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Vol2tex
06/26/18 3:20:11 PM
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Does race matter to you when dating? - Results (26 votes)
Yes
26.92% (7 votes)
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No
50% (13 votes)
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Somewhat
23.08% (6 votes)
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I was talking to this hispanic girl I know and she mentioned that a black guy was hitting on her for weeks (a former patient at the physical therapy office where she worked). She was on the fence and apparently her hispanic friends sounded like they were trying to dissuade her, also saying "Once you go black, you never go back".
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chollima
06/26/18 3:20:39 PM
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i don't find some races attractive
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boxington
06/26/18 3:21:24 PM
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no.
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ArchiePeck
06/26/18 3:21:42 PM
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chollima posted...
i don't find some races attractive


But people don't all look the same, so...
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Questionmarktarius
06/26/18 3:22:28 PM
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Yes.
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SpiralDrift
06/26/18 3:23:12 PM
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Only in relation to what I personally find attractive. Certain features/traits might be more common in some races than others.
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Criminalt
06/26/18 3:23:41 PM
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Nope. Dated and married both within and outside of my race.
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Patty_Fleur
06/26/18 3:24:33 PM
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Yes. White girls are my favorite
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Cleo_II
06/26/18 4:13:26 PM
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I wouldnt date my own race, does that count?
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Balrog0
06/26/18 4:14:03 PM
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no
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KStateKing17
06/26/18 4:15:48 PM
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I say somewhat just because I've already dealt with both of our families having issues with interracial dating.

I don't think I could ever bring a white guy to a family reunion.
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Kineth
06/26/18 4:16:31 PM
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Not at all.
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mew4ever
06/26/18 4:18:50 PM
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I'm in no position whatsoever to filter out people. Even if I were attractive, I just don't get that. Races are a huge portion of population. You gonna tell me you find a whole section of people unattractive?
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Eevee-Trainer
06/26/18 4:20:36 PM
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Nah
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KJBDEFENDER
06/26/18 4:24:41 PM
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Criminalt posted...
Nope. Dated and married both within and outside of my race.

Me too. I learned that skin color is no more relevant than hair color or eye color.

What is VERY relevant is conflicting diferences in politics, religion, culture, language, and the ability to deal with those differences in a positive way.
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Vol2tex
06/26/18 4:26:22 PM
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mew4ever posted...
I'm in no position whatsoever to filter out people. Even if I were attractive, I just don't get that. Races are a huge portion of population. You gonna tell me you find a whole section of people unattractive?


It's pretty silly, isn't it? Yet conversations like the one in the OP still happen.
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Jiek_Fafn
06/26/18 4:28:43 PM
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Yes
I don't want khajit to steal my stuff to buy skooma.
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Roshon
06/26/18 4:29:41 PM
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No I find all races of guys attractive
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EvalAngell
06/26/18 4:30:31 PM
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hot is hot. doesn't matter the race or ethnicity
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HypnoCoosh
06/26/18 4:31:14 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
Yes
I don't want khajit to steal my stuff to buy skooma.

lol
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Polycosm
06/26/18 4:32:58 PM
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I only date distance runners, tbh. I like a woman who can commit.
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Cleo_II
06/26/18 4:53:39 PM
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mew4ever posted...
I'm in no position whatsoever to filter out people. Even if I were attractive, I just don't get that. Races are a huge portion of population. You gonna tell me you find a whole section of people unattractive?

For me its not a physical attraction thing. There are many hot middle eastern guys out there. But most of them have outdated views on women. They can be super controlling and tempermental. Not all of course but a lot. And if they arent, then their family will be super traditional. And I strongly believe you marry into the family. So theyd have to be westernized and from a westernized family before I considered dating them but most are first generation so its unlikely.

I dated one Arab guy. He was super nice at first, extremely polite and a big gentleman. After one coffee date he wanted me to stop talking to any guys I knew, would call me incessantly to know of my whereabouts and was super judgmental of people. I called it off a week later and he had a tantrum about it. Never dated a middle eastern dude after that.
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TheCyborgNinja
06/26/18 4:56:16 PM
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No, but I find certain features and cultural values off putting, but there are likeable and attractive people in every race, I'm sure.
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TheVipaGTS
06/26/18 4:58:26 PM
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Nope.
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Hexenherz
06/26/18 5:01:00 PM
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FrisbeeDude
06/26/18 5:03:04 PM
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I'd be lying if I said I wasnt more cautious with the white women I've dated
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Rika_Furude
06/26/18 5:04:46 PM
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No. Their personality does though. Id have no problems dating a middle eastern woman, but i would have problems with a woman that holds typical islamic beliefs for instance
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Kineth
06/26/18 5:06:51 PM
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Cleo_II posted...
I dated one Arab guy. He was super nice at first, extremely polite and a big gentleman. After one coffee date he wanted me to stop talking to any guys I knew, would call me incessantly to know of my whereabouts and was super judgmental of people. I called it off a week later and he had a tantrum about it. Never dated a middle eastern dude after that.


I'm pretty sure that's a personality trait that dudes of all races have, which is manipulative insecurity. You were right to break up with him, but I think it's faulty to assume that all and only middle eastern dudes are like that.
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Dash_Harber
06/26/18 5:08:07 PM
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No, and honestly, I can't think of a legitimate reason it should to anyone other than racism.
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TheCyborgNinja
06/26/18 5:08:53 PM
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Kineth posted...
Cleo_II posted...
I dated one Arab guy. He was super nice at first, extremely polite and a big gentleman. After one coffee date he wanted me to stop talking to any guys I knew, would call me incessantly to know of my whereabouts and was super judgmental of people. I called it off a week later and he had a tantrum about it. Never dated a middle eastern dude after that.


I'm pretty sure that's a personality trait that dudes of all races have, which is manipulative insecurity. You were right to break up with him, but I think it's faulty to assume that all and only middle eastern dudes are like that.

Agreed. I mean, it might be more common in some cultures, but that doesn't mean it's the reason he was like that.
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Cleo_II
06/26/18 7:11:31 PM
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Kineth posted...
Cleo_II posted...
I dated one Arab guy. He was super nice at first, extremely polite and a big gentleman. After one coffee date he wanted me to stop talking to any guys I knew, would call me incessantly to know of my whereabouts and was super judgmental of people. I called it off a week later and he had a tantrum about it. Never dated a middle eastern dude after that.


I'm pretty sure that's a personality trait that dudes of all races have, which is manipulative insecurity. You were right to break up with him, but I think it's faulty to assume that all and only middle eastern dudes are like that.


Please point out where I said only middle easteners are like that.

The majority of them are like that. Our culture promotes it. Thats just a fact. Jealousy is seen as an aspect of love. My dad is like that. My brother is like that. All his friends are like that. The middle eastern guys at my school were like that. Every single time my mom is watching an Arab soap opera, there is a scene where a man slaps the woman, in a fit of rage or jealousy. Then he tells her he did it because he loves her. Its regarded as normal.

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