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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 5:41:20 PM
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obvious exceptions
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boxington
09/14/18 5:42:36 PM
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do you plan to?
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frogman_295
09/14/18 5:43:40 PM
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Take it to your grave man
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 5:44:05 PM
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it'll be something that cuts me off from my parents for a long time

i haven't yet found the need to as I've yet to meet a man or trans person that I want to stay with long term
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Mareen
09/14/18 5:44:34 PM
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Do you live with them?
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DragonGirlYuki
09/14/18 5:45:23 PM
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How long was your purgatory?
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Metro2
09/14/18 5:45:25 PM
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How do you know they'll respond badly? Are they hardcore Christians or something?
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vocedelmorte
09/14/18 5:46:03 PM
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You don't have to, its not a big deal, especially if you're more straight than not.
I think you would need to come out if you meet a guy that you want to have serious relationships with, othe than that why does it matter
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frogman_295
09/14/18 5:46:27 PM
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How do i know if I'm Bi? I have slightly gay thoughts from time to time but deg prefer women. I guess I am a little bit if I'm completely honest?
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vocedelmorte
09/14/18 5:47:57 PM
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frogman_295 posted...
How do i know if I'm Bi? I have slightly gay thoughts from time to time but deg prefer women. I guess I am a little bit if I'm completely honest?

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frogman_295
09/14/18 5:49:47 PM
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vocedelmorte posted...
frogman_295 posted...
How do i know if I'm Bi? I have slightly gay thoughts from time to time but deg prefer women. I guess I am a little bit if I'm completely honest?

Heteroflexible

Haha, yes Ty. I googled it sounds perfect....
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 5:52:27 PM
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Mareen posted...
Do you live with them?

Nah

DragonGirlYuki posted...
How long was your purgatory?

9 months?

Metro2 posted...
How do you know they'll respond badly? Are they hardcore Christians or something?

Yeah, they're Christian, and conservative Koreans.
They'd never understand or accept it.
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SSJ2GrimReaper
09/14/18 5:54:07 PM
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Do you have any brothers or sisters
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 5:54:56 PM
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SSJ2GrimReaper posted...
Do you have any brothers or sisters

i have two brothers
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tamashiini
09/14/18 5:55:33 PM
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I haven't come out as bisexual to my parents either, and unless I end up in a long term relationship that can't result naturally in grandchildren, i see no reason to
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masticatingman
09/14/18 5:57:09 PM
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A lot of people only come out b/c theyre close to their parents and literally just get tired of beating around the bush about who theyre really dating. If thats not you youd probably just be wasting your time.
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DragonGirlYuki
09/14/18 5:57:33 PM
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What was the purgatory for?
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TeaMilk
09/14/18 6:01:35 PM
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do you have a preference for men/women, or is it about equal?
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 6:02:34 PM
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DragonGirlYuki posted...
What was the purgatory for?

i don't even remember at this point

TeaMilk posted...
do you have a preference for men/women, or is it about equal?

i guess i prefer women more but i have very real attraction to men as well
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 6:03:06 PM
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CrimsonRage posted...
is this for real or one of your usual "bok topics"? >_>


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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 6:06:52 PM
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tamashiini posted...
I haven't come out as bisexual to my parents either, and unless I end up in a long term relationship that can't result naturally in grandchildren, i see no reason to

yeah like

its just unnecessary trouble
if you don't mind me asking, would your parents be unaccepting?
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deanshow
09/14/18 6:07:38 PM
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Have you told them what we did when you were in the east coast?
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Infinite 2003
09/14/18 6:16:13 PM
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I haven't come out as bisexual to my parents either. But it's mostly because I'm not bisexual.
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tamashiini
09/14/18 6:24:24 PM
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Bok_Choi posted...
tamashiini posted...
I haven't come out as bisexual to my parents either, and unless I end up in a long term relationship that can't result naturally in grandchildren, i see no reason to

yeah like

its just unnecessary trouble
if you don't mind me asking, would your parents be unaccepting?


Nah, they'd be a little uncomfortable but probably fine with it. I have a gay aunt who's been with her partner happily (for far longer than any of her breeder siblings, ha) but the white trash folks in the family talk a lot of shit about them behind their backs and recently my aunts've been harassed by locals who throw mutilated livestock carcasses around the gate/cattle guard of their ranch, so mostly my parents would worry and be really sad if I had to deal with bullshit like that.

My sister already gave them grandkids so they wouldn't be utterly heartbroken, and besides, there's always adoption or the good ol' DNA donor and turkey baster trick

My maternal grandparents might write me out of the will for it though, even though I've been caregiving for them for the last four years. Eh, no big loss.
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Bok_Choi
09/14/18 11:47:48 PM
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tamashiini posted...
but the white trash folks in the family talk a lot of shit about them behind their backs and recently my aunts've been harassed by locals who throw mutilated livestock carcasses around the gate/cattle guard of their ranch, so mostly my parents would worry and be really sad if I had to deal with bullshit like that.

Yikes
That sounds awful - but unfortunately not surprising it's happening in today's climate

Kinda fucked up about the will tho
I don't expect to inherit much anyhow so that doesn't worry me
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Parappa09
09/15/18 1:32:17 PM
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are you the youngest sibling?
whats the ratio of straight to gay porn that you watch?
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Bok_Choi
09/15/18 3:08:30 PM
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Parappa09 posted...
are you the youngest sibling?
whats the ratio of straight to gay porn that you watch?

yeah lolol

also maybe like...

7:1
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