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HenryAllbright
12/19/18 12:38:23 AM
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Here are my top 2:

1) When they get mad because I'm not looking at them when we're in the missionary position. Come on, get over yourself. I'm not thinking about other girls. I don't know where some girls picked up on that idea....probably from TV or a movie. I like to close my eyes sometimes because vision stimulation can be distracting when I'm trying to focus on feeling pleasure. It makes no sense, either, because these same girls have no problem with me fucking them doggy style where they can't even see me lol.

2) When I try to go slow for a bit...slowly in. Stop. Slowly out. Stop.....and then they get all impatient and start saying "come on, fuck me already" and then insist I start going fast. It's like...hello? I'm the guy here...I'm the one with the penis. If the penis doesn't get what it wants, nobody is going to have a good time. Is that what you want?

Seems like this is more of a new thing I'm running into now that I'm in my 30s and am having sex with older women. So picky and self conscious about everything.
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Vita_Aeterna
12/19/18 12:40:26 AM
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If the penis doesn't get what it wants, nobody is going to have a good time

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Rikiaz
12/19/18 12:40:28 AM
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JACKBUTTMOMMY posted...
It's like...hello? I'm the guy here...I'm the one with the penis. If the penis doesn't get what it wants, nobody is going to have a good time. Is that what you want?


I sincerely swear to God I hope this is a fucking joke for her, yours, and everyones sake. Jesus.

Seriously. What the fuck...
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HenryAllbright
12/19/18 12:42:49 AM
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I don't understand what you guys are thinking I'm saying here....I'm just saying that if the guy doesn't get stimulated in a way that he responds to positively, he isn't going to get/stay hard. And when the guy isn't hard, both the guy and the girl are not going to enjoy their sex. Sorry if I wasn't clear about that. I certainly didn't mean to imply violence or anything like that lol.
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Darkman124
12/19/18 12:43:09 AM
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HenryAllbright posted...
I'm the guy here...I'm the one with the penis. If the penis doesn't get what it wants, nobody is going to have a good time. Is that what you want?


a large number of women believe that any sexual stimulation is 'the penis getting what it wants' and believe that appropriate sexual communication is demanding exactly what they want for the duration, regardless of whether that desire is shared

in my experience this is not a problem that can be resolved.

the reactions people are having to your post here illustrate the issue: the present dialogue about sex has been (somewhat necessarily) focused on the degree to which women have been left unsatisfied by their experiences, and some people take that narrative to extremes.

generally speaking, i have observed that women who feel this way are pretty OK with sex ending early and them finishing the job with their toys, in the event that the sexual interaction is not working for the guy. "my way or the highway" is a somewhat effective strategy if you're fine with the highway.

and basically, that is why it's not really something that can be resolved.

also

HenryAllbright posted...
I'm not thinking about other girls.


you are, we all are, and it's better if we are honest about it if someone makes this something to argue about during sex. once an argument breaks out, coitus isn't going to continue for long anyway.
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tremain07
12/19/18 12:45:28 AM
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Come on,guys. TC isn't really doing that it's just the implication.
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Flockaveli
12/19/18 12:46:01 AM
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Its not all the time, I guess it depends on the girl, but sometimes I hate being touched/when they run their hands along my back or they grab my ass. Im ticklish, and also pinning their hands down is much hotter.
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spudger
12/19/18 12:46:42 AM
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Talk
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Mistere Man
12/19/18 12:48:03 AM
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Not show up
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HenryAllbright
12/19/18 12:49:12 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
Its not all the time, I guess it depends on the girl, but sometimes I hate being touched/when they run their hands along my back or they grab my ass. Im ticklish, and also pinning their hands down is much hotter.


Yeah for me all these bad experiences have been with one night stands whom I had just met that night.
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Flockaveli
12/19/18 12:50:43 AM
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Also inb4 haha nah maybe just the girls youre doing it with suck or arent into it

But I dont really care for being ridden. Any position with her on top/in control doesnt do it for me, I just love being in control and using them for myself I guess.
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HenryAllbright
12/19/18 12:54:45 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
Also inb4 haha nah maybe just the girls youre doing it with suck or arent into it

But I dont really care for being ridden. Any position with her on top/in control doesnt do it for me, I just love being in control and using them for myself I guess.


I'm the same way. I'll let a girl ride me if she wants it...sometimes the girl is just like me and can't cum unless they're in control...so I left them have their turn, and then I have my turn lol.
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powerman1426
12/19/18 12:54:57 AM
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Darkman124 posted...
generally speaking, i have observed that women who feel this way are pretty OK with sex ending early and them finishing the job with their toys, in the event that the sexual interaction is not working for the guy. "my way or the highway" is a somewhat effective strategy if you're fine with the highway.

But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out.
But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together
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PastyFury
12/19/18 12:57:55 AM
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when they wake up and I gotta waste another needle on them
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Kastrada
12/19/18 1:00:53 AM
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tremain07 posted...
Come on,guys. TC isn't really doing that it's just the implication.


Okay you had me goin' there for the first half. The second half kinda threw me.
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codey
12/19/18 1:05:02 AM
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I'm really ticklish on my ass, and I tend to violently jump when it gets touched. A slap is cool, but a real light soft touch kills me.
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Darkman124
12/19/18 1:05:34 AM
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powerman1426 posted...

But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out.
But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together


again, this is from my experience: that is not how they tend to view the situation.

the view i came across a lot was "your orgasm is your responsibility. my orgasm is also your responsibility, but i'll take care of it if you don't."

which led to sex being on the girl's terms, ending when she climaxed and not really being about me.

not a lot you can do about that with dialogue. best just to move on.
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 1:08:42 AM
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have sex with every guy I know except me :((
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ArchiePeck
12/19/18 1:09:22 AM
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Want to make and maintain direct eye contact during a blowjob.
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Flockaveli
12/19/18 1:10:13 AM
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ArchiePeck posted...
Want to make and maintain direct eye contact during a blowjob.

SMH that is so romantic. You dont deserve her.
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EnragedSlith
12/19/18 1:21:02 AM
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Darkman124 posted...
powerman1426 posted...

But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out.
But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together


again, this is from my experience: that is not how they tend to view the situation.

the view i came across a lot was "your orgasm is your responsibility. my orgasm is also your responsibility, but i'll take care of it if you don't."

which led to sex being on the girl's terms, ending when she climaxed and not really being about me.

not a lot you can do about that with dialogue. best just to move on.

I think youve just been sleeping with shitty people. Ive been with a lot of girls and none of them ever acted like this. I could probably break them down into two general groups:

1. Rarely ever get off for any variety of reason. Never, at least outwardly, express disappointment or anger.

2. Get off easily. Understand that were both ultimately responsible for our own orgasms, though were working to help each other out.

Im currently in the best sexual relationship Ive ever had. So is she. I think some people are just better at it than others, and I just got lucky and met someone I was in perfect sync with.
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008Zulu
12/19/18 1:37:25 AM
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They complain about us not trimming our toenails, but girls are just as bad at it as the guys.
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stoltenberg11
12/19/18 1:37:31 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
Darkman124 posted...
powerman1426 posted...

But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out.
But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together


again, this is from my experience: that is not how they tend to view the situation.

the view i came across a lot was "your orgasm is your responsibility. my orgasm is also your responsibility, but i'll take care of it if you don't."

which led to sex being on the girl's terms, ending when she climaxed and not really being about me.

not a lot you can do about that with dialogue. best just to move on.

I think youve just been sleeping with shitty people. Ive been with a lot of girls and none of them ever acted like this. I could probably break them down into two general groups:

1. Rarely ever get off for any variety of reason. Never, at least outwardly, express disappointment or anger.

2. Get off easily. Understand that were both ultimately responsible for our own orgasms, though were working to help each other out.

Im currently in the best sexual relationship Ive ever had. So is she. I think some people are just better at it than others, and I just got lucky and met someone I was in perfect sync with.

The above is my experience too. In fact the big Darkman said about girls climaxing and then ending sex is very bizarre and totally opposite of anything I've ever experienced. If I climax first I'm pretty much done but never has she climaxed first and ended it.

As for the question in the op, I don't like it when girls ride but they bounce. That shit is scary.
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HenryAllbright
12/19/18 2:42:03 AM
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008Zulu posted...
They complain about us not trimming our toenails, but girls are just as bad at it as the guys.


I should post a pic of my toenails right now. They are really, really long. Like, ridiculously long. I haven't trimmed them in months, and my nails grow fast.

The problem with trimming toenails is that it isn't really socially acceptable to do it on the go....like when you're at work. Nobody is going to appreciate looking over to the desk next to them and seeing a guy take his shoes and socks off, drape his feet over his garbage can and pull out a pair of toenail clippers. So I have to trim them when I'm home. But when I'm home, I don't care about my long toenails. In fact, I love them.
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Orlando_Jordan
12/19/18 2:52:01 AM
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catboy0_0 posted...
have sex with every guy I know except me :((

*Points* Haha!
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 2:57:09 AM
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lol
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SaithSayer
12/19/18 3:18:02 AM
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catboy0_0 posted...
lol

I wouldn't like for a woman to laugh out loud while I was fucking her either.
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Muflaggin
12/19/18 3:30:02 AM
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Darkman124 posted...
HenryAllbright posted...
you are, we all are, and it's better if we are honest about it if someone makes this something to argue about during sex. once an argument breaks out, coitus isn't going to continue for long anyway.

Except no. Don't presume to speak for everyone.
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 3:30:31 AM
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SaithSayer posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
lol

I wouldn't like for a woman to laugh out loud while I was fucking her either.

I would. It would shows she likes my sense of humor
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pkmnlord
12/19/18 3:32:48 AM
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I hate when girls don't exist when having sex because there's nobody I'm actually having sex with.
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Big_Nabendu
12/19/18 6:15:19 AM
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When they don't rub my balls in doggie style
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DarthWendy
12/19/18 6:47:27 AM
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Not our fault if we cannot tell for certain if it's in yet :/
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 6:48:00 AM
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DarthWendy posted...
Not our fault if we cannot tell for certain if it's in yet :/

it isn't in yet
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vocedelmorte
12/19/18 7:06:12 AM
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Vita_Aeterna posted...
If the penis doesn't get what it wants, nobody is going to have a good time
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 7:07:16 AM
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when they say "noooooo" sexually but they actually mean it
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YukihoHagiwara
12/19/18 7:58:45 AM
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say daddy at all
fucking weirdos
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 8:13:53 AM
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"let me tell you how my ex wronged me"
miss me with that shit doe
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