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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:07:58 PM
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How hard is it to get laid in college? Unless you're going for rich sorority girls across the board it's pretty goddamn easy to start hanging out with girls who are into the same things you are and eventually hook up with them.

No excuses for why you're still a virgin past 18. Just pure laziness
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_Matchabuu_
07/30/19 3:12:54 PM
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I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive
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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:14:34 PM
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_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head
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PoopPotato
07/30/19 3:14:54 PM
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They never learned how to interact with women so they come off as awkward and clingy. Many also gwt the idea that just because you like someone that they have to like you back.
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bobbaaay
07/30/19 3:16:43 PM
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Their problem is that they think physical appearance (height, certain facial features, etc.) and money are the only things that dictate attraction.
They also think they're too good for 90% of women, they're huge fat-shamers, they think women should be virgins, and they're against body modification.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 3:18:30 PM
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I like how you assume everyone goes to college. That's a special kind of privilege. You could of just said High School anyway. That was when it was super easy. But not everyone has social skills.
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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:21:05 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
I like how you assume everyone goes to college. That's a special kind of privilege. You could of just said High School anyway. That was when it was super easy. But not everyone has social skills.


Meet a bunch of weird nerdy chicks that are into gaming

You're into gaming

Hang out and booze party with them and game it up

Eventually get some from one of them
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bobbaaay
07/30/19 3:21:47 PM
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A lot of this is presumptuous, though. I don't drink, nor do I know how to small talk.
Every single relationship and every time I've had sex - I've had the internet to thank.
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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:22:56 PM
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bobbaaay posted...
A lot of this is presumptuous, though. I don't drink, nor do I know how to small talk.
Every single relationship and every time I've had sex - I've had the internet to thank.


Force yourself to drink and socialize.

I was going out 4-5 nights a week in college and hanging out at communal spaces where a lot of people gathered.

We would all hang out and watch movies or game with alcohol, weed, and music involved
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 3:23:33 PM
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cmiller4642 posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
I like how you assume everyone goes to college. That's a special kind of privilege. You could of just said High School anyway. That was when it was super easy. But not everyone has social skills.


Meet a bunch of weird nerdy chicks that are into gaming

You're into gaming

Hang out and booze party with them and game it up

Eventually get some from one of them


That still takes a level of social skills. I just see it as, if they actually could of had high school years like mine, then why wouldn't of they? Something held them back and I got sympathy for that.
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bobbaaay
07/30/19 3:25:08 PM
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cmiller4642 posted...
bobbaaay posted...
A lot of this is presumptuous, though. I don't drink, nor do I know how to small talk.
Every single relationship and every time I've had sex - I've had the internet to thank.


Force yourself to drink and socialize.

I was going out 4-5 nights a week in college and hanging out at communal spaces where a lot of people gathered.

We would all hang out and watch movies or game with alcohol, weed, and music involved


Force myself to drink?
Wow, wonderful life advice, bro.
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rexcrk
07/30/19 3:25:14 PM
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When you arent good looking, youd be surprised how difficult it is.
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AmericaTheBrave
07/30/19 3:26:46 PM
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There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.
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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:28:51 PM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


There were girls in bars and clubs that would just start grinding on you at random and making out when I was in college

It was crazy.
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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:31:05 PM
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I think some of it is how you carry yourself. I went to college in the mid 2000's and kind had a "Jesse Pinkman" style of dress. Obviously trying too hard to look cool, but I also was working a job where I met a lot of like minded young people.
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lightwarrior78
07/30/19 3:31:33 PM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


But you aren't bragging right?

On topic: as hard as it is to understand, people's brains are wired differently and the world is set up to make it easy for only those of a certain brain type. At best, it's not an environment great for introverts that have to fake people skills and don't understand small talk. at worst, social anxiety is a thing.
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Romulox28
07/30/19 3:33:05 PM
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if you spent all of HS playing video games, watching anime, jerking off, & not developing any social skills outside of shitposting with ppl in your discord or w/e kids use now, you are going to have a rough time in college regardless of the available social prospects

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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:34:34 PM
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Romulox28 posted...
if you spent all of HS playing video games, watching anime, jerking off, & not developing any social skills outside of shitposting with ppl in your discord or w/e kids use now, you are going to have a rough time in college regardless of the available social prospects


I played tons of video games in HS. But I also hung out with friends and stuff at parties. I had a PS2, Xbox, and a Gamecube in HS. So obviously I was a big gamer.
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AmericaTheBrave
07/30/19 3:39:41 PM
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lightwarrior78 posted...
AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


But you aren't bragging right?


I don't brag about it actually because it sounds so unbelievable and I don't feel like going through the work to prove it.

Conflict posted...
AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


No you didn't.


I did. My roommate was having a threesome with his girlfriend and her best friend, I accidentally walked in and was about to leave when my roommate drunkenly said "where you goin' man?" and his gf's best friend beckoned me to her and I was like "why the fuck not" and joined in. Yes, it sounds like something straight out of a porno but it happened. I will never get that lucky again (and yes, his gf and her friend were really hot).
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Tmaster148
07/30/19 3:41:09 PM
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AmericaTheBrave posted...
lightwarrior78 posted...
AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


But you aren't bragging right?


I don't brag about it actually because it sounds so unbelievable and I don't feel like going through the work to prove it.

Conflict posted...
AmericaTheBrave posted...
There literally is no excuse to not get laid in college. I got more action in college than I did in high school and will as an out-of-college adult. I accidentally got into a foursome in college. That's how easy it is.


No you didn't.


I did. My roommate was having a threesome with his girlfriend and her best friend, I accidentally walked in and was about to leave when my roommate drunkenly said "where you goin' man?" and his gf's best friend beckoned me to her and I was like "why the fuck not" and joined in. Yes, it sounds like something straight out of a porno but it happened. I will never get that lucky again (and yes, his gf and her friend were really hot).


You could at least put some effort into your fake story.
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Romulox28
07/30/19 3:41:49 PM
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cmiller4642 posted...
I played tons of video games in HS. But I also hung out with friends and stuff at parties. I had a PS2, Xbox, and a Gamecube in HS. So obviously I was a big gamer.
ok but you were socially involved outside of playing video games, your entire life did not center around the unholy trinity of video games / anime / porn.

any time you see some young dude online whining about not getting laid its always the same story, his whole life is based solely on typical internet guy interests and he now has no way to connect or identify with other ppl

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cmiller4642
07/30/19 3:42:41 PM
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Romulox28 posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
I played tons of video games in HS. But I also hung out with friends and stuff at parties. I had a PS2, Xbox, and a Gamecube in HS. So obviously I was a big gamer.
ok but you were socially involved outside of playing video games, your entire life did not center around the unholy trinity of video games / anime / porn.

any time you see some young dude online whining about not getting laid its always the same story, his whole life is based solely on typical internet guy interests and he now has no way to connect or identify with other ppl


I still play a shit ton of games at 33. But yea I head to breweries and stuff and meet up with cool people too.
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AmericaTheBrave
07/30/19 3:43:06 PM
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Tmaster148 posted...
You could at least put some effort into your fake story.


If it makes you feel better to believe it's fake, go ahead.
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AmericaTheBrave
07/30/19 3:44:14 PM
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Romulox28 posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
I played tons of video games in HS. But I also hung out with friends and stuff at parties. I had a PS2, Xbox, and a Gamecube in HS. So obviously I was a big gamer.
ok but you were socially involved outside of playing video games, your entire life did not center around the unholy trinity of video games / anime / porn.

any time you see some young dude online whining about not getting laid its always the same story, his whole life is based solely on typical internet guy interests and he now has no way to connect or identify with other ppl


At the end of the day, that's what it comes down to.

Don't blame anyone but yourself for wasting your teenage years.
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Prestoff
07/30/19 3:52:15 PM
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Getring laid is easier than ever thanks to the internet. Its just harder than ever to get into a meaningful relationship.
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Puglia77
07/30/19 3:53:25 PM
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My college was mostly male, no girls shared the same interests as me

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Tmaster148
07/30/19 3:56:37 PM
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There's plenty of reasons not to get laid in college but CE is beyond lacking in perspective and thinks they're the standard of what every human being on earth should be able to do


Tbh. I don't think anyone on CE who talks about getting laid all the time actually gets laid all the time.

It's more like they want to act like they are better.
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Unite
07/30/19 5:03:10 PM
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It not surprising a chad cant understand a incel.
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ArchiePeck
07/30/19 5:07:46 PM
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Unless you were like some sort of legit shut-in with zero social skills, yeah I don't understand how someone could go through college without getting laid if they wanted it.
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Tmaster148
07/30/19 5:23:05 PM
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Conflict posted...
ArchiePeck posted...
Unless you were like some sort of legit shut-in with zero social skills, yeah I don't understand how someone could go through college without getting laid if they wanted it.


You don't have to be a shut-in you could very well be an average looking guy with anxiety and low self-esteem

Like... there's a middle ground there. Average guys will always have to make the first move, if you have low self-esteem you're not going to see the point or have the internal incentive because you're going to perceive everyone as being out of your league.


Also not everyone wants sex either. And some people wait to have sex until they are in a committed relationship.
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Ving_Rhames
07/30/19 5:23:59 PM
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Entitled man babies who probly watch harem anime
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Pepys Monster
07/30/19 5:25:20 PM
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I never understood this meme about college girls being easy. Girls on Tinder, raves, dating sites and bars are all easier.
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_Matchabuu_
07/30/19 5:27:02 PM
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cmiller4642 posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head


Ummm Im a woman and no one in college was even interested in hanging out with me lmao
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Cheese_Crackers
07/30/19 5:28:17 PM
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My perception of incels isnt that they necessarily want sex that badly. They just want some kind of female contact. After so long of getting none, and a total lack of confidence, they put the blame on women, which will make it almost impossible for them to get close to said women.

Its a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GrAyFoX312k
07/30/19 5:29:29 PM
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Like alot of problems they think someone's non-malicious free will should be a certain way that's beneficial for them only and not of the recipient.
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Broseph_Stalin
07/30/19 5:30:21 PM
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they're generally mentally ill
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 5:31:35 PM
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_Matchabuu_ posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head


Ummm Im a woman and no one in college was even interested in hanging out with me lmao


You're either lying or tried once or twice and then stopped. The world isn't so cold that whole colleges just shut out people for being "unattractive". I dunno why you want to live in that world when you don't have to. If you made friends with CEmen then you got no excuse in college.
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_Matchabuu_
07/30/19 5:34:19 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head


Ummm Im a woman and no one in college was even interested in hanging out with me lmao


You're either lying or tried once or twice and then stopped. The world isn't so cold that whole colleges just shut out people for being "unattractive". I dunno why you want to live in that world when you don't have to. If you made friends with CEmen then you got no excuse in college.


lol the only person here Im friends with is my bf >_>

and I tried all 4 years of undergrad, shits rough
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 5:40:51 PM
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_Matchabuu_ posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head


Ummm Im a woman and no one in college was even interested in hanging out with me lmao


You're either lying or tried once or twice and then stopped. The world isn't so cold that whole colleges just shut out people for being "unattractive". I dunno why you want to live in that world when you don't have to. If you made friends with CEmen then you got no excuse in college.


lol the only person here Im friends with is my bf >_>

and I tried all 4 years of undergrad, shits rough


My unedited version of that post had

And if you don't consider some these CEmen that always try to cheer you up in your topics friends, then that's part of the problem


>_>. Maybe you have the wrong idea of what friends are and setting that bar too high. You gotta build deeper relationships, you don't just fall into a deep friendship. Gotta let people pass first base of friendship. It's a 2 way street of effort
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Pepys Monster
07/30/19 5:42:07 PM
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_Matchabuu_ posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
cmiller4642 posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...
I dont get incels either but getting laid is like ridiculously hard if you arent attractive


Ummm I'm not a male model and I got laid all the time in college.

I just hung out with cool girls and we were into the same stuff. Eventually we'd hook up.

I think it's all in your head


Ummm Im a woman and no one in college was even interested in hanging out with me lmao


You're either lying or tried once or twice and then stopped. The world isn't so cold that whole colleges just shut out people for being "unattractive". I dunno why you want to live in that world when you don't have to. If you made friends with CEmen then you got no excuse in college.


lol the only person here Im friends with is my bf >_>

and I tried all 4 years of undergrad, shits rough

If it makes you feel better, I'm popular (in the rave scene, not college) and I find college kids kind of weird and antisocial. They'll be semi-polite, but they don't seem that open to friendship. Not that I care.
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Pepys Monster
07/30/19 5:43:34 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
I'm popular (in the rave scene


lol

You laugh, but I guarantee I have 3x the friends you do.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 5:45:41 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Conflict posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
I'm popular (in the rave scene


lol

You laugh, but I guarantee I have 3x the friends you do.


People who say this stuff usually got all surface friends tho. What do these people do when the whole reason you're around each other isn't to party?
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Pepys Monster
07/30/19 5:49:28 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
People who say this stuff usually got all surface friends tho. What do these people do when the whole reason you're around each other isn't to party?

Conflict posted...
Trust me when I say they're not your "friends" they're people that think you're extremely weird because you're 30 years old trying so hard to fit in groups of high school teenagers.

Laughing at you. Not with you.

Most of my friends are early 20s, and they don't think I'm extremely weird, or they wouldn't be friends with me. Duh. What do you have going on? Probably like 3 online friendships.
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Tmaster148
07/30/19 5:50:03 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
People who say this stuff usually got all surface friends tho. What do these people do when the whole reason you're around each other isn't to party?

Conflict posted...
Trust me when I say they're not your "friends" they're people that think you're extremely weird because you're 30 years old trying so hard to fit in groups of high school teenagers.

Laughing at you. Not with you.

Most of my friends are early 20s, and they don't think I'm extremely weird, or they wouldn't be friends with me. Duh. What do you have going on? Probably like 3 online friendships.


Well they wouldn't tell you to your face that they think you are weird.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/30/19 5:50:49 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
People who say this stuff usually got all surface friends tho. What do these people do when the whole reason you're around each other isn't to party?

Conflict posted...
Trust me when I say they're not your "friends" they're people that think you're extremely weird because you're 30 years old trying so hard to fit in groups of high school teenagers.

Laughing at you. Not with you.

Most of my friends are early 20s, and they don't think I'm extremely weird, or they wouldn't be friends with me. Duh. What do you have going on? Probably like 3 online friendships.


I was that kid on Strange Addiction that had 15 blow up animal friends. A lot more than 3.
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