Current Events > Anyone else wanting to be single forever?

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I feel like in society everyone is pressuring us to date and be in relationship, but I never want that.

I dont want to date or marry. Also I hate dealing with people. And I hate dates, nothing to talk about

I went out on a dinner date and was so bored I was playing Mario on my phone while drinking wine
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that's odd usually it's the girl on the phone when she's bored on a date
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SauI_Goodman posted...

that's odd usually it's the girl on the phone when she's bored on a date

Nope it was me, they asked me how my day was and I said fine and that was it.

I have nothing to talk about so I got bored while waiting for food and played games. Then we ate and paid and left
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knuxnole posted...

I went out on a dinner date and was so bored I was playing Mario on my phone while drinking wine

Classic CE
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Being single for about a year now after being married once and in 3 relationships I think I'm most likely staying single. I don't need someone nagging at me and getting upset when I wanna game. Plus I do things around the house on my own time than someone pressuring me.

Unless I meet someone as understanding as me I won't even bother. Even dating is a waste. I'm a single father of 2 and got fixed. A lot of women around their 30s still want kids and that's not happening. If I get desperate for sex I have options. And I don't wanna waste money on dinner dates or waste my time. I was in my mid 20s when I first was even with a girl and it's been nothing but a headache.
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Vita_Aeterna posted...

knuxnole posted...

I went out on a dinner date and was so bored I was playing Mario on my phone while drinking wine

Classic CE

Lol thanks, Im sure most people including you would do the same? What else would ya do, walk out or leave and come back when food arrived???
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I want to stay single but at the same time I think what if staying single is a lonely and depressing path?

Honestly, being in a relationship is more more depressing

I cant do what I want. And I hate conversations, I hate it! I hate talking, if I was in a relationship Id tell them to shut up a lot, and find a room to stay in or hope they stay in one room
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You wouldn't have a choice. You're dorky as hell

I do worry, people pressure me all the time lmao, Im not dorky tho(hate dorks) guys hit me up and I say hell no or I hate dating!!!
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I'm getting there. 1 divorce already, another one on the horizon. I've fucking had it with giving up everything and getting nothing in return. My ex-wife already gets a huge portion of my money, so I'll be eating cat food when this marriage ends, but at least I will be able to live my own life without having to shovel bullshit 40 hours a day/12 days a week.
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Being single is the greatest god given gift to man.

Nope. Pretty happy having a lifetime partner, even with the downs we experience at times.

21WIVES_CHILL posted...

Being single is the greatest god given gift to man.

if i had a choice. i would choose a pet than living with a significant other. a dog or cat fills companionship needs.
plus they get food/a home so it works out.
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kingdrake2 posted...

21WIVES_CHILL posted...

Being single is the greatest god given gift to man.

if i had a choice. i would choose a pet than living with a significant other. a dog or cat fills companionship needs.
plus they get food/a home so it works out.

Seriously. A pet is good cause they are friendly, easy and arent annoying. And dont care if you hate conversations or know how to have one
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knuxnole posted...

Seriously. A pet is good cause they are friendly, easy and arent annoying. And dont care if you hate conversations or know how to have one

I wish I could say the same, but sometimes one of my dogs won't leave me alone when I want to be, and are also not very obedient.
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I don't really want to, but it's an outcome I've accepted and am okay with.

I don't really want a long term partner anyway though, I'd ideally want to go from partner to partner throughout life.

RoboLaserGandhi posted...

it's an outcome I've accepted and am okay with

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I've been single for 35 years.
It gets old.
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knuxnole posted...

Vita_Aeterna posted...

knuxnole posted...

I went out on a dinner date and was so bored I was playing Mario on my phone while drinking wine

Classic CE

Lol thanks, Im sure most people including you would do the same? What else would ya do, walk out or leave and come back when food arrived???

Most people are capable of holding a conversation with someone they enjoy being around while waiting for food at dinner

ZeroKelvin posted...

knuxnole posted...

Vita_Aeterna posted...

knuxnole posted...

I went out on a dinner date and was so bored I was playing Mario on my phone while drinking wine

Classic CE

Lol thanks, Im sure most people including you would do the same? What else would ya do, walk out or leave and come back when food arrived???

Most people are capable of holding a conversation with someone they enjoy being around while waiting for food at dinner

I cant, I cant literally think of ONE thing to talk about.....like at all!

If we went to dinner together I wouldnt think of anything to talk to you about, for example, and would bring up my phone to browse the internet
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