Current Events > I'm sick of girls that act like they're really close to me but act otherwise

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alt4445 06/07/18 12:19:03 PM #1:	I feel like I'm just being used for entertainment. And this isn't even just about sex. Even when I'm genuinely trying to be a good friend, they'd much rather have male company they've had sex with. So it's like, if I'm not fucking you, and if I'm not even close enough to be just your friend, why even act close to me? Why say things about how you miss me, get mad when I don't invite, tease, flirt, be physical etc. Shit just annoys me so much, and it probably has something to do with me if I keep running into this problem. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902712234] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>I feel like I'm just being used for entertainment. And this isn't even just about sex. Even when I'm genuinely trying to be a good friend, they'd much rather have male company they've had sex with. So it's like, if I'm not fucking you, and if I'm not even close enough to be just your friend, why even act close to me? Why say things about how you miss me, get mad when I don't invite, tease, flirt, be physical etc. Shit just annoys me so much, and it probably has something to do with me if I keep running into this problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 06/07/18 12:20:12 PM #2:	maybe stop being friends with chicks --- https://imgur.com/a/YXM2bZn Dai Grepher: I am an idiot. I am wrong. My entire theory is incorrect. Zero Mission IS a remake of Metroid. <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:902712302] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>maybe stop being friends with chicks</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 06/07/18 12:20:18 PM #3:	Some people just want attention --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:902712310] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>Some people just want attention</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Awesome 06/07/18 12:20:25 PM #4:	stop talking to them, they dont respect you and arent nice people. its sad but reality. --- https://imgur.com/gWCYPlD https://imgur.com/Ls3OgWR <cite>Awesome posted [p:902712320] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>stop talking to them, they dont respect you and arent nice people. its sad but reality.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 06/07/18 12:22:52 PM #5:	If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you? <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:902712457] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/07/18 12:28:43 PM #6:	catboy0_0 posted... maybe stop being friends with chicks I think this is the most practical answer. I shouldn't even bother trying to figure out the nuances in the first place, just avoid the situation altogether. teepan95 posted... Some people just want attention Awesome posted... stop talking to them, they dont respect you and arent nice people. its sad but reality. I conceptually get that this is true, but it's hard for me to accept. It just seems so selfish to just use someone for your own entertainment. Even though it's not malicious. Idk, I value my connections to people a lot and I like to keep the people close to me, actually close to me. I wear my heart on my sleeve, for the better or worse, and I like to let people I like know that I value them, whether it's being close, joking around, helping them when they need it, etc. To fake it just to get that feeling out of me for their own entertainment seems so fucking manipulative to me that it gets me angry and confused. Why would someone do that to me if they know what kind of person I am? It's not like this is ALL girls either. There are some female friends/acquaintances I have where they act like they're just as close as they actually are. I'd much rather have a friend that is semi-close, and behaves as such, instead of a "friend" that acts incredibly close but none of their actions state otherwise. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902712835] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>maybe stop being friends with chicks</quote> I think this is the most practical answer. I shouldn't even bother trying to figure out the nuances in the first place, just avoid the situation altogether. <cite>teepan95 posted...</cite> <quote>Some people just want attention</quote> <cite>Awesome posted...</cite> <quote>stop talking to them, they dont respect you and arent nice people. its sad but reality.</quote> I conceptually get that this is true, but it's hard for me to accept. It just seems so selfish to just use someone for your own entertainment. Even though it's not malicious. Idk, I value my connections to people a lot and I like to keep the people close to me, actually close to me. I wear my heart on my sleeve, for the better or worse, and I like to let people I like know that I value them, whether it's being close, joking around, helping them when they need it, etc. To fake it just to get that feeling out of me for their own entertainment seems so fucking manipulative to me that it gets me angry and confused. Why would someone do that to me if they know what kind of person I am? It's not like this is ALL girls either. There are some female friends/acquaintances I have where they act like they're just as close as they actually are. I'd much rather have a friend that is semi-close, and behaves as such, instead of a "friend" that acts incredibly close but none of their actions state otherwise.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/07/18 12:29:30 PM #7:	Darklit_Minuet posted... If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you? How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902712883] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you?</quote> How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 06/07/18 1:04:19 PM #8:	alt4445 posted... Darklit_Minuet posted... If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you? How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out Be assertive. Rather than asking them if they want to have sex, message them with "my place, 9pm, be in your nicest thong" <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:902714843] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you?</quote> How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out</quote> Be assertive. Rather than asking them if they want to have sex, message them with "my place, 9pm, be in your nicest thong"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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alt4445 06/07/18 7:16:35 PM #10:	Asherlee10 posted... What age group are we talking about here? Early 20s? I've had this happen with girls ages 18 (when I was 18) to 27. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902735735] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote>What age group are we talking about here? Early 20s?</quote> I've had this happen with girls ages 18 (when I was 18) to 27.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/07/18 9:37:19 PM #11:	Bump --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902743241] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>Bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/08/18 2:10:15 AM #12:	Again --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902755575] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>Again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 06/08/18 2:11:16 AM #13:	have you tried not being a doormat --- Blow your trumpets, Gabriel. <cite>chill02 posted [p:902755605] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>have you tried not being a doormat</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 06/08/18 2:17:54 AM #14:	its because they want attention and are using you for entertainment. probably best that you stop caring about them and ignore them because it obviously affects you a lot. --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:902755792] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>its because they want attention and are using you for entertainment. probably best that you stop caring about them and ignore them because it obviously affects you a lot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 06/08/18 4:40:40 AM #15:	maybe stop being friends with stupid chicks --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:902759200] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><quote>maybe stop being friends with stupid chicks</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 06/08/18 4:46:59 AM #16:	alt4445 posted... Darklit_Minuet posted... If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you? How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out lol you blabber on about them being manipulative and using you, then you say hypocritical shit like this... you're perfect for each other they deserve to be ignored you deserve to be used like an emotional tampon <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:902759317] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>If they prefer hanging with people they've had sex with, why not have sex with them once so they wanna hang with you?</quote> How am I supposed to have sex with them if they don't want to ever hang out</quote> lol you blabber on about them being manipulative and using you, then you say hypocritical shit like this... you're perfect for each other they deserve to be ignored you deserve to be used like an emotional tampon</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jerry_Hellyeah 06/08/18 4:51:43 AM #17:	Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. --- This is a cool sig <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted [p:902759403] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aloner 06/08/18 5:00:53 AM #18:	Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. That also means you don't owe anyone shit though. --- 1 line break(s), 160 characters allowed. <cite>Aloner posted [p:902759560] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> That also means you don't owe anyone shit though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 06/08/18 5:03:15 AM #19:	Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. shit like this isn't helpful. what he needs to realize that people he thought were his homies aren't his homies and he needs to move on --- https://imgur.com/a/YXM2bZn Dai Grepher: I am an idiot. I am wrong. My entire theory is incorrect. Zero Mission IS a remake of Metroid. <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:902759606] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> shit like this isn't helpful. what he needs to realize that people he thought were his homies aren't his homies and he needs to move on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jerry_Hellyeah 06/08/18 5:09:18 AM #20:	catboy0_0 posted... Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. shit like this isn't helpful. what he needs to realize that people he thought were his homies aren't his homies and he needs to move on Ain't gon' be no homies if "trying to be a good friend" means indebting other people. But this topic isn't about friendship. Its reallllly not. --- This is a cool sig <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted [p:902759695] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> shit like this isn't helpful. what he needs to realize that people he thought were his homies aren't his homies and he needs to move on</quote> Ain't gon' be no homies if "trying to be a good friend" means indebting other people. But this topic isn't about friendship. Its reallllly not.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/08/18 8:08:43 AM #21:	chill02 posted... have you tried not being a doormat It's time I start actually trying NonDairyMiltank posted... then you say hypocritical shit like this... Wanting sex doesn't inherently make you disingenuous imo. I'm honest about it and follow through with what I say/who I am. I don't tell someone weird things like "you're the best company I've ever had" unless I really mean that shit. Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Ain't gon' be no homies if "trying to be a good friend" means indebting other people. What does this even mean? --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902763485] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>chill02 posted...</cite> <quote>have you tried not being a doormat</quote> It's time I start actually trying <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted...</cite> <quote> then you say hypocritical shit like this...</quote> Wanting sex doesn't inherently make you disingenuous imo. I'm honest about it and follow through with what I say/who I am. I don't tell someone weird things like "you're the best company I've ever had" unless I really mean that shit. <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Ain't gon' be no homies if "trying to be a good friend" means indebting other people.</quote> What does this even mean?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OpenlyGator 06/08/18 8:22:45 AM #22:	alt4445 posted... And this isn't even just about sex. Even when I'm genuinely trying to be a good friend, they'd much rather have male company they've had sex with. So it's like, if I'm not fucking you, and if I'm not even close enough to be just your friend, why even act close to me? Seeing a theme here lmao. --- 1990:You didn't get the memo? 2018:What's a memo...? http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdPuv.png http://tryimg.com/8/2017/06/28/IdSqD.png <cite>OpenlyGator posted [p:902763872] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>And this isn't even just about sex. Even when I'm genuinely trying to be a good friend, they'd much rather have male company they've had sex with. So it's like, if I'm not fucking you, and if I'm not even close enough to be just your friend, why even act close to me?</quote> Seeing a theme here lmao.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 06/08/18 8:59:55 AM #23:	OpenlyGator posted... Seeing a theme here lmao. Yup. That theme is having sex. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:902765009] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>OpenlyGator posted...</cite> <quote>Seeing a theme here lmao.</quote> Yup. That theme is having sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 06/08/18 9:17:11 AM #24:	Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. https://imgur.com/jFNG5E5 --- Blow your trumpets, Gabriel. <cite>chill02 posted [p:902765613] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> https://imgur.com/jFNG5E5</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 06/08/18 9:24:05 AM #25:	catboy0_0 posted... maybe stop being friends with chicks /thread --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:902765869] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>catboy0_0 posted...</cite> <quote>maybe stop being friends with chicks</quote> /thread</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jerry_Hellyeah 06/08/18 8:32:52 PM #26:	chill02 posted... Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad. https://imgur.com/jFNG5E5 What the fuck does that gif have to do with my post? You think being nice to people means they owe you? --- This is a cool sig <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted [p:902800953] in I'm sick o... [t:76683147]...</cite> <quote><cite>chill02 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted...</cite> <quote>Noone owes you shit. Doesnt matter what you've given, or what you think you deserve. NOONE OWES YOU SHIT. Get that straight before it gets bad.</quote> https://imgur.com/jFNG5E5</quote> What the fuck does that gif have to do with my post? You think being nice to people means they owe you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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