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catboy0_0
11/14/18 9:41:21 AM
#51:


Ryetoast posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
she keeps saying
"I did nothing wrong"


Delete her, and stop talking to her..

she said "I hate when you go on CE"
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Ryetoast
11/14/18 9:43:03 AM
#52:


catboy0_0 posted...
Ryetoast posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
she keeps saying
"I did nothing wrong"


Delete her, and stop talking to her..

she said "I hate when you go on CE"


Okay I'm giving up at this point.

Good luck.
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Teddytalks
11/14/18 9:43:15 AM
#53:


You need help
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TwoDoorPunkCab
11/14/18 10:01:37 AM
#54:


she is manipulating you, catboy. don't give her what she wants
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 1:59:23 PM
#55:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc6vs-l5dkc" data-time="

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Ryetoast
11/14/18 2:02:01 PM
#56:


catboy0_0 posted...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc6vs-l5dkc" data-time="


That's still a good song, but most of their stuff sounded the same..

Are you okay?
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DonaldClinton
11/14/18 2:02:07 PM
#57:


SAD! Youre never getting out of the friend zone so get over her instead of acting like a cuckold lapdog
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:03:43 PM
#58:


DonaldClinton posted...
SAD! Youre never getting out of the friend zone so get over her instead of acting like a cuckold lapdog

I would have been okay with it but she lies to me
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Alpha218
11/14/18 2:07:55 PM
#59:


DarthWendy posted...
Go to bed already -_-

Its not often I agree with Wendy, but thi

You gotta regain control of your own life dude

On your own terms
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codey
11/14/18 2:21:21 PM
#60:


I don't know, it sounds like you're projecting emotional insecurities and dreaming up this cheating scenario in your head.

Plus like 70% of the posts in this topic are your own and that weird brah
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:28:12 PM
#62:


JustMyOpinion posted...
I'm getting a "nice guy" vibe from TC.

yes I know
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:30:22 PM
#63:


codey posted...
I don't know, it sounds like you're projecting emotional insecurities and dreaming up this cheating scenario in your head.

nah, she's been talking mad shit about her bf to me for a while and was all "this guy's like a teddy bear!" there are a lot of little shit like that that paints the picture. bottom line is she hung out with some homie without me around 1 on 1 when she has a bf
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t_paynes_ghost
11/14/18 2:31:04 PM
#64:


The problem is you put up with any abuse at all, if you were firm from the start you'd probably be landing in the end zone. You're a pushover, that makes you unattractive sexually. I would question if you're even a friend to her or if you're just a baggage for her shit.
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:32:07 PM
#65:


t_paynes_ghost posted...
The problem is you put up with any abuse at all, if you were firm from the start you'd probably be landing in the end zone. You're a pushover, that makes you unattractive sexually. I would question if you're even a friend to her or if you're just a baggage for her shit.

I don't even fucking know man. I need to cut her out of my life
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t_paynes_ghost
11/14/18 2:32:50 PM
#66:


catboy0_0 posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...
The problem is you put up with any abuse at all, if you were firm from the start you'd probably be landing in the end zone. You're a pushover, that makes you unattractive sexually. I would question if you're even a friend to her or if you're just a baggage for her shit.

I don't even fucking know man. I need to cut her out of my life


You do. The only thing stopping you is yourself.
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:33:57 PM
#67:


I was holding on tho because I had made some mistakes and I thought it was just me but idk I don't think it's just me we are just incompatible as friends
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 2:38:37 PM
#68:


You are only her friend because you think you love her. That means you are not actually friends.
She thinks you are just a friend.
You think she is your soulmate.
This is an unequal relationship.

Either end the friendship or tell her you love her which would likely do that too.

You can only be truly friends when you are able to see her only as a friend and nothing else.
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t_paynes_ghost
11/14/18 2:39:56 PM
#69:


catboy0_0 posted...
I was holding on tho because I had made some mistakes and I thought it was just me but idk I don't think it's just me we are just incompatible as friends


I would stop referring to you and her as friends... it doesn't sound like a friendship, it sounds pretty one sided.

You have learned a lot from this and this is good. Some people in life aren't meant to be there forever, some people are just meant to be in your life to teach you something. It's important to take those lessons forward. You can become a much more confident individual on the other side, she has given you the experiences to teach you how not to act. The best thing you can do is take them to heart, and not dwell on them, but use these negative experiences to strengthen your future interactions.
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 2:40:46 PM
#70:


yeah
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Ryetoast
11/14/18 2:41:44 PM
#71:


This is all good advice I hope you take it instead of bumping this topic another 10 times <_<.
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codey
11/14/18 3:30:39 PM
#72:


One thing to note, don't blame her for the relationship being uneven. The friend zone is real, but it's not a negative thing. It just means that they never saw you in a romantic light, and they have no responsibility to do so just because you were into them. Moving forward, don't put that kind of energy out there if they aren't reciprocating. If you were drawn to them for anything other than their looks, it's still gonna be there and you can make a friend outbof it.
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 3:31:12 PM
#73:


codey posted...
One thing to note, don't blame her for the relationship being uneven.

nah I know
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 3:36:53 PM
#74:


What you do is ask if you would treat her the same if she was a guy.

If no, then end the relationship or try to make it more than friends immediately.

If yes, then literally put it out of your mind that she is a girl. Pretend she just another dude friend and treat her the same way.
If that ends the friendship, it wasn't a friendship. If you still friends then that is good.
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 3:38:02 PM
#75:


I'm more concerned that she's not the kind of person I thought she was and hangs out with the kind of people I don't like
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 3:38:19 PM
#76:


Ex, if you dude friend looked like he cheating on his gf and you not even like his gf, would you care?
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 3:52:32 PM
#77:


darkphoenix181 posted...
Ex, if you dude friend looked like he cheating on his gf and you not even like his gf, would you care?

the problem is that the one being cheated on is my childhood friend that I knew since I was a baby
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 3:54:43 PM
#78:


catboy0_0 posted...
darkphoenix181 posted...
Ex, if you dude friend looked like he cheating on his gf and you not even like his gf, would you care?

the problem is that the one being cheated on is my childhood friend that I knew since I was a baby


Ok.
Whose feelings do you care about more?
This childhood friend dude or this chicks?
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 3:56:54 PM
#79:


I already told him.
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Unite
11/14/18 3:57:53 PM
#80:


Do you know she cheating forsure?
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 3:58:09 PM
#81:


catboy0_0 posted...
I already told him.


But did you do this because you care more about him or because you are bitter she never.gave you the chance.
That is the heart of the matter.
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Trumpo
11/14/18 3:59:54 PM
#82:


Is this a Tadamoto alt?
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 4:00:37 PM
#83:


no. it was because the person I thought she was and portrayed herself to me as was a lie and the illusion shattered. I did not want my childhood friend to be blindsided by someone that I don't even know.
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 4:01:44 PM
#84:


catboy0_0 posted...
no. it was because the person I thought she was and portrayed herself to me as was a lie and the illusion shattered. I did not want my childhood friend to be blindsided by someone that I don't even know.


This sounds more like it was revenge for your feelings than concern for his.
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rikasa
11/14/18 4:05:30 PM
#85:


I did it, alright alright, I admit it
Now pick your next move: you can leave or live with it.
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darkphoenix181
11/14/18 4:06:23 PM
#86:


rikasa posted...
I did it, alright alright, I admit it
Now pick your next move: you can leave or live with it.


?
Are you tc?
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 4:06:34 PM
#87:


darkphoenix181 posted...
catboy0_0 posted...
no. it was because the person I thought she was and portrayed herself to me as was a lie and the illusion shattered. I did not want my childhood friend to be blindsided by someone that I don't even know.


This sounds more like it was revenge for your feelings than concern for his.

maybe it was. but what made me make the decision was thinking about this hurtful person hurting my childhood friend for no good reason
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catboy0_0
11/14/18 4:07:20 PM
#88:


rikasa posted...
I did it, alright alright, I admit it
Now pick your next move: you can leave or live with it.

huh
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