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spanky1
03/28/18 2:52:04 PM
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(I hope there's a lot of ado in this topic. :3)

A few notes before I get into it:

This is just raw information. I make no judgements or complaints or anything like that, just relaying information.

It's not one single group, it's various groups each with different levels of activity and tone.

This is located in the Houston, Texas area. Which is an extremely important fact. This may all be totally different compared to places like California or New York. The women are 90% conservative, so obviously they're attracted to that kinda stuff, more religious, more republican. I say that while acknowledging the fact that Houston proper is actually a liberal city. The members of these groups all seem to live in the suburbs, however, and the suburbs of Houston are far different than the actual city, and are much more conservative, with preferences to country stuff.

I never really interact much in the groups, so this isn't from personal experience, but rather by observing myriads of public posts and discussions about what people are attracted to in a partner.

So, without further ado (damn it!), my findings:

The most important thing, by far: Masculinity. In its most basic forms. Women are attracted to men that are masculine, capable, have skills, are physically tall/large/strong. They want men who drive large pickup trucks. Most of them admit to being turned off to men who don't know how to change their own oil or make repairs around the house. With respect to love language, acts of service seem to be the most important thing. They want their man to be able to DO things. Build stuff. Haul a trailer. Hunting is a huge one. Manly stuff. Fishing. Something that is outdoors. They want a man that can dance. They want a man who is super confident, who can make decisions without being wishy washy, who plans a date and knows what he's doing. Someone with large forearm muscles. Someone who could physically defend them in a fight and make them feel safe. The ability to maintain an interesting conversation. Masculinity and the confidence that goes with it is basically what they are hardwired to go crazy over.

With regard to looks: Skinny men are absolutely a no. Being a little chubby is actually okay but not really fat or anything, and being super ripped is actually a turn off. Most of them prefer beards. Forearms are the most attractive part of a man.

With regard to money: Being rich isn't a requirement, but you must have a steady job and live on your own. You must be prepared to take on a family of small children. To be fair, they honestly don't seem to be gold diggers, and most seem really cool about it. They're even okay with making more money than you. They just want you to at least "hold your own", and they seem to hold themselves to the same standards.

Things they 100% do not want and are completely unattracted to: being short, being skinny, having small forearms, lack of confidence, inability to have a conversation, men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.

Do with this what you will, CE.
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AlephZero
03/28/18 2:53:21 PM
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the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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cellb
03/28/18 3:01:57 PM
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spanky1 posted...


Things they 100% do not want and are completely unattracted to: being short, being skinny, having small forearms, lack of confidence, inability to have a conversation, men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.


Hahahahahaa
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spanky1
03/28/18 3:09:08 PM
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cellb posted...
spanky1 posted...


Things they 100% do not want and are completely unattracted to: being short, being skinny, having small forearms, lack of confidence, inability to have a conversation, men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.


Hahahahahaa

It's an age old paradox that will never be neatly squared away. Women who are overweight will legit proclaim their preference for ideal men, and will take personal offense if you proclaim your same preference for women who aren't overweight. I say this without damnation or judgement, it's just a fact of life, like how a lion will hunt and chase down a gazelle to eat. I hold no ill will towards that lion. Such is nature.
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polopili
03/28/18 3:14:25 PM
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So texas women want to date popeye? Ot maybe Hank Hill? Its like their taste havent evolved in the last 50 years
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03/28/18 3:15:23 PM
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Awesome
03/28/18 3:15:32 PM
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all you need to do is trigger their limbic system. easiest way is too have a v shaped body and strong threatening eye contact, for most women that are controlled by their reptilian brain which is a lot of them, that attraction will override their thought process. thats why you see these criminals and other evil men banging women and treating them like crap and women having no problem with it, its because their true life goal in getting sperm from a strong physical man has been received.

so in the end, you cant blame a lot of women for making bad choices, its just that they are being controlled by nature and dont have the brain power to actually stop and think.
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philsov
03/28/18 3:17:31 PM
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Awesome posted...
all you need to do is trigger their limbic system. easiest way is too have a v shaped body and strong threatening eye contact, for most women that are controlled by their reptilian brain which is a lot of them, that attraction will override their thought process. thats why you see these criminals and other evil men banging women and treating them like crap and women having no problem with it, its because their true life goal in getting sperm from a strong physical man has been received.

so in the end, you cant blame a lot of women for making bad choices, its just that they are being controlled by nature and dont have the brain power to actually stop and think.


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spanky1
03/28/18 3:18:46 PM
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Oh, and I'll add stuff that I forgot as I remember it.

Thing I forgot: Teeth. They really really like a guy with good teeth and nice smile. They have repeatedly reported that the smile is the first thing they look at, and many won't consider a man who doesn't have nice teeth.
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AlephZero
03/28/18 3:23:56 PM
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spanky1 posted...
Oh, and I'll add stuff that I forgot as I remember it.

Thing I forgot: Teeth. They really really like a guy with good teeth and nice smile. They have repeatedly reported that the smile is the first thing they look at, and many won't consider a man who doesn't have nice teeth.

@Philoktetes will never find a nice overweight woman to settle down with
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spanky1
03/28/18 3:24:52 PM
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AlephZero posted...
spanky1 posted...
Oh, and I'll add stuff that I forgot as I remember it.

Thing I forgot: Teeth. They really really like a guy with good teeth and nice smile. They have repeatedly reported that the smile is the first thing they look at, and many won't consider a man who doesn't have nice teeth.

@Philoktetes will never find a nice overweight woman to settle down with

wtf I swear his hyperlink didn't show up leading me to believe he was banned when I posted this.
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Funkydog
03/28/18 3:25:39 PM
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spanky1 posted...
It's an age old paradox that will never be neatly squared away. Women who are overweight will legit proclaim their preference for ideal men, and will take personal offense if you proclaim your same preference for women who aren't overweight. I say this without damnation or judgement, it's just a fact of life, like how a lion will hunt and chase down a gazelle to eat. I hold no ill will towards that lion. Such is nature.

I mean, applies across all genders when talking of their "prefered partner". Women aren't different to men in this and is just some weird part of life/dating.
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spanky1
03/28/18 3:27:17 PM
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oh my god i think gamefaqs is going crazy on me

posts are weird and not showing up
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Funkydog
03/28/18 3:41:45 PM
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spanky1 posted...
oh my god i think gamefaqs is going crazy on me

posts are weird and not showing up

I've never got why some people claim this to make it known they have someone on ignore.
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spanky1
03/28/18 3:44:10 PM
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Funkydog posted...
spanky1 posted...
oh my god i think gamefaqs is going crazy on me

posts are weird and not showing up

I've never got why some people claim this to make it known they have someone on ignore.

No I was serious. I can see FunkyDog's post now. I don't have anyone on ignore. Gamefaqs wasn't updating for me though. Phils name wouldn't link, and Funky's post would load but then it didn't load. It was acting all weird for a few minutes.
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Funkydog
03/28/18 4:02:36 PM
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spanky1 posted...
No I was serious. I can see FunkyDog's post now. I don't have anyone on ignore. Gamefaqs wasn't updating for me though. Phils name wouldn't link, and Funky's post would load but then it didn't load. It was acting all weird for a few minutes.

Oh, fair enough. I thought you were just doing that weird thing some people do.
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lilORANG
03/28/18 4:05:58 PM
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I really don't care what virgin singles on a FB page think.
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 4:18:35 PM
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Most women want men who can take care of her future children. They want financial security and men who are not reliant on their parents. In other words...not soyboys.
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kg88222
03/28/18 4:23:38 PM
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The issue with women like this is all well and good but some women are just as immature and will leave you the minute something doesn't go their way. They have to be able to hold up their end of the bargain too. A lot of women are capable of this but will blame you any time you question them on it for good reason.
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Volkswagen_Bros
03/28/18 4:29:44 PM
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GreatEvilEmpire posted...
Most women want men who can take care of her future children. They want financial security and men who are not reliant on their parents. In other words...not soyboys.

I find this a little hard to believe. If there's a mutual romance between the two, I'm pretty sure they're willing to make it work somehow. Otherwise, I wouldn't call it true love if they can't stick through hardship.
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 4:39:01 PM
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Volkswagen_Bros posted...
GreatEvilEmpire posted...
Most women want men who can take care of her future children. They want financial security and men who are not reliant on their parents. In other words...not soyboys.

I find this a little hard to believe. If there's a mutual romance between the two, I'm pretty sure they're willing to make it work somehow. Otherwise, I wouldn't call it true love if they can't stick through hardship.


I would say it's a general rule. Most of the time, it's dependent on where they are in life and how ambitious they are. If they're in high school, children is the last thing in their mind. If they're in college, getting a job after graduation takes precedent.

Once women reach their mid to late 20's and they're single, they will start looking for a specific type of men. However, if the woman is not ambitious or has low self-esteem, she will settle for anyone who loves her, rather than a man who is a good provider.

If the woman is successful...like making high 5-figures, somewhat ambitious, has a good standing in her company, she will seek out men who has certain traits.
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NeonOctopus
03/28/18 4:42:04 PM
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spanky1 posted...
men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.

Literally 99% of CE right here lol
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 4:47:44 PM
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spanky1 posted...
Things they 100% do not want and are completely unattracted to: being short, being skinny, having small forearms, lack of confidence, inability to have a conversation, men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.


Just to play both sides... lump me in this group. You can be slightly overweight, but if you're really overweight, beggars can't be choosers.
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Jiggy101011
03/28/18 4:53:44 PM
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So basically they want me

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spanky1
03/28/18 4:57:19 PM
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Jiggy101011 posted...
So basically they want me


It's interesting to see another guy with brown hair on top of his head, and red beard hair. I grew up most of my life without a beard, obviously, or a fairly short trimmed beard. So I've always identified as a brown haired guy. But lately a lot of people have focused more on my beard, which is reddish, and for the first time in my life people are calling me a ginger, which just feels bizarre. I'm not a red head in my head. Have you ever experienced stuff like this?
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Veggeta X
03/28/18 4:59:39 PM
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Honestly we need a women's opinion on this. Please tag the ladies of CE, guys.
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 5:00:13 PM
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Veggeta X posted...
Honestly we need a women's opinion on this. Please tag the ladies of CE, guys.


Stop being creepy. If they want to comment, they will.
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Veggeta X
03/28/18 5:03:38 PM
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GreatEvilEmpire posted...
Veggeta X posted...
Honestly we need a women's opinion on this. Please tag the ladies of CE, guys.


Stop being creepy. If they want to comment, they will.

They might miss this topic. Tagging them will let them see it. If they don't want to comment then they have to. Geesh you sure are quick to call people names aren't ya
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KainWind
03/28/18 5:04:59 PM
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spanky1 posted...
The most important thing, by far: Masculinity. In its most basic forms. Women are attracted to men that are masculine, capable, have skills, are physically tall/large/strong. They want men who drive large pickup trucks. Most of them admit to being turned off to men who don't know how to change their own oil or make repairs around the house. With respect to love language, acts of service seem to be the most important thing. They want their man to be able to DO things. Build stuff. Haul a trailer. Hunting is a huge one. Manly stuff. Fishing. Something that is outdoors. They want a man that can dance. They want a man who is super confident, who can make decisions without being wishy washy, who plans a date and knows what he's doing. Someone with large forearm muscles. Someone who could physically defend them in a fight and make them feel safe. The ability to maintain an interesting conversation. Masculinity and the confidence that goes with it is basically what they are hardwired to go crazy over.

I don't relate to any of these things.
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Krojen
03/28/18 5:05:12 PM
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Not to take anything away from the findings, but..

Texan women that have nothing better to do than drool on a FB page about the type of man they want - sounds like a great source with valuable data.
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:05:39 PM
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A ton of this I'm sure is dependent on geography and the age makeup of the women. The average age is probably mid 30s. And again, a pretty country, conservative slant.
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:06:42 PM
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Krojen posted...
Not to take anything away from the findings, but..

Texan women that have nothing better to do than drool on a FB page about the type of man they want - sounds like a great source with valuable data.

Yeah, that's a big point right there.

But the thing is, personally, for me, that's what I have to work with. Like, that's my pool of women that I need to fish from, for better or worse.
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Veggeta X
03/28/18 5:06:53 PM
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Think girls from California more or less would have the same mantra?
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:09:29 PM
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Veggeta X posted...
Think girls from California more or less would have the same mantra?

I don't know, we need some Californians to chime in. My guess would be a lot of it would be the same, but the machoism and manly outdoor stuff would probably be toned down.
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Sativa_Rose
03/28/18 5:11:34 PM
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spanky1 posted...
men who are not attracted to overweight women.



LOL so is this your way of saying they are all overweight?
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:13:18 PM
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Sativa_Rose posted...
spanky1 posted...
men who are not attracted to overweight women.



LOL so is this your way of saying they are all overweight?

Most of them are, yes.
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:13:55 PM
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Again, this is all over an average. Of course you have outliers. I've seen a few geek girls who are into video games, even. But I'm just looking at the middle of the curve here.
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 5:15:33 PM
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Veggeta X posted...

They might miss this topic. Tagging them will let them see it. If they don't want to comment then they don't have to. Geesh you sure are quick to call people names aren't ya


I didn't mean to sound like an asshole, really. One thing I've learned over the years is to not actively seek validation from women. It makes men look less attractive. If they want to chime in, they will chime in... if they don't, it's probably because some of them don't want to make CEmen feel bad.
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GreatEvilEmpire
03/28/18 5:20:38 PM
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spanky1 posted...
Veggeta X posted...
Think girls from California more or less would have the same mantra?

I don't know, we need some Californians to chime in. My guess would be a lot of it would be the same, but the machoism and manly outdoor stuff would probably be toned down.


It's not that much different here in California. Women are women, it doesn't matter where they're from.

A while back, I ran into a young lady who was looking for a cool nerd as a boyfriend. I mentioned that I know a few of those and I gave her 5 descriptions of guys I know...and she said it sounds like guys she works with, but would never date. In reality, she wanted a "nerd" who was tall, good looking and makes good money in the tech industry.
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Sativa_Rose
03/28/18 5:20:57 PM
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spanky1 posted...
Most of them are, yes.


That is actually true when you look at overall American stats

I am not surprised by these results actually TC, I think that on average women want a man. Which is funny because at the same time our society is totally discouraging that, particularly when it comes to boys who go into higher ed and stuff.

I saw a headline the other day saying that college educated women are having trouble finding men. Not surprised, the combination of that kind of old school masculinity and still being intelligent and having a successful career is rare in today's world.

That is what I must obtain.
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Balrog0
03/28/18 5:22:42 PM
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spanky1 posted...
men who are not attracted to overweight women.


lol
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Carlbertomfg
03/28/18 5:23:23 PM
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Oh good! Thanks for the data. Now that I realize I need to be a MANLY man to get chix I'm outta the game.
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Balrog0
03/28/18 5:23:24 PM
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polopili posted...
So texas women want to date popeye? Ot maybe Hank Hill? Its like their taste havent evolved in the last 50 years


lmao this legit made me laugh out loud bro
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gbpxl
03/28/18 5:32:28 PM
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Glad I'm not single. If I were, I'd be fucked, since I fit like half those descriptions LOL
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Tupacrulez
03/28/18 5:34:01 PM
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spanky1 posted...
cellb posted...
spanky1 posted...


Things they 100% do not want and are completely unattracted to: being short, being skinny, having small forearms, lack of confidence, inability to have a conversation, men who complain being nice doesn't get them anywhere, video games, geek culture, not having a job, sending dick picks, not being able to dance, still living with your parents, not wanting children, men who are not attracted to overweight women.


Hahahahahaa

It's an age old paradox that will never be neatly squared away. Women who are overweight will legit proclaim their preference for ideal men, and will take personal offense if you proclaim your same preference for women who aren't overweight. I say this without damnation or judgement, it's just a fact of life, like how a lion will hunt and chase down a gazelle to eat. I hold no ill will towards that lion. Such is nature.


And the opposite is true. Completely unattractive men will never stoop 'so low' as to date at their market value.

They'd rather stay bitter virgins cause they're worth an 8 or better yo.
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03/28/18 5:46:21 PM
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Of course they want a big dick, its something theyre never honest about. Womens standards are really high because men go out and seeks women not the other way around.
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gbpxl
03/28/18 5:47:43 PM
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Anyone who thinks hunting is a masculine trait is someone I don't want to associate with. Taking down a defenseless, innocent animal with a tool that a teenage girl can handle is about as masculine as drop kicking said girl.
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Carlbertomfg
03/28/18 5:48:31 PM
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Just once I want to be recognized for drop kicking girls. . .
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spanky1
03/28/18 5:48:45 PM
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gbpxl posted...
Anyone who thinks hunting is a masculine trait is someone I don't want to associate with. Taking down a defenseless, innocent animal with a tool that a teenage girl can handle is about as masculine as drop kicking said girl.

If you made this post in the groups that I'm in, you would be absolutely destroyed. They are all about hunting, and they will make fun of anti-hunting people at the drop of a hat.
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