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emblem boy 11/08/18 10:05:50 PM #1: |
When love and romantic relationships are shown and described in movies, TV, music, books, etc. I find that how they describe it is not how I feel in my relationship (been dating for about 14 months).
And I don't know if that should worry me. Edit: I mean the description of love as being some almost magical type thing. I know I have feelings for my girlfriend, but the way it's described... *Blogfaqs* --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/08/18 10:17:43 PM #2: |
Bump
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CircleOfManias 11/08/18 10:20:29 PM #3: |
Unrealistic portrayals of love and relationships causing people to hold real ones to an unreasonable standard is a well-known, well-documented problem in modern culture.
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LinksLiege 11/08/18 10:22:24 PM #4: |
Well, yeah. Media plays to our desires, not reality. It's why everything works out the way it does - people have complete control over how characters feel.
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emblem boy 11/08/18 10:24:13 PM #5: |
The way she sees and describes me is more similar to how it's described in media. So maybe some people do feel that way?
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Megaman50100 11/08/18 10:24:39 PM #6: |
Argue this premise:
Romantic comedies have done more harm to modern relationships than porn ever will. --- move all remaining groundhog mercenaries to the front lines. Have sheep troopers squadrons A and B flank the cows. They're using DC-17 hoof blasters. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ultima Dragon 11/08/18 10:27:49 PM #7: |
I feel that maybe your first love is the strongest. You probably do all the grand gestures, there's tons of passion and romance, etc.
After you've been in the game for a while and you've been through a few relationships it seems like everything becomes much more casual, almost "going through the motions." Props to people who can keep each relationship feeling fresh and still call back to those first love experiences for inspiration. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darmik 11/08/18 10:30:16 PM #9: |
It's not some magical thing that just works. It's something that takes a lot of work and compromise that can be incredibly rewarding when it works out.
So it depends what you mean. --- Kind Regards, Darmik ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AsucaHayashi 11/08/18 10:30:39 PM #10: |
50% of all marriages etc.
which makes for a fun thing to keep in mind when you see a happy couple at the end of a movie and know there's a 50/50 chance of them splitting up down the line. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinksLiege 11/08/18 10:31:42 PM #11: |
emblem boy posted...
The way she sees and describes me is more similar to how it's described in media. So maybe some people do feel that way? Some people must. Everyone has a unique mind, though - a different intensity or quality of feeling isn't necessarily better or worse than another. --- This is LinksLiege's signature. It is fantastic. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/08/18 10:33:31 PM #12: |
Ultima Dragon posted...
I feel that maybe your first love is the strongest. You probably do all the grand gestures, there's tons of passion and romance, etc. I'm 28. She's my first long term relationship, lost virginity to her, etc. Darmik posted... It's not some magical thing that just works. It's something that takes a lot of work and compromise that can be incredibly rewarding when it works out. I've always had the notion that Hollywood is just fake and I shouldn't pay mind to it. That love is a choice. I'm starting to doubt myself though. Megaman50100 posted... Argue this premise: I would probably agree. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 11/08/18 10:33:58 PM #13: |
Do you also wonder why your girlfriend doesn't look like Kim Kardashian?
But seriously CircleOfManias posted... Unrealistic portrayals of love and relationships causing people to hold real ones to an unreasonable standard is a well-known, well-documented problem in modern culture. --- ....I thought it was funny ... Copied to Clipboard!
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InYourWalls1 11/08/18 10:51:58 PM #14: |
Darmik posted...
It's not some magical thing that just works. It's something that takes a lot of work and compromise that can be incredibly rewarding when it works out. I agree, over the long term those are necessary parts of a relationship, but at the same time with the right person there's a foundational chemistry that should add to the "magical" element I feel like being in love should make the art surrounding it understandable, one should just keep in mind that a lot of it tends to portray it at its highest points. But yeah it's also possible different people are going to feel these things to varying degrees. --- The fully enlightened earth radiates disaster triumphant ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darmik 11/08/18 10:57:31 PM #15: |
AsucaHayashi posted...
50% of all marriages etc. Divorce rates have dropped significantly for Millennials. That statistic never really paints the full story anyway considering it also includes people who marry several times. --- Kind Regards, Darmik ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/09/18 1:29:31 PM #16: |
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Parappa09 11/09/18 1:31:42 PM #17: |
think of it like how porn depicts sex
sometimes you have sex which is incredible, but 80% of the time it's not as glamorous or amazing as it looks on porn apply the same logic to how the media represents love don't put pressure on yourself that it's not turning out as you thought it would --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 11/09/18 1:33:39 PM #18: |
I agree TC.
I know I felt the rush of young love, but after like three months I genuinely get bored. I know it sounds horrible. Makes me wonder if I have just never been with a woman I truly, deeply love, that would unlock those magic movie feelings, or if they just don't exist and this is me. Which also makes me ask if I'm just broken. Like misfiring joy neurons or hormone imbalance or some shit. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/09/18 1:52:39 PM #19: |
Parappa09 posted...
think of it like how porn depicts sex Ya, I understand that, it's just hard. Especially since I know I'm so inexperienced to start with. clearaflagrantj posted... I agree TC. Yep. And I keep reminding myself that the grass isn't always greener on the other side, so I shouldn't be thinking about if I'm missing out. But maybe I'm being too conservative about that view and I am missing out. I can't even say I ever felt young love since I never had anything more than crushes when I was younger. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/09/18 1:55:32 PM #20: |
Describing when he first met her: "there was an aura around you, like an angel" Fuck outa here with that --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/09/18 10:11:53 PM #21: |
Friday night bump
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clearaflagrantj 11/10/18 7:12:21 AM #22: |
emblem boy posted...
I just watched this (or more rather skipped around sporadically), I can relate to about 0.0% of it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WaterLink 11/10/18 7:35:20 AM #23: |
Darmik posted...
Divorce rates have dropped significantly for Millennials. Marriage rates in general have dropped for millennials. Which suggests that more people are actually putting thought into it instead of being idiots and impulsively tying the knot just because someone got knocked up or someone didnt believe in premarital sex and the other one was that desperate to get laid. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/10/18 3:37:56 PM #24: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
emblem boy posted... It'd be nice to relate though *Sigh* --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 11/11/18 10:10:52 AM #25: |
Girlfriend just told me that she started knowing it was special due to how nervous she felt before the first date, and she usually doesn't feel nervous before dates... *Sigh*
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ssj3vegeta 11/11/18 10:17:50 AM #26: |
Date another and compare
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emblem boy 11/11/18 6:11:13 PM #27: |
ssj3vegeta posted...
Date another and compare The grass isn't always greener --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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