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Kisai
08/25/19 5:00:01 AM
#152:


Most of them will tell you when you hook up anyway.
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 5:00:18 AM
#153:


Nobody has to enter a romantic relationship with someone who's transgender. But if it's that big of an issue for you, then the onus should be on you to find out. Not on them to offer it. If they decide to offer it right away for their own safety or out of respect for you, it'll be their decision, not yours.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:15:45 AM
#155:


^That's going to be a warn minimum. Hopefully suspension.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:15:59 AM
#156:


Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
And there it is. The obligatory comparison to racism *eye roll*

Just because some men are ok with it doesnt mean all men are. Stop forcing your warped, babby feeling driven views on others simply because you cant except reality

And for your info. It DOES matter that i dont want to have sex with biological men. If thats what someone is trying to hide from me because they cant except that fact that some men dont want that, then tough. They should learn to face reality.


Pretty small-minded of you. Are you a child? Its against ToS to be under 13 and make an account here, FYI.

Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:17:08 AM
#157:


StealthRock posted...
Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell

He never said anything about sexuality.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:18:58 AM
#158:


Kisai posted...
Most of them will tell you when you hook up anyway.

Good. Those that do are morally upstanding and respectful human beings
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:19:39 AM
#159:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell

He never said anything about sexuality.

You never said anything of substance
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:20:16 AM
#160:


StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell

He never said anything about sexuality.

You never said anything of substance

Objectively wrong.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:22:01 AM
#161:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
Gender is not sex. Even you liberals ackowledge that. They are still biologically men. Gender has fuck to do with it. I and many men do not wish to have sex with members of the same sex

Boo hoo for you, their right to control their own personal details trumps your bigotry.

Boo hoo. The right to lie trumps my right to not be tricked
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:22:29 AM
#162:


StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
And there it is. The obligatory comparison to racism *eye roll*

Just because some men are ok with it doesnt mean all men are. Stop forcing your warped, babby feeling driven views on others simply because you cant except reality

And for your info. It DOES matter that i dont want to have sex with biological men. If thats what someone is trying to hide from me because they cant except that fact that some men dont want that, then tough. They should learn to face reality.


Pretty small-minded of you. Are you a child? Its against ToS to be under 13 and make an account here, FYI.

Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell


I didnt mean that at all. Sorry, didnt realize you werent into women. I guess we misunderstood each other.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:23:58 AM
#163:


StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
Gender is not sex. Even you liberals ackowledge that. They are still biologically men. Gender has fuck to do with it. I and many men do not wish to have sex with members of the same sex

Boo hoo for you, their right to control their own personal details trumps your bigotry.

Boo hoo. The right to lie trumps my right to not be tricked

They aren't lying, you aren't being tricked, and their rights trump yours here full stop.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:25:25 AM
#164:


Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
And there it is. The obligatory comparison to racism *eye roll*

Just because some men are ok with it doesnt mean all men are. Stop forcing your warped, babby feeling driven views on others simply because you cant except reality

And for your info. It DOES matter that i dont want to have sex with biological men. If thats what someone is trying to hide from me because they cant except that fact that some men dont want that, then tough. They should learn to face reality.


Pretty small-minded of you. Are you a child? Its against ToS to be under 13 and make an account here, FYI.

Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell


I didnt mean that at all. Sorry, didnt realize you werent into women. I guess we misunderstood each other.

I am into women. Natural ones though.

Its ok if your are into augmented former men. But dont try to act like you are some type of superior being because of it
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Dingydang166
08/25/19 5:25:35 AM
#165:


OctilIery posted...
^That's going to be a warn minimum. Hopefully suspension.


Did I ruin super baby funtime?
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:27:16 AM
#166:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
Gender is not sex. Even you liberals ackowledge that. They are still biologically men. Gender has fuck to do with it. I and many men do not wish to have sex with members of the same sex

Boo hoo for you, their right to control their own personal details trumps your bigotry.

Boo hoo. The right to lie trumps my right to not be tricked

They aren't lying, you aren't being tricked, and their rights trump yours here full stop.

You are being deceptive if you feel like a vital detail like that is something you should hide because you fear them not being into it and you know where they stand. I dont see why you cant wrap your head around this. Oh yea, liberal logic
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gmanthebest
08/25/19 5:27:43 AM
#167:


Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:27:51 AM
#168:


StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
And there it is. The obligatory comparison to racism *eye roll*

Just because some men are ok with it doesnt mean all men are. Stop forcing your warped, babby feeling driven views on others simply because you cant except reality

And for your info. It DOES matter that i dont want to have sex with biological men. If thats what someone is trying to hide from me because they cant except that fact that some men dont want that, then tough. They should learn to face reality.


Pretty small-minded of you. Are you a child? Its against ToS to be under 13 and make an account here, FYI.

Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell


I didnt mean that at all. Sorry, didnt realize you werent into women. I guess we misunderstood each other.

I am into women. Natural ones though.

Its ok if your are into augmented former men. But dont try to act like you are some type of superior being because of it


You appear to have a misinformed understanding of trans people. Not saying that makes me superior.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:28:02 AM
#169:


Dingydang166 posted...
OctilIery posted...
^That's going to be a warn minimum. Hopefully suspension.


Did I ruin super baby funtime?

No, you just referred blatantly offensively to a bunch of people using a slur.
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:28:35 AM
#170:


gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:29:04 AM
#171:


StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.
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Dingydang166
08/25/19 5:29:51 AM
#172:


OctilIery posted...
No, you just referred blatantly offensively to a bunch of people using a slur.


Is that an actual popular slur people use? I just made it up. Nice.
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AirFresh
08/25/19 5:30:11 AM
#173:


Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Then all you need to know if you need a condom or not. Dude this argument really sucks.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:34:24 AM
#174:


Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
Shablagoo posted...
StealthRock posted...
And there it is. The obligatory comparison to racism *eye roll*

Just because some men are ok with it doesnt mean all men are. Stop forcing your warped, babby feeling driven views on others simply because you cant except reality

And for your info. It DOES matter that i dont want to have sex with biological men. If thats what someone is trying to hide from me because they cant except that fact that some men dont want that, then tough. They should learn to face reality.


Pretty small-minded of you. Are you a child? Its against ToS to be under 13 and make an account here, FYI.

Me not sharing your sexuality makes me a child now. Wow. Liberal logic in a nutshell


I didnt mean that at all. Sorry, didnt realize you werent into women. I guess we misunderstood each other.

I am into women. Natural ones though.

Its ok if your are into augmented former men. But dont try to act like you are some type of superior being because of it


You appear to have a misinformed understanding of trans people. Not saying that makes me superior.

Nah. My info is based on science. Not feelings
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gmanthebest
08/25/19 5:34:33 AM
#175:


Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:35:46 AM
#176:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 5:36:06 AM
#177:


gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:36:24 AM
#178:


gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.

Having children is not usually something people talk about when hooking up for the first time with a stranger. In fact, many would consider bringing that subject up a major faux pas.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:36:45 AM
#179:


StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.
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AirFresh
08/25/19 5:37:37 AM
#180:


Dragonblade01 posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.

Horrible argument. It would just make the one night stand consequence free. I am not getting your logic here.
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AirFresh
08/25/19 5:39:12 AM
#181:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.

You are so freaking self righteous and snoozevil. What are your personal experiences with transgendered people
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:42:15 AM
#182:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.

Well put your brain to use and think up a knew catch phrase instead of living in lala gender bender land
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:43:37 AM
#183:


StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.

Well put your brain to use and think up a knew catch phrase instead of living in lala gender bender land

Why would I make something new when what I have is all I need to deal with you?
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 5:43:48 AM
#184:


AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.

Horrible argument. It would just make the one night stand consequence free. I am not getting your logic here.

Well, considering that I'm not making an argument at the moment, it probably would be a horrible one. I'm asking a question to try and figure out where you draw the line between information someone should and should not be legally obliged to reveal. And so far the answers seem to skirt around the obligatory part, and just go towards the part where it would be preferable for them to be upfront. Which isn't really the issue here. Even I agree that it would likely be in people's best interests to be upfront about information that might be important to their partner. But the question I'm asking is should they be obligated to do it.
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AirFresh
08/25/19 5:48:14 AM
#185:


Dragonblade01 posted...
AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.

Horrible argument. It would just make the one night stand consequence free. I am not getting your logic here.

Well, considering that I'm not making an argument at the moment, it probably would be a horrible one. I'm asking a question to try and figure out where you draw the line between information someone should and should not be legally obliged to reveal. And so far the answers seem to skirt around the obligatory part, and just go towards the part where it would be preferable for them to be upfront. Which isn't really the issue here. Even I agree that it would likely be in people's best interests to be upfront about information that might be important to their partner. But the question I'm asking is should they be obligated to do it.

Yes. I am pro LGBT but hiding that act means you ae no proud of who you are. I am sorry but if youchsnge your gender you are transsexual by nature. And own it with pride. Having babies is very important to me and I scientifically cannot have babies with you.
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gmanthebest
08/25/19 5:49:22 AM
#186:


Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.

Having children is not usually something people talk about when hooking up for the first time with a stranger. In fact, many would consider bringing that subject up a major faux pas.

Not really. Maybe get out there in the real world and see how it is. The only people who aren't upfront about it are serious scumbags
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:51:09 AM
#187:


AirFresh posted...
hiding that act means you ae no proud of who you are.

Objectively wrong.

AirFresh posted...
I am sorry but if youchsnge your gender you are transsexual by nature.

Transgender, not transsexual, and they don't change their gender.
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:51:34 AM
#188:


OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.

Well put your brain to use and think up a knew catch phrase instead of living in lala gender bender land

Why would I make something new when what I have is all I need to deal with you?

Lol you have dealt with anything. Your argument is both morally and logically unsound.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:52:22 AM
#189:


gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.

Having children is not usually something people talk about when hooking up for the first time with a stranger. In fact, many would consider bringing that subject up a major faux pas.

Not really. Maybe get out there in the real world and see how it is. The only people who aren't upfront about it are serious scumbags

.No, he's completely right. Never mind that we're talking about casual hookups, not dating or relationships, but even in dating talking about kids like that on the first date before you even know each other is generally looked down on, because it's a pretty serious subject for a first date.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 5:52:44 AM
#190:


StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
OctilIery posted...
StealthRock posted...
You are being deceptive

Objectively wrong.

Try expanding your vocabulary

I swear you repeating the same thing over and over doesnt make it correct or cool

It being correct is what makes it correct. I'll use more words when you give me a reason to.

Well put your brain to use and think up a knew catch phrase instead of living in lala gender bender land

Why would I make something new when what I have is all I need to deal with you?

Lol you have dealt with anything. Your argument is both morally and logically unsound.

Objectively wrong.
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:54:11 AM
#191:


gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.

Having children is not usually something people talk about when hooking up for the first time with a stranger. In fact, many would consider bringing that subject up a major faux pas.

Not really. Maybe get out there in the real world and see how it is. The only people who aren't upfront about it are serious scumbags

Lol bro, what? You talk about having children on a first date or with a hookup at the club? Are you trolling me?
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StealthRock
08/25/19 5:54:47 AM
#192:


OctilIery posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Shablagoo posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

Even for a one-night stand?

Sure. Never know what a one-night stand can turn into.

Having children is not usually something people talk about when hooking up for the first time with a stranger. In fact, many would consider bringing that subject up a major faux pas.

Not really. Maybe get out there in the real world and see how it is. The only people who aren't upfront about it are serious scumbags

.No, he's completely right. Never mind that we're talking about casual hookups, not dating or relationships, but even in dating talking about kids like that on the first date before you even know each other is generally looked down on, because it's a pretty serious subject for a first date.

Not really. Depends on who you date. People dating for long term partners should absolutely talk about about their plans for kids on the first date.

Maybe try dating "women" who can have kids and youll know that.
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 5:54:59 AM
#193:


AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.

Horrible argument. It would just make the one night stand consequence free. I am not getting your logic here.

Well, considering that I'm not making an argument at the moment, it probably would be a horrible one. I'm asking a question to try and figure out where you draw the line between information someone should and should not be legally obliged to reveal. And so far the answers seem to skirt around the obligatory part, and just go towards the part where it would be preferable for them to be upfront. Which isn't really the issue here. Even I agree that it would likely be in people's best interests to be upfront about information that might be important to their partner. But the question I'm asking is should they be obligated to do it.

Yes. I am pro LGBT but hiding that act means you ae no proud of who you are. I am sorry but if youchsnge your gender you are transsexual by nature. And own it with pride. Having babies is very important to me and I scientifically cannot have babies with you.

Act? Can't have babies with me? What on earth are you talking about? Nothing you said has anything to do with the question I posed.
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 5:56:16 AM
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StealthRock posted...
Your argument is both morally and logically unsound.

...huh?
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AirFresh
08/25/19 5:58:55 AM
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Here is the dead truth on the matter. If you change your gender you are objectiely transgendered. It is not a term, it is a fact. You. Are. Transgendered.
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Shablagoo
08/25/19 5:59:35 AM
#196:


AirFresh posted...
Here is the dead truth on the matter. If you change your gender you are objectiely transgendered. It is not a term, it is a fact. You. Are. Transgendered.

And...?
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AirFresh
08/25/19 6:00:21 AM
#197:


Dragonblade01 posted...
AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
AirFresh posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
gmanthebest posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
A question to those who think transgender people should be legally or morally obligated to volunteer that information to a romantic interest: Should a man who's had a vasectomy or a eunuch be obligated to volunteer that information? What about a woman who's had her tubes tied?

Absolutely, yes. Any information about ability to bear children should be out in the open.

But should the person be obligated to reveal that information outright? Because the question is not whether people should talk about things that matter to them in a relationship. The question is whether the person is obligated to reveal this information from the outset. This is especially important if the obligation in question is meant to be a legal one.

Horrible argument. It would just make the one night stand consequence free. I am not getting your logic here.

Well, considering that I'm not making an argument at the moment, it probably would be a horrible one. I'm asking a question to try and figure out where you draw the line between information someone should and should not be legally obliged to reveal. And so far the answers seem to skirt around the obligatory part, and just go towards the part where it would be preferable for them to be upfront. Which isn't really the issue here. Even I agree that it would likely be in people's best interests to be upfront about information that might be important to their partner. But the question I'm asking is should they be obligated to do it.

Yes. I am pro LGBT but hiding that act means you ae no proud of who you are. I am sorry but if youchsnge your gender you are transsexual by nature. And own it with pride. Having babies is very important to me and I scientifically cannot have babies with you.

Act? Can't have babies with me? What on earth are you talking about? Nothing you said has anything to do with the question I posed.

You cannot have babies naturally with transgendered. That is a deal beaker
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OctilIery
08/25/19 6:02:26 AM
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StealthRock posted...
Not really. Depends on who you date. People dating for long term partners should absolutely talk about about their plans for kids on the first date.

Maybe try dating "women" who can have kids and youll know that.

I've dated many women and talk of kids on the first date is generally a faux pas, and when it does come up it's very superficial. First dates are about getting to know the person and seeing if there's chemistry. Politics, past trauma, children, and other things are generally left for later.
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AirFresh
08/25/19 6:03:29 AM
#199:


Shablagoo posted...
AirFresh posted...
Here is the dead truth on the matter. If you change your gender you are objectiely transgendered. It is not a term, it is a fact. You. Are. Transgendered.

And...?

They can are naturally unable to get pregnant. The ability to have a child is very important to me. I will not build a relationship if I cannot procreat. And this goes for women who cannot procreate as well. An guess what? They disclose that fac in my personal experience.
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OctilIery
08/25/19 6:03:36 AM
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AirFresh posted...
Here is the dead truth on the matter. If you change your gender you are objectiely transgendered. It is not a term, it is a fact. You. Are. Transgendered.

Except transgendered people don't change their gender.

AirFresh posted...
You cannot have babies naturally with transgendered. That is a deal beaker

Considering we were talking about hookups, not dating, this is a laughably pointless statement.
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Gobstoppers12
08/25/19 6:04:52 AM
#201:


OctilIery posted...

Except transgendered people don't change their gender.

The "trans" in "transgender" stands for transition. Which means change. So, yes, they do.
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Dragonblade01
08/25/19 6:05:06 AM
#202:


AirFresh posted...
You cannot have babies naturally with transgendered. That is a deal beaker

OK. I mean, nobody's telling you that you have to go out with a transgender person. But that has quite literally nothing to do with whether they should be legally obligated to tell you they are transgender upfront.
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