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ssj-kenobi
07/26/18 9:22:28 AM
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what's the priority of what makes someone gay? sex or gender?

is it having sex with the same sex or having sex with the same gender?
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BigSLM1993
07/26/18 9:24:11 AM
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IMO Feeling attraction for the same sex AND not feeling attraction for the opposite. People forget the second part and act like bisexuality doesn't exist.
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NepGear462
07/26/18 9:26:10 AM
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Well, sex and gender are the same thing
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Touch
07/26/18 9:26:51 AM
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Balls touching
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Vicious_Dios
07/26/18 9:27:17 AM
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Yes.
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ClockworkHare
07/26/18 9:27:29 AM
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It's typically a combination of both.

It's part of why many trans people have a tough time trying to convince regular homosexuals to accept them as the same.
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SSJCAT
07/26/18 9:28:04 AM
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I dont get why people get hung up on stuff like this tbh. These labels and categories people feel the need to place on other people arent going to apply to everyone. Everybody likes different stuff in my experience.
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Dragonblade01
07/26/18 9:33:35 AM
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I don't think the truth of someone's sex/gender plays as much into it as people think. It simply correlates.

What's actually happening is that you look at someone, make a judgment on whether they "look" male or female, make another judgment regarding their "looks" based on the physical traits you can readily observe, and then sexual attraction triggers based on those.

Basically, if you're a guy, and you are sexually attracted to someone who looks to you like an attractive man, then you're homosexual. If it's to someone who looks to you like an attractive woman, you're heterosexual. If both situations are possible for you, then you'd be considered bisexual.

Easy.
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MrMallard
07/26/18 9:33:37 AM
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Ehh, whichever they prefer. If a lesbian sees the woman in a pre-op trans woman and loves her regardless of her penis, then she can conceivably be gay for that. Likewise for for a woman who is all in for the vagina.
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Sir Will
07/26/18 9:55:20 AM
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Gender.

That said, for physical sexual attraction, a body... outside the norm is not something everybody is able to deal with. Which is what it is, just be respectful.
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BakedStuffEtc
07/26/18 5:03:15 PM
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NepGear462 posted...
Well, sex and gender are the same thing

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EliteLevel
07/26/18 5:06:35 PM
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Its only gay if your balls touch.
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Sir Will
07/26/18 5:31:34 PM
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BakedStuffEtc posted...
NepGear462 posted...
Well, sex and gender are the same thing

No.
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EndOfDiscOne
07/26/18 5:35:42 PM
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Gender. I have no problem eating out a pre-op trans woman, but I would never be with a man.
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DarkTransient
07/26/18 5:40:14 PM
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I suspect that in the same way that some straight men will find themself attracted to trans-women, and others won't (but might find themself attracted to trans-men, since they perceive them as female, whereas the first group won't); much the same thing would happen with gays too. In short, it really depends on the individual.
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Crescente
07/26/18 5:57:45 PM
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What if you're not attracted to men but you still enjoy sex with them?

Or attracted to a trans but don't want to have sex with them?

Not attracted to women but want to have sex with them?
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BakedStuffEtc
07/26/18 6:03:44 PM
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Sir Will posted...
BakedStuffEtc posted...
NepGear462 posted...
Well, sex and gender are the same thing

No.


Well technically gender is the language we use to refer to what sex you are, so it's not exactly the same but it's a concept inextricable from sex
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Kisai
07/26/18 6:04:46 PM
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There's no consistency on this. Society will never really know what being gay actually is, since nobody can decide on what it is.
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Sir Will
07/26/18 6:12:41 PM
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BakedStuffEtc posted...
Well technically gender is the language we use to refer to what sex you are, so it's not exactly the same but it's a concept inextricable from sex

Biological sex and gender identity are not the same.
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FF_Redux
07/26/18 6:15:20 PM
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Im gay and I love men that act and look like men with real penises and sperm producing balls.
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Squall28
07/26/18 6:18:32 PM
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Sir Will posted...
BakedStuffEtc posted...
Well technically gender is the language we use to refer to what sex you are, so it's not exactly the same but it's a concept inextricable from sex

Biological sex and gender identity are not the same.


Apparently gender and gender identity aren't the same either....had to fish out the answer from planned Parenthood of all places

Sex-what your doctor says you are
Gender-what society says you are
Gender identity- what you say you are

Sounds like all those self identified trans are actually correctly labeled by everyone. If society says they're a man, they're a man. We just don't know gender identity because we don't know their choice, and frankly don't really care.
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BakedStuffEtc
07/26/18 6:19:46 PM
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Sir Will posted...
BakedStuffEtc posted...
Well technically gender is the language we use to refer to what sex you are, so it's not exactly the same but it's a concept inextricable from sex

Biological sex and gender identity are not the same.


Of course not, gender labelling language refers to male or female, and if you """"feel"""" like one of them for whatever reason, like you're trying to present the characteristics associated with the sex described by gender labelling, you can """""identify"""""" as it. If you """"""identify"""" with the opposite sex that of course doesn't mean you've swapped sex or gender, just that you're not in agreement with the reality of your physical make-up.
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MattSFfrd
07/26/18 6:23:37 PM
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BakedStuffEtc posted...
NepGear462 posted...
Well, sex and gender are the same thing

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Darmik
07/26/18 6:29:34 PM
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EliteLevel posted...
Its only gay if your balls touch.

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DavidWong
07/26/18 6:31:10 PM
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Touch posted...
Balls touching


lol'd
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MacDaMurderer
07/26/18 6:47:32 PM
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I was at work and a cute white chick comes in with her brother to fill out some paper work. When shes done she hands me the forms. I have trouble reading one of the addresses on the form.

One form said Devan and the other said Michael. I look at the brother and say hey Michael let me see your ID.

The girl goes um Im Michael. Shit fucked me up for the rest of the day.
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