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| Topic | I'm sick of girls that act like they're really close to me but act otherwise |
| alt4445 06/07/18 12:28:43 PM #6: | catboy0_0 posted... maybe stop being friends with chicks I think this is the most practical answer. I shouldn't even bother trying to figure out the nuances in the first place, just avoid the situation altogether. teepan95 posted... Some people just want attention Awesome posted... stop talking to them, they dont respect you and arent nice people. its sad but reality. I conceptually get that this is true, but it's hard for me to accept. It just seems so selfish to just use someone for your own entertainment. Even though it's not malicious. Idk, I value my connections to people a lot and I like to keep the people close to me, actually close to me. I wear my heart on my sleeve, for the better or worse, and I like to let people I like know that I value them, whether it's being close, joking around, helping them when they need it, etc. To fake it just to get that feeling out of me for their own entertainment seems so fucking manipulative to me that it gets me angry and confused. Why would someone do that to me if they know what kind of person I am? It's not like this is ALL girls either. There are some female friends/acquaintances I have where they act like they're just as close as they actually are. I'd much rather have a friend that is semi-close, and behaves as such, instead of a "friend" that acts incredibly close but none of their actions state otherwise. --- [prototype invisible font] ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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