Current Events > Who's at fault? Bae's girl friend picked her up to go hang out.

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Bae recently got in a bad accident so she doesnt have a car until insurance handles it all.

Anyway, the friend later decides she is too tired to drive my woman home and asks bae to call me to pick her up. She tries contacting me at 12:42am (I'm already KO'd). When I don't answer, she pays for a Lyft.

When she gets home I wake up and she is angry at me for not picking her up. I tell her i would have pick her up if I knew. I wonder out loud why her friend didn't drive her back like planned and bae gets super defensive and says it's not her friend's fault. Apparently her friend is upset at me too for not being available.

Then it somehow escalated to a Me vs her Friend argument and I'm like wtf is happening here.

Kinda sounds like her friends talking trash about me.

I'm gonna side with her just because you said "bae" that many times.

__aCEr__ posted...

I'm gonna side with her just because you said "bae" that many times.

Only used that in place of her real name.

__aCEr__ posted...

I'm gonna side with her just because you said "bae" that many times.

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not your fault
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I did express how her friend should have dropped her back home like planned. How she gonna make you pay for a Lyft knowing you just got into financial pickle due to the accident.

Then S/O got upset saying it's not her friend's fault. And I'm like well damn sure aint my fault. Tbqh it's YOUR (s/o) fault for letting her walk over you like that.

Her friend sounds like a shitbag, and if you were asleep at 12:42 am it means your not at fault as her friend was suppose to give her a ride to and from.

Your woman needs a better friend and if she does not understand that you were asleep and would not hear the phone she is being unreasonable.
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Yeahit was a dumb fight. After she "understood" that i simply wasn't available, she was still ticked that i seemed to be blaming her friend. And I'm like nah i actually blame you for paying for a cab. The only reason I would blame her friend is if she knew you were paying for a ride and she let you do that anyway.

Of course gf said her friend didn't do that. But then s/o said something about "you two (me abd her friend) need to stop [fighting]". And that she is always stuck in between the two of us.

I'm like whoa doea she not like me or something. And then s/o started to avoid those questions. I think her friend wants us to break up.