Current Events > My ex is telling me she isn't sure about this new guy

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Just started talking to her again after last seeing her back in November. Guess she started seeing this guy in January and she's talking about how she feels he is just in it for the sex. She says I look great (I did drop 15lbs) and is telling me all these things; in other words, she's letting me know she isn't happy so I can come rescue her.

Not this time. #blogfaqs.

Tell her you're not sure about any of the women you've been seeing either, so you're thinking of going gay.

That will surely upset her.

Had that happen myself. Told her in firm but delicate terms that I wasn't a backup plan just to pick back up whenever convenient.
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Add 15lbs in muscle then get some hot Stacy to hang off your arm and send her a pic saying "lol you done fucked up lady" then she will be sad but respect you for being manly
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Just be a friend to her, if that is what you want. Give her honest feedback on what you think is the proper course of action.
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Jeff AKA Snoopy posted...

Just be a friend to her, if that is what you want. Give her honest feedback on what you think is the proper course of action.

That's what I've been doing. She honestly doesn't know what to expect out of this guy so I'm telling her what she needs to hear. I'm not doing it out of my personal gain, she deserves someone better than this guy she's telling me about.

Rad_Chad posted...

Add 15lbs in muscle then get some hot Stacy to hang off your arm and send her a pic saying "lol you done fucked up lady" then she will be sad but respect you for being manly

Former competitive powerlifter; muscle mass is not an issue. Just the fat I gathered along the way.

pinky0926 posted...

Had that happen myself. Told her in firm but delicate terms that I wasn't a backup plan just to pick back up whenever convenient.

I'm not so sure it'll get to this point but I bet if I asked her to hang out, she would in a heartbeat.