Poll of the Day > Any couples that might not get married?

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LinkPizza
06/22/18 2:54:49 PM
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My cousin is getting married today. And I was thinking about it. The fact that even though Im on a relationship, I probably wont get married. Part of it is mainly because I kind of dont want to. Theyre long, expensive, youre in the spotlight, and in some cases, I dont see the point. It can be beneficial sometimes, but eh... Also, because Im gay and most people in my family dont know.. Though I have a cousin who is, too. But he might get married... But are there any couples(or half of a couple) here that probably wont get married.
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Mead
06/22/18 3:00:30 PM
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My wife and I probably wont
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shadowsword87
06/22/18 3:03:59 PM
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I mean, the wedding my gf and I are talking about is us getting married in a courthouse, and then having the reception at someone's house, potluck-style.
Then a good honeymoon.
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 3:06:03 PM
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Mead posted...
My wife and I probably wont

Are you sure?

shadowsword87 posted...
I mean, the wedding my gf and I are talking about is us getting married in a courthouse, and then having the reception at someone's house, potluck-style.
Then a good honeymoon.

Ive seen that quite a few times.
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BADoglick
06/22/18 3:11:06 PM
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I have been with my gf for 9 years and we have little interest in marriage
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 3:12:41 PM
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BADoglick posted...
I have been with my gf for 9 years and we have little interest in marriage

I think it said somewhere that marriage isnt as popular these days. Like people are fine with just being in a relationship. Same thing with kids, I think. Less people are having kids. Or as many. Or as early. And most have pets instead.
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bossjony
06/22/18 6:44:28 PM
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Being gay is a choice thu.. a wrong one but one.
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Greenfox111
06/22/18 6:50:46 PM
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shadowsword87 posted...
I mean, the wedding my gf and I are talking about is us getting married in a courthouse, and then having the reception at someone's house, potluck-style.
Then a good honeymoon.

Id like this without the reception
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Dynalo
06/22/18 6:53:10 PM
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My neighbours when I was growing up were together for like 20+ years before they got married. And even then they just came back from vacation one day and were like "yeah, we're married now".
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VeeVees
06/22/18 6:58:20 PM
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Dating my gf since 9th grade. Not gonna get married and not gonna have kids.
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SunWuKung420
06/22/18 7:13:32 PM
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Greenfox111 posted...
Id like this without the reception


Receptions are the best part!
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DPsx7
06/22/18 7:22:31 PM
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I've never asked/been asked for a date yet so the whole couples or marriage thing hasn't even crossed my mind. I know a few friends have been married and a couple of them divorced already. That's not encouraging.

Geez, last time I was AT a wedding I was still holding a Speak n Spell... Been a looong time.
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 7:23:51 PM
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bossjony posted...
Being gay is a choice thu.. a wrong one but one.



Greenfox111 posted...
shadowsword87 posted...
I mean, the wedding my gf and I are talking about is us getting married in a courthouse, and then having the reception at someone's house, potluck-style.
Then a good honeymoon.

Id like this without the reception

Actually, while I dont want the wedding, Im ok with the reception. But only because I like the food. But you have to do other stuff like pictures, speeches, and such. So, maybe not.

Dynalo posted...
My neighbours when I was growing up were together for like 20+ years before they got married. And even then they just came back from vacation one day and were like "yeah, we're married now".

I guess that works...

VeeVees posted...
Dating my gf since 9th grade. Not gonna get married and not gonna have kids.

That works, too.

SunWuKung420 posted...
Greenfox111 posted...
Id like this without the reception


Receptions are the best part!

Thats true.
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 7:26:17 PM
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DPsx7 posted...
I've never asked/been asked for a date yet so the whole couples or marriage thing hasn't even crossed my mind. I know a few friends have been married and a couple of them divorced already. That's not encouraging.

Geez, last time I was AT a wedding I was still holding a Speak n Spell... Been a looong time.

Yeah. This is the first one in a long time that Ive been to. Im not the biggest fan of them. But I will go when I care about the people.
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shadowsword87
06/22/18 7:29:08 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Actually, while I dont want the wedding, Im ok with the reception. But only because I like the food. But you have to do other stuff like pictures, speeches, and such. So, maybe not.


Yeah, fuck all that.

Chill, eat food, drink, play games, have fun.
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 7:45:08 PM
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shadowsword87 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
Actually, while I dont want the wedding, Im ok with the reception. But only because I like the food. But you have to do other stuff like pictures, speeches, and such. So, maybe not.


Yeah, fuck all that.

Chill, eat food, drink, play games, have fun.

Thats the kind of reception I would like. The problem is there are a lot of family members who would want a different kind of reception. I mean, it was fun. But I always make it fun with family and friends.
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Muscles
06/22/18 7:48:29 PM
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I work in banquet hall, I work multiple weddings every week, it definitely makes them seem a lot less special, so no
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 7:54:32 PM
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Muscles posted...
I work in banquet hall, I work multiple weddings every week, it definitely makes them seem a lot less special, so no

I guess I can see that. My SO does music for weddings. And decorating and stuff. He ends up going to so many, he sometimes doesnt want to go...
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ParanoidObsessive
06/22/18 7:58:47 PM
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I've been in a relationship with the same girl for nearly 20 years now, and we're not married. Nor will we ever be, as long as there is life left in my body and I have any say in the matter.


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LinkPizza
06/22/18 8:02:01 PM
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ParanoidObsessive posted...
I've been in a relationship with the same girl for nearly 20 years now, and we're not married. Nor will we ever be, as long as there is life left in my body and I have any say in the matter.


So, you really dont like marriage, huh?
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Greenfox111
06/22/18 8:02:04 PM
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ParanoidObsessive posted...
I've been in a relationship with the same girl for nearly 20 years now, and we're not married. Nor will we ever be, as long as there is life left in my body and I have any say in the matter.


does this mean you support posthumous marriage??
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ParanoidObsessive
06/22/18 8:19:33 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
So, you really dont like marriage, huh?

I don't like how the US legal system administrates marriage, no.

It's part of why I'm strongly in-favor of marriage as a concept being decoupled from government entirely, with no incentives for couples or disincentives for singles, or constant bickering over trying to define what marriage IS or include/exclude people based on civil rights issues.

Marriage should be a solemn arraignment made between two (or more, fuck it) people who feel the need to bind themselves in some metaphysical way, under the auspices of whatever god or divine principle they may or may not revere, and with literally everyone else butting the fuck out. What it SHOULDN'T be is something bordering on contract law, with punitive damages and a torturous process required to extricate. And as long as that's what marriage IS, marriage can go fuck itself.

(Though, to be fair, the entire concept of marriage was basically INVENTED as contract law, with fathers essentially selling their daughters to other men, and with the intent of codifying property possession and inheritance, so I'm admittedly asking for marriage to NOT be what it always has been (bullshit modern sentimentality and romance notwithstanding). But since I also don't live in a cave and shit in bushes, I'd like to think that I'm pro-progress, and don't see why I should stick to definitions of marriage that are thousands of years old just because they're old.)

I think I told my girlfriend on our second date (it was definitely early on, though) that I was strongly anti-marriage, and that if she was thinking of a future involving marriage, kids, and white-picket fences she should probably consider moving on, because those things were never going to happen. I always felt like it was unfair to not let potential partners know up front that they were never going to budge me on that particular issue, and that it could eventually cause problems in the relationship.

Fortunately, her response at the time was basically something like "Kids? Ick!", and neither one of us saw any real reason to get married if we weren't going to have kids, so it worked out fabulously.



Greenfox111 posted...
does this mean you support posthumous marriage??

I've said multiple times in the past that I don't really care what anyone does with my body after I'm dead, so if she wants to throw a huge ceremony and Weekend at Bernie's the whole deal, she's more than welcome to do so.


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SunWuKung420
06/22/18 9:04:39 PM
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ROFL.

I'm writing it.

"Weekend At Bernie's: PO's Wedding"

2025's biggest summer comedy.
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LinkPizza
06/22/18 9:12:49 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
ROFL.

I'm writing it.

"Weekend At Bernie's: PO's Wedding"

2025's biggest summer comedy.

Killing him so soon?
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SunWuKung420
06/22/18 9:17:04 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
ROFL.

I'm writing it.

"Weekend At Bernie's: PO's Wedding"

2025's biggest summer comedy.

Killing him so soon?


I turn 40 soon. I need to get rich!
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Revelation34
06/22/18 9:19:05 PM
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bossjony posted...
Being gay is a choice thu.. a wrong one but one.


Bait was too obvious.
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ParanoidObsessive
06/23/18 1:02:49 AM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
ROFL.

I'm writing it.

"Weekend At Bernie's: PO's Wedding"

2025's biggest summer comedy.

Don't forget, at least part of it has to involve the wacky shenanigans that take place at the bachelor party my friends throw for me.



LinkPizza posted...
Killing him so soon?

Let's be honest, 2025 might actually be a bit too optimistic in terms of my final expiration date.


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SunWuKung420
06/23/18 8:08:19 AM
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ParanoidObsessive posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
ROFL.

I'm writing it.

"Weekend At Bernie's: PO's Wedding"

2025's biggest summer comedy.

Don't forget, at least part of it has to involve the wacky shenanigans that take place at the bachelor party my friends throw for me.


You are also the stripper at your fiancee's bachelorette party, without her knowing.
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Oblivion_Hero
06/23/18 11:51:32 AM
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BADoglick posted...
I have been with my gf for 9 years and we have little interest in marriage


One of my college roommates will have been dating his girlfriend for 9 years this year; marriage just doesnt hold much weight for her personally.
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cute_fan
06/23/18 1:04:09 PM
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LinkPizza wrote:
And most have pets instead.

Meow. ^.^
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zebatov
06/23/18 1:35:40 PM
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Still plan on getting married in Japan. Guests have to bring about $300 CAD to give to the bride and groom to help them get started.
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