Poll of the Day > Can you be an incel and still have sex?

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I mean like you could hire a prostitute, is incel a state of mind rather than a specific quality?
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Well, by the technically term, its involuntary celebrate. So, I dont think so...
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Can only males be incels?
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GreenKnight127 posted...

Can only males be incels?

No, but only males can be MGTOWs.
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Im not sure, would it be an incel to have sex and then get incelly after a long dry streak?
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GreenKnight127 posted...

Can only males be incels?

Unless youre one of the very rare females that is indescribably hideous, yes, only males are incels. Females who claim they are incel are typically chadchasers who arent attractive enough and refuse to give any attention to any guy who rates lower than 8 or 9 of 10 on the looks scale.

Even 2/10 girls can get a tinder date in 15 minutes
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Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?
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Since "involuntarily celibate" is already an oxymoron then I say let's let people who fuck call themselves incels if they want

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

1. Males have a higher sex drive

2. Males have no problem dating or having sex with someone objectively less attractive to them. Women do.

Theres plenty more reasons but those are good starteds
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vicedungwinsgam posted...

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

1. Males have a higher sex drive

2. Males have no problem dating or having sex with someone objectively less attractive to them. Women do.

Theres plenty more reasons but those are good starteds

I agree with you, to an extent.

But I've seen some butt ugly guys out there with decent looking women. Kinda breaks all the rules.

And women, from my experiences, have just as high of sex drives as men....they just don't actively show it, because of social taboos about how women are supposed to behave.

I think the problem stems from the fact that it is the man's job to actively seek sex. Women are trained (by nature) to be passive and just wait for the males to approach. He needs to make all the moves. She has the privilege of just being able to accept or reject his offer. (However, in the wild.....it's usually rape for most mammals, lmao...?)

Because it is the man's job to initiate sex/relationships.....women never need to work for it. Which is why it is easier for women to get laid. it requires no effort on her behalf. She just has to be female...and exist....and the offers come in.

Kinda cruel. But at least we don't bleed once a month, eh bros!?!?! **holds hand up for a high-five he will never receive**
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vicedungwinsgam posted...

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

1. Males have a higher sex drive

2. Males have no problem dating or having sex with someone objectively less attractive to them. Women do.

Theres plenty more reasons but those are good starteds

1. Some women have higher. Maybe the average males is higher, but there are some with low ones. And some women with incredibly high ones...

2. Again, maybe the average ones. But Ive definitely seen some females that date pretty low under them on the hotness scale. And some guys who wont date someone who is about the same on the scale, or slightly lower.
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vicedungwinsgam posted...

Females who claim they are incel are typically chadchasers who arent attractive enough and refuse to give any attention to any guy who rates lower than 8 or 9 of 10 on the looks scale.

You realize the same goes for a fair amount of "incels", right? Buncha Staceychasers who set the bar way too high.
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If you're involuntarily celibate, you just need to learn to suck d***.

What the fuck is an incel? Another stupid term the internet created?
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GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

Guys are more desperate.
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I always thought incels are folk who think they are entitled to sex but can't get any without paying for it thus feel bitter and jaded towards folk they find sexually attractive.

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

Some guys are more desperate than woman are desperate. I'd probably have a better chance of getting laid with a guy then I do with a girl for that reason.
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Catholic priests do it.

Technically, celibacy is the state of remaining unmarried, so yes.
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Sonicplys posted...

What the fuck is an incel? Another stupid term the internet created?

What the heck, gramps, this has been around since at least 2015
*dabs on em*
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GreenKnight127 posted...

Can only males be incels?

Incel was originally coined as a term by a woman, for a group of women. Men and other folks became involved in the community, and was generally seen as a supportive online community.

other iterations of 'incel' communities have become toxic fartholes. I suppose certain people might identify by as being 'involuntarily celibate' a large majority of the time?
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Being an incel mostly just means feeling entitled to more sex than you're getting, and feeling bitter toward society for it. That often means no sex at all, but not necessarily.

GreenKnight127 posted...

vicedungwinsgam posted...

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

1. Males have a higher sex drive

2. Males have no problem dating or having sex with someone objectively less attractive to them. Women do.

Theres plenty more reasons but those are good starteds

I agree with you, to an extent.

But I've seen some butt ugly guys out there with decent looking women. Kinda breaks all the rules.

And women, from my experiences, have just as high of sex drives as men....they just don't actively show it, because of social taboos about how women are supposed to behave.

I think the problem stems from the fact that it is the man's job to actively seek sex. Women are trained (by nature) to be passive and just wait for the males to approach. He needs to make all the moves. She has the privilege of just being able to accept or reject his offer. (However, in the wild.....it's usually rape for most mammals, lmao...?)

Because it is the man's job to initiate sex/relationships.....women never need to work for it. Which is why it is easier for women to get laid. it requires no effort on her behalf. She just has to be female...and exist....and the offers come in.

Kinda cruel. But at least we don't bleed once a month, eh bros!?!?! **holds hand up for a high-five he will never receive**

*high fives greenknight*
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_AdjI_ posted...

Being an incel mostly just means feeling entitled to more sex than you're getting, and feeling bitter toward society for it. That often means no sex at all, but not necessarily.

Just as I thought. Thanks for the clarification wiki.
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wwinterj25 posted...

I always thought incels are folk who think they are entitled to sex but can't get any without paying for it thus feel bitter and jaded towards folk they find sexually attractive.

GreenKnight127 posted...

Why do you think it's easier for women to get laid than men?

Some guys are more desperate than woman are desperate. I'd probably have a better chance of getting laid with a guy then I do with a girl for that reason.

I think part of it is men often view getting laid as an accomplishment. So they are quicker to lower their standards to get it. Men who can't get laid tend to be made fun of and you always have those guys who brag too much about getting it. All this tends to give guys the mindset that they are losers if they can't get laid.

So yeah it's easier for women to get it provided they drop the standards and/or morals they have. Not all women are willing to do that though. From what I've seen society historically has made women measure their personal worth more on maintaining a relationship and getting a man that can provide rather than the amount of sex they get.

Basically it boils down to societal expectations of each sex. Which seems to be changing even if slowly.
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mooreandrew58 posted...

From what I've seen society historically has made women measure their personal worth more on maintaining a relationship and getting a man that can provide rather than the amount of sex they get.

That's all well and good but that all goes out the window when a lot of folk are homosexual these days or at the very least bisexual.
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wwinterj25 posted...

mooreandrew58 posted...

From what I've seen society historically has made women measure their personal worth more on maintaining a relationship and getting a man that can provide rather than the amount of sex they get.

That's all well and good but that all goes out the window when a lot of folk are homosexual these days or at the very least bisexual.

I don't see how that relates. I'm bi by the way. I was talking about straight people. Ya know the majority of people.
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mooreandrew58 posted...

I was talking about straight people.

Fair enough then.
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