Poll of the Day > So I talked to this girl in my math class again.

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Basically, I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks in my probability class, but it seemed that she always seemed to have something better to do other than talk to me, such as talking to her actual friends or doing stuff on her phone. All I've talked to her thus far is school and homework, and the like. Nothing personal, really. Anyway, today, I talked to her before class started today, and she said things that led me to believe that I don't think I'd be interested in talking to her again. I asked her if she took the elementary probability course offered at our school; she said yes, and it turns out that we had taken the same course together last fall. So she starts talking about how the class was easier than the class we're taking right now, and then she started talking about the homework that required us to use the statistics program R. So I told her that I just found it to use Excel, then she agreed with me.

I find this odd; in the weeks preceding, I had told other classmates adjacent to me that I had found the introductory class easier than the advanced class. And now she tells me that she also decided to "screw it" and used Excel instead of R. It could be the case that she actually does find this class harder than the one we took last year, and it could be the case that she likes Excel more than R, just like me. But I can't help but feel she's just repeating stuff that I've said before.

Besides this talk we had today, it doesn't seem like she gives a damn about me in general; she's hardly ever approached me for conversation on her own, and it doesn't seem like we share common interests. The one time she did approach me, she asked about what high school I came from, and I couldn't help but show massive distaste for such things. I don't really consider my high school to be anything of importance, in other words; I did answer her anyway, though, and told me about another classmate who attended the same school as I did. Again, I didn't really care, since I knew no one from my high school, anyway. Sometimes, I'd hear her speak Chinese with some bloke who likely took Chinese with her in college. I don't know much Chinese; all that I have learned, is what little my mother had taught me in my college years. I don't have many interests at all, in general.

And it's not like I could hold a conversation with anyone, let alone her, for prolonged periods of time. I'm just not an interesting person to talk to; school is all I know how to talk about, as I have said in previous weekend topics. I just don't see myself talking to her as a friend, let alone a significant other. We don't seem to have much in common. In my talks with her, she tells me that this class is harder than one we took last semester, and that she has to redo a bunch of problems from the midterm we had last Friday. The class I took with her before, Real Analysis, was challenging, but it certainly wasn't easier than this advanced probability class. I very much doubt her with this claim that she made. But in any case, I have to redo only one problem from that exam while she had to redo several. I can't help but feel a sort of disconnect if I am unable to relate with her academic troubles, and it really makes me feel like I wouldn't be interested in her. She also tells me that she had to retake Real Analysis, while I have already passed it; again, I am unable to find myself relating to her troubles in her studies as an academic in college. In short, she doesn't seem like someone I would be able to connect with as an academic. In any case, she doesn't seem that interested in me anyway, because she has like seventy-two better things to do than talk to me before class, as I have said before. Anyway, do you think I should continue talking to this girl?

I must have these answers.
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Move on man as she's clearly not interested and honestly you don't seem like you are with her.
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There's no point unless you can practice discussing topics other than school.
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wwinterj25 posted...

Move on man as she's clearly not interested and honestly you don't seem like you are with her.

You post in every topic related to a girl in hopes you will get info that will help your game or something? Or you just like to see how pathetic others are at getting any like yourself?

Is this a fad topic attempt?

"I don't see her as a friend or SO but I will write an essay about her doing innocuous things."
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