Poll of the Day > So I had some pretty major life events happen

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As some of you know I've been married for four years, around year one into the marriage my wife turned into a different person and started to take control of my mental state and became very abusive, I lived with this for another three years and took a lot of it out on here as it is an easy outlet. She is finally out of my house and has been for a little over two months now, she decided she didn't like that i work night shift and shacked up with a friend of mine in that time. I've been keeping up on my weight loss as well 180 pounds gone now. Said friend is also a heroin addict and used to beat his wife, I told her family to keep an eye on her and that's the last of it for me.
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Holy shit, do you have somewhere to go if things go really south?
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shit dude, that really sucks.
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quigonzel posted...

Sorry, my dude. But kudos on the weight loss. Currently figuring out my own weight loss plan. What'd you do?

Water, aerobics, and a very low calorie diet
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also, don't drink soda. period.
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shadowsword87 posted...

Holy shit, do you have somewhere to go if things go really south?

I have the apartment she moved out and agreed to let me keep it as she had her parents to move back to and I have nowhere I could move to. I make more than enough money myself to afford it and it is across the street from where I work.
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anti-helly posted...

also, don't drink soda. period.

Only when I eat out but I never eat out unless it's someones Birthday or something.
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Sorry to hear that man. Congrats on the weight loss.

damn boogie I thought it had been a while since I seen you
good to see you gettin healthy and glad you seem to being well over that other shit
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JoanOfArcade posted...

I never eat out unless it's someones Birthday or something.

hehehe

I had been mentally preparing myself for her to leave for some time, the betrayal sucks but I ultimately got what I wanted which was her out of here.
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anti-helly posted...

also, don't drink soda. period.

^this. Start thinking of a can of soda as a liquid candy bar and it becomes way easier to not drink soda.

Because that's literally what soda is.
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Sounds like it was a difficult time for you. It's never easy to have a serious relationship end even if you feel it coming. I'm glad that you're moving forward and taking care of yourself, keep steady on that path. You deserve to live your best life every day
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congratulations on standing up for yourself. and congratulations on the weight loss

dang dude, way to stay strong though.
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Sounds like it's time to...boogie!!!
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Sounds like you've had a hard time...so happy about your weight loss. Good job!