragorn posted...

Lol that's bullshit

Why would anyone care about some random person and if they're having sex or not. No one cares.

If you identify with the incel community then you're identifying with everything in that wikipedia article. That's when people will "look down on you" or whatever you perceive this to be.

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REMercsChamp posted...

DarthAragorn posted...

Lol that's bullshit

Why would anyone care about some random person and if they're having sex or not. No one cares.

If you identify with the incel community then you're identifying with everything in that wikipedia article. That's when people will "look down on you" or whatever you perceive this to be.

yeah that's why virgin is never ever used as an insult

K man. You're starting to sound a bit incelish yourself there. I'd take a look at where your life is heading.

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I care as far as preventing shooting deaths. I am against violence and I wish for a more peaceful society.

Treating incels however that might reasonably be done will lead to fewer people becoming radicalized, fewer people adopting what appears to be an extremely radical and violent belief system therefore fewer people driven to commit a mass shooting. Currently it appears that radicalization is happening at an ever accelerating rate, so it is in the interest of society to attempt to counter this.

It seems to me as though some form of intervention by society is required, or else things will only get much worse given that the frequency and severity of mass shootings is rapidly increasing over time.

By giving them gfs duh
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Therapy
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Well female incels aren't typically a thing.

So basically just treat men and women the same and incel would vanish. I don't get what's so hard about equality.
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well a woman actually invented the incel term. also she is upset at how incel has turned into a terrorist thing.

Febrel posted...

Well female incels aren't typically a thing.

So basically just treat men and women the same and incel would vanish. I don't get what's so hard about equality.

incel detected
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Oh, but as for the topic: It would be good to have bootcamps to essentially teach people how to be functional. That, and some initiative to get people to actually see therapists.
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Guide posted...

Febrel posted...

Well female incels aren't typically a thing.

So basically just treat men and women the same and incel would vanish. I don't get what's so hard about equality.

incel detected

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

Estimates of the overall size of the community vary greatly. They are considered mostly male and heterosexual, but sources disagree on the subject of ethnic makeup.

You endorsed this article in the other topic. Yet you apparently didn't actually read what it said.

If using the Wiki definition of incel makes you incel, I'm pretty sure you incel'd first. Or... you're a troll.
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Yeah no, I read that, and I still take issue with your post. Being a minority group doesn't make that group "not a thing", is the point.
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Once they're in their 20's, I'm at a loss. Maybe they can get better after that, but changing a person's negative viewpoints and unpleasant habits is only gonna get harder as they get older.

Teenage incels, though - if they're given a supportive friend circle and aren't being fed bitter lies by a toxic influencer, they can still course-correct and grow up right. Take a teenager out of a space that endorses misogyny and bolsters feelings of entitlement, and they have an inherently better chance of not being screwed up later in life.
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Guide posted...

Yeah no, I read that, and I still take issue with your post. Being a minority group doesn't make that group "not a thing", is the point.

And taking issue with a post's phrasing justifies calling someone a fucking incel.

Learn figure of speech. Typically not a thing means it's rare, not nonexistent. I didn't say it's literally never ever a thing.

You don't get to toss the term around as liberally as you do, then turn around and go "no no no that's not an incel" in other cases. Don't be a hypocrite.
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Giving theses man a sense of self worth outside of woman, sex is a start. Becuase at the end of the day that's the root of it all.

If a guys got none of that society couldnt give two f***s about them or whatever else they accomplish in life. This is why video games is becoming more and more popular among man. It gives them the self satisfaction, validation, and sense of want they generally lack in real life.
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Febrel posted...

Guide posted...

Yeah no, I read that, and I still take issue with your post. Being a minority group doesn't make that group "not a thing", is the point.

And taking issue with a post's phrasing justifies calling someone a fucking incel.

Learn figure of speech. Typically not a thing means it's rare, not nonexistent. I didn't say it's literally never ever a thing.

You don't get to toss the term around as liberally as you do, then turn around and go "no no no that's not an incel" in other cases. Don't be a hypocrite.

I've been consistent with my usage of incel, and I seem to have hit a nerve. Am I wrong about you?
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make hookers legal
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Guide posted...

Febrel posted...

Guide posted...

Yeah no, I read that, and I still take issue with your post. Being a minority group doesn't make that group "not a thing", is the point.

And taking issue with a post's phrasing justifies calling someone a fucking incel.

Learn figure of speech. Typically not a thing means it's rare, not nonexistent. I didn't say it's literally never ever a thing.

You don't get to toss the term around as liberally as you do, then turn around and go "no no no that's not an incel" in other cases. Don't be a hypocrite.

I've been consistent with my usage of incel, and I seem to have hit a nerve. Am I wrong about you?

Nazi detected.

Does that make sense to you? No? Then you understand why I find your original response dumb.
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FFT-Fan posted...

Research into the causes behind becoming incels. Treating symptom won't be as effective as treating the cause

Oh, we already know why this is happening. It's much more difficult to get a girlfriend nowadays than a decade before thanks to tinder and other online dating resources. Women get insane amounts of attention so they only choose from the cream of the crop.

The solution to this problem is unfortunately a big sacrifice to women's freedoms, limiting birth control. Birth control is what allows Tinder to function as women can experiment freely without consequences. Take that away and they have no choice but to be considerably more conservative as the risks would be too great.

EDIT: Now that I think about it, ease of access of birth control limits the amount unwanted kids. So the solution is more complicated with this current culture.

ThyCorndog posted...

make hookers legal

They can go to hookers, just like femcels can whip up Tinder and grab a date to get laid. The reality is that they're looking for love, to feel wanted. Sex is just a tangible act of validation.
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Febrel posted...

Guide posted...

Febrel posted...

Guide posted...

Yeah no, I read that, and I still take issue with your post. Being a minority group doesn't make that group "not a thing", is the point.

And taking issue with a post's phrasing justifies calling someone a fucking incel.

Learn figure of speech. Typically not a thing means it's rare, not nonexistent. I didn't say it's literally never ever a thing.

You don't get to toss the term around as liberally as you do, then turn around and go "no no no that's not an incel" in other cases. Don't be a hypocrite.

I've been consistent with my usage of incel, and I seem to have hit a nerve. Am I wrong about you?

Nazi detected.

Does that make sense to you? No? Then you understand why I find your original response dumb.

Am I wrong about you? Are you not an incel?
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Laserion posted...

I would say explaining to them how they are wrong, and giving them tips on how to get better, but Tadamoto never listened, so...

Tadamoto is Scotty "I faked my suicide for attention" Rogers lol

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Sad_Face posted...

The reality is that they're looking for love, to feel wanted. Sex is just a tangible act of validation.

Lol no they're not. I guarantee most, if not all these dweebs would calm the hell down once they got their dicks wet at least once. People just don't want to feel left out when everyone else is out getting fucked (or doing the fucking).
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