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alt4445 03/10/18 2:14:36 PM #1:	to chill with her, her bf, and her brother. She said I'd def get along with them. She's gonna make burritos apparently. Does that mean it's over? --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897542051] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>to chill with her, her bf, and her brother. She said I'd def get along with them. She's gonna make burritos apparently. Does that mean it's over?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJ2GrimReaper 03/10/18 2:15:21 PM #2:	depends on if the burritos are tasty --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. http://i.imgur.com/YzjFA85.jpg http://i.imgur.com/CqukfNH.jpg <cite>SSJ2GrimReaper posted [p:897542099] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>depends on if the burritos are tasty</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 03/10/18 2:16:32 PM #4:	alt4445 posted... her bf alt4445 posted... it's over --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim team: https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.png <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:897542153] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>her bf</quote> <cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>it's over</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
electricbearcom 03/10/18 2:17:08 PM #5:	She's trying to set you up with her brother. --- pmouse <cite>electricbearcom posted [p:897542187] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>She's trying to set you up with her brother.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 03/10/18 2:20:04 PM #6:	She wants you to date her brother, seems like she thinks your not into women sexually. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" 3DS FC: 1564 - 7512 - 1815 <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:897542334] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>She wants you to date her brother, seems like she thinks your not into women sexually.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/10/18 2:22:52 PM #7:	Offworlder1 posted... She wants you to date her brother, seems like she thinks your not into women sexually. lol --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897542478] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote>She wants you to date her brother, seems like she thinks your not into women sexually.</quote> lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/10/18 2:51:51 PM #8:	bump --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897544040] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Omnislasher 03/10/18 2:57:46 PM #9:	what's the endgame <cite>Omnislasher posted [p:897544369] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>what's the endgame</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/10/18 3:04:59 PM #11:	Omnislasher posted... what's the endgame https://thumb1.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/3206762/284953976/stock-vector-acorn-nut-vector-icon-stock-vector-284953976.jpg --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897544766] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>Omnislasher posted...</cite> <quote>what's the endgame</quote> https://thumb1.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/3206762/284953976/stock-vector-acorn-nut-vector-icon-stock-vector-284953976.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/11/18 5:57:42 PM #12:	fb --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897608902] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>fb</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Re-iNcarnated 03/11/18 5:58:59 PM #13:	alt4445 posted... to chill with her, her bf, and her brother. She said I'd def get along with them. She's gonna make burritos apparently. Does that mean it's over? The level if zone barriers in front of you is too much to comprehend. Abort. <cite>Re-iNcarnated posted [p:897608974] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>to chill with her, her bf, and her brother. She said I'd def get along with them. She's gonna make burritos apparently. Does that mean it's over?</quote> The level if zone barriers in front of you is too much to comprehend. Abort.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Re-iNcarnated 03/11/18 5:59:38 PM #14:	Muffinz0rz posted... alt4445 posted... her bf alt4445 posted... it's over Hey look at the bright side, she thinks you're gay and is trying to hookup her brother. <cite>Re-iNcarnated posted [p:897609015] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>her bf</quote> <cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>it's over</quote></quote> Hey look at the bright side, she thinks you're gay and is trying to hookup her brother.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/11/18 8:08:45 PM #15:	Well she cancelled, apparently a lot of shit is going on in their house regarding brother and his ex. Whatever. I know it's irrational but I'm slightly peeved that it's literally the safest, most platonic scenario possible (bunch of company, have to leave early) and even then it's no dice. So it's prob a legit excuse but an excuse is an excuse and not worth initiating anymore. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897616616] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>Well she cancelled, apparently a lot of shit is going on in their house regarding brother and his ex. Whatever. I know it's irrational but I'm slightly peeved that it's literally the safest, most platonic scenario possible (bunch of company, have to leave early) and even then it's no dice. So it's prob a legit excuse but an excuse is an excuse and not worth initiating anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/11/18 11:54:23 PM #16:	last bump ever --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897630101] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>last bump ever</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
stoltenberg11 03/11/18 11:59:10 PM #17:	its pretty obvious she aint into you. sorry tc but at least she didnt string you on for ever --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:897630345] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>its pretty obvious she aint into you. sorry tc but at least she didnt string you on for ever</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 03/12/18 12:00:14 AM #18:	lmao she tried to make it as obvious as possible by saying hey come chill with my bf and brother. You were still creepy enough to want to hang out and didnt take the hint. Now she probably never wants to see you again. Never try to hang out with this girl again --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade http://i.imgur.com/MYYEIx5.gif http://i.imgur.com/WGE12ef.jpg <cite>solosnake posted [p:897630402] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>lmao she tried to make it as obvious as possible by saying hey come chill with my bf and brother. You were still creepy enough to want to hang out and didnt take the hint. Now she probably never wants to see you again. Never try to hang out with this girl again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 03/12/18 12:05:04 AM #19:	solosnake posted... lmao she tried to make it as obvious as possible by saying hey come chill with my bf and brother. You were still creepy enough to want to hang out and didnt take the hint. Now she probably never wants to see you again. Never try to hang out with this girl again I'm not going to be this vicious but he's basically right. When she said "yeah, come hang out with my boyfriend and brother" that was a massive hint to back out and you didn't. You should have refused just then or broke off the plans that night or something. You don't have to be like "no" right off the bat, but you can be like, "i'll get back to you on that, let me see what I have going on that day" and then refused or said you were busy and not really bring it up again. Agreeing to go and then planning on going is a weird approach, which is likely why she broke it off with you. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:897630658] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>solosnake posted...</cite> <quote>lmao she tried to make it as obvious as possible by saying hey come chill with my bf and brother. You were still creepy enough to want to hang out and didnt take the hint. Now she probably never wants to see you again. Never try to hang out with this girl again</quote> I'm not going to be this vicious but he's basically right. When she said "yeah, come hang out with my boyfriend and brother" that was a massive hint to back out and you didn't. You should have refused just then or broke off the plans that night or something. You don't have to be like "no" right off the bat, but you can be like, "i'll get back to you on that, let me see what I have going on that day" and then refused or said you were busy and not really bring it up again. Agreeing to go and then planning on going is a weird approach, which is likely why she broke it off with you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/12/18 12:27:20 AM #20:	MabusIncarnate posted... Agreeing to go and then planning on going is a weird approach, which is likely why she broke it off with you. I was thinking one of two things. 1) she's looking to make it as platonic as possible, which is fine, cause she's both a coworker and a cool chick so I'd be willing to hang out once just to see what happens, I'm sure I wouldn't be bored and it's possible that I make a new friend (whether it's her or someone at her house) 2) me backing out at other people being there makes me look creepy; if I was only willing to hang out with her alone, then it's weird, but if I'm comfortable enough to hang out with other people, then everything's a-okay. Sometimes girls test you by seeing how you do with their close company. The only time it's good to back out of a girl bringing friends is if it's VERY clearly the first date. She said she'd make me food and bring it in tomorrow. I told her not to and that if she wanted to do all that, we should just get food. I don't need some sort of consolation prize; I'll just take the L and leave it up to her to move things anywhere. Also I said I was free that night before she said that, and I feel weird changing plans when I said I was free. Just in general. Even for guy friends, I don't like to flake for no reason. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897631688] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>Agreeing to go and then planning on going is a weird approach, which is likely why she broke it off with you. </quote> I was thinking one of two things. 1) she's looking to make it as platonic as possible, which is fine, cause she's both a coworker and a cool chick so I'd be willing to hang out once just to see what happens, I'm sure I wouldn't be bored and it's possible that I make a new friend (whether it's her or someone at her house) 2) me backing out at other people being there makes me look creepy; if I was only willing to hang out with her alone, then it's weird, but if I'm comfortable enough to hang out with other people, then everything's a-okay. Sometimes girls test you by seeing how you do with their close company. The only time it's good to back out of a girl bringing friends is if it's VERY clearly the first date. She said she'd make me food and bring it in tomorrow. I told her not to and that if she wanted to do all that, we should just get food. I don't need some sort of consolation prize; I'll just take the L and leave it up to her to move things anywhere. Also I said I was free that night before she said that, and I feel weird changing plans when I said I was free. Just in general. Even for guy friends, I don't like to flake for no reason.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vbty3 03/12/18 12:29:18 AM #21:	I agree that backing out after she brought up her brother and boyfriend would have made your intentions seem way more obvious and creepy. --- Steam Wishlist: http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198043569354/wishlist <cite>vbty3 posted [p:897631786] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>I agree that backing out after she brought up her brother and boyfriend would have made your intentions seem way more obvious and creepy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 03/12/18 12:30:02 AM #22:	Sorry man, I wasnt trying to come off like such a dick --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade http://i.imgur.com/MYYEIx5.gif http://i.imgur.com/WGE12ef.jpg <cite>solosnake posted [p:897631814] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>Sorry man, I wasnt trying to come off like such a dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lincoln002 03/12/18 12:35:39 AM #23:	Dude she lives with her bf and her brother... Whatever kind of lifestyle you have, regardless of how rational you look at the situation, you'll never be able to relate. Any other guy would get the hint, bf and brother in the same house... And she's trying to set you up with them as a friend? That's not going to happen,you do understand why, right? <cite>lincoln002 posted [p:897632048] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>Dude she lives with her bf and her brother... Whatever kind of lifestyle you have, regardless of how rational you look at the situation, you'll never be able to relate. Any other guy would get the hint, bf and brother in the same house... And she's trying to set you up with them as a friend? That's not going to happen,you do understand why, right?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 03/12/18 12:38:01 AM #24:	I don't think it's creepy at all to show interest, finding out she has a boyfriend and stepping back. You shouldn't obligate yourself to getting friend zoned if that isn't your intention. If anything, it's respectful, think about whats going through the boyfriends mind when that bro from his girlfriend's work comes over that wants to hang out with his girl. It can turn ugly fast, and create tension in their relationship, especially if he's more of the jealous type. It's just my opinion though, I could be entirely wrong, but it's how i've handled and taken things in the past. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:897632133] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>I don't think it's creepy at all to show interest, finding out she has a boyfriend and stepping back. You shouldn't obligate yourself to getting friend zoned if that isn't your intention. If anything, it's respectful, think about whats going through the boyfriends mind when that bro from his girlfriend's work comes over that wants to hang out with his girl. It can turn ugly fast, and create tension in their relationship, especially if he's more of the jealous type. It's just my opinion though, I could be entirely wrong, but it's how i've handled and taken things in the past.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 03/12/18 1:18:49 AM #25:	lincoln002 posted... Dude she lives with her bf and her brother... Whatever kind of lifestyle you have, regardless of how rational you look at the situation, you'll never be able to relate. Any other guy would get the hint, bf and brother in the same house... And she's trying to set you up with them as a friend? That's not going to happen,you do understand why, right? I'm not sure what you're trying to say. What's not going to happen? Me and her as a thing? Seems unlikely, I agree. Me being friends with her housemates? Why wouldn't that happen? What is not relatable exactly? I'm just confused by the wording you're using. MabusIncarnate posted... think about whats going through the boyfriends mind when that bro from his girlfriend's work comes over that wants to hang out with his girl. It can turn ugly fast, and create tension in their relationship, especially if he's more of the jealous type. Maybe. She already hangs with another coworker, one she sees more often, in like WAY more suspicious fashion than anything I'm doing, they literally go on little 'dates' and stuff. I've asked him if they fucked, he said no to my surprise, but he said wouldn't turn it down. So any sort of weirdness I'd contribute, on paper, is minuscule comparatively. I think also the fact that she's relatively new to town and likely doesn't have a tight knit group yet makes this less weird overall. MabusIncarnate posted... You shouldn't obligate yourself to getting friend zoned if that isn't your intention. I think I see it as getting something more is like a bonus and being friends is the standard, as opposed to getting more as the standard and being friends is the consolation prize. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:897633649] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote><cite>lincoln002 posted...</cite> <quote>Dude she lives with her bf and her brother... Whatever kind of lifestyle you have, regardless of how rational you look at the situation, you'll never be able to relate. Any other guy would get the hint, bf and brother in the same house... And she's trying to set you up with them as a friend? That's not going to happen,you do understand why, right?</quote> I'm not sure what you're trying to say. What's not going to happen? Me and her as a thing? Seems unlikely, I agree. Me being friends with her housemates? Why wouldn't that happen? What is not relatable exactly? I'm just confused by the wording you're using. <cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>think about whats going through the boyfriends mind when that bro from his girlfriend's work comes over that wants to hang out with his girl. It can turn ugly fast, and create tension in their relationship, especially if he's more of the jealous type. </quote> Maybe. She already hangs with another coworker, one she sees more often, in like WAY more suspicious fashion than anything I'm doing, they literally go on little 'dates' and stuff. I've asked him if they fucked, he said no to my surprise, but he said wouldn't turn it down. So any sort of weirdness I'd contribute, on paper, is minuscule comparatively. I think also the fact that she's relatively new to town and likely doesn't have a tight knit group yet makes this less weird overall. <cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote> You shouldn't obligate yourself to getting friend zoned if that isn't your intention.</quote> I think I see it as getting something more is like a bonus and being friends is the standard, as opposed to getting more as the standard and being friends is the consolation prize.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lincoln002 03/12/18 4:34:28 PM #26:	Dude you really think her bf and brother are going to be your friends bc you insist on being around her even if it means making it awkward for them? You're assuming everyone is stupid except you. She knows you have feelings for her, her bro and bf are going to definitely know you have feelings for her as well. Just leave the girl alone and find a better option, there's more woman not taken than taken, don't get infatuated with one. <cite>lincoln002 posted [p:897668330] in I asked th... [t:76401712]...</cite> <quote>Dude you really think her bf and brother are going to be your friends bc you insist on being around her even if it means making it awkward for them? You're assuming everyone is stupid except you. She knows you have feelings for her, her bro and bf are going to definitely know you have feelings for her as well. Just leave the girl alone and find a better option, there's more woman not taken than taken, don't get infatuated with one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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