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Sting
05/07/18 8:05:22 PM
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Been talking to one on facebook. She is an old friend from childhood. Not sure if I should try to meet with her or not. I probably wont so that it wont cause problems. Would love to see her though. Just not sure if it is a good idea. Thoughts?
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orangefire25
05/07/18 8:09:22 PM
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Idk can you see yourself being friends with a woman?

Why are you asking us?

If you're asking of its possible, yeah of course it is.

And if anyone here throws some blanket statement saying it's not possible cause hurr derr sexual tension Stfu
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Sting
05/07/18 8:13:29 PM
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idk why I'm asking, guess I just need to talk to someone I don't know about it. been on my mind a lot. guess I will just talk to her on facebook sometimes and not try to meet. even though I want to see her, it doesn't sound like a good idea overall.
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Megaman50100
05/07/18 8:14:51 PM
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only if they are married to each other.
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Darmik
05/07/18 8:15:31 PM
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In your case it doesn't sound like a good idea if you're already concerned.
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
05/07/18 8:16:42 PM
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Does your wife know who she is? Does your wife know you're talking to another married woman? Does your wife know you're thinking of meeting up with another married woman?
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Sting
05/07/18 8:17:18 PM
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no to all 3
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yanksmtm
05/07/18 8:17:31 PM
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Bad optics. That said, if you and your wife have the type of relationship where if she was in the same position with a married guy you would be fine with it, you should be able to broach the subject
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
05/07/18 8:18:13 PM
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Sting posted...
no to all 3

A triple negative. That's bad son.
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Darmik
05/07/18 8:19:33 PM
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Are you attracted to her?

Is this influencing your desire to meet up with her in any way whatsoever?
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Sting
05/07/18 8:19:49 PM
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Honestly, I just wondered what had happened to her. Hadnt seen her in almost 25 years. Feels good to have closure at least. This is one girl I really don't have a desire to sleep with. She is just a part of my past that was important.
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Darkrobotisback
05/07/18 8:21:01 PM
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Most likely if she's your wife's friend...
Idk maybe they all met in highschool and had a strong bond ever since then
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Sting
05/07/18 8:21:26 PM
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Honestly, I'm really not that physically attracted to her. She has a pretty face though. She is really just someone I care about because of our past. It would almost be awkward if we slept together.
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
05/07/18 8:21:38 PM
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Sting posted...
Honestly, I just wondered what had happened to her. Hadnt seen her in almost 25 years. Feels good to have closure at least. This is one girl I really don't have a desire to sleep with. She is just a part of my past that was important.

Ok, then just tell your wife about it. It's all about transparency, especially for someone she doesn't know.
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Sting
05/07/18 8:21:47 PM
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Darkrobotisback posted...
Most likely if she's your wife's friend...
Idk maybe they all met in highschool and had a strong bond ever since then


no they don't know eachother
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DanHarenChamp
05/07/18 8:22:03 PM
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no its not possible.
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Anteaterking
05/07/18 8:22:30 PM
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Ic3Bullet
05/07/18 8:23:26 PM
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If neither isnt attracted to the other, then sure. I have a lot of female co-workers that Im not attracted to that im friendly with on a platonic level. But as for the ones that I am physically attracted to, I would totally understand if I had a girlfriend/wife who didnt want me to hang out with them outside of work.
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Sting
05/07/18 8:23:34 PM
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wife is really jealous. what happened was they tore our old elementary school down and saw her on facebook and we just hit it off the other night on chat. I don't think it could ever go past that though. If I meet up with her I might get emotional too, and that's not normally something I do because I have had lots of one night stands and been fine with it.
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Darmik
05/07/18 8:23:35 PM
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Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?
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Sting
05/07/18 8:24:13 PM
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Ic3Bullet posted...
If neither isnt attracted to the other, then sure. I have a lot of female co-workers that Im not attracted to that im friendly with on a platonic level. But as for the ones that I am physically attracted to, I would totally understand if I had a girlfriend/wife who didnt want me to hang out with them outside of work.


yeah that's kind of how it is. we were just old 2nd grade friends.
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Sting
05/07/18 8:25:11 PM
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Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would feel, how he would feel
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Darkrobotisback
05/07/18 8:29:30 PM
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Sting posted...
Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel

I sense a love triangle.
You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends...
Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.
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Sting
05/07/18 8:32:08 PM
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Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel

I sense a love triangle.
You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends...
Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.


should I talk to the other chick some more? she said she didn't remember me, but she seemed to like me and respect me when we talked. I had feelings for her for a long time, but I don't know how we could ever have a relationship now.
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Darkrobotisback
05/07/18 8:36:45 PM
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Sting posted...
Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel

I sense a love triangle.
You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends...
Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.


should I talk to the other chick some more? she said she didn't remember me, but she seemed to like me and respect me when we talked. I had feelings for her for a long time, but I don't know how we could ever have a relationship now.

Well if she doesn't remember you, then you got nothing to worry about.
Just tell your wife that the other chick was an old friend that you had an interest in long ago, and you simply want to see how she's doing and what not.
I'm sure she'll understand
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Sting
05/07/18 8:39:15 PM
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Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel

I sense a love triangle.
You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends...
Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.


should I talk to the other chick some more? she said she didn't remember me, but she seemed to like me and respect me when we talked. I had feelings for her for a long time, but I don't know how we could ever have a relationship now.

Well if she doesn't remember you, then you got nothing to worry about.
Just tell your wife that the other chick was an old friend that you had an interest in long ago.
I'm sure she'll understand


eh I probably wont, she will get jealous. idk if I'm ready to be just friends with this girl. idk. maybe I will just leave it alone. she has kids now too so it might not even be worth it.
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orangefire25
05/07/18 8:45:06 PM
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Wow this is becoming more complicated than it should be. Jesus
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yanksmtm
05/07/18 8:46:48 PM
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Sting posted...
Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darkrobotisback posted...
Sting posted...
Darmik posted...
Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?


I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel

I sense a love triangle.
You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends...
Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.


should I talk to the other chick some more? she said she didn't remember me, but she seemed to like me and respect me when we talked. I had feelings for her for a long time, but I don't know how we could ever have a relationship now.

Well if she doesn't remember you, then you got nothing to worry about.
Just tell your wife that the other chick was an old friend that you had an interest in long ago.
I'm sure she'll understand


eh I probably wont, she will get jealous. idk if I'm ready to be just friends with this girl. idk. maybe I will just leave it alone. she has kids now too so it might not even be worth it.


Uhhh...her having kids only matters if you're trying to bone her
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Kazi1212
05/07/18 8:49:43 PM
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What are the odds this is a fake topic? Just seems so weird, like if you have no intention of cheating on your wife why wouldnt you just tell her about this girl
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Cal12
05/07/18 8:50:18 PM
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You were good second grade friends and its been 25 years? Wtf. I sense youre trying to hook up with her and are afraid of getting caught. I dont remember a damn thing from second grade. Probably fake.
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Sting
05/07/18 8:52:50 PM
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I moved away before 4th grade started and never really fit in where I moved to. I just always remembered her. I have mixed feelings about her, but at this point I don't see how we could ever be more than just friends.
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masticatingman
05/07/18 9:00:47 PM
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A bad idea for most guys. If she's good looking there will probably be some sexual tension. Basic test is - are you already thinking/planning on explicitly trying to hang out with this woman when your wife is not around? If so, then probably not the best idea.
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JimmyReimjob
05/07/18 9:05:02 PM
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Lol yeah. Friends with the benedicts
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Darmik
05/07/18 9:08:30 PM
#34:


Sting posted...
I moved away before 4th grade started and never really fit in where I moved to. I just always remembered her. I have mixed feelings about her, but at this point I don't see how we could ever be more than just friends.


Isn't that a good thing?

Or do you want to be more than just friends despite being married?
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Comfy_Pillow
05/07/18 9:08:58 PM
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Acquaintances sure

Friends only if both the both sides of the marriage are friends with them
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krazychao5
05/07/18 9:12:59 PM
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dude, she doesn't even remember you.

you seem weird.

don't talk to her.
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