Current Events > Female incel complains online, is rewarded with praise, finds relationship.

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Maybe male incels wouldn't be a problem if people reacted to them the same way, tbh fam.

The average female

we did it reddit
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Do you know what an incel is

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incel =/= attention whore
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Women can't be incels
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She's too attractive to be an incel
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Bryfang posted...

I smashed one,

Then she's not an incel...
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BobanMarjanovic posted...

Bryfang posted...

I smashed one,

Then she's not an incel...

Yeah, that was a weird counterargument.

After some deliberation, I agree that women cannot be incels. I created a hypothetical female and stacked on as many contributing factors as I could imagine. You should have seen the mental image I concocted.

Even then, theyd be able to find a guy who is into it. There are men out there with fetishes for anything. Anything.

Frankly, the fact that its impossible for them to be incels has just reinforced a much more disturbing truth.

Imagine being a gatekeeper for incels
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NeoShadowhen posted...

BobanMarjanovic posted...

Bryfang posted...

I smashed one,

Then she's not an incel...

Yeah, that was a weird counterargument.

After some deliberation, I agree that women cannot be incels. I created a hypothetical female and stacked on as many contributing factors as I could imagine. You should have seen the mental image I concocted.

Even then, theyd be able to find a guy who is into it. There are men out there with fetishes for anything. Anything.

Frankly, the fact that its impossible for them to be incels has just reinforced a much more disturbing truth.

Being an incel doesn't mean that no one is willing to hit it.
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Random internet idiot #549872 has determined women cannot be involuntarily celibate.

LET IT BE WRITTEN IN STONE!
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Tupacrulez posted...

Random internet idiot #549872 has determined women cannot be involuntarily celibate.

LET IT BE WRITTEN IN STONE!

Do you have a counter argument?
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BobanMarjanovic posted...

Tupacrulez posted...

Random internet idiot #549872 has determined women cannot be involuntarily celibate.

LET IT BE WRITTEN IN STONE!

Do you have a counter argument?

The women that are involuntarily celibate, yes.

It's a much smaller minority, granted.

There was this hilarious effect early on when incel forums were just starting to hit mainstream knowledge, wher girl incels go on an incel forum, literally ready for any sack of trash person, and they got bullied away.
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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Being an incel doesn't mean that no one is willing to hit it.

Yes it does. That's the whole point. One is involuntarily celibate because nobody wants to have sex with them.

Being an incel isn't just being a virgin though.

It means you're a woman hating, "I deserve sex because" scumbag.

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BobanMarjanovic posted...

Women can't be incels

I don't think you know what an incel is
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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

BobanMarjanovic posted...

Tupacrulez posted...

Random internet idiot #549872 has determined women cannot be involuntarily celibate.

LET IT BE WRITTEN IN STONE!

Do you have a counter argument?

The women that are involuntarily celibate, yes.

It's a much smaller minority, granted.

There was this hilarious effect early on when incel forums were just starting to hit mainstream knowledge, wher girl incels go on an incel forum, literally ready for any sack of trash person, and they got bullied away.

I thought so too. Then I tried to create a hypothetical woman that no man would fuck. I couldnt do it. And I have a wild imagination.

I was a virgin well into adulthood. I totally get the incel thing. You really feel like you're being excluded, that does suck, trust me. But after a while I realized I had to take some responsibility. You can't blame women for yourself when you're overly negative and depressing to be around or fat and lazy or just generally unpleasant. Own up a little.

If you identify as an "incel" you're going down the wrong path already. Look up, not down.

Mini Bagel dude kinda did the same thing. Incel behaved badly in public and got rewarded for it.

Women have it easier in life than men. Water is wet.
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Aloner posted...

EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Being an incel doesn't mean that no one is willing to hit it.

Yes it does. That's the whole point. One is involuntarily celibate because nobody wants to have sex with them.

If you're arguing that there is literally no one in the world who would sleep with a person, that's not something you'll ever be able to prove.

The same argument going on itt, where there's someone willing to have sex with even the worst girl, works in reverse; there's someone willing to have sex with the worst guy.

But the odds of either worst girl or worst guy finding this exceedingly rare partner are minimal, hence, they are incels.
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Bryfang posted...

CommonStar posted...

Mini Bagel dude kinda did the same thing. Incel behaved badly in public and got rewarded for it.

What good came of that situation for him?

He signed a deal to fight viral celebrities. He also got some dates with women.

I'd do her. I think she's confusing incell with not having a committed relationship with a chad.
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shes pretty

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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...

incel =/= attention whore

Kind of weird because she's not bad looking. If she created a profile on an online dating site, she'd have plenty of dudes hitting her up so idgi.
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Conflict posted...

She's wasn't even an incel.

Not the colloquial type, at least. By technical definition, sure. Her case isn't even unusual, with men or women.
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To be an "incel" as a female, I'm pretty sure that like.. literally no one could be aware of your existence at all. Like if you never left the house, didn't have a job/weren't going to school, no presence on social media, no dating apps, etc.. then it might be feasible. Still highly unusual and easily fixable though, no matter what your personality or level of attractiveness.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

To be an "incel" as a female, I'm pretty sure that like.. literally no one could be aware of your existence at all. Like if you never left the house, didn't have a job/weren't going to school, no presence on social media, no dating apps, etc.. then it might be feasible. Still highly unusual and easily fixable though, no matter what your personality or level of attractiveness.

This sounds like most incels, though?
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The only female incels are old, fat and obese ones.

Women like this attractive one is a voluntary celibate...so just a "cel".
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GreatEvilEmpire posted...

The only female incels are old, fat and obese ones.

There's a fetish for those.
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GreatEvilEmpire posted...

The only female incels are old, fat and obese ones.

Women like this attractive one is a voluntary celibate...so just a "cel".

She was complaining of her lack of any kind of relationship. She did not want to be celibate. Hence, technical incel. Tincel? I like tincel for separating the "keep women in farms" incels from the decent people who have trouble with interactions.
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Conflict posted...

Let's just completely throw away "incel" being used to refer to people who just don't get laid. That's been long gone out the window.

I thought so, but it kept coming up on this board otherwise.
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Women can't be in incels because any of them could go out to a bar and find somebody willing to fuck them. Can't say the same for the vast majority of incels.
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Conflict posted...

Let's just completely throw away "incel" being used to refer to people who just don't get laid. That's been long gone out the window.

They really dismantled the involuntary part with the provision that their ability to pay for sex doesnt count somehow.

Conflict posted...

Let's just completely throw away "incel" being used to refer to people who just don't get laid. That's been long gone out the window.

Wut?
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DarthAragorn posted...

Women can't be in incels because any of them could go out to a bar and find somebody willing to fuck them. Can't say the same for the vast majority of incels.

I've read testimonies where they do that and still cannot.
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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Ultima Dragon posted...

To be an "incel" as a female, I'm pretty sure that like.. literally no one could be aware of your existence at all. Like if you never left the house, didn't have a job/weren't going to school, no presence on social media, no dating apps, etc.. then it might be feasible. Still highly unusual and easily fixable though, no matter what your personality or level of attractiveness.

This sounds like most incels, though?

There is no way to determine that because a man can be perfectly unable to get laid whether the world knows about him or not.

Conflict posted...

Let's just completely throw away "incel" being used to refer to people who just don't get laid. That's been long gone out the window.

For the sake of the flow of the discussion here nobody is using any of the colloquial definitions.

We are discussing involuntary celibacy, not whatever the Reddit crowd uses the term for.

NeoShadowhen posted...

They really dismantled the involuntary part with the provision that their ability to pay for sex doesnt count somehow.

Prostitution is illegal in 49 states in America. And you can't make assumptions about the disposable income of others.

the "incel" thing doesn't play out the same for men and women

when a guy fits the type, he's bitter about not being able to attract a girlfriend and gettin sex he thinks hes entitled to
when a woman fits the type, she's more bummed out about not KEEPING a bf and maintaining a LONG TERM relationship she thinks she entitled to

you all sayin theres no women who are like incels dont really get it
what makes a woman an "incel" is not the same as what would make a man one

because what most women and men value is inherently different
the stable satisfying long term relationship is the "sex" for the women, THATS their equivalent
when they can't get that, it plays out the same bitter gender-bashing way as the guys
they always bitchin about "where have all the good men gone" and hatin on top men for havin standards

and YES there are women who would basically fit the typical description of an incel
hell there are LGBTQ women who fit the bill too actin the same dysfunctional way

any experienced lesbian can tell you this...
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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

DarthAragorn posted...

Women can't be in incels because any of them could go out to a bar and find somebody willing to fuck them. Can't say the same for the vast majority of incels.

I've read testimonies where they do that and still cannot.

Either bullshit or they're like 400 pounds.
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Conflict posted...

Webmaster4531 posted...

Conflict posted...

Let's just completely throw away "incel" being used to refer to people who just don't get laid. That's been long gone out the window.

Wut?

It's a term referred to a specific group of people with specific hateful and bitter traits. If you don't possess those traits, then you're just... someone who doesn't get laid.

I think it's simpler if we just say it means what it's short for.
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