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Bishop9800
10/09/18 8:37:59 PM
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https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/babysitting-black-woman-calls-police-male-babysitter-white-children-195623674.html

wow. Just wow.
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0AbsoluteZero0
10/09/18 8:41:16 PM
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The woman circled the parking lot and returned to Lewiss car, saying, Can I ask the little girl if she knows who you are? and Lewis answered, No, you cannot.

To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious. However, that lady should have been minding her own business since there obviously werent any real signs that the kids were in some sort of danger.
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Bishop9800
10/09/18 9:00:37 PM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious.


How is that response "suspicious"? What gives her the authority to ask the kids any question?
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coolboy11
10/09/18 9:03:24 PM
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white woman
white fellas get a bad wrap, white women are much more obnoxious and nosy with the racialism in most of my encounters.
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DarkTransient
10/09/18 9:03:59 PM
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Bishop9800 posted...
0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious.


How is that response "suspicious"? What gives her the authority to ask the kids any question?


She shouldn't've asked, but if you ask and get that kind of response to that kind of question, of fucking course you're going to be suspicious.

It was pretty racist of her to ask in the first place, but that doesn't invalidate that it really did become suspicious after that answer.
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Bishop9800
10/09/18 9:11:51 PM
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DarkTransient posted...
She shouldn't've asked, but if you ask and get that kind of response to that kind of question, of fucking course you're going to be suspicious.


Bullshit. Now if I have seen some kids looking like they were in trouble, then yes, but those kids was happy and playing. So she had no reason to even assume that they were in danger.
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FrisbeeDude
10/09/18 9:15:18 PM
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Twitter sleuths will identify this lady shortly. looking forward to it.
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nemu
10/09/18 9:17:26 PM
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I hate how they have to insert race into this. Like, most likely it's racially motivated, but unless that is known for absolute certainty, there is no reason to point it out. Just race baiting headlines at their finest.

Nevermind, I did not go far enough into the article. Definitely racially motivated, so fair in this case.
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UnfairRepresent
10/09/18 9:17:52 PM
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I had a black babysitter when I was kid.

So did my siblings.

It makes me laugh (sadly) now when I see people go wild and mad and infuriated at the idea of men being babysitters or school teachers because "Well they all are pedophiles!"

And someone claiming the fact he banned his daughter from being near male teachers/babysitters and the fact they were never raped proves how good of a parent he was.
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twitterfriends
10/09/18 9:18:57 PM
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Lol if any white kids been kidnapped they been amber alerts and the National Guard on the case already lady. What a sad life she is probably living, she probably had her phone out filining the cop encounter hoping she could FB post her own cop shouting of a black man.
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eston
10/09/18 9:21:41 PM
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I would argue that her asking that question at all comes across as way more suspicious than him answering no.

Imagine if anyone other than a white woman had done this
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eston
10/09/18 9:22:49 PM
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nemu posted...
I hate how they have to insert race into this. Like, most likely it's racially motivated, but unless that is known for absolute certainty, there is no reason to point it out. Just race baiting headlines at their finest.

Nevermind, I did not go far enough into the article. Definitely racially motivated, so fair in this case.

Maybe you should try to do better next time instead of shitposting by default
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FrisbeeDude
10/09/18 9:24:15 PM
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eston posted...
I would argue that her asking that question at all comes across as way more suspicious than him answering no.

Imagine if anyone other than a white woman had done this


that privilege though.

If my black ass went up to a white lady with kids asking these questions, I'd definitely be having a long talk with police... against my will
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masticatingman
10/09/18 9:27:22 PM
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Being a male babysitter seems to be more important than his race.
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0AbsoluteZero0
10/09/18 9:27:33 PM
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Bishop9800 posted...
0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious.

How is that response "suspicious"? What gives her the authority to ask the kids any question?

Pretty much agree with Darks response. Yes, she shouldnt have stuck her nose into the situation and it was likely racially motivated. However, his response is what youd expect if the guy had in fact abducted those children. Theres no question it was suspicious.

The woman should have minded her own damn business, but once she asked the question he should have let the little girl answer to end the situation.
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
10/09/18 9:28:40 PM
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What random person pulls up to you in a parking lot and wants to ask a kid in your care a question??

For all I know, you're a serial killer.
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nemu
10/09/18 9:29:28 PM
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eston posted...
nemu posted...
I hate how they have to insert race into this. Like, most likely it's racially motivated, but unless that is known for absolute certainty, there is no reason to point it out. Just race baiting headlines at their finest.

Nevermind, I did not go far enough into the article. Definitely racially motivated, so fair in this case.

Maybe you should try to do better next time instead of shitposting by default

Is it really shitposting when in the grand majority of these cases nothing but race baiting? And watching the video, it looks like it's never explicitly said that the woman claimed his race was suspicious. They just make that inference. While I agree that inference is most likely true, the article's point is sleazy. All they want are the clicks. At the very least, they didn't use white woman in the title.
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orcus_snake
10/09/18 9:32:43 PM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
The woman circled the parking lot and returned to Lewiss car, saying, Can I ask the little girl if she knows who you are? and Lewis answered, No, you cannot.

To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious. However, that lady should have been minding her own business since there obviously werent any real signs that the kids were in some sort of danger.


that is a supremely mild mannered answer to the blatant racism from the woman.
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Bishop9800
10/09/18 9:33:00 PM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
However, his response is what youd expect if the guy had in fact abducted those children. Theres no question it was suspicious.


Once again.......Bullshit. Now if I have seen some kids looking like they were in trouble, then yes, but those kids was happy and playing. So she had no reason to even assume that they were in danger.
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FrisbeeDude
10/09/18 9:34:11 PM
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White woman calls police on black guy babysitting two white children.

"YOU DONT KNOW THAT RACE WAS A FACTOR"

ok
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
10/09/18 9:36:03 PM
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What probable cause did the woman have to ask the kids if they knew the man? Did the kids appear to be in distress? What logical reason is there other than race?
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FrisbeeDude
10/09/18 9:37:16 PM
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masticatingman posted...
Being a male babysitter seems to be more important than his race.


Yeah...a white guy with two white children is totally suspicious.

cmon, man
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nemu
10/09/18 9:38:12 PM
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FrisbeeDude posted...
White woman calls police on black guy babysitting two white children.

"YOU DONT KNOW THAT RACE WAS A FACTOR"

ok

What from that sentence determines race was a factor? Why is being black instantly the reason someone will call the police? Could it not be that it's because he's a man? Could it not be because of some suspicions action? It could be, and most likely was his skin color in this case, but it's not 100% certain unless it came out of that lady's mouth. I'm not saying racist people don't call the police on black people for simply being black, and I'm not saying this woman isn't a racist. I'm saying it's disingenuous as fuck to base every single article title on a person's race before facts are even out. The news these days is all about "oppression", even when it's not actually related to a characteristic like that.
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VipaGTS
10/09/18 9:42:48 PM
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Shut up with the his response was suspicious. The woman is an idiot, has no authority and her wanting to speak to the children is far more suspicious to me, especially after driving up and asking are they ok...Im not gonna let some weirdo like that speak to the kids in my custody.
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Bishop9800
10/09/18 9:43:27 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
Shut up with the his response was suspicious. The woman is an idiot, has no authority and her wanting to speak to the children is far more suspicious to me, especially after driving up and asking are they ok...Im not gonna let some weirdo like that speak to the kids in my custody.


CHURCH!!!!!!
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VipaGTS
10/09/18 9:43:50 PM
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nemu posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
White woman calls police on black guy babysitting two white children.

"YOU DONT KNOW THAT RACE WAS A FACTOR"

ok

What from that sentence determines race was a factor? Why is being black instantly the reason someone will call the police? Could it not be that it's because he's a man? Could it not be because of some suspicions action? It could be, and most likely was his skin color in this case, but it's not 100% certain unless it came out of that lady's mouth. I'm not saying racist people don't call the police on black people for simply being black, and I'm not saying this woman isn't a racist. I'm saying it's disingenuous as fuck to base every single article title on a person's race before facts are even out. The news these days is all about "oppression", even when it's not actually related to a characteristic like that.

What made her suspect foul play then? Its not disingenuous when you can infer obvious reasons and burying your head in the sand wont change anything.
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Jetblackmoon
10/09/18 9:44:10 PM
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My fiances dad had this happen with her when she was a baby. I guess some woman thought she appeared Asian (she is Hispanic, and he is very clearly Hispanic) and asked if the baby was his. I don't know why anyone thinks this is appopriate.

Children being around someone with a different skin color or that doesn't look like them is not a cause for concern. If someone asked me something like this, I don't know if I could have been this polite.
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Fam_Fam
10/09/18 9:46:36 PM
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does anyone think if she saw two white childen with a white man that she'd say ANYTHING?
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nemu
10/09/18 9:48:17 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
nemu posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
White woman calls police on black guy babysitting two white children.

"YOU DONT KNOW THAT RACE WAS A FACTOR"

ok

What from that sentence determines race was a factor? Why is being black instantly the reason someone will call the police? Could it not be that it's because he's a man? Could it not be because of some suspicions action? It could be, and most likely was his skin color in this case, but it's not 100% certain unless it came out of that lady's mouth. I'm not saying racist people don't call the police on black people for simply being black, and I'm not saying this woman isn't a racist. I'm saying it's disingenuous as fuck to base every single article title on a person's race before facts are even out. The news these days is all about "oppression", even when it's not actually related to a characteristic like that.

What made her suspect foul play then? Its not disingenuous when you can infer obvious reasons and burying your head in the sand wont change anything.

I don't know. I'm not in the woman's head. I don't know her thoughts. We just need to be objective about things. It would be perfectly fine to include the statements that the people involved think it was about race, but his race does not need to be in the title of the article without proof. We're in this phase of "bad thing happens to a minority, so it's obviously because they're a minority" and everyone just runs with it. Racism should be pointed out and condemned when there is proof of racism. It should not be assumed because the victim of the inconvenience/crime is a minority. This is the kind of shit that fuels the racial divide.
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0AbsoluteZero0
10/09/18 9:49:34 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
Shut up with the his response was suspicious. The woman is an idiot, has no authority and her wanting to speak to the children is far more suspicious to me, especially after driving up and asking are they ok...Im not gonna let some weirdo like that speak to the kids in my custody.

Whatever, have to agree to disagree. Im 100% with you that the woman was way out of line to insert herself into that situation and probably had some racial motivations behind it. She was in the wrong in this situation. That still doesnt change my feeling that his response would naturally raise some suspicion.
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FursonaNonGrata
10/09/18 9:51:19 PM
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VipaGTS posted...
Shut up with the his response was suspicious. The woman is an idiot, has no authority and her wanting to speak to the children is far more suspicious to me, especially after driving up and asking are they ok...Im not gonna let some weirdo like that speak to the kids in my custody.


Quoted for fucking truth
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KStateKing17
10/09/18 9:51:36 PM
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Fam_Fam posted...
does anyone think if she saw two white childen with a white man that she'd say ANYTHING?

My guess is that most people would assume that two kids under the care of an adult who is the same color might actually be their children. So long as there's no signs of anything foul of course.
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thronedfire2
10/09/18 10:07:52 PM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
The woman circled the parking lot and returned to Lewiss car, saying, Can I ask the little girl if she knows who you are? and Lewis answered, No, you cannot.

To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious. However, that lady should have been minding her own business since there obviously werent any real signs that the kids were in some sort of danger.


no it doesn't. what good does a complete stranger asking the kids if they know him do?
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FrisbeeDude
10/09/18 10:41:58 PM
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You know what's really strange? following a complete stranger and asking them about the children in their company
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Laserion
10/09/18 10:47:00 PM
#35:


0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious.

He's the babysitter and she's the weird stranger. What if she grabs the girl and runs away?
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DarkProto05
10/09/18 10:47:13 PM
#36:


FrisbeeDude posted...
masticatingman posted...
Being a male babysitter seems to be more important than his race.


Yeah...a white guy with two white children is totally suspicious.

cmon, man

It can be sexist and racist. If a black woman was with the kids I'm sure no one would question her.
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ScazarMeltex
10/09/18 10:49:18 PM
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But guys, racism is over, we elected a black president.
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BiggLaw
10/09/18 11:07:04 PM
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That's why I always feel uneasy when I'm out with my Godson. Earlier this year we celebrated his 5th birthday at a place kind of like Chuck E Cheese, and he ran up to me and told me that he needed to go to the bathroom. Obviously you don't send a kid into a public restroom alone, so I told my homeboy that he needed to go. This dude just said, "Oh okay, go ahead and take him."

In my mind I'm like, "DOG! Don't you know I'm telling YOU for a reason!?" Obviously he didn't understand, but I just took him anyway because I didn't have time to tactfully explain. Lil man is over here doing the "Code Yellow: I'm About to Pee on Myself" dance, and I'm trying to figure out how to avoid this hypothetical, but very possible scenario that I'm so paranoid about.

I only felt at ease after entering because the restroom was packed, and in my mind I figured common sense would make it obvious that nobody up to whatever wouldn't do it in a full restroom.

Hyper awareness is a way of life for some demographics. Survival mechanism.
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Kajagogo
10/09/18 11:09:36 PM
#39:


Fam_Fam posted...
does anyone think if she saw two white childen with a white man that she'd say ANYTHING?


Yes. It's happened many times before. A lot of times men/fathers get harassed when they are alone with children.
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Paper_Okami
10/09/18 11:13:27 PM
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AmeriKKKa
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/09/18 11:14:33 PM
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Paper_Okami posted...
AmeriKKKa


Amerikkka's Most Wanted is a great album, though.
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Zodd3224
10/09/18 11:19:02 PM
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DarkTransient posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious.


How is that response "suspicious"? What gives her the authority to ask the kids any question?


She shouldn't've asked, but if you ask and get that kind of response to that kind of question, of fucking course you're going to be suspicious.

It was pretty racist of her to ask in the first place, but that doesn't invalidate that it really did become suspicious after that answer.


If someone asked me if they could ask my lighter skinned children if they know me I would kindly tell them to go fuck themselves.
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/09/18 11:25:49 PM
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well, at least she didn't start screaming for security or try a citizen's arrest.

all things considered, I'd say that's a step up
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SailorGoon
10/09/18 11:31:28 PM
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Interesting article. Thanks for the read TC
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Bishop9800
10/09/18 11:32:36 PM
#45:


Kajagogo posted...
Yes. It's happened many times before. A lot of times men/fathers get harassed when they are alone with children.


Source
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DepreceV2
10/10/18 10:10:17 AM
#46:


Bishop9800 posted...
Kajagogo posted...
Yes. It's happened many times before. A lot of times men/fathers get harassed when they are alone with children.


Source


Still waiting on this. Especially since you said "a lot."
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/10/18 3:18:53 PM
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DepreceV2 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
Kajagogo posted...
Yes. It's happened many times before. A lot of times men/fathers get harassed when they are alone with children.


Source


Still waiting on this. Especially since you said "a lot."


@Kajagogo

did you leave the conversation?
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MutantJohn
10/10/18 3:29:42 PM
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Men can't care for children solely without arousing suspicion from backwards thinking women
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/10/18 3:38:58 PM
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not just women. weird to only acknowledge women

even a "mostly" would be baseless speculation unless you're completely basing it on women being a statistically higher number than men in America. but that would still be pretty silly
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Anarchy_Juiblex
10/10/18 4:07:45 PM
#50:


0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
To be fair, his response to that question does come off as suspicious


Not really.

What happened to "don't talk to strangers"?
It's literally his job to protect the kids, if he doesn't want them being questioned by some rando, that's perfectly reasonable.
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