Current Events > Okay, CE. Tell me about her

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Or him. Whatever.

Whos that special someone youve got your heart stuck on, and why havent you told them yet?
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I asked her out and she basically said no and I'm just trying to move on still
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It's not your fault.
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she lives in South Korea and I'm stuck in MAGAland
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There is no her. I've p much blocked out romantic feelings for the foreseeable future
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DarthAragorn posted...

I asked her out and she basically said no and I'm just trying to move on still

That sucks, sorry to hear.
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Two_Dee posted...

she lives in South Korea and I'm stuck in MAGAland

Ah. Are you guys good friends? How long have you known each other?

Blue_Dream87 posted...

There is no her. I've p much blocked out romantic feelings for the foreseeable future

There a reason you decided to do this?
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Asked her out, she said yes.

We had an amazing ~6 months and she had alluded to this before, but essentially dropped it on me that she isn't over her bf of 9 years. She said that I remind her everyday of him.

Ended it, but still see her everyday at work lol. Shit sucks, she is wife material and then some.
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Low self-esteem. I'm not in a very independent position (27, live at home, no car/license) so that doesn't help.

Too much energy and I wanna focus on me. I'll casully date and fuck, but I'm not looking for any long term
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I haven't been able to form close emotional bonds since high school. That bitch rekt me
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i told them and then they ended up just never speaking to me again

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Ummm I thought she was into me but we've been just talking and getting to know each other.

She seems to dislike my introvert lifestyle, and has been pushing for me to talk to more people. But it's hard.
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She invited me to room with her but she's lesbian. I sort of regret not taking her up on it, but not sure if it would make it better or worse. :/
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Psh just had my weddig wih my childhood sweetheart this past August.

We were married before but didnt have a service or anything. We finally had one and a 2nd honeymoon.

Really couldn't be happier and for anyone who is nervous about making the first move...just do it.
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Former coworker. She was super into me and had the perfect personality. I've never met someone as unique as her. We clicked immediately.

I decided not to pursue because she was a huge stoner and had kind of a sketchy upbringing with a questionable crowd of friends. She was a punk, basically, and I'm a homebody from an upper middle class family.

Logically I know why I didn't do it but it really, really sucks letting someone go when they're perfect in every other way.

AlisLandale posted...

Whos that special someone youve got your heart stuck on, and why havent you told them yet?

Coworker. Really close situation to that RoboLaserGuy - we became friends pretty quickly, started hanging out...Then my anxiety kind of took the better part of me.

I stopped pursuing her, she noticed, etc. I didn't think she was interested in me anymore, so I kind of dropped the whole thing and ended up getting back with my ex for a week before realizing it was a mistake. Things with her were shaky after so I kinda weened off of talking to her all the time before I wound up getting another job.

I do know that she cried a lot after I left the job (other coworkers told me) but I decided (for some stupid reason) to cut all contact with her and block her on social media...Really stupid, but at the same time she started talking a TON of shit about me to other people we knew.

I have a lot of trust issues, she was the first (and probably last with how things have been going since) girl who genuinely seemed like she wanted to break my barriers. I'm not sure if she just gave up, felt hurt, and started shit talking me to feel better...or if she was just using me the whole time. It kind of left me in a weird funk whenever I think about relationships so I've pretty much given up on the idea.
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She's best babe. <3 I love you Tiamat!
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It's not your fault.
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I'm married to him, so I obviously told him but. He's been my best friend for... seven years now. He's helped me through so much, even before we ever dated seriously. I know I wouldn't be here without him, tbh.
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Im already with @smoliske. hes ZA WARUDO to me even tho he doesnt watch jojo
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not really interested lately

_Lyonidias posted...

Im already with @smoliske. hes ZA WARUDO to me even tho he doesnt watch jojo

We broke up 3, almost 4 years ago. We were best friends for years before we even started dating. We were the cute high school sweethearts couple that was never really actually a couple, just together a lot, just really close friends, when we werent dating everyone would say we were just made for each other but I didnt act on it until real late because I thought my depression would hold me back from being the best I can be for her, and she deserved nothing less. Then we finally just started dating in community college together, we both said it was something we should have started doing years ago. Greatest year and a half of my life, that was my happiness at its peak. She then moved away after graduation, we broke up and both took it real hard but then gave long distance a try and it wasnt for us. I just hope shes doing okay, last I heard she got into her dream college for pharmacy school. I dropped out before the break up because my family was struggling financially, worked full time dead end jobs a couple years, now Im back in school again.

Havent been in a serious relationship since, and only just recently did I start opening up to seeing people again. My current dating situation is kinda shitty (on again off again gf type thing) but its not something Im approaching too seriously, shes a sweetheart when were not butting heads but mostly I just needed to stop being alone all the time and its really helped me, and I can see that its helped her too.

Ive not given up on love, me and my ex arent going to be together and thats just now become a pill I can swallow, I just use our relationship as a reminder that happiness lies ahead and Im not getting anywhere if I choose to shut off from everyone I meet. 2018 has been the year of vulnerability for me and Im feeling better than I ever did from post-breakup 2015 - 2017.
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