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Smallville
04/26/18 9:52:53 AM
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kg88222 posted...
Like i said he could be a sap. And no i'm not judging. But saying nice guys aren't nice is stupid. Because nice guys are nice. That's why they are called nice.

there are some nice guys out there but the majority certainly aren't
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Eat More Beef
04/26/18 9:52:53 AM
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Twin3Turbo posted...
kg88222 posted...
I agree people are generalizing. Nice guys are just nice. I think sleeping with someone the next day is nto that thoughtful. And I don't think that's being judgy overly. It obviously hurt the guy. So it wasn't very nice.

I am taking into account that i don't know what really happened there.

Thoughtful of what?

And why is she supposed to act in accordance to what this particular guy wants? He is her friend and she treats him as such. Other than being a good friend, she isn't required to behave the way he wants to. Nothing she did hurt their friendship relationship other than him getting jealous that she went out with another guy. Even if she would have just went out on a date with another dude instead of sleeping with him, he still would have had his feelings hurt.


Pretty much.

I feel what sums up the "nice guy" attitude is the want to possess someone. It's odd and not that good of an obession to have.

And legit nice guys can find women. I'm a nice guy cause I treat women as equals to me and generally care about a strong emotional attachment to a person before sleeping with them. That's me though.
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Romulox28
04/26/18 9:53:10 AM
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real talk: the tactic that works best for picking up babes is extreme indifference
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kg88222
04/26/18 9:53:15 AM
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Being a sap and a nice guy are two different things. And some nice guys unfortunately can be saps sometimes.
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Twin3Turbo
04/26/18 9:53:32 AM
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kg88222 posted...
I'm not saying she has to act in accordance with what he wants.

You said

kg88222 posted...
I think sleeping with someone the next day is nto that thoughtful. And I don't think that's being judgy overly. It obviously hurt the guy


Which implies that she shouldn't have slept with someone so soon because it hurt the guy. How else are we supposed take that comment?
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Smallville
04/26/18 9:53:36 AM
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no surprise you aren't able to figure it out
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kg88222
04/26/18 9:55:29 AM
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I would know. I'm a nice guy. God help me. lol.
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Howl
04/26/18 9:56:50 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
real talk: the tactic that works best for picking up babes is extreme indifference


That only works if you're physically attractive. A 350 pound guy who acts indifferent towards women won't be successful if he attempts to attract women like that.
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kg88222
04/26/18 9:56:57 AM
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And yes there is a fine line between being a nice guy and being an idiot. But sometimes people are idiots the other way too. Nice guys meet nice girls. It ends badly sometimes. All sense goes out the window. Such is life.

It happens to nice people. It happens to bad people. It happens.
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Smallville
04/26/18 9:57:51 AM
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i have heard some people say that if you're just too nice in this day and age that frequently people will shaft you
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kg88222
04/26/18 9:59:50 AM
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People have changed yeah. Not everyone is like that though.
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kg88222
04/26/18 10:00:58 AM
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Being nice has made me learn a lot about different people most people never get to learn so who wins there though?
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kg88222
04/26/18 10:02:28 AM
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I'm not nice every second of the day. Who is?
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Twin3Turbo
04/26/18 10:02:30 AM
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Smallville posted...
i have heard some people say that if you're just too nice in this day and age that frequently people will shaft you

Well yeah that's true. It's actually something that I had to try and teach to one of my ex-girlfriends. It really annoyed me how many people would take advantage of her (usually asking for money) because she was too nice and would fall for their sob stories and would give it to them. It pissed me off even more how people acted entitled about it, many times not paying her back, and would ask her simply because they knew she had the money. And if she said no, they would try to guilt her with "Oh but you've got plenty of money, why can't you lend" blah blah. It took a while to get her to finally start putting her foot down.
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kg88222
04/26/18 10:04:17 AM
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Be nice. Be smart use your brain. its good for you. IT's fine to fall in love and have your heart squashed sometimes. At least you did that.

Otherwise be smart and don't let people take advantage of you. Be nice to yourself.
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Smallville
04/26/18 10:04:28 AM
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yeah maybe most times people will not pay you back
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kg88222
04/26/18 10:07:26 AM
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People spend their lives helping the homeless. That is rewarding to some people. Some people end up homeless too and are still ok.

As far as girls don't like nice guys that's not true. There are homeless people and women who spend their lives married to people like that.
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04/26/18 10:18:24 AM
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Goats posted...
Nothing ruins a local dating scene like the proliferation of "nice guys" so destroying them whenever possible is a net positive for both genders.

why are nice guys so bad?
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Iwin2013
04/26/18 10:29:11 AM
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Twin3Turbo posted...
Asherlee10 posted...
kg88222 posted...
Just going and screwing someone else is pretty thoughtless? If it's going bad I'd at least not just do that.


I mean, she left a relationship and then hooked up with someone else. She didn't cheat, apparently. That doesn't make her a jerk.

Yeah I'm not seeing how she is a jerk here. It's not like she promised the guy she would be with him if she broke up with her boyfriend.


I'd have to agree; On the other hand, Women DO NOT owe us guys anything.
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Iwin2013
04/26/18 10:30:21 AM
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Smallville posted...
Goats posted...
Nothing ruins a local dating scene like the proliferation of "nice guys" so destroying them whenever possible is a net positive for both genders.

why are nice guys so bad?


Cause, fake nice guys think in order to succeed they have to be nice. Just be yourself.
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Iwin2013
04/26/18 10:32:11 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Asherlee10 posted...
kg88222 posted...
Just going and screwing someone else is pretty thoughtless? If it's going bad I'd at least not just do that.


I mean, she left a relationship and then hooked up with someone else. She didn't cheat, apparently. That doesn't make her a jerk.

Yeah I'm not seeing how she is a jerk here. It's not like she promised the guy she would be with him if she broke up with her boyfriend.


I'd have to agree; On the other hand, Women DO NOT owe us guys anything.


Going further, no one owes anyone else. It isn't just women. @pinky0926 said it right.

pinky0926 posted...
I don't understand, I put a bunch of nice guy coins into the girl machine but sex didn't pop out. Why is the machine broken?


I agree, unless you work for someone. They owe you money because they couldn't pay you, but that's a different subject. The TC in question of the topic, we are talking about. He has this mentality; The girl owed him because he put in effort. It's a risk, she's either in love with you or not. Sounds like she kept him on the hook.
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Smallville
04/26/18 10:33:02 AM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Smallville posted...
Goats posted...
Nothing ruins a local dating scene like the proliferation of "nice guys" so destroying them whenever possible is a net positive for both genders.

why are nice guys so bad?


Cause, fake nice guys think in order to succeed they have to be nice. Just be yourself.

why do you think most of them are faking it?
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Iwin2013
04/26/18 10:34:33 AM
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Smallville posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
Smallville posted...
Goats posted...
Nothing ruins a local dating scene like the proliferation of "nice guys" so destroying them whenever possible is a net positive for both genders.

why are nice guys so bad?


Cause, fake nice guys think in order to succeed they have to be nice. Just be yourself.

why do you think most of them are faking it?


Because nobody is that nice. It sounds fake, and two faced. Humans are flawed people; We have flaws, we aren't 110% perfect, and happy all the damn time.
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Smallville
04/26/18 10:55:56 AM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Smallville posted...
Iwin2013 posted...
Smallville posted...
Goats posted...
Nothing ruins a local dating scene like the proliferation of "nice guys" so destroying them whenever possible is a net positive for both genders.

why are nice guys so bad?


Cause, fake nice guys think in order to succeed they have to be nice. Just be yourself.

why do you think most of them are faking it?


Because nobody is that nice. It sounds fake, and two faced. Humans are flawed people; We have flaws, we aren't 110% perfect, and happy all the damn time.

well to be fair you don't have to be happy every single minute of the day to be considered a nice guy
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ShotOJameson
04/26/18 11:48:42 AM
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Women have pretty good intuition and they know when you're just being nice because you want something or if you are actually a nice person. If its the former they will just use you to see what they can get out of you. I mean Id do the same shit if I was an attractive girl tbh so I can't really blame them for taking advantage of dumb, weak dudes.
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Smallville
04/26/18 11:58:01 AM
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ShotOJameson posted...
Women have pretty good intuition and they know when you're just being nice because you want something or if you are actually a nice person. If its the former they will just use you to see what they can get out of you. I mean Id do the same shit if I was an attractive girl tbh so I can't really blame them for taking advantage of dumb, weak dudes.

what about the age old question of if you pay for a date with a girl and pay for meal etc......do you expect her to put out? or are extremely disappointed if she doesn't?
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Iwin2013
04/26/18 12:22:37 PM
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Smallville posted...
ShotOJameson posted...
Women have pretty good intuition and they know when you're just being nice because you want something or if you are actually a nice person. If its the former they will just use you to see what they can get out of you. I mean Id do the same shit if I was an attractive girl tbh so I can't really blame them for taking advantage of dumb, weak dudes.

what about the age old question of if you pay for a date with a girl and pay for meal etc......do you expect her to put out? or are extremely disappointed if she doesn't?


Depends. Is it the first date? or the 25th?
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Dragonblade01
04/26/18 12:26:13 PM
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Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.
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DocileOrangeCup
04/26/18 12:28:14 PM
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joestarrr
04/26/18 12:36:01 PM
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Dragonblade01 posted...
Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.

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Iwin2013
04/26/18 12:37:01 PM
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Dragonblade01 posted...
Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.


Until they leave HS; But nice guys aren't just wanting sex. They want relationship with hot girl, that girl to stay interested.
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zhenghan
04/26/18 12:37:14 PM
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being nice to a girl you like doesn't mean anything though. i think girls know that, and being nice just to get laid is pretty pathetic. why not just be yourself, take charge, and take it to the next level normally. all it takes is a mindset change.

how many "nice" guys are actually nice? I mean like to everyone, not just to the girl he likes. And is he "nice" only because he's a pussy or is he actually nice because he wants to be.
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ShotOJameson
04/26/18 12:38:30 PM
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Dragonblade01 posted...
Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.


You can't be this jaded. There are definitely nice people in the world, but there's lots of snakes too. Its usually pretty easy to separate them too since the fake people are usually weak af.
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ShotOJameson
04/26/18 12:42:10 PM
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Basically you want to find out a person's true character you have to see if he is the same to people that don't have anything to offer them. If they're nice to them than you know what that person is really about.
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Dragonblade01
04/26/18 12:42:29 PM
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ShotOJameson posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.


You can't be this jaded. There are definitely nice people in the world, but there's lots of snakes too. Its usually pretty easy to separate them too since the fake people are usually weak af.

Correct, there are nice people in the world.

But "nice guys" are a specific group of people in the dating scene. They are not nice. They were given that name because they often think themselves to be nice, when in reality they aren't.
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ArchiePeck
04/26/18 12:44:20 PM
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Referring to yourself as "a nice guy"... like, is that your sole selling point? Out of all the characteristics you could use to sell yourself - ambition, achievements, career, artistic endeavours... no, you're just "nice" to people?
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ShotOJameson
04/26/18 12:50:19 PM
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Dragonblade01 posted...
ShotOJameson posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...
Nice guys aren't nice. They just don't necessarily realize it.


You can't be this jaded. There are definitely nice people in the world, but there's lots of snakes too. Its usually pretty easy to separate them too since the fake people are usually weak af.

Correct, there are nice people in the world.

But "nice guys" are a specific group of people in the dating scene. They are not nice. They were given that name because they often think themselves to be nice, when in reality they aren't.


Yeah once they know they aren't gonna get what they want they reveal their true pathetic, ugly selves.
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Smallville
04/26/18 12:50:37 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
Smallville posted...
ShotOJameson posted...
Women have pretty good intuition and they know when you're just being nice because you want something or if you are actually a nice person. If its the former they will just use you to see what they can get out of you. I mean Id do the same shit if I was an attractive girl tbh so I can't really blame them for taking advantage of dumb, weak dudes.

what about the age old question of if you pay for a date with a girl and pay for meal etc......do you expect her to put out? or are extremely disappointed if she doesn't?


Depends. Is it the first date? or the 25th?

i was thinkin' more the first few dates. geez the 25th?
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Deadpool_18
04/26/18 12:52:09 PM
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That image answered your question bro. Desperation smells like hot garbage and eggs.
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