Couldn't you just meet up with this friend with your wife and her husband?
I don't know. I don't know how she feels about me, how my wife would fee, how he would feel
I sense a love triangle. You should probably convince your wife that the other chick is just a friend, and reaffirm the other chick that you're just mutual friends... Cause if you don't, your friendship with her will become a misunderstanding m, and your relationship with your wife will greatly sour.
should I talk to the other chick some more? she said she didn't remember me, but she seemed to like me and respect me when we talked. I had feelings for her for a long time, but I don't know how we could ever have a relationship now.
Well if she doesn't remember you, then you got nothing to worry about. Just tell your wife that the other chick was an old friend that you had an interest in long ago. I'm sure she'll understand
eh I probably wont, she will get jealous. idk if I'm ready to be just friends with this girl. idk. maybe I will just leave it alone. she has kids now too so it might not even be worth it.
Uhhh...her having kids only matters if you're trying to bone her ---