Current Events > Anyone have an ex block them on everything after a breakup?

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she broke up with me last thursday (not this one that just passed), blocked me on instagram sometime last weekend and then blocked me on linkedin last tuesday. I reached out to her the day after she broke up with me and she was very direct and hostile about it all, so I left it at that.

I mean, the whole ignoring thing is pretty immature to me. I'd like to reconcile things with her at least a bit, but I don't want to piss her off by trying to get in touch with her again so soon. anyone have any experience with that sort of thing? if all you're gonna tell me is "on to the next" then don't bother. already heard it a million times and we started as really good friends, so I'd like to at least keep in touch with her occasionally. there wasn't any cheating either, things just sort of broke down and now she wants to be alone and focus on building her career
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Give her space, she may need time and mental space to move on from you.

Don't be selfish.
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I am giving her space. I haven't talked to her at all in over a week and wasn't planning on doing it anytime soon. I was more wondering if I should bother at all somewhere down the line or just wait and see if she ever does
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My second to last ex (AKA the only good one) blocked me on FB and Instagram. Eventually she unblocked me on FB (although she later closed it because of her self esteem) but she has yet to unblock me on Instagram. Two and a half years later.

Sorry to say this, but some girls never get over breakups.
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I blocked my ex on everything because she's a thot that kept trying to hit me up for the D
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anyone else
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I'm the one that blocks my ex's on everything, not the other way around.
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ThyCorndog posted...

anyone else

Don't contact her, maybe some time down the line she will, but it's nothing certain.

Or maybe you could contact her again but wait at least a year to do it.
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ThyCorndog posted...

I haven't talked to her at all in over a week

A week isn't a long time. Was something like three years before me and an ex started talking again as friends.

Seems like your pride is hurting more than anything. Just accept it and move on with your life. Easier said than done I know. Been there, got the t-shirt myself so I'm talking from experience and appreciate every relationship is different.

End of the day if she doesn't want you in her life then you really can't force her to. Some people need to cut thing off completely and you have to respect that.
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YoungMutual posted...

Or maybe you could contact her again but wait at least a year to do it.

Depends on if TC takes this advice as it's meant to be (move on and see what happens in the future) or sits in his bedroom pining and counting down the days until a year has passed in the hopes of talking her round.
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Just let her go dude who gives a shit, you're only going to cause problems for yourself getting caught up on this one person who doesn't want to be with you.
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She's probably cyber-stalking you even though she blocked you.
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I guess you can mail her a letter trying to reconcile things because maybe you didn't like how it ended and that you don't really expect to get back together but to remain friends.

After that, if she doesn't respond, then there's not much you can do but move on.

telling me to let go and move on is useless cause I already know that. I doubt I'll ever be with her again. it's just that it was the closest relationship I've ever had and also that she's ever had, so it's pretty confusing that she'd suddenly make a 180 on everything. she didn't even block any of her other ex's cause I know she had casual contact with them (unless she did at first and then unblocked them), so it's extra strange she went the extra distance this time. like she said I was something no one else has ever been for her and then she does this lol

and yeah I know a week's not a long time. I wasn't gonna try and reach out until either some variable number of months from now or never
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Honestly you just have to accept it. She has the right to completely cut ties if she wants to. She doesnt owe you an explanation or friendship. I get it that you were friends before but she clearly doesnt want to interact with you. Thats her decision, respect it. If in the future she chooses to reach out to you then it becomes your decision. For now you just have to accept.
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ThyCorndog posted...

telling me to let go and move on is useless cause I already know that. I doubt I'll ever be with her again. it's just that it was the closest relationship I've ever had and also that she's ever had, so it's pretty confusing that she'd suddenly make a 180 on everything. she didn't even block any of her other ex's cause I know she had casual contact with them (unless she did at first and then unblocked them), so it's extra strange she went the extra distance this time. like she said I was something no one else has ever been for her and then she does this lol

and yeah I know a week's not a long time. I wasn't gonna try and reach out until either some variable number of months from now or never

There's no right or wrong answer. Just do what makes you happier in the long term. Seems like she's already ahead of you in that regard.
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