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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:23:08 PM
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the tl;dr version of the last topic is that one of my gf's coworkers hooked up with another coworker. her husband found out. he told her they were going to get divorced unless she quit her job, but she refused. he didnt divorce her, they were supposedly going to try to work it out.

a few short weeks later, they had a conference out of town and those two coworkers hooked up again during that conference. Im not sure if her husband some how found out about that (he originally found out they hooked up because he used one of those apps that copies text messages and sends them to another phone or w/e) but now he is saying he's done trying to make it work. pretty understandably imo.

I think its partially some kind of quarter life crisis thing. She and her husband married when they were 22 and she complained a lot about him being away from home since he's in the military. she said she was jealous he got to hang out with his friends and go out while she was stuck at home with the kids. she even said she wasnt gonna try to keep their kids in the divorce proceedings, I guess to ho it up more

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Awesome
09/16/19 12:25:17 PM
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moral of the story is for men to take their time to find quality women.
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R1masher
09/16/19 12:26:06 PM
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I think this is just your gf telling you stories to gauge your reaction when the shoe drops
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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:26:38 PM
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Awesome posted...
moral of the story is for men to take their time to find quality women.


but the other coworker cheated on his wife too

R1masher posted...
I think this is just your gf telling you stories to gauge your reaction when the shoe drops


lol guess we'll see

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The Trent
09/16/19 12:26:47 PM
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that slut needs the pipe
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Inappropriate
09/16/19 12:27:18 PM
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The older I get, the more I start to actually feel empathy for stuff like:

she said she was jealous he got to hang out with his friends and go out while she was stuck at home with the kids.

Seen too many cases it. Doesn't justify the cheating, of course.
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Awesome
09/16/19 12:27:22 PM
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Balrog0 posted...
Awesome posted...
moral of the story is for men to take their time to find quality women.


but the other coworker cheated on his wife too

R1masher posted...
I think this is just your gf telling you stories to gauge your reaction when the shoe drops


lol guess we'll see


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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:28:12 PM
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Inappropriate posted...
The older I get, the more I start to actually feel empathy for stuff like:

she said she was jealous he got to hang out with his friends and go out while she was stuck at home with the kids.

Seen too many cases it. Doesn't justify the cheating, of course.


Oh I definitely feel sympathetic about their awful relationship, I guess I feel less sympathy when it seems the children are kind of lost in the shuffle, though

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Rigama
09/16/19 12:29:41 PM
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He should've dumped her the first time tbh
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HasaDiga
09/16/19 12:30:02 PM
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True and lasting love seems to be reserved for your children.
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Jiggy101011
09/16/19 12:30:47 PM
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IIRC the guy she cheated with is also married and had kids right? Does his wife know?
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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:32:21 PM
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Jiggy101011 posted...
IIRC the guy she cheated with is also married and had kids right? Does his wife know?


Well, the first coworker's husband messaged the second coworkers wife about it on the ol facebook but she blocked him immediately after she got the message. She was already suspicious before that, so I'm not sure what she knows or suspects.

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emblem boy
09/16/19 12:35:34 PM
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Didn't the husband email the boss also? Anything happen regarding that?
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AlecSkorpio
09/16/19 12:38:53 PM
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she even said she wasnt gonna try to keep their kids in the divorce proceedings, I guess to ho it up more


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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:44:09 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Didn't the husband email the boss also? Anything happen regarding that?


The boss called her into the office to talk about it, which is when she said she wasn't going to try to keep her kids (not sure how that came up in that conversation but that's where it came up apparently). I'm sure they talked about more stuff but that's all that's gotten back to me lol

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AlecSkorpio
09/16/19 12:45:13 PM
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Balrog0 posted...
emblem boy posted...
Didn't the husband email the boss also? Anything happen regarding that?


The boss called her into the office to talk about it, which is when she said she wasn't going to try to keep her kids (not sure how that came up in that conversation but that's where it came up apparently). I'm sure they talked about more stuff but that's all that's gotten back to me lol


Probably blew him
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Veggeta_MAX
09/16/19 12:45:16 PM
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I dunno how anyone would put up with cheating. I would leave that person so fast, I don't care what it is.
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Balrog0
09/16/19 12:47:10 PM
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AlecSkorpio posted...
Probably blew him


the boss is a lady

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AlecSkorpio
09/16/19 12:48:32 PM
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Balrog0 posted...
AlecSkorpio posted...
Probably blew him


the boss is a lady


Probably scissored her
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Hanky_Bannister
09/16/19 12:50:20 PM
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welp.

dont get married folks

thats the lesson here

shit never ends well
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Sada_Pop
09/16/19 1:06:33 PM
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Dude had a meltdown the first time. Hope he gets help so he doesn't do anything he'll regret.
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emblem boy
09/16/19 1:10:12 PM
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I'd love to by a fly in their house...
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Cleo_II
09/16/19 1:21:33 PM
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Shes in for a harsh wake up call when she finds out the other man wont leave his wife for her, which is what usually happens in these scenarios.
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Balrog0
09/16/19 1:23:39 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
Shes in for a harsh wake up call when she finds out the other man wont leave his wife for her, which is what usually happens in these scenarios.


yeah, I believe you are correct.

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emblem boy
09/16/19 1:33:32 PM
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Ya, is she actually trying to get with this other guy, or just fuck to fuck.
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Balrog0
09/16/19 1:34:57 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Ya, is she actually trying to get with this other guy, or just fuck to fuck.


Prior to hooking up with him, when it seemed like she was maybe trying to be faithful, she talked to my gf about how she did have feelings for him and it was a change because she wasn't talking to him like she used to. But she said something like 'its not like I was expecting a happily ever after thing but..." which to me is a like 'the lady doth protest too much' kind of thing

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HasaDiga
09/16/19 1:37:28 PM
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Hanky_Bannister posted...
welp.

dont get married folks

thats the lesson here

shit never ends well

After what I just dealt with and the upcoming court situation, I'll stick to my hands. They've never done me wrong and I have two of 'em.
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BillyKidd
09/16/19 1:45:23 PM
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Oops, she did it again
She played with his balls
Got lost in the mane
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