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DoubleDare 03/04/18 8:41:00 AM #1:	Ok, we became bf and gf Jan 15th. Had sex 3 weeks ago, but stuff has happened to cause us not being able to do it. 2 weeks ago, she was off her anxiety pills, so was overworrying about some friends drama, called her friends crying while at my place (She had a falling out with some people). 1 week ago it was that time of the month, but do give her credit we did at least make out, and did foreplay (breasts), I brought up having sex, she thought about it but didn't feel comfortable. Ultimately she stopped me altogether cause it was just teasing her since we couldn't have sex. Then this weekend, I figured finally we'd be able to have sex again, but nope, she was exhausted, literally came to my place just napped, then we got pizza and watched something and she wouldn't let me do much, didn't even make out. She says she was really tired, she didn't get much sleep the night prior cause of her cat and allergies. I told her I was frustrated on the way taking her home and if she was into me. She did text me she was sorry, and then that she felt bad. But now I don't know, next weekend is her birthday and I don't know if I'm going to bring her to my place cause she was to see her dad earlier that saturday then claims she may be busy that sunday. (Also she's 40 minutes away and while she does drive, shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far) Should I give her another chance? --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897150717] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Ok, we became bf and gf Jan 15th. Had sex 3 weeks ago, but stuff has happened to cause us not being able to do it. 2 weeks ago, she was off her anxiety pills, so was overworrying about some friends drama, called her friends crying while at my place (She had a falling out with some people). 1 week ago it was that time of the month, but do give her credit we did at least make out, and did foreplay (breasts), I brought up having sex, she thought about it but didn't feel comfortable. Ultimately she stopped me altogether cause it was just teasing her since we couldn't have sex. Then this weekend, I figured finally we'd be able to have sex again, but nope, she was exhausted, literally came to my place just napped, then we got pizza and watched something and she wouldn't let me do much, didn't even make out. She says she was really tired, she didn't get much sleep the night prior cause of her cat and allergies. I told her I was frustrated on the way taking her home and if she was into me. She did text me she was sorry, and then that she felt bad. But now I don't know, next weekend is her birthday and I don't know if I'm going to bring her to my place cause she was to see her dad earlier that saturday then claims she may be busy that sunday. (Also she's 40 minutes away and while she does drive, shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far) Should I give her another chance?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JxOxNxIxCxS 03/04/18 8:43:10 AM #2:	DoubleDare posted... shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far Break up with her ASAP --- http://i.imgur.com/vcAEBhO.jpg <cite>JxOxNxIxCxS posted [p:897150772] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far</quote> Break up with her ASAP</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:01:38 AM #3:	JxOxNxIxCxS posted... DoubleDare posted... shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far Break up with her ASAP I know this is going to be a problem down the line, she definitely isn't marriage material. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897151250] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>JxOxNxIxCxS posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far</quote> Break up with her ASAP</quote> I know this is going to be a problem down the line, she definitely isn't marriage material.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 03/04/18 9:03:13 AM #4:	Bad sign, man, I dated a girl like this. Notice how most times you date someone new they cant keep their hands off? This means something is wrong, and it probably isnt you --- ultimate milf hunter https://i.imgur.com/lCEdce6.gifv https://i.imgur.com/2N1Ezia.gifv https://i.imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ.jpg https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:897151287] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Bad sign, man, I dated a girl like this. Notice how most times you date someone new they cant keep their hands off? This means something is wrong, and it probably isnt you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeanAuryn 03/04/18 9:03:47 AM #5:	Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? --- I love beautiful pale White, Asian and Arab cis-women, especially their clean bare feet, and the high I get from their aroma. <cite>DeanAuryn posted [p:897151299] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:07:13 AM #6:	EnragedSlith posted... Bad sign, man, I dated a girl like this. Notice how most times you date someone new they cant keep their hands off? This means something is wrong, and it probably isnt you Yea, I don't know how she had a bf for 5 years before me. I'd like to have sex with her at least a few times more tho. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897151383] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>Bad sign, man, I dated a girl like this. Notice how most times you date someone new they cant keep their hands off? This means something is wrong, and it probably isnt you</quote> Yea, I don't know how she had a bf for 5 years before me. I'd like to have sex with her at least a few times more tho.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 03/04/18 9:09:50 AM #7:	JxOxNxIxCxS posted... DoubleDare posted... shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far Break up with her ASAP Honestly, the way you talk about sex makes me thing you are a teenager. That said, for no other reason then she is "kind of on the dumb side" I don't recommend keeping the relationship going. It is not worth pursuing a "dumb" bf/gf. Assuming she wasn't kinda on the dumb side, I would not have considered her not wanting sex for a few weeks to be a big enough reason to break up. --- RIP: Canuklehead, Karma: 1369 // RIP: Gen_Lee_Enfield, Karma: 1731 // RIP: Orlando of the Axe, Karma: 1642 // RIP nayr626 Karma: 4395 --They delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:897151444] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>JxOxNxIxCxS posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far</quote> Break up with her ASAP</quote> Honestly, the way you talk about sex makes me thing you are a teenager. That said, for no other reason then she is "kind of on the dumb side" I don't recommend keeping the relationship going. It is not worth pursuing a "dumb" bf/gf. Assuming she wasn't kinda on the dumb side, I would not have considered her not wanting sex for a few weeks to be a big enough reason to break up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:12:27 AM #8:	Dustin1280 posted... JxOxNxIxCxS posted... DoubleDare posted... shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far Break up with her ASAP Honestly, the way you talk about sex makes me thing you are a teenager. That said, for no other reason then she is "kind of on the dumb side" I don't recommend keeping the relationship going. It is not worth pursuing a "dumb" bf/gf. Assuming she wasn't kinda on the dumb side, I would not have considered her not wanting sex for a few weeks to be a big enough reason to break up. I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897151525] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JxOxNxIxCxS posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far</quote> Break up with her ASAP</quote> Honestly, the way you talk about sex makes me thing you are a teenager. That said, for no other reason then she is "kind of on the dumb side" I don't recommend keeping the relationship going. It is not worth pursuing a "dumb" bf/gf. Assuming she wasn't kinda on the dumb side, I would not have considered her not wanting sex for a few weeks to be a big enough reason to break up.</quote> I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 03/04/18 9:17:49 AM #9:	DoubleDare posted... I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along. That changes nothing, same comment, same reasons... --- RIP: Canuklehead, Karma: 1369 // RIP: Gen_Lee_Enfield, Karma: 1731 // RIP: Orlando of the Axe, Karma: 1642 // RIP nayr626 Karma: 4395 --They delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:897151659] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along.</quote> That changes nothing, same comment, same reasons...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:25:08 AM #10:	Dustin1280 posted... DoubleDare posted... I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along. That changes nothing, same comment, same reasons... I know but I'll probably give her another chance, plus its her birthday next week so dumping her would be kind of a dick move, dont want her depressed on her bday. But I can tell her how I feel and that its getting frustrating. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897151868] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>I like being with her and watching stuff tho. We get along.</quote> That changes nothing, same comment, same reasons...</quote> I know but I'll probably give her another chance, plus its her birthday next week so dumping her would be kind of a dick move, dont want her depressed on her bday. But I can tell her how I feel and that its getting frustrating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Romulox28 03/04/18 9:27:08 AM #11:	Lol how old are you TC --- http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>Romulox28 posted [p:897151928] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Lol how old are you TC</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 03/04/18 9:29:17 AM #12:	Do you only see her once a week or something? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.4 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:897151996] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Do you only see her once a week or something?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:32:12 AM #13:	emblem boy posted... Do you only see her once a week or something? Yes --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897152093] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote>Do you only see her once a week or something?</quote> Yes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Puglia77 03/04/18 9:43:52 AM #16:	DeanAuryn posted... Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs --- Proud Ambassador of C.E.A.L. 3DS: 3926 5179 1229 IGN: ICanSnake (Moon, US, UM) \| Jon (X) Event List: http://bit.ly/2mVcn2Z Shiny List: http://bit.ly/2wdbxU7 <cite>Puglia77 posted [p:897152426] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flockaveli 03/04/18 9:46:14 AM #18:	You gotta leave. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:897152509] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>You gotta leave.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:47:16 AM #19:	Im like 215lbs --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897152538] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Im like 215lbs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sada_Pop 03/04/18 9:48:26 AM #20:	Puglia77 posted... DeanAuryn posted... Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs They get laid too --- People would have you believe that the accusation of racism is more offensive than ACTUAL racism. <cite>Sada_Pop posted [p:897152583] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>Puglia77 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs</quote> They get laid too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:54:00 AM #22:	Im 33, shes 26 --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897152739] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Im 33, shes 26</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cuttin_in_farm 03/04/18 9:56:55 AM #24:	Sounds like yall want different things tbh. You probably should find someone else. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:897152830] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like yall want different things tbh. You probably should find someone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoubleDare 03/04/18 9:58:36 AM #26:	2 months almost, Jan 15th is when she considers we started going out, our first date was Jan 5th. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897152884] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>2 months almost, Jan 15th is when she considers we started going out, our first date was Jan 5th.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flockaveli 03/04/18 10:01:07 AM #28:	Yeah youre not asking for too much, youre just asking the wrong person. Best to leave now, right before her birthday too. She wont be that upset cause yall have only been dating for a month, and it gives her further incentive to go out and find someone new while youre doing your own thing. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:897152963] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Yeah youre not asking for too much, youre just asking the wrong person. Best to leave now, right before her birthday too. She wont be that upset cause yall have only been dating for a month, and it gives her further incentive to go out and find someone new while youre doing your own thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 10:01:24 AM #29:	Is it ok if I see how it goes for another month? --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897152970] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Is it ok if I see how it goes for another month?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeanAuryn 03/04/18 10:02:18 AM #30:	Puglia77 posted... DeanAuryn posted... Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature. --- I love beautiful pale White, Asian and Arab cis-women, especially their clean bare feet, and the high I get from their aroma. <cite>DeanAuryn posted [p:897152994] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>Puglia77 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs</quote> Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoubleDare 03/04/18 10:04:08 AM #32:	DeanAuryn posted... Puglia77 posted... DeanAuryn posted... Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature. :P Lies --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897153054] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Puglia77 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs</quote> Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature.</quote> :P Lies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeanAuryn 03/04/18 10:07:15 AM #33:	DoubleDare posted... DeanAuryn posted... Puglia77 posted... DeanAuryn posted... Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place? This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature. :P Lies Not really. You cant let her be and give her some space. Your primary interest in her is sex. --- I love beautiful pale White, Asian and Arab cis-women, especially their clean bare feet, and the high I get from their aroma. <cite>DeanAuryn posted [p:897153139] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Puglia77 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote>Jeseu, how did you even get a gf in the first place?</quote> This, IIRC TC is like 300 lbs</quote> Its not just TCs weight or looks. Im extremely ugly but have a girfriend and every now and then get approached by women. My point is that TC seems very immature.</quote> :P Lies</quote> Not really. You cant let her be and give her some space. Your primary interest in her is sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 10:08:59 AM #34:	I am fine with giving her space, so its ok its been 3 weeks since we last had sex? She says she is into me, maybe I am just overworrying? --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897153192] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>I am fine with giving her space, so its ok its been 3 weeks since we last had sex? She says she is into me, maybe I am just overworrying?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeanAuryn 03/04/18 10:11:10 AM #35:	DoubleDare posted... I am fine with giving her space, so its ok its been 3 weeks since we last had sex? She says she is into me, maybe I am just overworrying? Give her another month. If she stays distant from you then theres a problem and you should probably end things. Also you have provided reasons why she has not had sex with you in 3 weeks. They sound....acceptable. --- I love beautiful pale White, Asian and Arab cis-women, especially their clean bare feet, and the high I get from their aroma. <cite>DeanAuryn posted [p:897153250] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>I am fine with giving her space, so its ok its been 3 weeks since we last had sex? She says she is into me, maybe I am just overworrying?</quote> Give her another month. If she stays distant from you then theres a problem and you should probably end things. Also you have provided reasons why she has not had sex with you in 3 weeks. They sound....acceptable.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 03/04/18 10:22:35 AM #36:	DeanAuryn posted... Give her another month. If she stays distant from you then theres a problem and you should probably end things. Also you have provided reasons why she has not had sex with you in 3 weeks. They sound....acceptable. I will reiterate this, probably the best advice in this topic TBH --- RIP: Canuklehead, Karma: 1369 // RIP: Gen_Lee_Enfield, Karma: 1731 // RIP: Orlando of the Axe, Karma: 1642 // RIP nayr626 Karma: 4395 --They delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:897153673] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeanAuryn posted...</cite> <quote> Give her another month. If she stays distant from you then theres a problem and you should probably end things. Also you have provided reasons why she has not had sex with you in 3 weeks. They sound....acceptable.</quote> I will reiterate this, probably the best advice in this topic TBH</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hairy-man 03/04/18 11:24:31 AM #38:	Some people have a low sex drive man. And it could be from medication Or shes just not attracted to you anymore. Or shes sleeping with somebody else Or --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman TMP>>>>>>>>Handguns <cite>Hairy-man posted [p:897155941] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Some people have a low sex drive man. And it could be from medication Or shes just not attracted to you anymore. Or shes sleeping with somebody else Or</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 03/04/18 11:26:16 AM #39:	DoubleDare posted... JxOxNxIxCxS posted... DoubleDare posted... shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far Break up with her ASAP I know this is going to be a problem down the line, she definitely isn't marriage material. yeah dude, she is getting her sex from elseware....just move on....IMO --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:897156013] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JxOxNxIxCxS posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoubleDare posted...</cite> <quote>shes kinda on the dumb side and doesn't like driving too far</quote> Break up with her ASAP</quote> I know this is going to be a problem down the line, she definitely isn't marriage material.</quote> yeah dude, she is getting her sex from elseware....just move on....IMO</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sada_Pop 03/04/18 1:47:39 PM #40:	3 weeks is a really long time imo --- People would have you believe that the accusation of racism is more offensive than ACTUAL racism. <cite>Sada_Pop posted [p:897162419] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>3 weeks is a really long time imo</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoubleDare 03/04/18 6:41:55 PM #41:	Yea, tho she says she's feeling worse today and sick, been sneezing all day at work. --- On Your Mark...Get Set........GO!!!!!! <cite>DoubleDare posted [p:897177300] in How upset ... [t:76379459]...</cite> <quote>Yea, tho she says she's feeling worse today and sick, been sneezing all day at work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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